Energy Siphoners LOVE a Selfless/Self Sacrificing Woman

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[00:00:00]Hello beautiful and exotic women of the world. Welcome back to my channel.

[00:00:05]People cannot siphon your energy if you do not give them energy to siphon. Okay?

[00:00:10]If you're selfish and choosy with your energy, it's going to be hard for people to access it. And then let's add another layer on top of that. If you also are very unapologetic with your energy, people can't break that barrier. And I'll explain what I mean by this. First, let's break down what I mean when I say selfish, okay? When I say be selfish with your energy, it means you do not allow people to tap into it whenever they feel like it. You have boundaries.

[00:00:40]You have to learn how to not give 1,000% to other people because before you know it you're cutting pieces of your pie and you're handing it over to people and you're depleting yourself.

[00:00:51]I want to really focus in on Rihanna and ASAP Rocky today because something I noticed is he is definitely siphoning her energy and I feel like she maybe feels that oh, she's had children with this man. They've been knowing each other for a long time. They're very close friends. Clearly they had a friendship before.

[00:01:12]Um this was very evident in the like mid-2010s. You could see that they were on and off. Like they had something going on. So they have a friendship there, but it wasn't until they got serious and had children that you started to see him act a little funny.

[00:01:27]And if you're on social media and if you've been seeing what's happening in the media with them, he's been acting very feminine. Lately he's been acting like he is the princess. He has a very feminine way of carrying himself where he believes that women should take care of him, cater to him. He's even said it in in an interview. He feels like women should take him shopping because he's handsome. Like this is a man this is a pretty boy and a man that is weaponizing his attractiveness to basically be put in a feminine position, you know? And this is the dangerous thing about feminine men, and I would arguably even say DL men, because they tend to be just like ASAP Rocky. They want to be the princess, they want to be treated like they're a queen, they want to reverse the roles on you. And they'll wow you and woo you with the D, right? Cuz that's the first thing that I feel like a lot of these women get hung up on is the D game in the bedroom, and they forget who they are, they forget that they're actually the princess, they forget that they're actually the ones that should be being courted and treated well and romanced and loved on by a man. And before you know it, the roles have been reversed, they're chasing the man, they're taking care of the man, they are the ones basically playing a masculine role when they should be resting in their feminine energy.

[00:02:52]And I think this is what has happened to Rihanna. She thought that, you know, all the D is good, we have a great friendship, I've been knowing him for so long, let me, you know, take our relationship to the next level, but she didn't realize that hey, he has a feminine side to him that he tends to lean into more often than not, and more than he should. And he is weaponizing it, and especially now that, you know, they're together and he knows that she makes more money than him, you know, she's a a millionaire, a billionaire, and he is not, of course he's going to lean even more into his feminine energy, because you're the breadwinner, you're the one with more money. So, it gives him even more of an excuse and a reason to kick his feet up, be ladylike, and expect you to do all the hard work.

[00:03:40]>> I feel like this might be a safe time to speak about this, because I'mma be honest with y'all, I didn't want that smoke. I really didn't, and I really just was trusting that the relationship was going to flourish, and we were just going to see a bit a beautiful family unfold, and not that this [ __ ] was harvesting her energy.

[00:03:59]And he's harvesting her energy. I know that a good portion of us had faith in the sustainability of this relationship, whether they're married or not.

[00:04:09]But something I want to highlight is that he keeps one going out of his way to passively like almost embarrass her.

[00:04:18]And it's almost like a public display of trying to show that he has one of the baddest chicks in the game at his disposal and has the ability to basically weaken her spirit publicly.

[00:04:34]That's what I see when I see him flirting with other women while she's standing there and distracted to the extent where she can't engage in uh media entertainment and engagement. And so we keep seeing that happen. I saw this performance of his where he sounded actually like horrible in his performance in general was just awful.

[00:04:56]And I said, "You know what? This has to be a product of him doing her wrong."

[00:05:00]Like I don't know what's going on with them, but you can tell he's just not really honoring her in the way that he should be, and that she is likely keeping up appearances because that's kind of what she needs to do at this point and at this stage in the game.

[00:05:15]She's got these three young children, and a lot of women will stay invested in a relationship because they want to maintain what it is that they set out to do despite like all other flags. And I'm not going to believe she's just into him being in other bitches' faces. The [ __ ] is siphoning her energy, and he is using it to platform himself energetically. It really upsets me because I love Rihanna.

[00:05:42]I'm a huge fan of her, always have been, and she is a boss woman, a strong woman, she's a go-getter. She is a mover and a shaker. And she has this very powerful, domineering energy. And it's a a good dominating energy, you know? She has to be like that in order to get things done, in order to be a boss, in order to handle business.

[00:06:02]But, I hate this for her. I hate to see the the dynamic between her and the man she chose to have her children with because he just seems to be sucking up her energy. He is siphoning her beauty, he's siphoning her light, he's siphoning everything from her. You can tell, you know? And it really is unfortunate because I feel like she is almost okay with it or is accepting of it because she understands the type of person he is, which makes it even worse in my opinion, you know? So, the way you have to basically be selfish with your energy is to not give it out. If you're in a relationship with a man and he's trying his hardest to make you step into the masculine role, you have to entirely pull back. You have to shock him with how fast you pull back from him. Like, it has to be like an alarm, like a wake-up call to him that this is not what we're doing. I don't know what you thought this was. I am the lady, you are the man, sir.

