How women actually flirt with attractive men (psychology exposed)

Added: 2026-05-15

[00:00:00]What's going on, y'all? We're going back to the fundamentals a bit.

[00:00:04]Going on.

[00:00:05]Y'all going to see what we got going on.

[00:00:07]It's your boy, Juice Savvy.

[00:00:09]The science of how women flirt by Zoom Dating is what we're going to be reacting to today. Y'all know me, I'm going to get right into the video.

[00:00:14]>> Oh, [ __ ] Here we go again. Give y'all the game as best as I can. Let's go.

[00:00:20]It's a man's job to make the first move.

[00:00:22]Yet, in two out of three cases, women are actually the ones who initiated the flirting process. The problem is that their flirting is vague. So, to make sure you don't miss a potential girlfriend just because you couldn't read her signals, I gathered the most fundamental information about women's flirting behavior and divided it into three main categories. Number one, subtle flirting. In the first interactions, especially, women initiate flirting by simply using their body language. Let's take an example from the YouTube channel Cut.

[00:00:51]>> What do you do? Um well, right now, I'm a model, actor. Amazing. Barista.

[00:00:57]>> Wow, what a combo.

[00:00:58]>> Mhm.

[00:00:59]Um and then, I went to school for criminal justice.

[00:01:02]>> There were two cues worth noticing here.

[00:01:04]First, there was the head tilt. In human behavior, this is a sign of warmth and attraction. Second, we saw that she kept her eyes closed for an unusual amount of time. In the animal world, keeping your eyes closed [clears throat] means that you trust the other animal next to you.

[00:01:19]There's even a term called cat kiss, which describes how cats basically show their affection by blinking slowly near their owners.

[00:01:26]>> going to say, I think I noticed she's she's uh fidgeting a bit too with her hands. And when someone blinks slowly, that's a sign of attraction.

[00:01:36]Typically, the dopamine responses in our brain release when we see an attractive person. So, when you when someone's blinking slows, their blink rate slows, when they're talking to you, they find you attractive. Don't It's It's It's research behind this. I'm telling y'all.

[00:01:55]People blink like a a lot of times in a certain interval, but when they see when you see an attractive person, your blinking slows. It's like your brain is trying to focus on what it's seeing.

[00:02:06]Right? So, in return, it's not going to it's trying to take in more. It's not going to blink, right? You're not going to blink.

[00:02:15]Telling y'all, I probably explained it weirdly, but look into it. Well, it's these were just the initial flirting signs. Let's see how the attraction cues start to speed up just a few hours later. Oh my god, media consumption. I love that. Oh, okay, here's the thing though. Like I'll be watching I'll be watching a video on YouTube, usually like a cop cam video or like >> What? What do you watch? Now, there are a multitude of other nonverbal and paraverbal signs that a woman would do in order to show interest in a man.

[00:02:44]Fortunately, there's a researcher called Monica Moore who studied and gathered most of them in the study. As you can see, the most frequent ones include smiles, glances, laughs, and solitary dances. Really?

[00:02:57]Okay, so she has a PhD. She Okay, so this is this is legit. Okay, let's look at this for a second. Yep, the glance, right?

[00:03:06]That's very frequent, of course. I always tell y'all a glance is a clear one of the clear signs. Just any any any looking.

[00:03:16]That's a clear sign, right? Uh a gaze darting that glance, yep. Short glances, repeated glances. Let's see. So, a smile and a laugh.

[00:03:29]A smile's tricky, right? A smile's tricky, but a laugh women laugh more when they are around men that they find to be attractive. Um if you ever notice like a girl just super giggly with you and maybe she's not around other people, but like when she's with you, she's just everything you say is funny, it's because she she finds you attractive and she thinks you're cute.

[00:03:52]100% Some girls just like laugh at everything, but if you know like that's not the case, like you're not saying nothing crazy and nothing funny and she's just laughing at everything you say, yeah bro.

[00:04:04]I don't know what it is about that. In which she basically silently screams for you to join her. But as always, attraction cues will mostly depend on the context of the location. If she's at a distance and wants to get your attention, she'll use big visible movements like hair flips or room encompassing glance. On the other hand, if she's close Not hair flips, but the glance, yes. to you, she'll use micro movements like leaning in, tilting the head, or even some playful touches. As a fun fact, a woman will also speak with a higher pitch when she's near a man she likes. He to talk about the film he said he'd written a new screenplay and he told me the story and I thought it had an amazing >> You did not just ask me that question.

[00:04:44]>> saying you're like What a forward young man you are.

[00:04:48]My goodness. Now, you should never take a singular cue as a clear indicator of attraction. Both That's that's the biggest thing. Don't take a single cue as that. Huge. Detective and body language experts usually make their assumptions based on something called a cluster, aka a group of cues.

[00:05:04]>> Yes, sir. Laughing at one of your jokes doesn't necessarily mean that she likes you. But if she's laughing at your joke while touching you on the shoulder and tilting her head, be damn sure she likes you. Number two, intentional flirting.

[00:05:16]Here's an intriguing question. Why can't two people just say that they like each other? It would be more effective. Well, historically speaking, human communities used to be much smaller. So small that everyone tended to know one another.

[00:05:30]Thus, if a person made a direct move and got rejected, they would have ended up with a bad reputation. But for women, it was even worse. Although they were the initiators, we were the approachers. If a woman would have both initiated the interaction, approached the man, and got rejected, she would have been seen as unwanted material by the entire community because of her desperation.

