Can Silent Treatment affect The Children In The Home!

Added: 2026-05-31

[00:00:00]Oh, we are not fighting. Oh, we're not going physical.

[00:00:05]And probably we're not insulting ourself. We're not using harsh and hard words on each other in front of the children.

[00:00:16]Listen, what parents don't know is that children they are very sensitive. They understand emotional tension. They read meanings easily. They understand when the conversations stop going on in the home especially between their parents.

[00:00:41]Children they understand when there is tension they read it easily and most times uh parents if not both of them but one of them just transfer that aggression to the children and the children understand that this is not a normal sin. Today I bring to Ross again about silence in homes.

[00:01:14]What traumatic uh uh issues silence can bring to the home.

[00:01:22]And today I'm emphasizing on what silence in home does to the children. Our children are very sensitive being even as early as 5 years.

[00:01:40]5 years a 5 years old child understands when there is tension between the two parents. They can read meaning quickly.

[00:01:51]You are welcome. I welcome you as you are coming in. Kindly tap on the like button. So children are very sensitive.

[00:02:01]They understand when there is there is changes in the home. They understand when their parents are no longer conversing as they used to. But many parents too they fail to understand this that our children can quickly decode the tension between their father and their mother. Our children can quickly understand that something is wrong in the home and they feel the brunt a lot.

[00:02:35]And this is why we should be careful the way uh we throw this tension, the way we allow this tension to go on in the home.

[00:02:46]If we are not careful about passing on this uh situation to our children, it affects their emotion, it affects the performance of the child even up to the academic level. It's uh some children now develop uh this anger issue too. They talk harshly and hardly the way they understand their parents does. We need to be very careful that what we do when uh we just got married when we are not rearing children. We need to be careful how we do them now because these children are watching us. We are like mirrors. Parents are mirrors to their children. And this is why you should quickly settle any conflicts, settle any misunderstanding between your spouse, especially because of your children so that they don't learn uh this uh bad situation from the parents. Let me tell you children at their early age this is when they learn character when they learn academics numeric they learn standards they learn attitude behaviors they learn how to behave and this is learned from parents please t type the like button I welcome you as you come in I appreciate you're coming to join me here Please write your comment in the comment box. So children were talking of now that we need to protect them uh from the silent malice between couples in the home because they are watching us and they can become very emotional about it. You see children, some of them will be looking straight into your eyes and see probably you your eyes are red. Probably you are emotional or shedding silent tears because of trouble in the home. We need to greatly protect our children. We need to watch them closely and don't allow them to break down.

[00:05:19]Our children are very sensitive being as I have said we need to teach them and lead them how to behave well. Malice or silent treatment is a destroyer of marriage is a destroyer of trust of love of connection in in in a relationship.

[00:05:46]Can I say it again? that silent treatment is a destroyer of relationship.

[00:05:54]Don't allow it to afflict you. You are welcome. I welcome you all as you are coming in. Never allow uh silence to afflict you. Never allow it to come in between you. Never allow yourself to be master or king of males. Never plan to deal with your spouse with malice or silent treatment. It is very good to sort it out as it comes.

[00:06:26]Offenses will come. There's no way.

[00:06:29]Offenses will come. But it depends on how you handle it. Offenses will come.

[00:06:36]Differences will come. But never allow it to result into conflict between you and your spouse. You are welcome on. I welcome you as you are coming in. Thank you for joining me here. Offenses will surely come. Never expect uh your spouse to be a perfect being.

[00:06:57]Never think that your spouse will not offend you. You both offend each other.

[00:07:04]But the way you handle it matters a lot.

[00:07:07]The way you handle the the differences helps to build your integrity and even the integrity of that relationship. Your partner gives great respect to you when you handle situation properly. Never allow uh that buildup to come. Never allow uh yourself to plan to deal with the situation with malice. If you decide to switch into uh silent treatment, then how do you sort out the issue? How do you sort out what has gone wrong? How do you allow your partner to explain to you what uh he or she meant? Probably your partner never meant the way you are thinking. So if you decide to go silent then how do you bring your partner in into discussion it is always good to to tell your partner asks for your partner's attention can we talk can we discuss this is very good builds your respect and integrity not for your partner alone and even for yourself.

[00:08:26]So never plan to deal with the situation with silent treatment. Silent treatment hurts it hurts the children. Today I have come to express to us how silent treatment hurts our children. How it affects our children and we should not let them in into silent treatment. In some cases these children they tend to take side.

