Prenuptial agreement is not bad if you don't trust your partner at a point. Analysis.

Added: 2026-05-18

[00:00:02]25 years of marriage with six children.

[00:00:05]The man on our US and guy.

[00:00:25]Who set the time?

[00:00:29]And you have to handle any excuse they want to give. You want to check it out.

[00:00:32]You want to sign out.

[00:00:34]How to make excuse.

[00:00:45]What is the problem?

[00:00:47]Not the man at the league.

[00:00:55]Our whole problem when I get you in our Canada.

[00:00:58]Gully guy was a problem.

[00:01:02]Another people again need to read it carefully when I work it. You know, this young boys, our brothers They work it the young young boys in the same group.

[00:01:13]Now, all these beaters Most of the problem Our our brothers in the way with their Woah, as a result of All those boys Nana, brother.

[00:01:47]And the I make it I make it I make it I make it I make I have a nice ship to have a nice ship to worry. Where where is your home? They said to your home where you Now, I see see home.

[00:02:03]All the him now.

[00:02:06]That same money or many small Nigeria.

[00:02:09]She you are fine with with him for 25 years, for 10 years or 15 years in marriage.

[00:02:17]Oh my 19 years old or around 100 I'm working at water. Can you compare how how can I move my 25 years now working at 55 years? It cannot be the same.

[00:02:27]And most of them here I try to come on a strike and I have a talk all those bitter bitter should be Lagos.

[00:02:32]Where there? Where there? Where there?

[00:02:35]How would they move lady to go there and eat there?

[00:02:37]Forget about it.

[00:02:39]Those kind of boys but I'm with the Yaga. Nobody will buy the new mayor.

[00:02:43]Can we say?

[00:02:44]Why I go I say again?

[00:02:47]They not call Sheila as a woman with the as no no no presence not close to the trauma.

[00:02:53]Why then I before years now what you can muziegi?

[00:02:57]They not call Sheila trauma.

[00:02:59]She will start asking for mental health support and do to you.

[00:03:04]So I can equal to call Sheila home to me and I buy you going to okay okay okay can you name who want to be a millionaire? Who similar? Or the highest one on the board you going to know.

[00:03:13]Our young bro brothers and my mom and some of our brothers believe on our buying on our board you bought non seller.

[00:03:21]Does not stand again because I believe non seller non seller.

[00:03:25]All those any Nana Nana the Emma no no no no Nigeria going to work non seller non seller non seller non seller DJ.

[00:03:33]Hence I will send the young and the man they all this new money and they want the money I know what.

[00:03:38]And they have stress.

[00:03:40]How many good money on boys ego? Some of these young guys they are very lazy you know what?

[00:03:47]All the target is when they win the match.

[00:03:50]Because no.

[00:03:51]And then I bought that name or the all this kind of thing because no stop or all this kind of thing because no stop we still have our young sisters here who are single. Focus on them and leave people's wife alone or the head man.

[00:04:16]We have only one family.

[00:04:32]Nigeria 25 years in marriage kind of 46 five girls and one boy.

[00:04:43]The man already and I don't know the man the man I don't know the man I'm going to US every year that man they spend at least three four months in Nigeria.

[00:04:56]Even when they were in Nigeria two two of their daughters in US now go school.

[00:05:04]And the two of them are married you problem owner.

[00:05:07]Some of them are confused the idea in the morning like and I like very boring.

[00:05:14]Who my son I like who is the bus bus.

[00:05:17]Who my sometimes he he have a hard to give me my hair.

[00:05:22]I know how I like it there.

[00:05:24]I've seen a lady put her somewhere nice now.

[00:05:27]I seen it so now whatever she says the man accepts. Now the man is a very boring man.

[00:05:37]It's not everything your wife ask for that you must do for her.

[00:05:45]That does not mean he hit three years.

[00:05:48]>> They've been living fine. This man have been there.

