When Women Envy You, They Want To Take From You| Ciara And Amanda Summer House

Added: 2026-05-30

[00:00:00]Did it. You chose to do it. You kept doing it, and you were hiding it from >> who you like and who you are attracted to. That was like >> You actually can help it.

[00:00:09]But you chose the one that and you know how much You chose the one guy. And you did it on purpose cuz you're a snake, Amanda. You're a snake, which is what you are.

[00:00:17]>> That is >> You're a >> So, this is jealousy, female jealousy in a friendship. I'm excited to cover Ciara and Amanda.

[00:00:27]Um this is not only is this female jealousy, female envy, insidious behavior. When a woman is not evolved, she's going to move in an insidious way, which is why Ciara called her a snake in the grass and said that she moves silently. I always say and if a man is unevolved, he's wicked. If a woman is unevolved, she's insidious. Wickedness and insidiousness >> [music] >> uh shows up differently. When a woman is operating in that insidious, sniper-like, snake-like way, she's not going to show her friend that she resents.

[00:01:01]much signs until she can strike her in a very painful way. Another thing I want to add before I continue, this is also reactive abuse.

[00:01:10]Okay, remember I said reactive abuse is subtle. So, I am going to go behind your back as my friend and start sleeping with, having sex with, and dating your ex that I saw broke your heart. And then when you respond to me, I'm going to make you feel crazy, and I'm also going to make you feel like I'm the victim by crying and having a sob story and saying I didn't know.

[00:01:34]I hate to go there, but one thing that I've noticed about women is a lot of women you know exactly what you're doing. When you're attacking another woman, you know what you're doing. When you're a bad friend, you know what you're doing. When you're snaking a girlfriend, you know what you're doing.

[00:01:47]When you're stabbing a woman in the back, you know what you're doing. The same way I don't give men passes, I don't give women passes, either. Women are masters at reactive abuse towards other women. You throw the rock, you hide your hand, you poke the bear, you're shocked when the bear awakens.

[00:02:02]She knows it's not right to date [music] a friend's ex, but she's sitting on the couch looking like a deer caught in headlights because she doesn't want to take responsibility for doing something that is highly disrespectful, highly non-integrous, fake, phony, but again, in the land [music] of women, what is new? They do that all the time in hopes that if they cry or if they act confused enough or women, it's either confusion or tears that they use to cover up whatever behavior that they're inflicting on their victim. Sierra was the victim in this situation. Amanda was the perpetrator. Amanda is the one inflicting harm on Sierra, but again, it's reactive abuse. I'm [music] going to act confused. I just did this wild thing to you as my friend. I've been talking to your ex behind your back, but I'm going to act like I'm confused about everything that's happening [music] and a way for me to not take accountability. But guess what?

[00:03:03]The internet is forcing Amanda to take accountability. She has no, you know, passes because we can see that you did this to hurt your friend's feelings.

[00:03:14]She decided to date her friend's ex because she had to humble her friend.

[00:03:20]If you have a female friend, a girlfriend, who's jealous of y'all, she has to find a way to humble you.

[00:03:29]And that was her way of humbling Sierra.

[00:03:31]Oh, yeah? You think you're all that? Let me show you a thing or two. I'm going to have your man in my bed. I'm going to have the man that you cried to me about in my bed because I need to humble you and show you that you are not all that that you think you are.

[00:03:48]That's what happens when you have a girlfriend who sees you as competition.

[00:03:52]Now, many women are going to lie about this.

[00:03:57]Female friendship >> [snorts] >> Women were not programmed to honor, respect, love, and value other women in society.

[00:04:09]Which is why frenemy friendship is so common.

[00:04:13]We're talking about this a lot because we're talking about Ciara and Amanda.

[00:04:19]And this is causing an uproar on the internet, but we're not going to act like women don't engage in frenemy friendships. A woman could be your friend [music] for years and she doesn't like you.

[00:04:33]It's quite common.

[00:04:38]She had to humble her friend.

[00:04:41]She had secret animosity towards her friend, so I have to humble you by taking something from you.

[00:04:51]She's a narcissist. She's a cluster B personality.

