You CANNOT be concerned with the opinions of others🙅‍♀️ #softball #mindset #mentality

Added: 2026-06-02

[00:00:00]You cannot be concerned with what Suzie is saying in the top row of this arena about how to tame that lion. It's not my story. It's somebody else's. Theore Roosevelt actually. It's called Man in the Arena, but we're going to change it for a woman in the arena for obvious reasons. So, I want to picture you in the arena with that lion. The stands is filled with people. You cannot be concerned with what Suzie is saying in the top row of this arena about how to tame that lion. You know why? Cuz Susie would never. Sorry, Susie. Throw a name out there. They would never. So, why would I ever be concerned with what somebody else has to say about what I'm doing, especially if it's negative? I'm not. They have no idea. It's you in that arena. It's you and your teammates in that arena. It's you and your family in that arena. I'm not going to care what a stupid comment on Facebook says or Instagram or Tik Tok, whatever you guys are on right now, YouTube. I'm not going to be concerned with what they have to say negatively or what they have to say positive. Cuz guess what? My confidence can't come from what somebody else says to me, right? My self-worth is not going to come from what somebody else says to me, good or bad. Because even if it's the good stuff that's eventually going to end, then what? It's going to be hard to always be around people and want to have that expectation of not being a loser. I get it. I've been a loser before. But you hang out with people that make you better.