SURVIVING ABA! He Cheated, Got Her Pregnant, Made her Abort, Then Blocked Her Too!

Added: 2026-05-12

[00:00:00]Hey girl, can you hear me?

[00:00:01]>> Hello?

[00:00:02]>> Yeah, I do. I'm sorry. I'm talking to Aban. It really [ __ ] me up. Actually, >> she was really sad when I told her that we were talking in March. She was like, apparently you had told her that she was a [ __ ] for having Instagram at March.

[00:00:14]We will know that old story. You don't know what that was. So, just don't bring that up. You don't know.

[00:00:19]>> January, March, you were still all the time talking to her. That's weird. If I don't want to talk to someone, I can come anywhere.

[00:00:28]>> But I just came on YouTube and the first video was like, "What happened?" And I recognized your face from his like phone gallery and him telling me that he had a really toxic ex. And I listened to the story and it's like, "Oh, you got an abortion and you were blocked." So I was like, "Oh, I also got an abortion and I was blocked.

[00:01:03]after I tried so hard to make sure that things are okay after experiencing all the stuff I experienced with him. Um, he comes back 3 weeks later and just streams my messages telling me I'm a [ __ ] I'm a and that he wants all of his money back that I'm pathetic. Um, everything that you saw even in here, it's like it's why your your clothes are skin tight and your ass and tits are showing and um and I just keep on saying that I'm, you know, like I don't deserve to be treated like this anymore and I'm just like standing up for myself. Then he keeps like hahaing my my stuff and I was like we weren't together for the month of February. He canceled our flights and like Valentine's Day again I'm going to give it to him. We like say we were together and so I'm still providing like all this proof that it's a hobby or like it's just something I'm getting into and he's a content creator and I feel like he would be able to like understand how like the machine works like the social media machine works and he's not listening to anything. He keeps sending me the same picture and he keeps calling me like a cheating [ __ ] And um yeah.

[00:02:16]Um but I find out Oh yeah. He says, "Yeah, I bet it's not for you entertaining thousands of men, but you did it for 2 months." And I'm like, "I deserve better while we're together."

[00:02:29]Um, this is so interesting because I get a DM this morning on Instagram and I actually find out that Abba was cheating on me that whole time. And I actually found out that he that she was pregnant and he blocked her and she had an abortion. Um, and it was the same way. And I do have a recording of it.

[00:03:00]>> Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

[00:03:02]Somebody called you today.

[00:03:05]>> Yeah, this morning. Today is May 10th, and a girl DM'd me because she was dating Abba. She saw the video. And >> did she let you record?

[00:03:16]>> Yeah, I asked her.

[00:03:18]>> Yeah, I asked her and um yeah, we we're actually still in contact and and talking about um everything, but she really helped me out. She said that she experienced so many of the same things that that I explained with ABBA. Um I have the whole phone call, but I'm gonna show you what I have here.

[00:03:37]>> Okay, >> let me um pull that off. Honestly, that was a hard pill to swallow for me realizing that he was actually was actually physically sleeping with someone January, February, and March right after he blocked me from for the abortion. right after he blocked me after the breakup.

[00:03:57]>> I'm not laughing because it's funny. I'm laughing because that's some that's some [ __ ] This [ __ ] give you all this [ __ ] He he all this [ __ ] calling you a [ __ ] This that and the third because you got a [ __ ] IG account to like, you know, cope. Get your mind off [ __ ] and yet bro out here slanging dick.

[00:04:14]>> How to do this again. So this is the girl that I get in contact with. She says she was also dating Abba and um we call each >> do we do you um of course you know her name but are we able to know her name or no?

[00:04:32]>> No. No. So I don't know what you saw.

[00:04:35]But um Stevie, can you also like blur this part out?

[00:04:38]>> Yeah, of course.

[00:04:40]>> She doesn't want to be uh >> um Okay. So yeah, she contacts me and I literally have this conversation with her this morning. Hey girl, can you hear me?

[00:04:50]>> Hello?

[00:04:51]>> Yeah, I do. I'm sorry. I talking to Aban. It really [ __ ] me up actually.

[00:04:55]>> What happened?

[00:04:57]>> My friend was saying it was like really gaslighting, wasn't it?

[00:05:00]>> It was so like she was really she was really sad when I told her that we were talking in March. She was like apparently you had told her that she was a [ __ ] for having Instagram at March.

[00:05:11]>> I don't know that whole story. You don't know what that was. So just don't bring that up. You don't know.

[00:05:15]January, March, you were still all this time talking to her. That's weird. If I don't want to talk to someone, >> hold on. Press pause. Press pause. Press pause. Liby.

[00:05:29]>> So, this is the girl that Aba was dealing with, but she just recorded a conversation with somebody on her phone, and she's letting us hear it. Letting you hear it.

[00:05:38]>> So, she contacts me.

[00:05:40]>> Uhhuh.

[00:05:40]>> So, she saw the video um today. She then emails Abba. She has to email Abba because Abba blocked her off the phone too. She has to email Abba and tell her, "What is this video? Um, I can't believe like you're letting her go through all this. Like I experienced the same stuff with you." Uh, like something like that.

[00:06:00]Like she's getting mad at him for me.

[00:06:03]And and so he calls her actually and while she's talking to me on this Instagram, we're like, "This is what I'm experiencing." And I'm experiencing um this is what I'm experienc. And she's talking about what she's experiencing.