[00:04:56]These are the women that I warn women to not allow in [music] your space.

[00:05:02]I have become a pro at spotting cluster B women, women who are trying to get in [music] my space when deep down inside you don't like me and you think you're going to hide and you're trying to cloak yourself by complimenting me and all that nonsense. It don't work.

[00:05:21]Because protecting yourself from women like Amanda is a survival skill.

[00:05:28]Survival of the fittest. Ciara allowed a woman who resented who she was.

[00:05:38]Not what she did.

[00:05:41]Cuz Ciara was a good friend. Who she was. A woman will not punish you for what you did. Women will punish you [music] for who you are.

[00:05:59]That's how serious this is.

[00:06:07]There's no man in this world that is in There are so many men in the earth.

[00:06:18]So out of all the guys on the earth, you fell in love with your friend's ex.

[00:06:27]Who are you kidding?

[00:06:30]This smells like jealousy.

[00:06:33]>> [snorts] >> Smells like envy.

[00:06:36]Yeah.

[00:06:37]That's what it smells like. That's exactly what it is. And it's so funny that Amanda would actually sit on that reunion couch and think that the world was not going to drag her cuz she thinks that as women we already know about this stuff. I mean, how old ARE WE? WE'RE NOT IN HIGH SCHOOL.

[00:06:54]We know when a woman does something like that to another woman, it is jealousy.

[00:06:58]It's envy.

[00:07:00]It's animosity.

[00:07:05]Now, the man is also toxic, too.

[00:07:09]Because men who are not secretly trying to get revenge [music] on a woman that they were once with, they're going to be like, "Why is this chick throwing herself at me? Aren't you cool with Ciara? I used to date her. You know, we're not together right now, but I that's nasty. Like, what are you doing? You're being messy." Like, but some men will engage in this because they, too, are jealous of the young lady. So I think Amanda and the gentleman are both jealous of Ciara. They're two cluster B personalities, and trust me, they're probably going to destroy each other.

[00:07:44]Not love, romance, or interest, it's vindictiveness, which tells me that Ciara has a very strong presence.

[00:07:52]She has a very strong energy about her.

[00:07:54]>> [music] >> Because anytime two people are bonding together to go after one person, it's because the person is powerful. She [music] inflicts a lot of jealousy. She triggers a lot of jealousy. The suburban black girl thing, I'm a suburban black girl. Suburban black girl here. Well, especially when you're a suburban black girl, people hate you so much because you're not what they expect you to be. You don't carry yourself the way they expect you to carry yourself, and it's it gets hate from all angles. But in her particular case, this woman probably felt like, "You're a little bit too polished. Let me stain you a little bit." What a heartbreak.

[00:08:33]Yeah? Yeah.

[00:08:36]Okay.

[00:08:38]So, this is female jealousy >> [music] >> at its finest.

[00:08:41]Um Amanda was jealous of Ciara, which is why she went after Ciara's [music] ex-boyfriend. Now, Amanda's going to lie. So, here's the thing.

[00:08:50]And again, if you are a sensitive woman, I don't want you to click off this video now, but I want you to click off of it right now.

[00:08:57]Because I'm going to expose uh just female behavior and how women have been operating for centuries that they lie about.

[00:09:07]Um It's not about the man that Amanda took, or I was in love with him, I fell for him, I couldn't control my feelings, I couldn't control my emotions, I couldn't control I bet you Amanda and that man are not even going to stay together.

[00:09:23]Because she doesn't like the man.

[00:09:25][music] She wanted to take something that her best friend had.

[00:09:29]Cuz she was jealous of her friend. She was envious of her friend. She needed to take something from her friend to to level out the playing fields. Now, Amanda, in my personal opinion, is a woman who's a cluster B personality.

[00:09:46]Um women a lot of times, I hate to say it, a lot of women operate you're like a snake in the grass. [music] You're full of venom and you're hiding your your head. A lot of women have a snake in the grass way of [music] being, which is why you have to vet them extensively before allowing them close to you because you need to find out what their agenda is. Because when women vi- bite, it's full of venom.