[00:07:04]Let's get that really freaking clear, okay?

[00:07:07]There will not be any swapping of roles, there will not be any me chasing you, me doing more than you, me romancing you, me taking care of you. There will not be any of that. You will be pulling your weight, you will be doing all the things that you're supposed to do, >> [snorts] >> and then some.

[00:07:25]And you have to shock people by pulling back your energy and being selfish with it. What does that look like in a relationship? Sometimes that means all those little nice favors you were doing for him that were making him comfortable and maybe it was sending a signal to him that he could kick his feet up and rest in his feminine energy, you have to snatch that mother for right back, okay?

[00:07:44]You have to snatch it back. It should be shocking to them. It should be like a a nervous system alert alert that sends them into a frenzy. They'll notice and realize, "Oh my gosh, she's realizing, she's picking up on this tactic that I'm trying to siphon her energy and get more out of her than I deserve or that I should without reciprocating and without staying in my masculine energy and that's inappropriate, okay?" You being selfish with your energy sends a very loud signal and alarm to people that their behavior or whatever they're doing is inappropriate.

[00:08:19]And sometimes the embarrassment of that is enough for people to shape up and be like, "Oh my goodness, okay." Another way that you should be selfish with your energy is you should be selective with it. Like you should always have this air of mystery about you. I think when you maintain your mystery as a woman, even in a relationship, friendships, with family, whatever, it protects you. It shows people that, "Yeah, we're close.

[00:08:42]Yeah, I may love you. Yeah, I care about you, but that doesn't mean that you're going to have access to my time, my resources, my energy, my conversation. I don't have to give you anything if I don't feel like it.

[00:08:57]You know?

[00:08:58]Be selective with what you give people so it sends the message to them that your presence is a present, okay? Your presence is a blessing. You don't have to be here. You're choosing to be here.

[00:09:11]And that way people cherish you more.

[00:09:12]They appreciate you more. They don't take you for granted and they don't take advantage of you.

[00:09:18]And when I say be unapologetic, this is something I wish, you know, someone in Rihanna's camp would tell her is you are a baddie, okay? Like men would lick the ground that you walk on.

[00:09:30]You need to carry that energy no matter what. I don't care if you're with the most feminine man that's trying to make you step into a masculine role. I don't care if he's trying to make himself seem like he's better than you. If he's competing with you as a woman, I don't care what he's doing. You need to be unapologetically you.

[00:09:49]Do not dim your light. Do not feel like you have to compromise.

[00:09:54]Do not feel like you have to appease this person. No, be unapologetic with your energy. Be unapologetic. This is how you avoid siphoners. Because when you're unapologetic, like for example, a lot of DL men, they are like A$AP Rocky. A lot of DL men, they enjoy the perks and benefits of being with a masculine woman because they don't have to be in a masculine role and position.

[00:10:17]They don't have to do what a man should be doing for a woman. A lot of them don't feel like women deserve to be treated that way. They don't want women to be treated that way and they see themselves as the the prize or the priority. So, they want to be treated that way, right? And so, what they do is they will, you know, require a lot of you but not reciprocate. They will do things like walk ahead of you when you're outside so they can seem like they're more important or just try to do little things out in public to diminish your your image and tarnish you and make you look like you're not as significant as him. Like these are little tactics that they do.

[00:10:50]If you are unapologetic about your energy and and standing firmly in your energy, what this looks like is whenever he tries to pull one of these little tactics on you, one of these little covert, you know, narcissistic DL feminine ass tactics on you, what you do is you just stand firmly in whatever you believe in. So, if he's trying to get you to do something for him, like buy something for him, or you have to step into a masculine role for something, you simply just say, "I'm not doing that."

[00:11:20]With a the straightest face. Simply just saying no also is a full sentence.

[00:11:25]You know, you don't have to explain yourself. You don't have to go into long, dramatic explanations of anything.

[00:11:31]And when you don't budge and when you're not bargaining with him, you don't give them that that leeway to feel like they can fight you down on what your boundaries and standards are, it sends a message to them that no matter how you may be trying to show up in this relationship, I am the woman. I have expectations on how I expect to be treated. I will not be treating you like a princess. You are not the prize, and you will fall in line or move around.

[00:11:58]When you stand in that firmness and that unapologetic energy, you scare siphoners away. Siphoners only like women who are self-sacrificing, selfless, give, give, give, and don't expect anything in return, and they're sloppy with their energy.

[00:12:15]They don't have good energetic hygiene.

[00:12:17]They just give it to anybody. They're they're always emotionally available.

[00:12:20]These are the types of people that they are attracted to and want access to.

[00:12:24]So ladies, it's so important to be aware of this and to always be selfish with your energy to avoid siphoners, and be unapologetic with your energy to also avoid siphoners. So ladies, drop down in the comment section, let me know your experience with how you dealt with a siphoner or someone, maybe a man or a friend or whoever, who tried to siphon your energy, and how did you combat that? I'd love to hear your thoughts down below. I'll also be leaving my email in the description box so you can share your stories there as well.

[00:12:51]Have a lovely day, ladies.