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Chief Eze in search of love part Ep9 (Let’s Get Married Show S2 Ep24) Finding Love with realzitachyAdded:
The reason why you're here is because my father is in love with you.
>> Who is your father?
>> That voice sound familiar. Chief, >> there is no need to tell you lie here. I like you.
Happiness again I need touch again.
You want to marry a husband? You want a wife? You want a lover?
You want to go?
>> You want to marry?
>> You want a husband?
>> You want a wife connect?
>> You want to settle?
>> You want to marry?
>> You want a husband?
>> You want a wife?
>> You want a lawyer?
Welcome back, guys. So, Mr. Ez, the man in search of a wife, has a crush on someone.
For those of you who have not been following this program, you can go and start watching it from the beginning.
Chief Ez.
So this is a man who had a very terrible relationship, a very terrible marriage which his wife was cheating on him and he recent he's a blind man. He's blind.
So he recently divorced the wife over 3 months ago. And since he's blind and right now he's staying in a, you know, he has a big house. He has a son, a grown-up son who is abroad who doesn't stay in Nigeria. So, he actually needs a companion. It's not like we are pushing him to rush rush into another marriage.
But truth be told, this man needs a companion. He needs someone. He need a wife. He needs someone to reassure him that he's loved. He needs someone around him. So since there is no one with him right now, we have decided to support him to get another wife.
His son told me he would like him to get back to his his first son. Yeah. His grown-up son told me he would like him to get back with his mother. Cuz for those of you who does not know, Mr. A was first married to Aka's mother which is the first son. The first wife according to him cheated and he divorced her. So he got married to another woman which is the one that just recently broke his heart and um the marriage did not go so well which he just divorced her more than 3 months ago.
So right now we have talked to him and he has decided to get another wife.
I brought several girls on the show for him to go for. So I realized that I must not be the one to bring all the girls for him. I decided to ask him an intelligent question. So I asked him, does he have any woman that he has a crush on? does he have any woman that he will want me to bring on the show in order for him to ask out fortunately he said yes there is this woman and her name is Yai.
So I asked him where is this woman from and where is she? He said I should reach out to his friend that his friend would be able to connect me with the woman. So I told him no problem he should that I'm going to call the friend which I called the friend. I explained everything to the friend and the friend gave me the woman's contact and the woman is here.
I'm going to bring her upstairs right now.
So guys, I I can't wait to, you know, match make them and I pray that this woman should love him or should like him back. So stay tuned. Please help me get her.
Okay, guys. So he's gone to bring her upstairs.
Let's wait for her to get here. I can't wait. So this is the first time someone is professing love on the show. Like I said, if you have anybody you have a crush on, feel free to come to me. I will help you invite the person here for you to talk to the person. So that's what it's all about.
Hello mom.
Good afternoon ma.
>> Good afternoon. You are welcome to meet you.
>> Sorry. Excuse my camera. I know you were not expecting to see cameras.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> How are you, ma'am? I'm >> fine.
>> Okay. Please help me hold this. You're going to hold it like this. If you want to talk, you take it to your mouth.
>> Okay. Okay.
>> Ma'am, my name is Zita.
>> Do you know me?
>> Yeah. Yeah. I used to watch you online.
>> Okay. this program we have been trying a lot to help chief.
>> Okay. Thank you so much.
>> Um I got your contact from Mr. Shego. He said he already discussed with you.
>> Okay.
>> Yes.
>> Really?
>> Yes. So he told you he's the one that convinced you to come and see me.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He's the one.
>> Okay. So you're welcome, ma'am. Please um have a seat, ma'am.
>> Okay. Thank you.
>> I know you must be wondering what I have to tell you or why I invited you here.
>> Yes, I'm surprised.
>> Okay.
>> When he told me that someone want to see me because before giving out my number, he called me. So, I was surprised.
>> Okay. Um as you left your shop, is there someone in your shop right now? Yeah, >> cuz I learned you have a bar with a restaurant.
>> Yes. Yes, someone is there.
>> Okay, ma'am.
>> How is everything in general?
>> Everything is fine.
>> Fine. Can you tell me about yourself, ma'am? I want to get to know you cuz I've been hearing a lot about you. Yeah, and they say your food is very nice.
>> Yeah, I cook very well.
I know him very well. My name is Mama Beji. I'm a widow.
>> Okay.
>> I lost my husband in a car accident.
>> Oh, I'm so sorry about that.
>> How long was that?
>> About 3 years ago.
>> I'm so sorry about that.
>> Yeah. Thank you.
>> All right, man. So, how is life? Do you have kids?
>> Yes, I'm a mother of three.
>> Okay. So, how old are your kids? 14 and 9. Yes.
>> 14 and nine.
>> Yes.
>> Okay. Okay. Ma um which one is 14?
>> The twins.
>> The twins. Cuz I I've been hearing them call you cuz I know twins is Is it Beji?
Are you Where are you from?
>> I'm from Aqua.
>> You're from Aquaomb. Yes.
>> And they call you Yi. Okay. Okay. Is Mr. O is a robber man.
>> Yes.
>> So that's why he calls you.
>> Okay. So >> how do you see Mr. Shego? When did you know Mr. Shego?
