Should women approach men?

Hinzugefügt: 2026-05-25

[00:00:00]100 years ago, a woman might walk past a guy, find him attractive, and inadvertently drop her handkerchief in front [music] of him. He would see it, pick it up, and think this is an extraordinary opportunity to be a man.

[00:00:10]And he'd take it over to her and he'd say, "Madam, you dropped this." And they would now have a conversation. She was the one who made the move. She just made him feel like he was the one making the move. Women do make a first move by inviting men to approach them, but there is a problem with it. Even when they do, most men completely miss it. Let me ask you guys, how many times have you actually seen her make eye contact with you or give you a subtle smile, and you were too scared to approach her? Imagine women start amplifying their signals, making it obvious for you. She will do her part. How many of you will actually reciprocate? Every single dating coach says this or that. The question isn't about who should change first. The question is, are you willing to take control? It's not about reversing the dynamic, it's about becoming the man you've always meant to be. It's not the man who's waiting for her to make it safe for him. It's the man who moves first and gets what he wants. It's the man whose character is built by rejection. It's as simple as that. Ready to finally move first? DM me approach and let's build a skill.