In modern dating, there is no universal standard for how long to wait before physical intimacy, as timelines vary significantly based on individual preferences, relationship chemistry, and personal values, ranging from immediate encounters to waiting several months.
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Added:So, on average, how long do y'all make a guy wait?
>> A couple months.
>> Yeah, till it's serious. Yeah.
>> Till it's serious?
>> Yeah.
>> Really?
>> Till I Till I feel like I'm at home.
Till I feel like >> I know I KNOW Y'ALL BE HAVING KNEES, TOO. SO, I'M LIKE >> YEAH.
>> Tell me y'all never like there was a great vibe and y'all just hit it off?
>> One time on a cruise ship.
>> Y'all be hearing a lot of cruise stories. These cruise ships I hear you going down a cruise ship. I mean, you sucking it.
>> No, YOU KNOW WHAT [ __ ] CRAZY? IS THAT HE HAD A [ __ ] GIRLFRIEND.
I KNOW, RIGHT?
>> How'd you find out?
>> I stalked him.
>> He did He did his job, THOUGH.
>> SHE FOLLOWED HIM ON INSTAGRAM. THAT'S HOW I FOUND OUT.
>> AND YOU FOUND THE GIRLFRIEND.
>> YEAH.
>> THAT'S GREAT.
That's great. God damn. There you go.
>> Yeah. Ollie, if you're watching this, I cocked your head.
>> I wasn't expecting a shout-out, BUT WE GOT THE SHOUT-OUT. IT'S SHOUT-OUT TO MY BOY. HOW LONG do y'all let make a guy wait?
>> Till what?
>> Till he get hit.
>> Like a month.
>> Like a month?
>> Yeah.
HE NOT [laughter] AT ALL.
I MEAN, CAN I MEAN, DID WE JUST LET HIM LIKE >> Are we talking about him OR LIKE THAT?
>> [laughter] >> WHATEVER YOU INTO.
>> YOU KNOW, WE'LL EAT [screaming] ABOUT IT AS IF THEY INNER LICKING.
>> [laughter] >> CAN'T >> [screaming] >> LICK IT.
GO LET HIM LICK IT.
>> GO LET HIM LICK IT.
>> And lick it.
>> Lick it AND FLICK IT.
HE can't He [screaming] can't He can't PUT IT IN, THOUGH.
>> OH, THAT'S WEIRD.
>> How's that weird? That's normal.
>> THAT'S GROSS.
>> NOT MORE THAN A A MONTH.
>> NOT MORE THAN A MONTH. BUT, ONCE THAT MONTH HIT, it's game time.
>> Yeah, she's lying.
>> She's lying.
>> No, I swear we hit it on THE FIRST DAY WE MET.
GUESS SHE'S LYING. DON'T BELIEVE HER.
She hit it on the first night. IT WAS JUST LAST NIGHT.
>> GIVE IT A GIVE KEEP GIVE IT A BUCK.
>> LIAR. [screaming] >> THAT'S ALL I'M SAYING.
>> YOU GUYS ARE CUTE.
>> How long do you make a guy wait?
>> For what?
>> The jeans?
>> The jeans?
>> Don't say like you're talking to a guy.
>> Not me.
>> What's like the standard?
>> I don't know. Like Sometimes it's on the first night, but >> If that vibe really strong.
>> Yeah, I don't know. Dating's not like so traditional anymore. I wish it was, but I don't know.
Maybe it >> So say for example, when you're getting like say you meet the guy, like in your mind you're like, "I'mma wait till about this time." Whether it happens or not, but like what's usually like in your mind?
>> Depends if I'm drunk or not, but Hi. Let's say Let's say like a month. I don't know.
>> Okay. Okay. That's not bad.
>> Depends how hungry the punani is. You know what I'm saying?
>> It's one of them nights.
>> It's one of them nights.
>> One of them nights I had it.
>> I feel that. I feel that.
>> That's respectable. That's respectable.
>> I DON'T KNOW. IT DEPENDS. WHAT'S THE >> DEPENDS ON THE VIBE?
>> MAYBE LIKE AT LEAST 3 DAYS.
>> 3 DAYS?
>> YEAH.
>> Solid 3 days.
>> What's the question?