>> Okay. I do business. I sells pepper soap.
>> Okay.
>> And be Yeah. So they do come around.
>> So how long did you How long have you known him?
>> I've known him for a while now.
>> How? Like how long is it like a year, 2 years? How long is it?
>> Like 3 years now.
>> Like 3 years.
>> So how is his attitude? How is his character? How is he?
>> Mr. Shu, he's a nice person. He's a good man.
>> Okay.
>> What makes you think he's a good man?
>> We play, we talk. The way he talks and he play. When he comes around to see my children, he talk to them, he play, dash them things.
>> Oh, >> so he's kind.
>> Okay. So, how about your kids now? Are they in school?
>> I don't know what to say, but >> just feel free. Feel free. Okay.
>> My 9 years is not in school, but they 14. They're in school.
>> The two, that's the twins. They in school.
>> They in school.
>> So what happened? Why is the 9 years not in school?
>> I don't have much for now.
But I believe next first time he will enter.
>> Okay. You don't have much for now. Is it just this term that she stopped school?
Is it a she? Is it she or he?
>> She.
>> She.
>> Okay. Is it this term that she stopped school or is it up to a year or two?
>> Since first term. since first thing.
>> That means you do not have enough.
>> Yes.
>> How much is your school fees?
>> 50,000.
>> 50,000 is because of 50,000 she did not go to school.
>> Yes. Because the other ones they want to sit for their exam.
>> Okay. So, you didn't have enough?
>> Yes. To send her to school.
>> Okay. Okay. Ma'am, um do you know Mr. E >> Chief.
>> Yes. Chief Ez.
>> Yes, I know him. He's my very good customer.
>> Okay. So, how did you know Mr. E?
>> He's my customer.
>> How did you know him? How did he start coming to your shop?
>> From Mr. Shego.
>> Okay.
>> He brought him to my shop. They do come there to drink, have fun, play, just sit there, discuss.
>> Okay.
>> So that's how I know him.
>> So how is his character as well?
>> He's a very calm and gentle man.
Very nice person.
>> Okay.
>> Because I don't know how to put it.
>> Just feel free if you want to use pigeon. Um we are Nigerians.
So just tell me >> is this kind of discipline. He's a discipline man.
>> Okay.
>> I don't know like you know that they how a man is responsible.
>> Mhm.
>> That is how to describe him.
>> Okay. So he's a responsible man.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. All right man. Um, is there anything you would like me? I don't I know you don't know me. You really You must be wondering why I'm asking you so many questions.
>> I watch you guys. I see your videos, >> okay, >> online. The way the wife treated him, >> okay, >> before he got divorced.
>> Okay, ma'am.
>> So, that's how I know you. Oh, thank you so much. So, what do you have to Do you know his wife? Mr. Isa's wife. Did you know him? Did you know her?
>> I don't know her.
>> You don't? You've never seen Mr. Isa's wife before?
>> I've never seen her.
>> You've never seen her? Okay. But you came across the videos online?
>> Yes.
>> Okay, ma'am. So, I know you must be wondering why I invited you here.
>> Yes. I'm surprised.
>> Okay. So, why do you think I invited you here?
>> I don't really know. You don't really know. No, >> I don't know.
>> Yeah, it's actually because I have a surprise for you.
>> What kind of surprise?
>> I have a surprise for you.
>> Okay.
>> Okay, hold on. I'm coming.
No, I'm not going to do that yet. I'm not going to show you the surprise yet, but I'm going to ask for permission to blindfold you.
to cover my eyes.
>> Yes.
>> Okay. Let me trust you with that because one side I'm scared.
>> Okay.
>> But let me give you a chance.
>> You're scared?
>> Yeah.
>> Well, Mr. Shu knows you're here now.
>> Yes. Yes. Yes.
>> I cannot do anything to you. You can see my camera. What? When you enter, did you tell anybody you're coming to see me or Mr. She called you to come and meet up with somebody?
He called me.
>> Yeah. You didn't Didn't you tell somebody in the shop? Nobody knows your whereabouts.
>> No, nobody knows. I just told them that I'm going out, but Mr. Shego knows that I'm coming.
>> Oh, okay. You told them you're going out that Mr. Shego invited you. Oh, that covers.
>> So, you are safe.
>> Okay.
>> And I'm assuring you. No problem.
>> All right. Please.
So, have you ever seen Mr. Isa's children? Do you know Mr.'s children?
>> No, I don't know them, but I I do see the the other one.
>> The Do you know the grownup son?
>> Yes. Yes.
>> Have you seen them before?
>> No, not physical.
>> Okay. Okay. Through the videos.
>> Yes.
>> Okay. How about the children? Have you ever seen them?
>> No.
>> You've not seen them?
Do you know what we do here?
>> Do you have idea what is happening here?
>> No.
>> Getting here you've seen let's meet and get married show. So what do you understand by let's meet and get married show?
>> Is about meeting someone and making friends.
>> It's about making friends >> and meeting the the right person.
>> Okay. Okay. What you understand by the show is meeting friends and Okay. making good friends.
>> Yeah.
>> That's what you understand by the show.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. No problem.
>> Like I told you, I have a surprise for you.
