ARE BPD MEN Extremely ROMANTIC 💘?

Added: 2026-06-01

[00:00:02]what's up everybody thanks for joining me on my YouTube channel where we mix things up a little bit and we keep learning and growing together so um today we're going to talk about romantic BPD men what is better than romance and this topic might shock you a little bit but I'm gonna give you some insight that you'll want to know so when you combine borderline plus man plus romance who immediately comes to mind for me it's Pete Davidson who dated Kim Kardashian Ariana Grande and a host of other celebrities he has openly talked about having BPD and intense treatment he seems to be able to date whatever celebrity he wants why because his BPD lends itself well to the Romantic Arena believe it or not the BPD traits help them stand out in ways that other men may not their clinginess may be just a thing that many women want that's special closeness bpds can literally become one with you becoming who you are your identity is my identity so at first you may think the two of you think exactly alike when someone relates to you in that way you immediately feel deeply understood he feels what I'm feeling you are one and the same at least for a while this version of BPD male doesn't freak out when you want a commitment quickly they can connect right away bpds are often seeking out a favorite person to bond with so fill in that bottomless pit of neediness BPD men in a romantic relationship will have a consistent need for reassurance they have no problem with intense Declarations of their love or appreciation for you no need to worry about phone calls that come one day but then are skipped next game playing that makes a woman become clingy because she can't follow the pattern of a man who may have several love interests while this brand of BPD will reach out more frequently when you don't respond which is what women often want they want to feel like a man is deeply interested is in tune is deeply connected to receive his attention to feel special and wanted a BPD male can be very good at this connecting is their middle name which makes a love interest quite happy women want to feel connected like they have someone who is truly interested and invested they want to be adored women can often tap into a BPD style of mating when it comes to love when they are separated they have a longing and emptiness dissipates when the love interest is present they need to attach to feel okay to quiet their soul not connecting can make a woman feel panicky freak out become clingy for a BPD male the woman is someone they rely on for Comfort happiness and validation he can be extremely passionate and emotional when a person with BPD loves the love is deep he will be highly committed and loyal to the relationship individuals with borderline personality disorder can also love intensely although the relationship can become erratic and rollercoaster-ish at some point especially when abandonment fears are triggered a relationship with a BPD can have high highs and super low lows so the relationship could become volatile and unstable at times on the downside slights could turn into rages so while relationship could feel super close and loving and deep and comforting if you're lucky or the person has received intense long-term treatment it could remain that way for the most part but you are still taking a chance when you mate with someone with a personality disorder that there could be some rocky roads however because we can all be a little BPD when it comes to relationships it could be mostly undetected especially if the person is high functioning on the downside an individual in a relationship with a BPD male may experience aggressive behavior and extreme jealousy and a quick temper so this just gives you a picture that perhaps you had not even thought of before so if you're interested in Romance you're gonna have to check out my book flip the script on Love by Tamara Hunter Zion it's on Amazon I'll put the link in the description box and borderline or not I think there are a lot of things in my book that will help you with love because I want you to have the best love you can possibly have so if we can work out some of the Kinks together then why not do that from someone else's perspective so check it out share my Channel with people that you think will enjoy it make sure you have subscribed and I'll see you my lovely friends on the next video bye