The NFL Tried to STOP This Wedding — Lombardi Said "I'll Handle Rozelle" and Won the Super Bowl

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[00:00:00]Here's what NFL Films never told you about the night the Green Bay Packers won Super Bowl 1.

[00:00:07]3 days after that game, while the confetti was still being swept off the field, one of Lombardi's defensive players got married in a Las Vegas chapel.

[00:00:18]The wedding was secret. The location was chosen with great care.

[00:00:23]Because in 16 American states, what Lionel Aldridge and Vicki Wankier were doing was still a criminal offense. The NFL knew and tried to stop it. Lombardi knew and said something that ended the conversation before it started.

[00:00:41]This is the part of the Super Bowl story nobody ever tells.

[00:00:46]To understand what that Las Vegas chapel meant, you need to go back 5 years.

[00:00:52]Utah State University, 1962.

[00:00:56]A black junior named Lionel Aldridge was working a side job cleaning a gymnasium to help pay his way through school.

[00:01:04]A girl named Vicki Wankier practiced there with her dance squad, the Aggie-ettes.

[00:01:09]She was white from a small town in Utah with long chestnut hair and an easy laugh.

[00:01:16]He asked her for a date. She made him wait.

[00:01:21]You could count the number of black men at Utah State on two hands and they did not get to stay by making eyes at white women in their dormitory lobbies.

[00:01:30]Aldridge knew exactly what he was walking into from the moment he picked up the phone.

[00:01:36]He was a wizened junior, not a naive freshman.

[00:01:40]He understood the terrain. She finally said, "Yes."

[00:01:45]What followed was the kind of love story that requires courage as a precondition.

[00:01:50]>> [music] >> The kind that begins with both people understanding completely what the world is going to say about them, and deciding to proceed anyway.

[00:02:01]Lionel Aldridge was selected by the Green Bay Packers in the fourth round of the 1963 NFL draft.

[00:02:09]He reported to training camp that summer carrying the long odds typical of a fourth round pick and something considerably less typical for a 22-year-old rookie, a secret engagement.

[00:02:23]At the end of his rookie season, he flew Vicky to San Francisco for Green Bay's finale against the 49ers.

[00:02:30]He and teammate Dave Robinson had some people in their hotel room before the game and Lionel pulled her into the bathroom. He produced a one-carat diamond ring. She kept it hidden away for her last two years at Utah State.

[00:02:45]The ring stayed hidden.

[00:02:48]They were engaged secretly for years because Lionel Aldridge was not afraid of many things, but he was afraid of one thing that any black professional athlete in 1963 America had very good reason to fear.

[00:03:04]His name was Cookie Gilchrist. Cookie Gilchrist was a black running back often compared to Jim Brown.

[00:03:13]He had been offered a chance to join the NFL's Cleveland Browns on one condition.

[00:03:18]He had to end his relationship with a white Canadian woman he loved.

[00:03:23]Gilchrist later wrote about that moment in his own words.

[00:03:28]The NFL would not accept interracial relationships. Our relationship would be a public relations nightmare for them and that was a take-it-or-leave-it condition of their offer.

[00:03:40]While I would have loved to play back home on the NFL stage, I realized that I loved Gwen Moore and saw a better future for us in Canada.

[00:03:51]He chose the woman.

[00:03:53]The NFL closed its doors.

[00:03:56]Aldridge was reluctant to marry Vicki because he knew what happened to Cookie Gilchrist, who was effectively blackballed from the NFL after marrying a white woman, and who was relegated to the Canadian Football League.

[00:04:10]That was the choice the National Football League had put on the table.

[00:04:14]Your career or your love.

[00:04:18]Aldridge did not want to end up in Canada.

[00:04:21]But he also could not stop loving Vicki.

[00:04:25]Which is how he found himself in 1966, [music] 3 years after secretly proposing in a San Francisco hotel bathroom, sitting outside the office of Vince Lombardi, waiting. Now, before we hear what Lombardi said, you need to understand who Lionel Aldridge was in that locker room.

[00:04:47]Because the man sitting outside that office was not a passive man.

[00:04:52]He was not a man who absorbed insults quietly.

[00:04:56]Aldridge was the rookie who had heard a fellow Packer utter the word [ __ ] then threw him up against a wall and declared an end to that word in the locker room. His first year, a rookie, throwing a veteran teammate against a wall. That was Lionel Aldridge. And even he was afraid of what the NFL might do.

[00:05:17]He knocked on Lombardi's door.

[00:05:20]What happened inside that office was witnessed by Aldridge's closest friend on the team, linebacker Dave Robinson, who later described it in detail.

[00:05:29]Aldridge explained the situation. Vicki, the secret engagement, the years of carefully maintained distance in a very public life, the reason for all of it, Cookie Gilchrist, Canada, the NFL's unwritten but ruthlessly enforced position on interracial love.

[00:05:51]Aldridge told Lombardi that he did not want to stop playing football, but he wanted to marry this woman.

[00:05:58]The office went quiet.