[00:10:12]Um and I think that that is what it was.

[00:10:14]Amanda wanted to break her friend. She wanted to break her friend's spirit.

[00:10:18]Why?

[00:10:19]Because Sierra would cry to Amanda about this guy.

[00:10:24]Imagine getting into a relationship with a man that your friend would cry to you about.

[00:10:30]That's the insidious nature that many women possess that they lie about. What Men are more wicked, women are more insidious.

[00:10:39]There's a difference between the two.

[00:10:41][music] When men and women are not evolved, men are wicked, women are insidious.

[00:10:47]Insidious is more kind of like poisonous.

[00:10:51]Uh it's slow. Women their attack on another woman it's it's very slow.

[00:10:59]And it's it's a lot of data collection before they bite with that venomous um fangs. Where it's like, "Yeah, oh she's cried about this guy to me. Oh, she Okay, I'm going to go after him."

[00:11:13]And when women are on that mission to destroy the friend that they're jealous of, they come with a vengeance.

[00:11:24]Right? It's like they resented you for so long that they feel like, "I have to take something that she has. I have to take something that's her.

[00:11:36]Amanda has always been jealous [music] and envious of Ciara throughout the whole friendship. Now, is there a racial component here? Absolutely.

[00:11:46]Absolutely.

[00:11:48]>> [snorts] >> I'll talk about the racial angle of the issue between Amanda and Ciara in the Bronze Babe [music] Survival Group on Patreon.

[00:11:57]Uh Ciara, it's a lot of things going on here.

[00:12:00]There is a racial component to what happened here, but I'm going to speak in general because I know that there are all races of people who are watching this video.

[00:12:07]And men, too, um can learn from this.

[00:12:15]Women's issue in life, a lot of times, it's not men. It's other women.

[00:12:22]Your issue is with other women. And until women get honest with themselves and admit that your issue is with other women, and you choose to open up those can of worms, you can begin to heal.

[00:12:37]And you can become a half-decent person.

[00:12:45]It's not about the man.

[00:12:47]Amanda doesn't care about that man that she's with. She doesn't even like him.

[00:12:53]She wanted to take something from Ciara.

[00:12:55]She wanted to hurt her friend because she had animosity towards her.

[00:13:03]Women in that insidious nature that they carry for decades, [music] well into their 70s and 80s, the desire to inflict pain on another woman.

[00:13:19]Let her go.

[00:13:21]If you can't handle being friends with her, stop the bond.

[00:13:30]The problem with women is they love power on a man, but they [music] hate it on a woman.

[00:13:37]Rarely does a woman encounter a confident, well-rounded man and [music] want to end him.

[00:13:43]But you want to end women online who are confident and powerful. You want to end your girlfriend who's confident and powerful. You want to end your daughter. Women have an issue with other women.

[00:13:58]And because I'm aware of that issue, my boundaries with women are high and the access [music] is limited because I I see it.

[00:14:08]It's There's research done on it.

[00:14:13]Phyllis Chesler Kessler has a whole book on it that they did not want her to put out because the female community would be embarrassed if their behaviors were written in a novel that's shared with the world to know how they really are behind closed [music] doors.

[00:14:32]So her So her friend essentially See, Amanda felt like she [clears throat] had to make Sierra pay for the way Sierra has made her feel throughout their friendship.

[00:14:47]So whenever it's a frenemy bond [music] and a frenemy friendship amongst two women, this is how I believe jealous women who are competing with their friends operate in female friendship.

[00:14:58]>> [snorts] >> They're always waiting for an opportunity.

[00:15:02]Right? They'll be friends with you.

[00:15:03]They'll go out with you. They'll travel with you. They'll show up to your birthday. They'll watch your children for you. They'll watch your mom for you.

[00:15:09]>> [snorts] >> They'll support you, but they're like a snake in the grass, [music] meaning they are waiting for an opportunity.

[00:15:17]Amanda's opportunity was I finally got an opportunity. Sierra and this guy, they broke up. She's always wanted him. She's always cried over him.

