Young M.A Prefers Straight Women I CLUB SHAY SHAY

Added: 2026-06-01

[00:00:00]What's What's your favorite part of a woman?

[00:00:03]Is it the eyes? Is it the butt?

[00:00:05]Physical.

[00:00:06]>> Yes.

[00:00:09]>> Eyes.

[00:00:11]Eyes. Because you you see they soul.

[00:00:14]>> The window painter soul.

[00:00:16]>> Yeah. The eyes is is catching me. Of course, you got to be still a beautiful woman that got yourself together, but the eyes is what what pulls you in.

[00:00:23]Pulls me in first.

[00:00:24]>> Yeah. Because then if I want people to stop, oh, it's the personality. You don't know a person personality until you get to meet them. You got to be physically attracted to the person and then okay, hey, how you doing? I get an opportunity to sit down and talk to you and chat and carry on.

[00:00:37]>> You know why I say it's the odds?

[00:00:39]>> Why?

[00:00:39]>> Cuz that's how I would know if a girl is attracted to me because most women I've dated >> Yeah.

[00:00:44]>> was straight.

[00:00:45]>> Yeah.

[00:00:45]>> You see what I'm saying?

[00:00:46]>> You flipped them.

[00:00:48]>> I mean, I wouldn't say flip. See that? A lot of people get that miscon now, >> right? No, they still like men. They just have a they just attracted to me and that's it. And after me, they move back on to men.

[00:01:03]>> Damn.

[00:01:03]>> That's it.

[00:01:04]>> You know what I mean? So, a lot of people get that misconcred. Yeah. Like, but that's how I know cuz the eyes I I got to I got to see it in your eyes if you attracted to me.

[00:01:13]>> But it's not a thing where do you know before you actually say anything?

[00:01:20]>> The eyes.

[00:01:21]>> Yeah. So, it's not it's not a situation.

[00:01:25]They need to be gay or they need to be straight or X Y and Z.

[00:01:28]>> I don't I PREFER STRAIGHT.

[00:01:30]>> WHY YOU WHOA, WHOA, WHOA. BUT YOU SAY YOU WEREN'T GOING FOR THAT. YOU JUST SAYING YOU WEREN'T TRYING TO FLIP NOBODY.

[00:01:37]>> I'm not flipping them though.

[00:01:38]>> YOU FLIPPING THEM. IF THEY STRAIGHT.

[00:01:40]HOLD ON. IF they straight, they've never been with a woman.

[00:01:43]>> I'm a different type of person though.

[00:01:44]I'm not I'm not like gay rapperish type, you know? I'm just me.

[00:01:50]>> Yeah.

[00:01:50]>> Just me that loves women.

[00:01:52]>> Yeah. But happen to be gay.

[00:01:54]Yeah. All that all that's true.

[00:01:57]Everything you said is absolute truth.

[00:02:00]>> So I ain't flipping them though. I'm not >> What you doing?

[00:02:03]>> That's that's me.

[00:02:04]>> So let me ask you this. This is what do you How do you feel like you said like earlier that yeah I date and they normally straight and then they go back they might go back to him. Does that make you feel some type of way if they've been with you and then they all of a sudden they turn around and like I'm going back to a guy?

[00:02:20]>> No. Because they was with a god before me.

[00:02:24]>> Now if they was with women >> Yeah.

[00:02:26]>> and then got with me >> Yeah.

[00:02:27]>> and then went to doom and I'm the last one.

[00:02:30]>> Yeah. They going to say you ruined it.

[00:02:32]They say ruined it.

[00:02:34]>> Exactly.

[00:02:34]>> We had a good thing over here and she ruined it.

[00:02:37]>> Nah. I mean nah nah nah. I never I don't feel no way about anybody that I'm not dealing with no more.

[00:02:41]>> Really?

[00:02:42]>> Yeah. No.

[00:02:42]>> You ain't never spun the block.

[00:02:44]>> Nah.

[00:02:45]>> Damn.

[00:02:47]>> They must be a like that then. You ain't spin the block. You guys split the block at least once.

[00:02:51]>> I mean, I can't I wouldn't say it's really spun the block. It was like >> It was like still kind of fresh to break up and then we got back.

[00:02:59]>> Yeah.

[00:03:00]>> Yeah. But like to be broken up, move on.

[00:03:03]Come back. No. No. No.

[00:03:05]>> Too much time has passed for that.

[00:03:06]>> Yeah. I move on fast, too.

[00:03:08]>> Yeah. Do you?

[00:03:09]>> Yeah, man. Yeah. I'm an Aries, bro.

[00:03:13]>> Yeah.

[00:03:13]>> Y'all be on some bully, >> man. We do.

[00:03:17]You know, See, the body is you know it.

[00:03:19]You know, >> I know. I be honest. I honestly know, man. I got to admit it.

[00:03:27]>> You ever been heartbroken?

[00:03:30]>> In a relationship?

[00:03:31]>> Yeah.

[00:03:32]>> Yeah.

[00:03:33]Yeah. I can admit that. But then I move on fast. That's why it's like, yo, was I ever really heartbroken?

[00:03:41]>> Yeah. Yeah.

[00:03:41]>> Cuz I move on.

[00:03:43]>> Did you hear uh Victoria Monae? She's like, "Man, I date women, but they be doing me so bad."

[00:03:50]>> She said, "They be doing >> she like >> she said it's worse than dating them."

[00:03:53]Her exact I think her quotes was like here uh dating women has been worse than dating men. Girls do do me so dirty often more dirty than men and that women only approach her for sexual relations.

[00:04:06]>> Yeah, I don't know what she got going on.

[00:04:09]>> I be >> That sound like she got something going on.

