When Torrie calls Wayne for advice about the family!

Added: 2026-05-05

[00:00:00]Okay, I'm stepping out the door. Can you hear me?

[00:00:02]>> Yeah.

[00:00:03]>> Yeah. So, Ashley just came by the house or whatever and you know that you just gave her some money, like $1,000, not even what about 3 weeks ago.

[00:00:14]>> Yeah.

[00:00:15]>> And she's asking for $1,500 for her car payment.

[00:00:22]>> That's I thought I gave her the money for the first time.

[00:00:23]>> That's what I'm trying to say. Like, Dwayne, for real, I'm tired. I feel like the whole family just don't understand how stressful that is to keep calling for money. Like even if somebody got the money, I feel like to keep calling is so inconsiderate. And then the things people be saying don't really be adding up. You know what I mean? Like >> what?

[00:00:45]>> You know what I'm saying? Like she's saying stuff like, "Hey, um, it's my car payment." But it's not like it's the car payment again. Like which one is it? You know?

[00:00:54]>> Yeah. Well, we know that. We already Hey, we already know cuz going try to flip script. You just be a mediator and keep him off me.

[00:01:02]>> See what I'm talking about. But I want you to be serious. I'm tired. I got to do something different.

[00:01:06]>> Yeah. Well, hey, just talk to him. What you do? Tell him. Hey, man. Talk to him.

[00:01:10]Tell him straight up because I can't talk to him direct cuz you know I'm said something out of your mouth that mess up everything. But you would be here if God put you in this position to keep it up.

[00:01:21]I believe in you. Just just keep away from >> it's easier for you cuz they call you for the money but I'm the emotional person in it. I'm the one having to do all this and filter out everything and I'm tired.

[00:01:32]>> What I always told you speak your mind together. Y'all talk about it. Tell them how you feel to them. Hey man, >> like a conference call or like them coming to the house.

[00:01:42]>> Who house?

[00:01:44]>> Not your house. Me and Siobhan house.

[00:01:47]>> Oh yeah. Bring them over there, man.

[00:01:49]Bring them over there. Have a meet with everybody. have a meeting when you got your family and tell them what's up.

[00:01:53]Talk to them.

[00:01:54]>> Yeah. I don't want to be mean, but it's just it's too much to keep asking for money. Keep asking for money and then nothing don't get better. Ain't nobody life changer. Ain't nobody listening to you or me about money changing their circumstances. People got partners, men in their life who like how behind can you be on your bills? And then you keep going. They keep coming to you. That frustrates me as your sister. They keep coming to you.

[00:02:21]>> I know. I understand. I appreciate you being mediator and blocking it. This your job to block it. You ain't blocking their blessings. You just blocking blocking blocking my stress. And I really appreciate it. And what you need to do, you need to call everybody. Talk to everybody. Say, "Look, man. When y'all feel like Wayne got some money or whatever, but you got to you got to show some progress when you like >> grow trees."

[00:02:45]>> Well, talk to I'mma set it up and talk to Siobhan about them coming to the house and then I'll let you know your house. Not not mine. But yeah, >> I will let you know. Some of them might be calling and texting you cuz they mad at me. But it's okay. They can get mad.

[00:03:01]But I love you. I know you busy.

[00:03:03]>> All right. I love you, too.

[00:03:05]>> All right then.

[00:03:07]I'm tired of these people.

[00:03:09]Help me, God. Jesus.