Many women in their 30s are transitioning from valuing independence to seeking partners who can provide support and care, recognizing that being taken care of is a natural and acceptable desire in relationships. This shift involves wanting someone to handle practical responsibilities like finances, housing, and daily needs, while also seeking emotional connection and companionship. The discussion highlights that healthy relationships often involve mutual support, where partners look out for each other without transactional expectations, and that generosity and genuine care create stronger bonds than purely material exchanges.
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I'm not alone in this. I think I'm just the one willing to say it, but as a 30 >> [laughter] >> I'm What's wrong, Slimy?
She's so fine.
>> What? She look like a robot.
>> [laughter] >> And I as a 35 Listen, listen, listen. As a 35-year-old woman year-old woman I'm like pretty much over my strong, independent boss ass, bad ass [ __ ] era.
Like I would love for someone to just sweep me off my feet and say quit your job. Here's my credit card. Here's the keys to a brand new car. I'm just taking care of everything. Like I need dependence on another human at this point in my life. Like Like I'm really proud of myself. Like pat on the back, you did it. You did it for a long time, girl, but like >> [sighs and gasps] >> Man, these hoes do out here. I get I get it. Someone and someone Someone's going to pick up the slack and she's going to get what she wants. She's really pretty.
Man. And she's um showing a of a contrition that that a man would like and I I think I think she'll be okay. I think she'll find her dude.
What? You think she's pretty?
Yes, she's really pretty.
Homie. Slimy, he just said he would do somebody with no legs and arms. Come on now. I I didn't say She giving homeboy vibes.
No. She's pretty. She's really pretty.
>> vibes.
Huckleberry Finn vibes.
Like >> What? What does that mean? What does Huckleberry Finn mean?
She looking manly.
Oh, no.
>> She She look like she look like a man.
She look like a man from the 1800s with that hair slicked back like that.
1800s, Slimy. Man, I'm about to Can you Can you bring her back Can you bring her back over here, please? Look at her.
Look at Look at Look at that woman, man.
She's looking manly.
She's looking manly.
>> need to look at her Tik Tok that's what I'm saying.
>> Well, she is half of her father.
Thank you. [laughter] Meow, meow, meow, meow.
Meow, meow, meow, meow.
>> This is why we cannot have concerts over the phone because this is the kind of stuff he wanted to play and wanted me to listen to while he's singing meow.
I'm just saying.
That's so rude.
It's like a lot of women now that are realizing that being super independent is not the move, but it just sucks that you wait until you're in your 30s to realize that and think that there's going to be a I mean, she might be able to find a man cuz There's no might about it. She's pretty. She's going to find somebody.
I'm not even talking about her looks cuz I don't care that much. I don't really care about females' looks, but she's not ugly. I wouldn't say she's ugly, but um yeah, she might find a dude who might, you know, She will find a dude.
Well, I'm saying might cuz the things that she's saying like She's saying I don't know what she really wants, but She don't got no kids. She pretty. She used to be independent, so that means she got some kind of She got some kind of income that that a [ __ ] ain't got to worry about everything, but I'm I'm sure she'll be all right. She'll find a dude.
>> get that car paid off, girl. Don't leave Why Why do you have to get a car paid off? This is crazy.
>> if he leaves and then you're stuck with the car note? No. She She had the car note before he was there. What you talking about? She got a I assume she independent. She got a car right now. Right, but she said she was wanting him to get her a house and a new car, so I'm guessing she wants something fancy.
>> Come on now.
I'm just saying that's what she said.
Come on, Slimy.
>> [laughter] >> Come on, bro.
Can you please bring it up again, the picture? I need to see what her her screen name is.
No, cuz y'all disrespected her.
I did it. I said she was pretty. Show that [ __ ] again.
Very very reminiscent of 1800s.
I mean you are you're being mean.
She's really elegant.
>> had that little tie in the back, too.
She's elegant. She didn't have her boobs out. Like look at that. See, look at that.
How is the shirt? The shirt is definitely giving I just >> [laughter] >> Ain't no way.
[ __ ] Her lips is thin as a white dog's hair, but that's fine.
That's a white dog's hair.
She's not bad looking. She's just not.
>> Not bad. She's so This is crazy. She actually kind of fit.
Yep.
Girl next door vibes.
Her name's probably Rebecca.