[00:08:53]They are not usually on the side of both parents when they silent treatment. They they they the side they emotional too.

[00:09:04]They stay on the side of the emotional one between their parents. And usually is the mother is the women that cries is the women that speak out and talk and talk about their hearts. So you find out that the children are usually tending to the side of their mother. I'm not saying this is good, but I'm just pointing it out that this is why we should quickly talk about it. Talk about what has caused the hot what has caused uh the the problem on ground. And as soon as the balloon starts blowing, never wait for it to bust before you handle it.

[00:09:52]Never wait for that balloon to bust before you talk about it. And you'll be happy. Your partner will be happy. You both uh will be able to go on with your life smoothly. You will not lose concentration.

[00:10:07]You will not be distracted about your living, about your your work, about your life when you handle issues quickly. So we should not let it get to our children because it comes to affect them too. You see that uh uh there will be behavioral differences, behavioral difference, behavioral changes I mean to say in children when they keep on witnessing uh a quarrel between their parents in the home. You notice behavioral challenges according to uh uh child psychologist they feel so hot they feel traumatized.

[00:10:54]So we should never allow uh these things to get to our children. But by allowing malice or silent treatment to go on and on and on and on, there's no way it will not get to the children. You may think oh because you are not going physical, you are not fighting, you are not shouting, you are silent and the children may not know. They know. They know they are emotionally sensitive.

[00:11:27]They notice the quietness in the home.

[00:11:29]It could be the home that used to bubble.

[00:11:34]The home that used to bubble with laughter, with jokes, with great sense of humors and there will be nothing like that again. They know there be they will be they'll be asking you parents question. What is wrong? Are you okay?

[00:11:49]Why are you not doing this? They are very sensitive and they will be asking you question. So I'm bringing this to us today not to allow silence treatments in the home to affect our children. We should greatly be careful and be careful so that this does not come down to affect uh our children. You are welcome. I welcome you as you are coming in. Thank you for joining me.

[00:12:18]Please uh hit the like button as you are coming in. So sometimes sometimes uh one partner one partner may just think uh they can evolve and just move into silence treatment because your partner has hurt you and that your partner has done wrong to you. There's no way. I want to tell couples today that misunderstanding in home, misunderstandings in marriages, they are just part of growing and development.

[00:12:59]There's no how that misunderstanding will not come. They will come, but handling it in a better way is the end thing. So I hope this will let uh someone know today, couples know today that growth is important in every home. Development is important in every uh relationship.

[00:13:29]So uh never see never see misunderstanding as if as if it's new as if it's just happening in your relationship alone.

[00:13:42]No, it's not. It's not. So it happens but the way you handle it matters a lot.

[00:13:50]If only one of the parents uh is growing and the other is not. These are one of the things that causes that misunderstanding.

[00:14:04]So we need to know that we need to hold each other and take each other along.

[00:14:09]Take each other alone. Don't walk alone.

[00:14:13]Never walk alone. Always take your partner along and grow together.

[00:14:19]Never think you can be better than your partner. You should be better and you should remain better than your partner.

[00:14:27]You need to take each other alone and never leave your partner on the low level of the of the ladder. So I hope this has helped a home today. I hope this has help a home that is struggling today.

[00:14:48]And uh I wish I can go on and on and on but I will make this discussion in a series so that I can come again to discuss with us on how silence in homes can affect the children and just to know that we need to recognize that the children are very emotional beings. So they know what is happening. Some of them that even talk so much, as little as they are, they can point it out in school and tell their friends that mommy and daddy they are doing this.

[00:15:36]So I'm pointing it out that silent treatment can really destroy children emotionally.

[00:15:45]Silent treatment can affect them emotionally.

[00:15:50]Know that the hidden trauma children faces at home can affect them outside the home academically it can affect them. That hidden trauma they are facing can affect them even in their ways. You will see children they have started getting cold.

[00:16:12]the child may start getting withdrawn and by this you should know that your child is being affected by the silent treatment you are giving each other. So please like this video as you are coming in. But many parents, many people they don't uh they don't really understand how the parent the children are being affected. Children are affected when parents are going silent with each other. A home a home that is filled with confusion. A home that is filled with coldness, a home that is filled with emotional distance, a home that is filled with disconnection will surely affect that child or the children.

[00:17:08]Malice and silent treatment uh can can deeply deeply uh affect the children.

[00:17:19]They can some some children may even think that is normal life. They may think that the normal way to behave and you see them getting cold outside it affects their behavior and they tend to grow in this. You see if parents continue with silent treatment that child may grow behaving the same way even when he's out there out of the home.