[00:06:01]Vince Lombardi, who attended mass every single morning of his life, who had been formed by Jesuits at Fordham University in the Bronx, who organized his entire existence around the triad of God, family, and the Green Bay Packers, looked at his defensive end and said nothing for a long moment.

[00:06:23]Here is what was at stake in that silence. [music] Lombardi was not just a football coach.

[00:06:29]He was a public figure in a city that had made him its patron saint.

[00:06:34]He was a devout Catholic in an era when the church's cultural position on interracial marriage was, at best, complicated.

[00:06:44]He was a NFL coach operating inside a league that had demonstrated, through Cookie Gilchrist's own documented testimony, its willingness to destroy a man's career over who he chose to love.

[00:06:57]And he was being asked to do more than simply approve.

[00:07:02]He was being asked to stand between Lionel Aldridge and the entire institutional machinery of that system.

[00:07:11]To put his phone call to Pete Rozelle, the NFL commissioner, on the line.

[00:07:17]The office stayed quiet.

[00:07:19]Lombardi said, "You marry her. You are a good man, and I will handle Pete Rozelle and the NFL. Do not you worry about it.

[00:07:31]I will handle Pete Rozelle and the NFL."

[00:07:35]Not, "I will try to smooth things over." Not, "I will put in a good word." Not, I will see what I can do.

[00:07:44]I will handle it. Do not you worry about it.

[00:07:49]Aldridge just started crying.

[00:07:52]He was a man who had thrown a teammate against a wall his first year in the league. A man who had grown up in Evergreen, Louisiana, Jim Crow country, and had navigated every room, every situation, every social minefield that a black man in mid-century America was required to navigate just to arrive at each new day intact.

[00:08:17]And in Lombardi's office in 1966, with the weight of years of secrecy and fear suddenly lifted in a single sentence, he cried.

[00:08:29]Then Lombardi said, "One more thing.

[00:08:33]And I had better get an invitation to that wedding, >> [music] >> or you will regret it the rest of your life."

[00:08:41]Aldridge left that office and went straight to Vicki.

[00:08:44]Now, the context that makes all of this extraordinary.

[00:08:51]When Lionel Aldridge and Vicki Wonsley got married in January 1967, the United States Supreme Court had not yet decided Loving versus Virginia.

[00:09:03]That ruling, which struck down all remaining state laws prohibiting interracial marriage as unconstitutional, would not come until June 12th, 1967, 5 months after their wedding.

[00:09:18]The pair had met resistance in the era before the Supreme Court ruling in Loving versus Virginia struck down laws against interracial marriage.

[00:09:29]That means that on the day Lionel Aldridge married Vicki Wonsley, 16 American states still had laws on their books making their union a criminal act, not a social transgression, a crime.

[00:09:45]The Las Vegas chapel was not a romantic choice. It was a legal calculation.

[00:09:52]They chose Las Vegas specifically, not wanting to run a foul of any interracial marriage laws elsewhere.

[00:10:00]Vegas was safe.

[00:10:02]Most of America was not.

[00:10:05]And 3 days before that chapel, the Green Bay Packers had won the first Super Bowl ever played.

[00:10:12]January 15th, 1967.

[00:10:16]The Los Angeles Memorial Coliseum. Green Bay Packers 35. Kansas City Chiefs 10.

[00:10:23]The game that would define the relationship between the NFL and American culture for the next half century.

[00:10:32]Lombardi on the sideline in his long overcoat, his thick-framed glasses catching the California sun, holding the championship he had told his team they would win 9 years before they actually did.

[00:10:45]He had been one of the few rookies ever to start for the legendary Vince Lombardi.

[00:10:50]Aldridge was an integral part of three NFL championships and two Super Bowl victories.

[00:10:58]He was not a rookie in January 1967.

[00:11:03]He was a 4-year veteran, a starting defensive end on the most dominant team in professional football.

[00:11:10]He had earned his place on that field through 4 years of Lombardi's demanding preparation. The midnight film sessions, the Lombardi time, >> [music] >> the practices that broke men down to their foundations and rebuilt them as something better.

[00:11:27]3 days after that championship game, Lionel Aldridge stood in a Las Vegas chapel and married the woman he had been secretly engaged to for years.

[00:11:39]"I don't think they set out to be pioneers when they ended up being basically the first interracial marriage in the NFL." Milwaukee Magazine's senior editor would later write.

[00:11:52]But they were two people who fell in love and if they were going to be together and Lionel was going to play the sport that he loved at the highest level, then they basically had to be pioneers.

[00:12:05]They stayed at the Tropicana, caught Bill Cosby's stand-up act.

[00:12:10]At the table next to them were Peter Lawford and Sammy Davis Jr.

[00:12:14]Lionel leaned over and whispered to Vicki wondering if he should ask for autographs.

[00:12:20]Seconds later, Lawford turned around.

[00:12:23]"Could I get your autograph?" he asked Lionel.

[00:12:26]Aldridge didn't hesitate to oblige then whispered something else to Vicki.