[00:05:51]Visit home for months what in a year he's asking neighbor in the same estate.

[00:06:12]on wine So, Always sometimes I get so surprised that I plan for my wedding I don't mind I don't mind it cannot tell us anything. I've been married for 25 years. You might be married for 25 years in Nigeria. When I married last 25 years in a buying my money you buy a copy of ISIS most.

[00:06:39]That you are married for 25 years in Nigeria doesn't mean your wife is happy.

[00:06:43]Doesn't mean that your husband is happy in that marriage.

[00:06:46]It might you might be 25 years in in Nigeria and you're in abroad within 6 months to 1 year.

[00:06:53]So, I don't get moved by people that will come on platform and tell you they will marry for 25 years.

[00:06:59]Some persons are married for 25 years, but they've logged or signed out from that marriage even from the third year.

[00:07:08]What they are all looking for is opportunity to sign off.

[00:07:13]So, because I know this part.

[00:07:33]>> [snorts] >> Sometimes the videos >> It's Not all of them.

[00:08:22]Some of them >> Not all of them. So he need some some guys Our brothers need to And it's sad. For example >> There's a lot of women out there that can say no.

[00:09:44]You know like this.

[00:09:55]In fact, are you okay with you?

[00:10:01]Biko.

[00:10:02]Do the needful. Divorce him. I hope you may I wish you well in your divorce.

[00:10:09]anywhere.

[00:10:15]The life of your husband and your home is at risk.

[00:10:22]You feel a lot of love.

[00:10:24]It's fine. It's fine.

[00:10:26]But I do not be under his roof.

[00:10:29]May be your body to another man. Your children's life is at risk. The life of your husband is at risk. It's almost the same thing.

[00:10:43]But do not be under his roof and do such things. It's not good.

[00:10:54]You spoke well.

[00:10:57]Okay. Well, only when the come out from you.

[00:11:02]Um The one that buy you. About your marriage. Good evening. Um I can learn and then you can ask questions. And then in the comment section.

[00:11:14]And you And you And that Kennedy guru.

[00:11:22]Oh But I got to tell him to go before. I want I'm sure I'm looking at your yard.

[00:11:36]whichever one.

[00:11:47]Life here, so So comment to make it one of our stories because it was a lot of detailed comments like you make it a lot of comments in the group.

[00:12:11]Yes.

[00:12:17]But the point here is um He he knew it because of mindset and way focus.

[00:12:49]Is she from sometimes when you hear me each other do me something? You check the upbringing, the background check Because at this point not this is a marriage So Another thing Because in way point in way in life >> So, sometimes when I feel Luna because um spiritual than physical. And the life with a lot of things to offer And we have a lot of things like My strategy is loading.

[00:14:23]Don't tell me to make a fool of myself before I get your other rich man.

[00:14:27]Find your feet before I get your other rich man.

[00:14:47]Like I'm not commenting on the comment section.

[00:14:52]Like a man now open the moon that you fought years now.

[00:15:00]I don't know almost five So, being messy social media while we have reality because I don't even mix it up all together.

[00:15:15]Because if you watch your hand out for crying most of the times you got a life like you can get a social media marriage marriage and most of the times so and the why? It may maybe say maybe maybe say maybe say. But in a way of more for more, either what that what that now.

[00:15:30]Apart from yes, in there is the good, the bad, and the ugly.

[00:15:35]That is just life be like that. But in as much as he didn't he make a mistake, it will bring some good people in the no money. You will move over woman wine.

[00:15:50]aspect that now. All the angel all the angel all the angel.

[00:15:54]All the angel And this feeling that it will bring some good That's not how how to hide the boom.

[00:16:17]Because which are you too? near me and I like this. Oh God, this is crazy. You get to hear me here. Okay, imagine my decent number I give you pre-nup before when I got low.

[00:16:28]My car my car again and plan my number when I pre-nup to start with. Can you say English pre-nup or can you come and secure?