So, I'm just going to help you to assist you to sit on the black chair. Just come. Mhm. Here. No. Shift again, please. Mhm. You can sit.
Okay. So, do you want to make friends?
Are you open to making friends?
>> Yes. Yes.
>> Okay.
So Yabji is here.
>> Um, okay.
Uh, well, what happened? Why did you have to tell >> No, I want her to I want her to guess who she's meeting. Oh, really?
>> But the voice look familiar.
>> Sounds familiar.
>> Yes, >> cuz >> Oh, wow. She knows me already. Okay. You said the voice sounds familiar. So, um, guess who is talking?
>> Can you guess the voice? Do you know the person?
>> The voice looks sounds familiar. But >> you don't know the person?
>> I don't know the person.
>> Okay.
>> Okay, that's fine. Well, the reason why you're here is because my father is in love with you.
>> Yes. Who?
>> My father is in love with you.
>> Who is your father?
>> Uh, you get I believe you get to find out about who is my father.
>> Really?
>> Yes. You get to find out.
>> I know it's surprise, right?
>> You're surprised.
>> I'm surprised.
>> Okay. Okay. Let me let me I'm coming back right down. Okay.
>> Okay. Mhm.
>> Okay. I'm waiting.
>> Okay. His father is here.
Okay, >> that voice sound familiar. Chief >> chief, please can >> Okay.
>> Good afternoon, sir.
>> Y, how are you?
>> I'm fine, sir. How are you doing?
>> How are your children? They are fine.
Thank you sir.
>> Wow. Surprise surprise you are here.
>> Yes.
>> So uh who called you? Is it Mr. She?
>> Yeah it's Mr. She.
>> How are those?
>> They are all fine.
>> Like the other one is it prince. M >> praise.
>> Praise. Is it praise? Okay. But you normally call him.
>> Yes.
>> What is >> life?
>> Life. Okay. Yes. You normally call that.
So, wow.
>> Seriously.
How is everything?
>> I'm fine, sir.
>> You You have seen my son.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
What did he tell you?
>> You know what? Um, since she's here and chief is here, chief, I'm so sorry.
>> So, we going to have to >> Yeah, we going to have to leave them.
Yes, >> me and the >> Yes, we're coming.
>> Daddy, >> take care of yourself.
>> Oh, all right.
>> Okay. So we are just going to leave you two together >> so you get to know why you are here.
>> You know you're still guessing why you're here.
>> Yes.
>> Mhm.
>> How are you doing?
>> Chief, it has been a while. 3 months now.
>> I've not seen you. What happened?
>> Yes. Yes. Seriously. Yes. It's up to 3 months or more than you know. It wasn't easy. What um we told you now what that woman had been in fact she stress us is it me is he shu is he my son he stress us I don't even have time we don't even know when last we take a bottle of Mr. talk more of that your car hotel we we we we have in fact some there was a day I was telling Mr. It has been long visit because of especially when you put that What you normally dance >> can say don't reach like whether you don't leave me go you don't see another person >> customer no you know me and Mr. can never leave your especially Mr. He's always the one that every time he keep on telling us that go please you know the last time we come he called you he say you don't have c and he now tell you to go and >> you don't mind me >> I was so stressed before I go market go and buy that come and >> a stress but you are trying >> yes >> you are trying sir >> so how are you doing >> sir we That could be >> I understand. And your your other daughter?
>> They're all fine. They're all fine.
>> Very good. You are welcome.
>> Thank you, sir.
>> Yes.
>> Nice. Nice to meet you here. Nice to meet you here. I just I'm I'm surprised when they call me I can't see this place. Yeah. With cameras >> what is happening?
>> Anyway, you know a lot has been happening. A lot has been happening. You see issue of me and my wife that I know you have not seen her in person.
That woman he has not. Do you know that any time when I was with that woman, it is only when I come to your place that I feel relieved. I see myself and I can laugh as a man.
But each time I return home, everything will just become self. So I was very very very worried. We just no day that me and Mr. SH don't talk about you.
We keep talking about you. We keep discussing you know so really deal with me but we thank God for everything you know sometimes such things do happens to men it do happen we know in this life you know you don't know who is your your best until the person comes close to you I know the way you are taking care of Even the last time I say I am hungry after we take the two, you went ahead and do the indomi before us and we eat.
Yeah.
>> You know say you be my real customer >> chief. Chief my real person when they buy something from my hand. Very well.
>> Yeah baby.
>> It has been a long time now. It has you know you be old customer.
>> Yes. When we talk of a a person where we s very well at least when we day your side we they comfortable.
>> Yes. So >> we comfortable with a day comfortable.
>> So how is life generally?
>> Life is fine. We thank God.
>> Are you coping >> now? God chief chief.
>> Yeah baby. Chief Chief >> at a similar video >> all around me and >> it's not good. It's not good at all.
>> Some some women are heartless.
>> Wicked.
>> She's wicked.
>> Some women are heartless. Especially that.
>> So you are be you watch it. Yes.
>> You watch how she is cheating on me, doing all sort of things. Imagine >> I don't just want to even be remembering that because each time I I flash back on what that woman has done, I feel very touched. I feel very touched.
>> Sorry about that.
>> It is well chief. chief.
>> Um, >> my good customer.