Yep. Look at that. Look at that profile picture. Look at that beautiful woman in that profile. Up, she can golf.
Look at that. Look at that skinny waist.
She got a little fupa, but that's fine.
We can work with that. That's not a big deal.
Look at that. That's beautiful.
She is actually No, like look at She If I see >> [music] >> What?
Bro, what the [ __ ] do women be doing on they social media, bro?
>> [laughter] >> She need a brand manager or something.
Women are so stupid, bro. Like >> [laughter] >> She fit.
>> videos boring as [ __ ] High me up. High me. High me up. High me up. She I'll go to the Cowboys It's a typical Nashville chick, bro.
She She regular.
>> She just normal regular. Like she going to treat you right. She ain't going to cheat on you. Like what you mean?
Now you just assuming. We don't know her. No, come on. Well, no [ __ ] You assume most people don't cheat on you.
You give her so much grace. That was a dumb comment. Anybody can cheat. Your comment was dumb. You're talking about she would cheat.
>> I appreciate it. I appreciate it.
Good. Why you giving her so much grace, though?
She's a beautiful woman and she seems like she's um she's probably the vibes.
That she's a good good good human. That she won't cheat. And she's probably sweet.
Why do you give her >> like pack She probably like pack you a lunch.
Like she Pack you a lunch? Yeah, like going to work and [ __ ] >> like children. Pack me a lunch.
>> [laughter] >> I don't ask you to pack my lunch, but she would just do it like unprompted.
Like cuz that's how she loves.
Man, where did you get this whole profile [ __ ] from?
You [laughter] mean What are you saying?
Oh, yeah.
>> Always Did you not see the same white woman that I just saw?
You just like that man on uh Don't Be a Menace while Drinking Your Juice in the Hood.
>> In the hood.
>> [laughter] >> Milk of magnesia. Yeah, milk of magnesia, man.
I haven't seen it in a long time.
I'm surprised you watched that at all.
Yeah, I watched it.
No, I think that a lot of women I think that that's just the nature of women um to be taken care of, wanting to be taken care of.
And it's okay.
It's okay that they want that. It's okay that they ask for it. Just like find a man who's willing to like to do it. And I I think it's good. You know what?
>> Like I I I don't want it I don't I don't want like if a woman don't need me, like I don't really I don't really think I want to be with her.
Like even even my chick now, like when we go places, I do everything.
I make all the plans. I do all the stuff. And she just show up. And she love that she just got to show up.
Hey, Prince Tony. Prince Tony.
Bro, like you got to be careful what you type about people because I don't give a [ __ ] about the women that you I don't want to know about the women that you sleep with. To me, asking about what a man does in his bedroom is very strange, dog. I'm not going to say you gay, but it's weird, dog. Like, don't worry about what go on in my bedroom.
Like, worry about you. Worry about the chicks that you with, dog. Like, that is weird as [ __ ] dog.
Like, you a weirdo, man. Like, you be going too far. I get it, man. You want to You want some attention. Like, you a female. You need some attention. I understand. The [ __ ] ain't with you right now. You ain't spending enough money. Who knows what it is. They ain't [ __ ] with you. I understand. I understand. They ain't [ __ ] with you.
But, don't come [ __ ] with me cuz they ain't [ __ ] with you.
Like, I don't give a [ __ ] Like, I don't give a [ __ ] about you what you got going on.
Don't ask me about what's going on in my bedroom, man. Prince Tony. Prince Tony said, "Man, what kind of women you get?"
It Like, [ __ ] what?
I don't give a [ __ ] what no other man doing with a woman.
That's not my business.
Like, y'all be too interactive. Like, it's such a It's a such thing as going too far.
Don't be a homo, man. Talk to him, Slim.
Jesus.
Molly just be sitting here laughing.
>> My bad, y'all. Laughing.
>> That [ __ ] was just strange to me, though.
Especially when I'm not reading the chat. It's just like he just It just come out of nowhere.
I don't be knowing that we having any, either. It's just funny.
Yeah, you have to be able to Never mind.
Just woo sah sometimes. You'll be fine.
What are the qualities of a woman that's getting that should be taken care of?
Like she's sweet, she's compassionate, she's giving, she's caring, she's nurturing, she's um And you just automatically going to take care of everything? Yeah, she's intelligent, like she she like knows me and does stuff because it's me.
