Are your desires actually your own, or are you on a leash?

Added: 2026-05-26

[00:00:00]The lesson isn't that desire is bad.

[00:00:03]The lesson is that unconscious desire is a leash.

[00:00:07]Someone, somewhere is always willing to hold the other end.

[00:00:11]The question Machiavelli The question he never fully answered is the same question worth asking yourself tonight. Who is actually in control of your choices? So the thing is in business it's better to sell sex than to command people that sex is not really all it's meant to be.

[00:00:32]Because there's there's way of getting a good relationship but most men don't starve for a good relationship.

[00:00:38]Most men starve for the sexual aspect.

[00:00:42]So once they get that sexual aspect then they start opening their eyes to everything else. It's like when you're starving you don't give a [ __ ] what kind of food it is. You don't care about the flavor. But once you eat enough then you start caring about the flavor.

[00:00:53]And then once you get the flavor then you start caring about the actual nutrients.

[00:00:58]So I mean it's different levels to relationships and it's kind of like well you can't go to level two or three or four when you really don't know how to master one, two, and three. There are cheat codes. People do tell you but you really have to take a leap of faith in their wisdom and not experience the pleasure or the pain of of uncovering what you really need to do.