>> I'm happy to hear your voice. So, very very happy to hear your voice.
>> Thank you, sir.
>> So, um, >> what brought you here?
>> Uh, >> you just you know how to you just like asking question. Even the last time we came to your place, you keep on asking and asking. I know. Uh he's my son that brought me here anyway.
>> If I not ask question, he no good now. I just ask question.
>> Is my son that brought me here? But you have seen my son.
>> Yes, I've seen him. I don't see him.
>> You see, did he tell you anything?
>> No.
>> He didn't tell you anything.
>> No. No. No. No. No. No. Like waiting.
>> No. Did Mr. will tell you anything.
>> No, no, no, no, no.
>> So what did Mr. Au tell?
>> Just give me just tell me say won't give my number give person the person call me. So I don't know I say they won't carry my you know my mark my head.
>> Oh yeah.
>> Yeah chief.
>> Why Mr. Shu called me to come to this place.
>> Are you telling me he did not tell you anything?
>> No. No, >> he didn't tell you anything.
>> No, he not tell me anything.
>> And my son did not tell you anything.
>> No, he did not tell me anything.
>> Okay.
Well, when you met the the woman that is the the woman that called you Zint, what did she then tell you?
>> H when I came here, chief, she said she has a surprise for me, a gift for me.
So, um are they surprised as I see you?
>> Maybe.
Are you saying I'm the I'm the gift chief? Chief, >> Chief, you know when they say they have a gift for you, a surprise and suddenly you see chief >> chief, >> I have a am I a gift? Maybe I am the gift.
>> I don't know. I think she tell me that >> chief chief chief >> you don't say you are you are a good woman >> you know now you are a good woman know sometimes the way you you treat us when we come to your place you know the way you take care of especially me knowing my condition. I I do say hi will be good to even take care of man you know >> it's true now I keep wondering >> I keep wondering do you do you are a beautiful woman >> chief >> thank you sir >> you are a beautiful woman, a beautiful woman. And uh >> no man will see a beautiful woman that will not tell her that is a beautiful woman.
>> Yes.
>> Thank you, Chief.
>> So what is your mind telling you about you being here?
>> I don't know. I don't know, sir.
>> Your mind is not telling you anything?
>> No, sir.
Even as I am here with you now is your mind not telling you anything?
>> No sir, you not say you be my customer sir.
>> So >> so you just see me like your customer just come and still talk with you here.
>> As they come me come now now sit down.
She come say she get gift surprise for me.
>> So I make as I come I come see you. So I not to know like that >> the well let me not just um I don't want to beat around the bush. I don't really want to beat around the bush because it is good you know in this life they say it's good to be good and when you see good something you express it that ah truly this thing is good.
>> Yes sir. Mhm. You know, you are being a good woman that we normally come to your place and each time you come to your place. One thing always come to my mind and even when we leave your place I will continue to you know imagine you know seeing you again meeting you you know all this kind of thinking keep on imagining in me but um I will not lie you you know have have you Mr. I've never tell you anything about me concerning Chief.
>> No, Mr. She go talk anything or not discuss anything or you know discuss anything about you >> chief >> I I don't want to you know I don't want you to see me as if I am kind of sounding like not chief again because I know myself and I know you >> sir >> I even I have what I want to tell you now I've already told my son and uh at the same time I told Mr. Or maybe they have told you you are still pretending not to tell me or let me know about it.
>> They not tell me anything. They didn't tell me anything.
>> You just want to hear it. You just want to hear it from this m want to hear it from my mouth.
>> They not tell me anything. They not tell me anything. I don't hear anything.
>> Yeah.
I want to tell you that you are a good woman.
>> Thank you sir.
>> You are a good woman.
>> You know you see everything you do reminds me of something.
>> That do you remember that the very day we came to your place? I said where are you?
So everything just but I said well I don't know if I tell this thing how >> so each time he begins to come one day I hear say I let me not just go and spoil the mood of and all this but >> that is why I follow >> no bad thing no I I can't tell you anything bad thing The food not sweet.
The pepper soup not sweet again.
>> Far far from that. Your pepper soup is the best.
>> Your everything about you is the your soup is the do you know that if not because of all this thing that is happening. Do you know that I even prefer to be in your place every day?
Every day.
>> I mean they cook.
>> So your pepper is okay. There is even another thing I am even looking for more than pepper soup.
>> Yeah, just >> chief. Chief, >> you see you know in life when a man started eating in one plate it means that that man like that plate well. Yes.
See Sir >> there is no need to tell you lie here >> sir >> I like you >> yes I like you and it did not start today each time I come around I keep looking at you I keep imagining if I have you as a wife you know I keep reasoning a lot and um it was just difficult for me to say why did not just keep m it reached a time I have to open up to Mr. Shego and I have even open up with to Mr. and he told me let's just be patient then I let my son know about this and I want to tell you that the reason why they called you and even why you are here is because I chief is already in love with you and I want you like you chief are you serious about what you are saying Well, you you did not know me to be h yes sometimes I do joke when we come around to your place but this is a serious place for me to tell you this in this kind of setup as you know my son is here and people is here and Mr. is also involved. You will know how long I have think about this before I tell them to go on and bring you.