[00:15:28]He broke her heart. He's single now. Why don't I just align with him? Jealous women are always looking for an opportunity to screw stuff up. They don't do it when a friend is jealous of you, it's not an everyday thing. She's going to wait until it's something important or something that can really pierce your soul and that's the opportunity she's going to take. When a man is jealous of you, it's constant.

[00:15:51]Men's jealousy is like this. It's They're constantly humiliating you, constantly degrading you, constantly disrespecting you, constantly cheating on With men, it's constant.

[00:15:59]But with women, it's insidious.

[00:16:02]Meaning they will celebrate you, laugh with you, hug you, cry with you, tell you how much they love you, post you on their Instagram for your birthday, a long caption, and the minute there is an opportunity [music] for them to pierce your soul, here they are.

[00:16:17]That's the difference between wickedness >> [music] >> and someone who's insidious.

[00:16:22]A lot of men, if they're not evolved, they're wicked towards the woman they're jealous of. Meaning they're going to make every day of her life a living hell. There will not be a day under the sun that he's not triggering her nervous system. That's male jealousy. It's constant.

[00:16:40]Female jealousy in a friendship, it's insidious. [music] Meaning that woman will keep her head in the grass for as long as possible. Hugs, kisses, love, cupcakes. She'll be at your wedding. She'll be a bridesmaid.

[00:16:55][snorts] In the moment there's an opportunity for her to bite you with those venomous fangs, she will.

[00:17:05]That's why female jealousy in friendship is so tricky.

[00:17:08]Because they They are not showing their fangs all the time. It'll It'll only come out like they They will pretend for a while.

[00:17:22]Women say men pretend for a while.

[00:17:25]Every woman's discernment levels are different, but I don't believe it. I think women's desire for love from a man is so strong [music] that they will purposefully ignore the signs.

[00:17:35]So, the way that I see it is there's so many things about Ciara that Amanda is not, right?

[00:17:47]And instead of being comfortable with their differences, she felt like Ciara was probably better than her >> [music] >> in certain categories, and Ciara was probably not aware of that.

[00:18:01]So, she said, "I have to feel like me and her are on the same level. I have to figure out how can I soothe this pain that I'm feeling. Oh, I can soothe it this way."

[00:18:19]You cannot be friends with a woman who thinks you're better than her.

[00:18:26]You cannot be friends with a woman who is intrigued [music] with you.

[00:18:30]Women like that stay on the sidelines.

[00:18:32]They don't become a part of your life.

[00:18:34]That's not how it works. [music] Let them admire you from afar. They are not capable of digesting you.

[00:18:41]So, race plays a huge component here because I feel like Amanda was probably like, "Wait a minute.

[00:18:49]Wait a minute. I'm white, she's black. I have to I can't allow myself to feel small around her. Like if somebody has not deconstructed their internalized prejudice [music] or racism towards another race, you'll start to feel that way. You'll start to feel like, "Oh, wait a minute. No, no, I'm always supposed to be on top. This doesn't make sense. And then you do something and it's like, "What Why did you do that?" Like, "Why did I do that?"

[00:19:16]She's probably in her bed right now like "Why did I let it get this far?"

[00:19:24]Like "I just screwed up this friendship for what?"

[00:19:28]Because I feel like she's black and she had too much and I had to put her in her place. That's what it was. That's what it was.

[00:19:36]That's what it was.

[00:19:37]I GOT TO PUT HER IN HER PLACE.

[00:19:39]That's also where it stemmed from. I'll talk about this in the private group.

[00:19:43]But aside from that without the racial component this stuff is common.

[00:19:54]This is common. This happens amongst women all the time. The girl who's your friend, you think she's your girl, you know, you all you guys are cool. Like, this is my girl, this is my sister.

[00:20:05]And the chick sees you as a competitor the whole time. The chick is like figuring out how she can dismantle you in some way and you don't know because you don't want to believe it.

[00:20:16]This also goes to women not wanting to believe.

[00:20:19]I'm always going to believe what a woman shows me. I'm not above the program of someone's character.

[00:20:25]If somebody's character, if they're insecure and they're showing you that you're triggering their insecurity, it's your job to accept that and leave the friendship alone.

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