[00:16:49]anything all will I need more You have a either or or or or or or Okay, maybe investment very well name of my Some of them were actors. Nothing under 20.

[00:17:06]I have all of my community and all of my people girls in the money room. Some of them I watch a lot of money with me. But how we deal I don't know what I get with easy wallet. Some of them now alone every year. Now I could show you all of what I get you under How did she take care of themself Sometimes Get your time.

[00:17:50]So you have bring up In them In them by now Bring them good good marriage.

[00:18:15]At least.

[00:18:17]So matter of 18 years as as it is now.

[00:18:28]Coming down to the other organ before you have got to there.

[00:18:34]The other organ coming before marriage to reach your organ.

[00:18:39]I am trying Well now it has come to an extent that the marriage will set threat to everybody.

[00:18:47]So So But even I see because if because like at my age >> Does it mean that you so tall what your reason channel you see? What about you can I believe what about how we used to do it?

[00:19:32]Does it mean that this is like that call?

[00:19:43]with somebody share the same similar value in share.

[00:19:47]And we have a similar value sometimes.

[00:19:53]I can imagine people blend the two people in my marriage because it is very very and we have certain about what you want in life. Find yourself first and we have self-discovery.

[00:20:17]Sometimes it how would I do ultimate in life.

[00:20:33]As a human being in a choose somebody with a similar value with you and at the same time choose somebody with a high sense of discipline.

[00:21:03]Does it mean that no because of why because of Imagine if somebody you love or give me to somebody who be Thank you.

[00:21:47]Okay.

[00:21:54]some unforeseen emergency or injury but to I'm because I'm wondering why I'm and then I'm if you know me well I always say Most of our sisters in the marriage Yaga Sheila but most of our sisters in the she married Anya So Nigeria I'm one you will not like when you follow and may not grade and the 2020 season was a liar WhatsApp Anya na car one day they call her and may I go again Yeah I would say by defense yeah Yes it doesn't mean that you are playing up Our sisters in the for the nasty not I need love game make a make a Nigeria getting serious with that tonight. It got him in a working order.

[00:23:12]You're not doing that this one. And then I had you with a problem.

[00:23:16]I'm going to have a couple of our sisters in the washing machine in Abuja.

[00:23:19]You got to have clothes. I got to tell you that I don't know these things. I'm going to No, no, under security.

[00:23:25]I said to you today uh social media laptop and camera camera my brother give me a camera. camera my system give me a picture of a camera.

[00:23:32]If they put that man and then in the one you want to ask you all you have before what?

[00:23:39]My my my brother Chukuemeka Ibe. I'm on my way to my Tik Tok.

[00:23:46]You know I cook a cook.

[00:23:49]We are one in a bottom of the on a pool more than 2,000 every month I scan out here. So, you have all the motor bill on my way you just have to download my access to the book.

[00:24:01]Give lawyer name in that But to those who also will not secure that.

[00:24:07]Oh. I'm going to let you see what before I log in here to work on a table.

[00:24:15]But then you will Yes, it was My brother. My brother.

[00:24:25]On a corner of a wire. So, You know I can work it.

[00:24:31]I got I got to see all in hand over. But you are not going to win it.

[00:24:38]No one is learning that. No one can do anything before I fall. More of great.

[00:24:44]You know you are not going to get a man of great. What kind of great that before I got to get a man of 10. sign in here I will go to the Okay, I get you back again. I was like get you back again. God bless you all in that tonight.

[00:24:58]It is here on our way on our It is our runner.

[00:25:11]Do I need to argue? It is your property.

[00:25:14]If I'm genuine, I have to sign it so that we face the new new new reality.

[00:25:20]So, pre-nup is important both to work and the one year.

[00:25:26]Because if you go be our wedding So, pre-nup is a very important role in your in in the marriage from 2026 because on our English English most registered They decide that in one year you can get married.