I am trying to let you know that you should understand my body language even from sunset. There was a time I asked you if you don't mind following us to this you just laugh over it that very time but you don't know I've already been fact I I don't know how to just express it but this time around I cannot close my mouth I deserve you you are a good woman I like you I don't know you may see it that why is this thing coming from chief you may be surprise yabage are you here >> chie I don't know you keep quiet you are not talking surprise I don't even know what to say >> yes sometimes when something happen it always come by surprise Yes. But the the one that comes by surprise that is the good one.
I like you and I want to make you my wife if you if you don't mind.
Your silence is you are just like someone who is in shock hearing this from me.
Don't be surprised.
Don't be surprised. is because it has already been in me. I was the one that told them.
You know my when each time I even come to your place I we keep on just talking and you know sometimes you like to dance for us. You sing all those songs. So apart from that you are a good woman.
Chief, I know that you were married when I was giving you that green light and they come be like say as you still your wife still I don't get any problem then when you they come my place come buy something I was giving you that green light although say you know they sorry to say it's s no vessel or say you know they see me but I believe same whether she go just tell you those things but >> I remember you know say let me tell you the truth most of times you know I remember the day you play play and you sat on my lap that very day I was like I don't know I was just like Mr. See the truth is that I don't like to cheat on my wife. But since everything has happens this way, so this one is now I am not just coming to have you as a what do they normally call as a reserve woman because by then my wife and I we are not um we are not having any problem. Do you understand? And I like respecting a wife man. That is why you see what you said. He said you are giving me some gray light as you said it but I don't pay attention when I know I have a woman in the house I don't do it but now you see what my wife had did to me and I am now opening up to you to even tell you that if not because this has happened this way I would have come up and be looking for a woman but since it has happened I want to tell you that naturally I have that love and the next woman I want to live with should be you if you don't mind.
>> Chief, I know that you are a good man and you are this kind of a man that a woman will pray to have.
Yeah, this I was that green light when my husband died. I was thinking as if how to get you because you you're a good man. I don't even know how to describe you.
I'm just surprised.
I'm surprised.
>> But you have to be happy now. If that if you have such in mind before and now here comes the same chief proposing to you if yes I'm telling you that I am ready and I want to take you as a wife.
Chief, all this while I've been the one I loving you. Sometimes I'll just bring a pepper soup and beer for you. I will not collect anything. I not collect anything.
All my all my hope I say you go see that one love me.
There is nothing still wrong with this.
Yes, >> you have been loving me. You have been showing this. I did not notice it. But now my heart has chosen and even notice you before now. I did not I have been crushing on you before now. It's just that I cannot just do otherwise.
Yeah.
That play where I go play they dance they sit for your lap.
>> I was thinking maybe just normal.
>> I thought that you just notice at least I know say you you get small issue there as they wear glass but make do they play they rob you for body they climb you up and down.
At least you go use that one like like a sign say you like me, you go come like me back the love show you.
I believe say you for notice say now love car at least you are the kind of man I needed I want as my husband come die you are kind if you come like that come see my children you go play with them talk to them they make me happy I make I love you like you with Mr. I'll come they play with you. Those m just tell you those where I carry a gift you go tell me say me you pay money I would say no now because of that you foresee that dear come like me say ah but what happen now what happen now okay you have been doing all these things and you see I appreciate but now why are you now saying this as If he's late, he's not late. I have come. I have come. Now all this you have been expecting. This is me and this is me telling you that I'm already in love with you and I want you. I want to have you as a wife.
I want to have you as a wife.
Don't you know it is the best time you know having you now as a wife you don't even need to worry about anything because you are not dragging me with anybody anymore >> but waiting happen that time where I sit for your life I will come they touch you >> I come they play with you waiting happen for all those times >> you know by then my wife is still Yeah.
>> Well, because I sell pepper soup.
>> No. No. Okay. If you are saying because you sell, are you not still selling the pepper soup at the same >> surprise when you because I don't just want to cheat on my wife? Then >> I you know sometimes as a a title man there is something I love doing. when I called you my wife and I will make sure I respect I keep everything that you deserve to own as a woman. So but it's very unfortunate that this time around the woman I am even trying to to respect and keep dignity for is not even doing it for me.
And I I know that that time that all this thing is happening the woman is there cheating on me but thank to the gods that makes it to expose. I am here now and as I have come to tell you all the how I feel. I think I expected you to flash back of how you have been feeling about me and that will make everything easy.
You have it. Are you there?
>> I'm here.
>> Talk to me.
>> I'm still here with you. You know saying surprise.
I just surprised as they call me now be the surprise you and now and wait you come talk join body make I surprise and the kind love I show you they just you care less you don't even look into it all those times where the love they Oh, like gran nuts and banana.
>> Well, you know, you are a good woman. I don't you not just go for past. You should understand that this is the right time and the right time I have come. I have come. Why you you know let just say I have you see it is between me. Just say yes and let my son come around. We will conclude from here.
>> Chief I don't know waiting to answer you. saying yes is not the matter but you you don't know what I pass through for the love I car down >> whatever that you have passed through I know but now any thing that you have passed through don't worry >> we will make everything look okay >> chief >> they have it >> many men they come that shop say you they see as to the park you they see the customer I get how many men have been coming to ask me out but because of the love where I get for you because of the love where I carry for my head for you and make if they come I know they grief for them but now you come out I've been there waiting for you hoping say you go just answer But I don't know what to say. It's like a slate.