[00:05:53]That's why for men and especially women, good flirting is concrete enough to let them know that you like them, but vague enough to not give them the chance to brutally reject you. And this is the part where women suck at. Women do not know how to show signals to the men they like.

[00:06:14]They will just revert to not showing him anything at all, acting like he doesn't exist. And this is why guys have a hard time understanding when a girl is flirting and when she's just being nice.

[00:06:26]And when she's not even interested at all, right?

[00:06:30]Cuz sometimes flirting can come off as just a woman you're being really friendly.

[00:06:35]You know, so the biggest distinction is definitely the clusters.

[00:06:40]Noticing not just one behavior, but a maybe three or four different behaviors that she's exhibiting. And you guys, please don't over analyze this [ __ ] Please do not obsess over it.

[00:06:52]I think naturally as you get better with women, you just start to pick up on these things like body language. And it's like you subconsciously understand.

[00:07:01]Like for example, mirroring is a huge flirting signal. Mirroring is just mirroring another person's body language. I have a quick example of this. I was on a date.

[00:07:12]I was with my date and then she was sitting next to me, right? We were talking about something and I noticed I kind of rub my hands. I do this a lot, like where I'm talking I'll rub my hands like when I'm thinking I'll do it real slow and real deliberate.

[00:07:29]As as I did this, my date did the same thing. And I caught it, but it was so small.

[00:07:38]But it's like once you get adept to dealing with more women, you start picking up on these things. This is what I'm saying. So, as I was doing this, she also put her hands up kind of slowly and was like doing this and was like looking away.

[00:07:51]I thought that was so interesting. Like I caught it in a real time, that body language signal of attraction. And by this point, I of course I knew this woman liked me.

[00:08:02]This was our second date, I think. Yes, second date.

[00:08:08]So, yeah.

[00:08:09]Um yeah, so that that mirroring, huge huge one right there.

[00:08:14]So, how do you concretely know if a woman really likes you or is just polite? Well, in 2015, the researchers from the University of Augsburg analyzed a modest number of 140,000 words that were used in flirty context in the show Love is Blind. Then, they found that all of them fit in one of six categories: imagined future, metalinguistic reference, self-praise, humor, sexual innuendo, and compliments. As you can see, the most used category by both men and women was imagined future, which proves that we like to keep things a bit vague. Yet, if we get specific, we can see that men tend to use more flirting overall. But, here's my advice. When you want to find out if she's flirting with you, look for imagined future, compliments, self-praise, and sexual innuendo. I didn't add flirtatious humor because it can be very easily confused with friendly humor. Number three, direct flirting. Over the years, there were a lot of flirty and seductive actresses. But, there was one, Marilyn Monroe. Even though she was the echelon of the feminine courtship, her story began years before, when she was no more than an invisible orphan in the rusty orphanages of Los Angeles. One day, she simply noticed that the white blouse provided by the orphanage was torn. So, she borrowed a smaller sweater from a younger girl in the house, but when she arrived at school, Monroe noticed something strange. Suddenly, boys seemed to gather around her wherever she went.

[00:09:46]Back home, she even wrote in her diary, "They stared at my sweater as if it were a goldmine." Yeah, it's attraction, man.

[00:09:54]Looks, especially attractive women, man, they get things handed them at birth. Before you think I'm a weirdo, I took these pieces of information from Robert Greene's book. You see, for Monroe, that day was a revelation. She could influence people by just using her looks.

[00:10:11]>> Just her appearance.

[00:10:12]>> she entered the Hollywood world. There were other actresses, some more beautiful than her. So, she had to come up with something new. You see, along the years, Monroe discovered that, paradoxically, men would treat her better if she acted a bit dumber and clumsier than she really was. So, when she entered the movie world, she put her tricks to the test. In all of her characters, she embodied the dumb blonde essence, making men feel like both lovers and rescuers, even though she was rumored to have an IQ of over 160.

[00:10:41]Today, Marilyn Monroe is one of the few actresses that remains in the minds and hearts of many men, even though her movies are long forgotten. You see, in the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, John Gray explains that women often share problems and act more clumsy than they really are as means to create an emotional connection with you.

[00:11:01]Why? Because it gives you the perfect excuse to interact more with her. If she gives off that clumsy girly energy around you, maybe it's time to go shoot your shot. If she sounds and acts like prime Batman, maybe it's time to level up your game. And I don't know just the video that could help you do that.

[00:11:19]All right. Yeah, this is a good little video. I like that he actually broke it down and it's like the steps, you know, there's the more direct and then there's the subtle and then there's the in the middle. I forgot I forgot what he how he explained it, but it was a good video. I thought it was pretty good and just base the base level that would people normally go into. So, uh let me know if y'all like this style, like the animation style of reactions.

[00:11:46]But, uh it's your boy JuSavage. And I'll see y'all in the next one. I hope y'all got some value from this video. I really do. It's your boy JuSavage. Just trying to give y'all the variety, but also still bringing the value because I you know that the topic is can get redundant. So, you know, I always try to reframe it a certain way or just find different good content to react to. I never really try to find videos that I don't think y'all can learn something even a little bit from.

[00:12:16]So, I hope I learned something from this video.

[00:12:19]Hope y'all did, too. Your boy JuSavage.

[00:12:21]We out the camera man. Peace out.