[00:06:17]Um Aba calls her because of that email. And so he's trying to expl explain what's going on. And she tells him like, "I'm in contact with your ex and you're making her seem like she's crazy and you're you're making her seem you're making you're allowing her to >> I get reminded cuz I'm when I'm when I'm watching it right here, I don't see her lips moving speaking back to the phone.

[00:06:41]It sounds like she's just holding >> Oh, I'm sorry. Yeah, she recorded So, I had to end the phone call." So, she recorded the phone call.

[00:06:49]>> Yeah. So, she's not on the phone right now. She recorded the phone.

[00:06:52]>> Yeah. And you can tell it's current because she's talking.

[00:06:55]>> No, I get it. I just wanted to make it make sense. I hear I on the [ __ ] phone. You mean? So, >> she's her phone because she recorded it that morning.

[00:07:03]>> So, she You're on a video call with her and she's letting you hear the conversation she had with Aba.

[00:07:09]>> She just had it. Yeah. She called me back and she's like, "You need to listen to our conversation."

[00:07:13]>> All right. Rewind it and play it again.

[00:07:14]>> Hey, girl. Can you hear me?

[00:07:16]>> Hello.

[00:07:17]>> Yeah, I do. I'm sorry. I'm talking to Aban. It really [ __ ] me up, actually.

[00:07:21]What happened?

[00:07:23]>> My friend was saying it was like really gaslighting, wasn't it?

[00:07:26]>> It was so like she was really she was really sad when I told her that we were talking in March. She was like apparently you had told her she was a [ __ ] for having Instagram at March that whole story. You don't know what that's about. So just don't bring that up. You don't know.

[00:07:41]>> January March you were still all the time talking to her. That's weird. If I don't want to talk to someone from anywhere, >> but I just came on YouTube and the first video was like, "What happened?" And I recognized your face from his like phone gallery and him telling me that he had a really toxic ex. And I listened to the story and it's like, "Oh, you got an abortion and you were blocked." So I was like, "Oh, I also got an abortion and I was blocked." So how funny how that's just seems to be a pattern and he doesn't want to apologize for that. Like he doesn't own up to anything >> birthday.

[00:08:40]And you said no.

[00:08:43]I remember when we were talking she said she said to me this is the first time I feel her heard >> yeah so that's a clip um >> yeah it's really it's hard to hear that that uh the towards the end it's all choppy but you got it all clipped up like where do you have you have the full conversation recorded >> I have the full conversation recorded and she's going to let me um let me post that, too.

[00:09:13]>> Okay. All right. Well, make sure you send me the link so then I could once you post it, I'll just include it with this so everybody can peep the whole [ __ ] cuz it was kind of hard to hear.

[00:09:25]>> No, honestly, towards the end of the audio, even on my side, because it's like um audio over >> Yeah.

[00:09:33]>> You know what I'm saying? Like electronic over electronic. Um it was hard to pick up the my computer. It was hard to pick up the uh the audio. So, um, >> moral of the story, I was a piece of [ __ ] >> Yeah. So, I find out that he is yelling at me, saying, "I'm a cheater during this time when he literally was >> got another girl pregnant or I was dealing with a girl that got pregnant at some point."

[00:09:55]>> And um yeah, so that was kind of hurtful to hear, but yeah. And again, the Instagram thing was just like my last straw um of this constant treatment and this pattern. And I was like, I have to say something. He is honestly he's just not anything he he betrays. And then I find out this girl was to he was totally sleeping with this girl and flying her out while while he's calling me a [ __ ] for creating an Instagram. Um, yeah.

[00:10:32]>> Because he thinks you're his girl.

[00:10:36]>> Yeah. And it shows that he's very inconsistent.

[00:10:39]>> No, he's a piece of [ __ ] He's a piece of [ __ ] He's a piece of [ __ ] He's a liar. He's a piece of [ __ ] Right. Yeah.

[00:10:43]He out here cheating on you. Another girl's pregnant.

[00:10:46]>> While he's dealing with you and then going to sitting here and call you a [ __ ] this that and the third, while you doing everything under your power, under the sun to convince him that you are not what he thinks you are, but he's, you know, >> literally, >> man, that's that's just what you know.

[00:11:00]He could be doing [ __ ] with other and I ain't going to put that [ __ ] out there.

[00:11:02]I sound like a [ __ ] hater, but you know, I'm not a hater. I just I call like I see it. I know I was a snake, but you know I mean >> Yeah, >> that's that's that's tough, bro. You know, that's a lot, man. That's a lot.

[00:11:15]Especially considering you were you were pregnant. And at the end of the day, like, you know, both of y'all had y'all spots throughout the whole situation.

[00:11:20]I'm not situation for a toxic relationship, man. But at the end of the day, you know, ABBA is a piece of [ __ ] >> Yeah.

[00:11:31]>> So, >> and I did feel like I endured endured a lot. I I feel like I took a lot of the beating to be honest. And he just makes me sound crazy and narcissistic and like I'm bipol I'm curious to see how they defend this man cheating on me or not even I don't whatever.

[00:11:48]>> She has a baby with him. She >> She gets pregnant and she's also blocked by him.

[00:11:54]>> Yeah. So she that's that's the other reason why she reached out to me. She was like, "I can't believe you let another girl go through this."