[00:12:31]"Well, there's no way I'm going to ask for one now."

[00:12:36]Sammy Davis Jr. himself, in an interracial relationship, himself a man who understood every dimension of what that cost [music] in 1967 America, sat two feet from an NFL champion who had just done the most dangerous thing a black professional athlete could attempt. Both of them smiling.

[00:12:59]Because Vince Lombardi had told Pete Rozelle to stand down.

[00:13:03]Because an Italian coach from Brooklyn, formed by Jesuits and shaped by a lifetime of discrimination, had looked at his defensive end across a desk and said three words that carried [music] the weight of an entire institutional confrontation.

[00:13:19]"Don't you worry."

[00:13:20]The NFL had reportedly attempted to prevent the wedding. Lombardi personally approved it.

[00:13:27]The league blinked. Lombardi did not.

[00:13:32]There is one more part of this story that belongs here because Vicky paid a price, too. By saying yes, she undid the tightest of ties to her small-town Utah family who could not comprehend their white daughter and sister being with a black man. She lost her family. She lost the community she had grown up in.

[00:13:52]She chose Lionel, and she chose the life that came with him. The football career.

[00:13:59]The Green Bay winters. The landlords in a nearly all-white city who would only rent to black players because a kind woman named Flo Bettis kept apartments open for them.

[00:14:12]The sidelong glances and the silences.

[00:14:15]And the specific daily weight of being visibly, publicly, legally married to a man that 16 American states treated as a crime. She chose all of it.

[00:14:28]And the reason she could, the reason Lionel walked out of that office with his hands steady and his future intact, was that one man had been willing to make one phone call to Pete Rozelle.

[00:14:42]That call mattered because Lombardi made it.

[00:14:46]By 1968, Lombardi's last year in Green Bay as general manager, his locker room had 16 black players.

[00:14:55]Five of Lombardi's black Packers, Adderley, Davis, Robinson, Tunnell, and Wood, were inducted into the Pro Football Hall of Fame. Vince Lombardi died on September 3rd, 1970.

[00:15:09]He was 57 years old.

[00:15:11]After his playing career, Lionel Aldridge became a broadcaster. His baritone voice and commanding presence earned him spots on local Milwaukee television and on national NBC broadcasts.

[00:15:25]He was, by all accounts, extraordinarily good at it.

[00:15:29]Then, paranoid schizophrenia arrived and dismantled everything. His career, his marriage, and eventually his housing.

[00:15:39]Homeless for a period of time due to misdiagnosis, Aldridge eventually recovered and became an advocate for the homeless and the mentally ill until his death in 1998.

[00:15:52]He died on February 12th, 1998, two days before his 57th birthday.

[00:16:00]Vicki Sue Wankier Aldridge Nelson passed away May 28th, 2018, surrounded by her family.

[00:16:08]Her obituary described her as courage personified and a tremendous racial pioneer.

[00:16:16]She had outlived Lionel by 20 years.

[00:16:20]She had outlived their daughter, Angela.

[00:16:22]She wore, every single day until the end, the hand-knit prayer shawl that Ruth Pitts, the widow of teammate Elijah Pitts, had sent her years before.

[00:16:34]She said it felt like a hug.

[00:16:36]The bonds from those championship years ran deeper than the marriages and the careers and even the losses.

[00:16:45]Think about what actually happened inside that office in 1966.

[00:16:51]A man came in carrying a love story and a fear.

[00:16:55]The fear was specific and documented, and it had a name, Cookie Gilchrist [music] Canada.

[00:17:03]The NFL's unwritten policy, confirmed in Gilchrist's own words, was that interracial love was a condition they would not accept.

[00:17:13]And Vince Lombardi, the most prepared coach in NFL history, The man who left nothing to chance, who had a standard for everything and applied it without exception, looked at that fear. He said, "Don't you worry. I will handle it."

[00:17:30]Without hesitation, Lombardi gave them his blessing >> [music] >> and stood up for them. The Supreme Court of the United States made interracial marriage legal in all 50 states on June 12th, 1967.

[00:17:44]Vince Lombardi had already handled it in January.

[00:17:47]Five months before the law caught up. In a Las Vegas Chapel, three days after the first Super Bowl, with Peter Lawford asking for an autograph at the next table, >> [music] >> two people who had no business being pioneers became pioneers anyway. Because one coach from Brooklyn had decided that love was not a condition he was willing to negotiate.

[00:18:11]"You marry her. You are a good man. I will handle Pete Rozelle and the NFL.

[00:18:18]And I better get an invitation to that wedding."

[00:18:22]He got one.

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[00:18:38]Because Lombardi's story doesn't end [music] here.

[00:18:43]The night he told an entire city's businesses to integrate or lose the Packers forever.

[00:18:50]The undrafted nobody who wrote letters to every NFL team and only Lombardi wrote back.

[00:18:58]The things this man did that history filed quietly away while celebrating his championships.

[00:19:05]He got an invitation to that wedding.

[00:19:08]That's the whole story right there.