>> Don't say that.
Yes.
Every man may want something good but they may not have same intention. My own intention is the best and uh for that time as they are disturbing I am not disturbing and it is me that you have feeling for. I understand very well that it do happen but as it stands now I you saying this is all about for you you know you just want to make me feel bad how you feel not that you will not accept me you know I I want you to understand that I will do everything possible to make you happy you know we have gone a long way apart from this you have you can be able to tell more about me I want you to give me this privilege let me see your hand now >> don't don't tell me this is this this is that tell me that it will work out for us >> chief as I like this I don't even know how to tell you I don't know what to tell for you because I've been dead here wait for you. Those men they go come go. They go come go. I come they sit down and wait for you. Now you come come outside say you want you want me now. You come need me now. Tell me you know say sometimes love they come they go.
My own has come and they ask to meet with your own.
I'm here now. I'm here now. Don't just uh don't just tell me I know you won't give me much excuse again. I hope. Are we good?
>> I don't know what to say. I don't know what >> Hey, you you you need to say yes. Let's just Yeah. Is that Yes.
Um >> yes >> chief. Chief, >> you were there. You notice me.
>> You keep saying I were there.
What is holding us now? This is me.
Is it that you have gotten another man?
Eh yeah >> chief you will not understand me >> what is really going on >> chief it's not as if I don't love you but it's late >> what makes it late >> it's late >> is is it that okay because I am no longer staying with my day my former wife what message is what I don't understand if you should you can say you love me then this is the right time because I'm here coming in full >> s you know say if you too too long sometimes they get tired That's all.
>> So you are tired or you you are you don't like me. Okay. You don't want me.
>> You don't like >> you love me so.
>> Why? But this your but is getting me.
Okay. Now let me then that you are eyeing me and doing all the things about showing how you like me and I did not showcase.
Okay. Can you now forget about that and now see me as a fresh person coming to you and I am person that you know and is chief this is the same chief that you are telling me you have been crushing on me and I'm as well crushing on you. So it is now for us to manifest our our feelings. I have manifested my own. But you are now trying to reject my offer. So what is the reason?
>> Not as if I'm rejecting your offer.
Not as if I don't love you. I still love you. He knows why I don't do this business. I fall in love with. I still get I still love you. But there something I can't explain.
Some see what is what what what you are saying now is giving me a serious concern. There is something you cannot explain. Are you telling me okay you don't need to tell me that or should I call my son? H chief calling your son will not make me to say what I didn't say or what um >> it will not change anything.
>> Yeah.
So >> so calling my son will not change >> we are both matured and this thing matters between me and you. calling your child into it doesn't bring any meaning doesn't change anything.
So I don't know how to put it.
>> Okay. But what is holding you to tell me the reason you know if you if a child is sick and you go and get a medicine to the child and now decide that this child you need to take this medicine if you are now okay you will just say that this is the reason why I don't want to take this okay this is the reason why I want to take this now I have told you the reason why I have not be giving you the same signal when you are giving me death because I told you that my wife is there. And now that my wife has up and makes messed up and messed everything up for me, it is time for me to seek for the right woman. And I begin to think that that right woman should be you because if I should talk of any other woman that I become close to ever even before and after my wife started doing all these things it should be you and that is why when they ask me do I have any woman in mind the only woman I could say I have in mind should be you I don't go any other place I keep coming to you I will keep coming to your If Mr. should hear that you are saying no to this telling me student are you did you have anything to do with my friend Mr. Oh, God forbid.
>> Are you sure?
>> No.
>> So, I could not carry pepper tell you anything. Nothing like that.
>> They did not tell me. But the problem is now you see when you have put somebody into suspicion, we can suspect anything.
Maybe Mr. She has passed my back and try to do one or two things so that that way you will begin to think how will you h be with a friend and later go back to chief then if that is not the problem then what is the issue >> not doing anything with Mr. SH is a nice person. My customer I don't do anything since I pursue you like foul. They pursue >> female f >> they rub you for body. They dance around you. They do some kind sort of things like that say make you notice me when you know they notice me now don't go >> time don't go time don't go what makes the time to go is what I'm trying to be open to me I am not a new person to you now we has been I am an old customer an old friend I think I have every right to know what has made that time go have you gotten married to another man.
>> You and me there.
>> Make me understand.
Huh?
Huh?
You are just telling me is late. Is this is that is that not time I begin to understand what is happening and why this is going wrong?
I am no longer happy the way you are sounding this.
If there is anything that IS STOPPING IT, YOU LET ME KNOW. YOU KEEP ON TAKING ME. I I I EXPRESS MYSELF. WAIT, is anybody here?
>> Yes, sir.
>> Yes.
>> Okay, Za, you are back.
>> Yes. How is it going?
>> Very well, ma'am.
>> Sorry, my voice is trying to to go up.
>> How is it going?
What did he say to you?
>> He was asking me out.
>> Okay. So >> I wasn't just asking her out. Zinta, I have told this woman and I let her know how I have been feeling about her and what I want and how I have told my son Mr. She.