[00:17:48]Some children even when they are married they try to copy that environment that home the behavior they have learned in the home they tend to behave same way and use silent treatment too. So this is why we should catch it quickly and never allow you to get to them. Children may not uh may not understand that uh that there's any problem that may warrant them facing silent treatment from their parents but they can they can easily understand uh that there's tension in the atmosphere. So I I want to encourage couples to quickly calm down and never allow silent treatment to affect your children. Never allow them to notice it. Some parents even want to continue and want the the the children to see that yes I am the leader. I am the winner. Never do this to win. Never do this to show the children that yes I can deal with him. Yes I can deal with her and behind you start asking the the child about the mother about the father. You want to know if the the the partner has been really uh dealt with.

[00:19:27]Never expose such things to the children. It's not really good. You are you are welcome. Please hit the like button as you are coming in. So silent treatment is not the best. Silent treatment is not good. So I'm encouraging couples today that it leads to anxiety in the children. anxiety increases and the the fear and loss of confidence increases in them.

[00:20:04]Anxiety increases and you see that they are not themselves again. Their integrity starts to get low. Some of the children start to behave in hard and harsh way because that is what they witness at home. Please you are welcome. I welcome you my brother. Thank you for coming.

[00:20:26]They start to behave in hard and harsh way because that's what they have weakness growing up from the parent. So fear and confusion grows in them. This is not too good. It disturbs them and again emotional uh disconnection grows in them because why parents are not really connecting there's no way they can connect uh with the children so emotional uh connection increases disconnection I mean increases so the whole family suffers this a lot so some children they begin to to to they begin to blame uh their parents.

[00:21:17]They begin to blames themselves for being uh the the the reason for detention on loaning it to them because when they are being shout out go and sit down there go and do this they believe they are probably the p the problem. So others uh the others they grow up uh feeling that uh uh probably love they miss love that loves means h nothing.

[00:21:50]They will miss love and emotional connection and silence is is not a normal thing for any family to face. So never use silence to to deal with your partner. So communication is key. Communication is the best way to go. Communication is the best thing to go to do. Never use silence to punish your partner. It's very hurtful. It's very uh demoralizing even to you too.

[00:22:29]It's very demoralizing.

[00:22:31]So let's keep communication alive. No matter what has happened, let's keep communication alive. And communication can can come when you forgive.

[00:22:44]The only way forgiveness can come is when you talk about it quickly. When you talk about it quickly, when you let offenses go, then communication will come alive. There will be no silent statement. Never use silent treatment to replace communication. It affects you greatly.

[00:23:05]It affects you greatly not to talk of the children, even family members. And when you do this consistently, uh, your relationship will be looked down on that there's nothing between the two of you than silent treatment, malice all the time.

[00:23:25]Never go for this so that your children will not witness this emotional disconnection. They will not witness this emotional trauma.

[00:23:37]this allow your children to live happily to to to stay happy in in your environment. God has given these children to you and you are not supposed to let them live in hurtful environment.

[00:23:52]So never use silent treatment to treat your partner or to deal with your partner.

[00:23:59]Talk about it and let it go. Let it go.

[00:24:05]Forgive. Forgiveness is heavenly.

[00:24:10]Forgiveness is a gift uh one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit. Have forgiveness. Have forgiven spirit. Offenses will come. You offend to we all offend. Even we offend God and we pray every day to God to forgive us our trespasses. As we forgive those who trespass against us, do we really do it? Do we really uh follow this prayer? Do we really behave as we say? We pray to God to forgive us every day. We include it in our prayers that the Lord should forgive us as he forgives those who has trespass against us. So why would you not forgive your partner? Why will you switch to silent?

[00:24:57]If we switch, if God Almighty switch to silence with us when we air, will he protect us every second of our life? Will he will he allow us to wake up tomorrow?

[00:25:13]So just look at it. If God can forgive you, then why you you not be able to forgive? Let's forgive and let don't let us embib silence in marriage.

[00:25:25]Forgiveness will really help you to go on in life, to move move on in life.

[00:25:32]Forgiveness will really help everyone, even me. It helps me a lot. Excuse me.

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[00:26:04]Thank you for holding on. Thank you.

[00:26:08]Thank you for holding on. Thank you. So, please hit the like button.