Like you know I don't like certain things being eaten in my presence, so you don't do that.
You don't ask me dumb questions cuz I don't [ __ ] with people that ask dumb questions. Like there's a whole bunch of like nuance to me and being with me.
And she does all that because she studies who I am and she acts appropriately.
Well, he wasn't asking you to explain me. He was asking you to explain women.
That's who you are, Brittany?
>> [laughter] >> I like what you're talking about. I like that. That's dope.
What's killing me is he want all this but can't respect a 11:00 a.m. call time.
And the And the woman And the woman that I'm with wouldn't give me parameters in that nature.
Here's the thing.
Um I think that some women are just are way a little tad too expensive though.
Facts. Facts. I think that they expectations be crazy sometimes and it's like maybe you should just be regular. If you was more regular, you might get what you want, but I think that's some of the requests that women be making. It was a chick she just went viral. She said she waiting on a man to send her 30K or something like that. It was something crazy.
>> That's crazy. And it was like what do y'all Because Because this is becoming from women that don't even got no equity into the relationship yet. Like they ain't even really been with you. Somebody said 3 months in the beginning of this live stream. 3 months he's supposed to start paying. I'm like, "3 [ __ ] months?"
That's crazy.
>> I don't even know you. She must have been That was That was Miss Sanchez.
That was Miss Sanchez condoning the 3 months?
>> Who said I was condoning? I was telling you what I said.
condoning the housewives of whatever the [ __ ] Bravo B Like that's crazy. 3 months and he's supposed to just start paying everything? May have been his best eater, Antoine. Hell no. I don't think that there's a I don't think there's a booty eater available.
Ain't no eater in the world.
Like they eat your booty hole?
No.
That's crazy.
That's a new word that y'all been using a lot lately.
It's It's chicks out there It's chicks out there that do all that [ __ ] just to get the get their phone fixed.
You know what I'm saying? Oh my goodness.
>> get their phone fixed.
And that's something And that's something you should do without asking.
If you know your girl's phone is broke, you just go get it fixed without her asking. Well, Quincy, why my windows still ain't tinted? Cuz you ain't give me your address.
>> we were besties for the resties.
Yeah, you didn't hear WHAT HE SAID?
>> [laughter] >> LET ME HOLD ON. LET ME GO GET ME A COKE. THEY CALL us transactional.
>> [laughter] >> Yeah, I check on you a couple of times a day.
Somebody said he got asked for $1,200.
That's expensive. Seems like cuz she was getting put out of her apartment literally while we were on the date.
Y'all met online?
>> out?
You say what? Y'all wouldn't look out?
I got a chick's I got a chick's car out of repo before.
I really don't >> [laughter] >> date. [ __ ] we got some [ __ ] to handle.
You said what?
>> [ __ ] up. Her priority, I was going to say that, too.
>> Her priority is [ __ ] up. You trying to go out on a date? Exactly. And and and you getting evicted? Nah, hoe.
Well, if someone's got their priorities [ __ ] up, what what what should she be doing?
Well, how many stories did >> She shouldn't be around no man? She could have told that story to four different dudes and got that money from all four of them. Yeah.
Yeah.
See?
So, you was condoning with the chick on house arrest, yeah. I knew it. How am I condoning it? I knew it. I knew it.
>> saying, have that hoe clean your house or all you need your some guy Have that real real real, Miss Sanchez. Would you please stand up? I want my my carpet cleaned with the back I want the floors done.
>> up now? Share what you said. You need a job. I don't got time for this.
I fear that if I was to ever be single, I wouldn't be able to afford um going to Excuse me.
[ __ ] Chili's is $100? And that [ __ ] is like the bottom of the barrel.
[laughter] Yeah.
Who goes to Chili's? Why is Chili's the bottom of the barrel?
But that's like a low-level like restaurant. I'm like, why is this like $80?
>> Chili's is a low-level restaurant? Yeah, that's just like normal. Mhm. It's not normal.
>> Applebee's. Applebee's?
It's not like The only reason it's super high What What was that for, Slim? What I didn't even say anything.
>> [laughter] >> They're going to neighborhood.
I show up and smile. The party is here.
What lies What lies will be told now?
What lies will be told now?
Snakes on a plane.
He been getting started stuff with me, so now it's your turn. Have fun.
>> I see.
All right.
>> I ain't starting up with you. You You said what you said and and and that's what you projecting on me.