>> So I have explained to everybody and now I am with her telling her how I feel and how I loved her and I said I want to keep her in my house.
>> Not like that. I've been loving you since and I've been trying myself on you.
>> But I'm loving you back.
>> I know. I've been sitting on your laps doing all those things for you to notice me. By then?
>> By then? I still have my wife.
>> Okay. Okay. You've you've you've you've been liking him?
>> Since I've been liking him.
>> Seriously?
>> Yes.
>> Then what what happened >> then? He I was showing him the green light sitting on his lap, giving him things, rubbing him, but he never show concern.
>> So, are you angry that he did not notice you when you liked him or when you started showing him green light green light? Are you angry?
>> I'm angry.
>> Okay.
>> Okay. Is it because I >> s Did you ever notice she liked you?
Zita even then there was a time she sat on my laps.
>> Okay.
>> Yes. And he said, "Chief, hold my waist.
Let's I" I said, I was like, you know, we that are good of maintaining our >> Okay, that's for him too. At least now show that way of him for him to love me.
>> But you know, say no.
>> As I dance for in the year, I'll be they will be shouting.
>> I'll be dancing, sitting on his lap.
Okay. When she was she's been dancing for you sir, were you still married or you were single?
>> That is why I said I still married with your married. Yes. And then today has not been and I don't want to just offend my marriage. Going to her place then was just to go catch the phone enjoy the beer and take the pepp. But I noticed one day I was telling Shu I don't like the way is coming close to me is though she's a good woman.
>> But did you ever tell Mr. Shu that you like her?
>> That was there. That is why when started misbehaving >> okay. So did you tell Mr. She did Mr. Shiggo ever tell her?
>> That is why I'm asking.
>> Did Mr. Shgo ever tell you that Chief likes you?
>> No.
>> Okay. Okay. So what I want you to understand is that chief was still into very much into his marriage and did not want to um commit you know if he if he had anything to do with you at that moment it would be like he's cheating on his wife.
>> And if you are married to a man would you like your husband to cheat on you?
>> No but my is late.
>> He's late and it's because your husband is late and I believe how long did you stay before you started liking him?
>> That was like How long did you stay after your your husband died?
>> I stayed for one year.
>> One year?
>> Yeah.
>> Before you started liking him?
>> How long have you known him for?
>> I've known him for one year plus.
>> One year plus.
>> Yes.
>> Okay. What made you to like him?
>> Because he's a kind of man that I would love to know. He's the he the way he talk to my kids.
>> Okay.
>> Play. He post.
>> So um are you angry because you gave him green light those period of time and he did not notice it?
>> Yes, but I know they angry again.
>> Then what happen?
>> No, I not get any problem with them.
>> Okay, then >> it's too late. The time why they like him, he not like me. So it's late.
>> Okay. He's late.
>> Why is he late? Because I have someone.
>> You have someone.
>> Yes. Someone came and asked me out.
>> When was that?
>> A month ago.
>> A month ago.
>> Yeah.
>> So, you are currently with someone?
>> Yes.
>> You're dating someone?
>> Yes.
>> And you're okay with the person that you're dating?
>> Yes.
Can that person do to you what I can do to do you know how long we have been together? Do you know >> wait for you s may you at least tell me say you like me make my peace just stay calm make me self they come come love you too don't be like that chief >> did you tell Mr. She when all these children where they are coming to did you let Mr. Good to know >> because Mr. go they see the sign they give you but he not talk anything even he know say I like you he not talk anything so as I come get another man I don't let her know I don't tell him I didn't tell him anything >> is the man going to marry I am not asking you for a friendship I am asking you because I want to marry you and keep in my house >> chief the man won't marry me daddy She has been okay. I have been asking her. I have been asking. I even wanted to raise because she don't want to tell me anything. He's just telling me it's too late. It's too late. It's too late.
Too late. Okay. You admiring me when I am still living in a good e in a peace with my wife. So I don't look another woman. But I have seen that it is just the right time to express how I feel about so to why would the now come and tell me >> it's okay ma you are in a relationship I wouldn't want to try to convince you to leave your relationship or anything sir please please please be calm sir >> so please um really sorry for inviting if we had known we would have not called you to come on the No. So I'm really sorry and give me a minute please.
well I wish you well because I did not it's not matter of no why will I be friends or angry with you I am not angry with you and I will not be angry with you and I don't anything you feel like >> break anybody heart is just the breaking heart anybody can break anybody heart How long have they be breaking men? They break men HEART EVERYWHERE. SO I IT IS WELL YOU HAVE DONE your part and everything is well. You see that is EVEN THE REASON WHY I DON'T EVEN WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH WOMAN. LET ME JUST BE ALONE AND YOU MUST okay it's okay.
>> Chief calm down be like I don't like you. I still like you but as I enter the relationship I don't feel go tell and say I don't want come again >> enjoy the relationship and eat the relation I always come to your place I know how I feel about you know but since you are okay what >> sorry chief >> I can understand about for the stress.
>> Okay.
>> Thank you, ma'am.
>> It's okay.
>> Thank you, ma'am.
>> I'm very sorry we invited you here.
>> Don't be angry with us.
>> No, there's no problem. Thank you.