[00:26:14]You can share this video to somebody that is facing any home that is facing this type of affectation. Silence in marriage. When you drop silence, when you drop malice, even not in your home alone, not to your spouse alone, to anyone, to anyone at your place of work, at your business places, your neighbors, your siblings, your friends, your old schoolmates that you've been in silence with for years, when you decide to drop that silent and call it call it off, you receive God's blessing.

[00:26:54]You receive God blessing in prosperity, in property, in wellness, in peace, joy, happiness will be unto you. So never use silence to to to deal with any situation. Excuse me.

[00:27:17]Thank you. Need some water.

[00:27:21]So never use silence.

[00:27:24]to settle any situation, any offenses, talk about it and let it go. Silence is never good. There's no how when you remember that you are in malice with this person, you feel the hurt.

[00:27:47]Definitely you feel that hot. So never use silence to sort out issue. You are welcome. I appreciate your coming.

[00:27:58]I appreciate you. Uh thank you so much.

[00:28:02]Thank you my brothers, my sisters. I appreciate your coming to join this live stream. Please share this uh video to a home that needs to hear this today that silence is never a good thing. And I I've been talking about silence malice for some few days now. But today I have come to tell us how it affects the children in the home.

[00:28:33]Because the children are always looking on to parents just like a mirror and we expect them to see good things in the mirror. We expect them to see good vibes vibes in their behavior and never some parents always think that oh because we are not shouting we're not fighting we're not hitting each other so they don't know they do they emotionally very very sensitive. Children are emotionally sensitive. They understand any emotional move and differences. And as parents, we need to let them learn from you, from you, from me.

[00:29:19]I always uh wanted my children even up to now.

[00:29:24]They have grown now. I want them to still learn from me and I noticed this in their behavior.

[00:29:33]They are men. But I notice my behavior in this because when they were growing up, I made sure I I allowed them to learn patience in me, to learn good relationship, good friends in me, how to make good friends, how to know good friends, how to make your choice from many. And this has really helped them. I hear this on the birthday wishes they sent to me how uh I have really made their life how how uh my behavior has really helped them. Let your children learn from you.

[00:30:16]Drop silent treatment with your spouse.

[00:30:18]It's not good. How many times will you go silence with your spouse? Offenses will come. You may settle one today, another one will come. Though we don't pray for it but differences will come but don't go silent. Going silent will not let you talk about it and it's good to talk about it. Your your spouse may not even mean that hurt that offense is the way you have taken it. So allow your spouse to explain to you. Allow your spouse to apologize if need be. Give your spouse room though you see express your concern, you see express your heart but never let a silent treatment comes in. Your children are watching, your children are seeing you, they are learning from you. Your character, your attitude, they are learning it from you. And every parent will want to be proud of their children behaving well anywhere they are. Even by the time they are ripe enough to leave home. Every parents will want to be happy to hear that yes that is my child in whom I'm well pleased because you are hearing about good behavior. But if you let them grow up knowing you both parents being quarantining, hitting each other, abusing each other, how will you want them to learn from you? You are welcome. I welcome you. I'm so happy you are here. How will they learn from you?

[00:32:05]How will they see good vibes in you?

[00:32:10]There's nothing that comes on with prayer that you cannot handle in the home. In fact, what you don't know, especially men, is that your wife is looking up to you.

[00:32:23]Your wife is looking up to your integrity.

[00:32:27]Your wife looks up to how you handle issues. Your wife is happy with you, how you play that maturity in the home.

[00:32:39]How you allow her to to to come to express uh her concerns to you, her apologies to you, how you take make life easy for her, how you take things easy.

[00:32:59]Your wife too is looking up to you, not your child alone. God has given men that masculine strength, that masculine uh behavior to be over bulge in the home. So stay up there and the Lord will not allow you to fall. And how you can stay up there is to allow hearts to go. Allow uh conversation to continue. Do not let communication seize in your home.

[00:33:35]Getting cold with your partner is not uh does not show maturity.

[00:33:42]Can I say it again? Getting cold with your partner is immaturity is insecurity.

[00:33:53]That is the feeling that anyone is having when you resort to go cold because of offenses. It means you feel immature, you feel oppressed, you feel insecure. Press up and take up that that space.

[00:34:12]Be in charge and never allow malice to rule you. Never allow silent treatment to direct you. When you allow silent treatment in the home, if you allow uh that bad spirit to be talking to you that do this, do that uh uh uh do not uh take that, deal with him, deal with her.

[00:34:45]That's what will be coming ruminating in your mind. Oh, deal with him. Oh, deal with her. Ah, never greet say good morning. Oh, if she tells you good morning, do not respond.