>> but somehow I am okay with it. I just asked the question. No, what you just said coincide with what was stated.
>> What I'm saying that that's what females do. I didn't say that's what I do. I said she could be telling you that she needs this for her rent and she didn't tell three other dudes that. Don't give her the money, make her work for that.
Come clean my car. Come I need my house top to bottom. I need my ceilings, the filters. I need all that done. You need this money, ho. No, you don't even got to do all that. So you just going to give her the money?
>> What?
You ain't got to give her it. [laughter] I mean if she was going to work like that, wouldn't she have it? Listen, let me tell you something.
>> No, they they lazy. You know what I'm saying?
You know huh?
Come on, man. You said you was going to keep it a thousand. I am keeping it a thousand. I'm about to get some game.
You know what you know what the biggest one of the biggest plays is? Is when you see her struggling and um you she ask cuz if she humble herself enough to ask that mean that like cuz if you see it and she ask that mean that it ain't nobody else that can help or or would help her.
First of all.
Like if you can see the struggle and it ain't nobody else. But one of the dopest plays is not to say well, you got to go do this. You got to do go do that. You don't put no parameters on it. You just be like, all right, that's cool. I got you. Don't worry about it.
And you don't ask for nothing.
Just don't ask for nothing.
I think the biggest play with women is not even giving them stuff. It's like >> Hold on. Hold on, Flame. Hold on.
My bad. Because because a lot of times when like when Ms. Sanchez said, she said, "Well, make her work for this.
Make her work for that."
A lot of times actually when you got in your mind what she should do, you limited yourself of what she's going to do.
A lot of times people talk themselves out of something that's better than what they thought that they wanted.
And so all you got to do is chill.
Just chill. Just slow motion.
Just chill. And and I cuz you can't look at it like, well, this is a girl, right?
You got to look at I like to look at things as far as like I'm just looking out for people in general.
You know what I'm saying? If my homie had asked me for it, I'd give it. A dude on the street asked me for certain things and I gave it to him today. Like I if somebody asked me, my spirit is that I'm just going to look out because if they had the if I could see them struggling and they had the balls to actually ask me, then I'm going to look out. But what also comes along with that a lot of times is people feel like they are really really do whatever it is that you need them to do um when the time come. And so the reason why I say you might be limiting yourself is because I think that a lot of times guys [ __ ] up by only looking at it from a sex perspective or something like that. Like most of the time the most immediate thing is, oh, you got to do something for that.
But you might be limiting yourself cuz she might have some other [ __ ] some other talent, some other plays, some other people for you to meet. And sometimes the the when you look out for people, a lot of times when an opportunity come, you're the first person that they think of if they feel like you can take advantage of it.
Is what I'm saying.
And a lot of people don't understand that play. They don't play the long game. The long game is just to be just play it cool and look out and don't have no expectation to come along with it.
And you going to get way more, way more out of whatever that relationship is because people, they love to throw you the alley-oop.
They love to look out. They love to go and show you where the play is for the bag.
And so I think that guys limit they self a lot of times by being really stingy, penny-pinching, and when an opportunity present itself, they don't look out.
And they limit they self by only looking at it from a sexual perspective.
If you could remove that, you can play the long game and and they'll look they When you look out for people, it may not even be meaningful to you as far as the amount that you look out for, but they will show a level of dedication and loyalty and they going to all At some point, they going to look out and they going to they going to return that.
It's going to be way bigger than that.
That's the way I kind of look at it.
Some.
It ain't like that all the time.
Y'all something. I agree.
No. 100% is not always the case, so I think women are bad friends.
Women are bad friends. I'm sorry.
>> [laughter] >> Okay.
>> to be honest. All right. I'm going to be honest with you.
Explain.
No, I'm not going to get personal, but I'm just I'm telling you from experience. I don't know about none of us up here. Now, hold on. I'm just saying explain to what you mean. Slimmy, why are females bad >> No, we've had this conversation before.
I am talking to Slimmy. I don't care, but we're on a panel. I am talking Having a girlfriend, like she gets boyfriend energy from her guy friend and she don't return the favor.
Not true. And most guy-women relationships, like the the the girl gets more out of it than the dude.
Cuz y'all are transactional. Y'all are keeping score. I think >> even about sex. It's just like It's just like period. I didn't say sex.
I said transactional.
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