>> How long DO YOU MAKE A GUY WAIT?
>> I respect you.
>> A month.
>> A month?
>> I said at LEAST 3 DAYS.
>> DAMN.
>> I'M SORRY. WE'RE ALL ON DRUGS.
>> THAT'S GREAT. [laughter] >> YOU CAN'T GET NO YOU CAN'T GET NO COOCHIE OUT THE QUICKIE.
YEAH. HONESTLY, THE LAST MAN I TALKED TO WAS LIKE 2 MONTHS AGO.
We had sex after like a month.
>> About a month?
>> Yeah.
>> Damn.
>> THAT'S A LONG TIME.
NO, I [laughter] MEAN THIS IS A LONG TIME.
OKAY.
>> [screaming] >> 3 DAYS.
>> 3 DAYS?
>> YEAH.
>> SOLID 3 DAYS.
>> THAT'S ABOUT [laughter] A MONTH. 3 DAYS.
THAT'S LIKE 2 WEEKS.
LIKE 3 WEEKS. THAT'S LIKE A MONTH. 3 WEEKS.
>> I GUESS SO. I GUESS SO. I GUESS SO. I guess so. Can you explain the pants? I like this. This is >> Well, honestly, I like to be different.
>> I like to be different.
>> Different.
>> I like different.
>> But somebody told me THAT I LOOK LIKE THOSE PEOPLE WITH THE QUILTS. Back by [ __ ] >> It looks like you were wearing jeans.
>> Okay, don't do that.
>> Like, you know when you back in the day used to tie like the the flannel around?
THAT'S WHAT KIND OF BUT, IT'S STYLISH THOUGH.
>> FASHION AND TRY TO HAVE STYLE, YOU YOU GOING TO MAKE FUN OF ME FOR IT.
>> NO, I DON'T MAKE I'M SAYING THAT'S what it remind me of, but I like it though.
>> Okay, we're good.
>> How long do you make a guy wait before you do it?
>> It depends.
So, give me a little scenario before you ask me >> How you with a guy, you think he cool, like like in the in in the beginning of your mind, like top of your mind when you meet a guy, you're like, all right, we going to talk. How long you going to wait?
>> Mhm, if it's somebody that's like my type and they have a lot going for them.
>> Yeah.
>> That's all like week, but but there would be a second date on that on that during that week, you know what I'm saying?
>> Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Not like a first date kind of thing.
>> No, maybe sometimes, you never know.
>> Sometimes you NEVER KNOW.
>> [laughter] >> LIKE THAT, LIKE >> YOU NEVER KNOW, YOU KNOW, just needs, you know.
>> Just needs. Yeah, that's true.
That's that's that's real talk.
>> How long do you make a guy wait?
>> Me?
>> How long do you make a woman wait?
>> How long do I make a woman wait? You know, it really depends, like >> Like 30 SECONDS.
>> NAH, >> [screaming] >> LIKE 15.
30 SECONDS.
>> [laughter] >> Hell yeah. You know what? Hell yeah.
>> How long do you make a guy wait?
>> HONESTLY, I'M ON MY GOOD GOOD GIRL BEHAVIOR RIGHT NOW. I'M THINKING LIKE three dates. If I'm feeling him, I'm not GOING TO WASTE HIS TIME, BUT ALSO, like you got to make him wait a little, you know? If you give IT UP RIGHT AWAY, LIKE THAT HE'S GOING TO WRITE YOU OFF AS EASY, you're cut.
>> That's true, that's true. Now, let's say you're not on good girl, you on you on bad girl timing.
>> I mean, I've been KNOWN TO HOOK UP WITH people that first night, but like when you know, YOU KNOW. LOW KEY, my longest relationship, first night.
>> First night?
>> First night. SO, LIKE >> THAT VIBE >> WHEN YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW. YEAH, YEAH, YEAH.
>> OKAY, OKAY, OKAY.
All right, let's see. Let's see.
>> [laughter] >> Okay.
>> The no top, I know that.
>> Is how long would you make a guy wait?
>> [ __ ] as long as it takes me to orgasm. So, like 38 minutes, at least.
>> 38 minutes?
>> Yeah.
>> Damn.
>> Well, like >> That's some cardio.