[00:35:00]Uh, hurt her the more never pick her up from work the way you used to do. Stop what you were doing. Stop intimacy. Do not allow intimacy to go on. Oh, when you go into the room and you get to the bed, lie down and back her. Uh, some women will even go on to put on many trousers, many trousers, so that that their their spouse will not have way of intimacy.

[00:35:33]Some people will choose to go and sleep in the living room and this has not been their way. They have been sharing room, sharing bed since they got married. But because of silent treatment, the next thing is separation in the home. One goes to sleep in the children room or even go to sleep in the living room. You stop eating even your wife food. Uh even your wife uh move close to you to tell you to come and have your meal. You said no, you are not having. You go out of the home without a goodbye. You go out of the home without even letting your spouse know that you are going out and where you are even going. You know your your spouse have the right to know where you are going.

[00:36:24]You should tell your spouse when where you are going. God forbid bad thing.

[00:36:30]Your spouse should know where you are going. And never use those things that you have not been doing wrongly before to hurt your spouse. Go on and do the right thing. And that is why you should talk about hurt immediately.

[00:36:49]Find space, find time to talk about it.

[00:36:54]Never allow uh hearts to rule you. When you do this, it shows immaturity.

[00:37:02]It shows low integrity. It shows insecurity.

[00:37:07]Be be yourself. Take your place.

[00:37:10]Maintain your space. Maintain the line.

[00:37:14]And be bold to talk about it. Not fight about it. Be bold to converse about it.

[00:37:22]Not conflict about it. Do not resolve into conflict. Resolve into conversation. result into discussion and you will really get good response from your spouse. When you decide to communicate harshly, you will get harsh response.

[00:37:47]There's no way your harsh communication will not incite a harsh response from your spouse. So, take it easy. Be cool, calm, and collected. Take it easy. You can still go calm and still express your concern, your pain, your heart to your spouse. You can still do it quietly and lowly. Never think you need to go and take a drink uh to inspire you to talk. No. If you know your spouse doesn't like you in that situation, don't do it. Don't go for what you think will hurt your spouse more so that these behaviors will not keep on showing on to your children. You are welcome my brothers and sister. I appreciate your coming. I appreciate you. Please write in the comment box about this. I'm going to get there after this time to answer your question to put my own comments too. Please write in the comment box and like this video. Share to family and friends. We're talking about how silent treatment affects children in the home. Do you think it affects children in the home? Do you think it can really affect children? How will you iron out issues like this in your home? How do you settle issues so that your children will not be aware of this silent treatment to to your partner?

[00:39:26]Never allow the love that started this relationship. Never allowed allow silence to destroy this relationship.

[00:39:36]Always forget how you started that you started as hi hello and you develop graduated into friendship it graduated into relationship graduated into will you marry me graduated into I do then don't let us go back into the days of old don't let just go back into breaking that relationship.

[00:40:09]Always cherish your love. Cherish your relationship for your partner and cherish the children that God has brought into this world through through your relationship. Never go down to allow your child or your children to to recognize this conflicts every time in the home. It affects them really.

[00:40:38]Silence in the home, it affects children. It gives them emotional tension.

[00:40:46]It gives them emotional tension. Some children you may get reports from the school of changes in their attitude, changes in their behavior because they are test from home. The what is happening between their parents has really given them tension has really causing them tension. Even their academic performance may be become uh changed. The academic performance of your children may have changed because they are tensed up. They are distracted because of what is happening in the home. So please never allow uh silent treatment to come in when you are offended. Never allow silent treatment to be what you are going to punish your child with, your wife with. Some parents even extend the silent treatment to their children. That is transfer of aggression. Try not to allow this to happen in your home. You are welcome everybody. I appreciate your comment.

[00:42:01]Please write your comments in the comment box. I'll be there to answer after this. That is the only time I'll be able to uh relate with you. But leave a comment. I'll go there to respond to you. But I appreciate your comment and I say thank you to you all. So, you may want to write in the comment box how do you handle uh misunderstanding with your spouse? Do you try the silent treatment? If you do, don't hesitate to write it. It's between me and you. We'll talk about it. We'll talk about it. Write in the comment box.

[00:42:42]If you think it's that silent treatment that should be a way to go for you, write it in the comment box. I'll be there to talk to you and if you have other perspective of handling situation in the home, please still write in the comment box.

[00:43:00]Let's learn from each other. Let's learn. I'm up uh to respond to your comments in the comment box. This is Emir Speaks.