>> It's okay.
>> Thank you.
>> All right. Now, I have your number. So if you want to reach out to me of course if you want >> no chief I beg no ve no >> m it's it's okay don't no don't no don't no don't no don't no don't no don't no don't no don't no don't no don't problem >> thank you all right it's okay ma'am thank you ma'am please help me open the door for her >> you don't need to be angry about this I can understand how you feel I' I've seen the way you talk to the woman probably he he did really like I be should I say loved he did really love the woman so it's so heartbroken right now >> he's late he's late he's late >> daddy it's okay no she according to what she said >> in my mind I never believe that yeah will come and hear is interested in her and this kind of thing come to play >> it's okay sir >> I'm so sorry >> such is Yes, sir.
>> That is life.
>> Okay.
>> God has a reason for it.
>> Exactly. That's that's probably you guys were not meant to be together.
>> Yes.
>> Daddy, you've seen that we've tried all our possible best. I mean, ever since I came back, we've spoken to just Okay.
Today alone, we've spoken to like three different women and none of them, all of them always seems to have a kick or something. I feel it's just high time.
I'll just um um I will just Um then you just as we stop it you can just stop it so that I will be alone. I prefer it that way. Yes. If it is just time we stop this because it is Mr. Shu that even do all this thing for the first time. So why would I continue stressing myself stressing myself and uh if you can complete what is it just time we stop it right?
>> No no no that's not what he said.
>> Uh >> yes sir. Anyway, well um I believe that um God's time is the best.
>> Yes.
>> I still believe that um >> there's a reason >> there is a reason for everything.
>> Let's keep hoping >> and believing.
>> Okay.
>> Uh someday God will give me a good woman.
>> Amen.
>> Good woman.
>> Amen. Oh, we do see >> something come to pass >> and all this will be history.
>> Hallelujah. I can't wait.
>> All right. So, thank you so much, >> Daddy. Um um we'll be off the camera right now.
So, let's just go back to the house.
>> And when we go, I think u I'll me and you will have a personal discussion. And I actually want to talk to you just you and I.
>> Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. Daddy, let me let me take you to the so rest.
>> Sorry, you've been stressed.
>> Just take him to the card.
>> Whatever you people are discussing, remember our you know what I told you about Z because all this program and whatever has even taken you off of course. Anyway, I hope that we we want to talk. Yes, sir. We want to talk.
Hi guys. You can see how everything went. It's Oh god. I don't even I don't really have a word right now, but I'm so disappointed that Chief Ezel actually liked someone and opened up. You all know how he is. He's somehow a shy person. And um according to the woman, the woman said she's been liking Chief Es when Chief Ez was still in his marriage. So, she's been giving him signs. She's been giving him green light. I overheard her say she even went ahead to sit on his lap, dance for him and all of that and Chief Es did not really notice her. And Chief Fza's reason is that he was married during that period of time. So do you think Chief Ez was wrong for doing that? To me, I think he was right and he was trying to protect his marriage. After all, he wasn't even aware of what his wife was doing. and he was not even aware that his wife was actually cheating behind his back. So as a good man that he is, he actually ignored all the signs from the woman and I give him kudos for that is a real man. So uh I think this is high time we invite Emma's mother to try to give her a try cuz who knows maybe all these signs all these are signs to to show us that we should give that woman a try. We should give her a second chance and God wants her to be given a second a second chance. So that's what I think. So, let me know what you all think in the comment section. I, you know, I I do like taking advice from you. You're back.
>> Yeah, I'm back.
>> Okay.
So, guys, do not think that your comments doesn't count. Your comments count. And at this point, this is a live show. So, we are still in the season. This video is not posted after Mr. has found love.
He hasn't still found love yet. We are still in the process. So, you're welcome back.
>> Yeah. Thank you.
>> So, what do you think about the whole thing?
>> I'm sorry, buddy.
>> Thank you.
>> Um um after this last one, my father actually it's kind of upset and he said he even told me as I was taking him to the car that he's no longer interested in everything again and all the stuff.
It just wants to be on its own.
So, um, you know, I don't I don't think he's going to be compatible with all these new persons.
>> You think you should give your mother a child?
>> Exactly. Exactly.
>> I was just saying before you walked in.
>> Okay. I think that's because my mom have been with him. I mean, they have been married before. So, >> are you sure your mom still wants him?
>> Of course. My mom text I can show you.
My mom text me every day.
>> Really?
>> Yeah. She texts me about it. He said I should just try and talk to him. You know, even shoes. Exactly. That's >> for now. So, we'll know how we go about this. So, we going to plan off the camera how we going to do it. Invite your mom to the show and invite your father as well. So, that's what we're going to do. I asked you to help me out with your mom's contact. So, are we going to get her contact or >> just go and see her so I can talk to her before bringing her on the show?
>> Um, I think I'll just we'll just drive and go and see her. Me and you. Just me and you alone. We'll go and see her then we'll talk to her about it then if she's >> so you just have to drive your dad home drive him home.
>> Thank you so much.
>> All right.
>> All right.
>> Thank you.
>> Okay. Um hold on please.
>> Um please don't go and talk to your father about your mom.
>> Yeah, of course. Of course. You know we talked about it. All right. Drive safe.
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