>> I know I can squirt, but I like I haven't yet. So, like I know it's at least 38 minutes.
>> On average, how long do you make a guy wait?
>> Personally, me?
I probably make him wait like two two months.
>> Two months?
>> I'm not Yeah, I don't do that. I don't just I can't just do the one night stand.
I don't do that.
>> Two months, though.
So, even you you don't even >> I am a lover girl. I am not for the streets. So.
>> How long do you make a guy wait?
>> Okay, this is >> What's like the rule nowadays? I don't know.
>> Honestly, like if I'm being real, like if I'm being real, not that long. But, like >> If that vibe really there for real.
>> If the vibe is there, then yeah.
LIKE I'D BE PLAYING hard to get, but like >> A girl got needs.
>> If you want to hang out, like what am I going to do? Sit there and stare at you?
>> Well, LET'S NOT WASTE NO TIME.
I COULD DIE TOMORROW. Let's just not waste no time.
>> But, like if it's over text you're going to be waiting a while. But, like if you show up and like you're there you know.
>> Make that first move.
>> Exactly.
>> Goes back to that first move. So, how long on average do y'all make a guy wait?
What's like the rule nowadays?
>> If the guy's good looking, cool. I don't wait.
Yeah.
>> Waste no time. I respect it.
>> What?
>> Yeah, basically if he's good LOOKING >> GOOD. YEAH.
>> IF HE'S A LITTLE BIT WEIRD, IF he does some weird [ __ ] hell no.
>> Give you the egg?
>> Yeah. Then no no way, no nothing.
>> It's how long do you make a guy wait?
>> I don't know. It just depends on the person, the vibes. I don't know. Like you can meet someone on the first day and be like, "Oh [ __ ] I can get down."
>> I'm in love.
>> Yeah, okay.
And sometimes you like And sometimes you like >> AND SOMETIMES MAYBE YOU WANT TO GIVE IT UP, BUT IT'S NOT UP TO YOU. YOU DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. IT'S YOUR LIFE. YOU ONLY GOT ONE. YOU BETTER go live it.
>> Okay. So how many times have have you had a one night stand?
>> I don't do one night stands.
>> You don't do one night stands?
>> No, I'm a child of God.
>> So how long do you make them wait then?
>> Huh?
>> How long do you make them wait since you don't do one night stands?
>> Sorry. I thought Honestly, I thought we were going to do a funny question.
HE SAID HOW LONG YOU MAKE A GUY WAIT.
>> WHAT?
>> HOW LONG DO YOU MAKE A GUY WAIT?
>> A MONTH.
>> A WHAT?
>> A MONTH.
>> A WHAT? To hit.
>> Oh. LIKE HIT PHYSICALLY? LIKE A FEW TIMES? NO, THAT'S NOT YEAH, THAT'S NOT WHAT YOU WENT THROUGH. I'M NOT GOING TO JUDGE, BUT >> I DON'T KNOW. IT DEPENDS ON WHO IT IS.
LIKE A MONTH, TWO MONTHS.
>> Usually a month, two months.
>> All right. Three months.
>> Three months.
>> First date. Who knows?
>> [laughter] >> Like I said, YOU ONLY GOT ONE LIFE. YOU GOT WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.
>> YEAH, she definitely got >> What everybody else think.
>> Yeah, she definitely she definitely got that type of [ __ ] On average, how long do y'all make a guy wait?
>> Wait for what?
Gucci.
>> [laughter] >> I don't know what the the standard is nowadays.
>> Everybody has different standards.
>> It depends on everybody.
>> on the guy.
>> It depends on the guy.
>> Yeah.
And how you feel about him.
>> We say on the average, like when you go into it, in your you're like, "I ain't I'mma wait like a couple days, a month, a week.
If I like you >> I don't know, probably like a month.
>> How long a month do you like it?
>> Discipline.
Discipline.
>> I respect that.
>> Discipline, if you like me, for real.
>> I respect that. I respect that.
>> Um I don't know. I feel like for some guys, it could be like damn, if we bone each other, it could be the second, third day.
>> You really got that that vibe. It's like >> Yeah.
>> mad chemistry.
>> Because if I feel like if I really like it's sexual tension then like what am I going to wait for?
>> All right. I I respect that.
>> [music] [music]
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