[00:43:11]I come uh to you to talk about love, about marriage, about healthy relationship and about emotional health and healing. Do you want emotional healing? Write in the comment box and let's talk. If you want emotional healing, do you need help to even talk about your marriage? Talk about your relationship. Don't quit. Let's talk about it. Don't quit. There's nothing God cannot do. You can manage your relationship. Don't quit. Don't quit.

[00:43:50]Think about it. Let's talk and God will really help us all. There's no uh uh relationship that does that does not have uh its own challenging time. There's no relationship that does not face one type of challenge or the other. But handling it way out to handle it is the best.

[00:44:21]Prayer is also a master key. Pray about it. Pray about that challenge you are facing with your spouse. Pray with your spouse. Pray on your own and pray to God to help both of you. Pray about your home. Pray about your children. God can do it. God will work it out. No matter what. One thing I know is that when you are prayerful and when you have faith, God will definitely help you to work it out. There's no difficulty that God cannot help you to handle. But at the same time have faith, be calm, be patient, have love, be joyful, have peace. Never be hardened. Never allow your heart to be hardened. Never plan to deal with your partner. Never plan to deal with anyone with silent treatment.

[00:45:23]Never go into silence.

[00:45:25]When you when you pray to God to help you not to use silent treatment on anyone again, my goodness, you will enjoy peace of mind. You will enjoy uh happiness. You will enjoy God's blessing over your life and things will surely go on well for you. God will prosper you. God will protect you. God will provide for you. your provision will be healthy. Provision, God's provision is not uh or prosperity is not just money alone but in safety, your security, your peace of mind, your happiness. God blessing the work of your hands in righteousness. Anything you lay your hands on, God will help you to touch it and you will prosper. Even divinely more than what you have expected, the Lord will help you. But there's no way you can talk to God with uh with your mind that is still carrying heart. Let go. Drop that heart. Drop that. Drop the ill feeling. Drop the ill words. Drop the negative words you say to your wives to anyone. Drop the bad word, the ill words, the the harsh words, unnecessary words, abusive word, insulting word. Even to your children, drop it.

[00:47:01]If you don't know what to say, just say it is well.

[00:47:05]When you feel hurt by anyone, just say it is well and take your cool, take your calm and come back to address it when everything is calm. Addressing issue immediately is happening, may make you to shout, may make you to talk harshly, may make you to say words that you don't like, which you cannot retract again, which you will not be able to call back again.

[00:47:33]So calm down. Hold your peace, be calm, and later you talk about it. Just tell that person, I don't like what you said to me. I don't like I don't like that thing you did. Do you know I don't like what you did to me? Do you know I don't like what you said to me? Take your calm. Let peace rain. Let joy rain in your life.

[00:48:00]Make friends. I like making friends even with my age. I like making good friends.

[00:48:08]Good friends. I like talking to people.

[00:48:11]That is uh my way in life. I like talking to good people, people that will make me happy.

[00:48:21]So also you should do find that in your partner. Find that in your home. You are welcome my brothers and sister. I appreciate you. appreciate your comment.

[00:48:31]Please chat with me in the comment box.

[00:48:35]I'll be there after this time to respond to you. Let's talk. Are you carrying any hearts? Are you facing any hurt?

[00:48:45]Think of dropping that heart. Think of forgiving that person. Could it be your p spouse? Could be your sibling, your friends, old and new, your colleagues, anybody.

[00:49:02]Think of dropping the hot. You will live uh a a a life full of joy and you not be living with hot. Drop that heart. Drop that feeling of I'm going to deal with her. I'm going to deal with him and face life. Life is beautiful. Life is good and live it well. In conclusion, I want to say God bless you all for coming.

[00:49:30]Live a life full of happiness.

[00:49:34]Never live in ways that will hurt your children. Just as our topic today that do you think uh cold treatments, silent treatment affects children in the home?

[00:49:50]Yes, it does.

[00:49:52]Yes, it affects them negatively. It affects them from growing. It affect children from emotional connection. Of course, when the two parents are disconnected, there's no way they can connect their children. It affects their academic perform performance. It affects uh their their performance within their play group. It affects their growth and development. It affects the children's attitude. It affects their character. It affect their learning skill. And this will not bring us good children.

[00:50:41]God forbid. Let us embibbe the act of forgiveness.

[00:50:47]Forgiving your spouse so that the silent treatment you are using to excommunicate your spouse will not affect your children. This is Emir speaks. Have you subscribed to this channel? Please do.

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