[00:04:14]Man, you need Hey, you need to holl at her. Tell her what you know. Hey, so so what's going on? Tell me how when like when you when they approach you or when you approach them.

[00:04:22]>> My highlighter. I'mma hurt her, TOO.

[00:04:24]>> GOD DAMN.

[00:04:25]>> SHE DON'T WANT SHE DON'T WANT NO nothing over here. I'm a problem.

[00:04:28]>> You supposed to be helping.

[00:04:30]>> I'm going to make it worse.

[00:04:31]>> Oh, Lord help. Do not talk. Do not ask for any advice. She ain't got nothing for you.

[00:04:36]>> I ain't got nothing.

[00:04:38]>> Okay.

[00:04:40]So, you know what? You know the saying that's like women are more toxic. I'm starting to see that now.

[00:04:46]>> As I said across from >> it is more toxic.

[00:04:50]>> Damn.

[00:04:50]>> You going to hear one of the songs on here.

[00:04:54]>> Hello.

[00:04:55]>> You toxic.

[00:04:56]>> Yes.

[00:04:58]>> Not no more though. Not no more.

[00:05:01]>> Not no more.

[00:05:01]>> Not any less either though.

[00:05:05]>> You talking about not no more. Not even less either.

[00:05:07]>> No. Not no more. I think I think I'm still I'm still uh thorough.

[00:05:12]>> Mhm.

[00:05:13]>> I'm thorough. You know what I mean? But like toxic toxic is when you like I'm like like my energy I'm older now. So like my energy for stuff ain't like I I can't deal with it. Like it's just like I'm more like chill. Before I I turn up, you know what I mean? Like it's like nothing. I'm over here with it and I go back there with it like come here. You good. Like that that's too much to be doing now. Like I'm That ain't you no more.

[00:05:38]>> Nah, nah, no. I'm settled. I'm settled.

[00:05:40]Settled in my ways, man.

[00:05:42]>> Yeah, I'm settled.

[00:05:43]>> Uh, apologize. And karma cries. You said, "I just want to call your phone and apologize, but my pride got me colder than than some dogs. I can't cry."

[00:05:53]>> But, you know, it's tears behind my eyes. And honestly, I had a lot of truth behind them lies.

[00:06:00]>> Yeah.

[00:06:01]>> Is it hard to apologize?

[00:06:05]>> No. Definitely. If I know I'm wrong, I I'd always take accountability. I never been afraid of accountability.

[00:06:12]>> Yeah. See, you you you a guy. Women don't be want to take no accountability.

[00:06:16]>> You You know, >> that's true.

[00:06:18]>> Y take no accountability.

[00:06:19]>> Women don't. The women I've dealt with don't. Even my mama don't.

[00:06:26]>> I love you, ma.

[00:06:27]>> But um yeah, that's true.

[00:06:29]>> Why so why is it so hard for women to apologize and say I was wrong? Cuz a lot of times guys will apologize even if we're not wrong just to keep the peace and to keep it moving because you ain't going you not going to stop. So I you know what you right. You're right. I shouldn't have said that. I was well within my right to say it. I was absolutely right. But you know what?

[00:06:51]You're right.

[00:06:52]>> Cuz we be over it. Women can't get over it.

[00:06:56]>> I know I'm a woman. But I don't be feeling like it.

[00:07:00]>> I I'll be over it, man. I like Come on.

[00:07:02]I'm sorry. like we let's move on. But you know that it sting women, you know what I mean? It sting them and it's like that when they it's it's almost like a woman feel like if she if she apologizes it's like she feel like you got one over her. It's like it's some type of >> But it's okay to admit you wrong.

[00:07:23]>> It is okay.

[00:07:25]>> I don't know. I can't I don't know cuz I take accountability.

[00:07:30]You know what I mean? So >> I can't I can't I can't say what that woman feels >> right >> to even I don't know >> she feel like she right.

[00:07:38]>> Yeah.

[00:07:39]>> Even though she dead even though she dead ass >> basically. I guess >> you want to get married.

[00:07:48]>> Yeah.

[00:07:49]>> But >> but not on papers.

[00:07:53]>> You do realize you're going to have to soften your stance, right?

[00:07:56]>> What you mean? you know, uh that that shell, that exterior that you have, you gonna have to soften that up.

[00:08:06]>> And you do realize that in a relationship, you know, every day you go to bed one person, you wake up as another.

[00:08:17]>> You go to bed as a person, wake up as somebody else. She goes to bed as somebody else, wake up as someone else.

[00:08:24]Are y'all guys willing to change and adapt together?

[00:08:28]Or are you saying cuz you get this all the time. You ain't the same person that I met. Bro, I'm that I was 5 years ago.

[00:08:36]That was 10 years ago. Hell no. Nobody should be the exact same person 5 years, 10 years, 15 years as they were then. If you are, >> I would say I when I'm ready, I will.

[00:08:50]When I'm ready, but I'm not rushing it.

[00:08:54]I mean, what you waiting on?

[00:08:58]>> I don't know.

[00:09:00]>> Wait. So, you hear this a lot. I date with intent. My intent is to be with this forever person.

[00:09:11]>> Oh, you smiling.

[00:09:12]>> Nah. See, I've learned a lot with uh relationships.

[00:09:20]>> Okay.

[00:09:21]>> And you know why I say that? because I'm in a relationship uh with some with the same person that put that, you know, that video out.

[00:09:31]>> Really?

[00:09:31]>> Yes.

[00:09:33]And the conversation we had, um was needed.

[00:09:42]>> Mhm. Um, when we first got together, I was at a real bad state.

[00:09:52]>> Mhm.

[00:09:53]>> You know what I mean? Um, >> I really didn't have nobody, >> right?

[00:09:57]>> And when she came into my life, she pretty much took care of me.

[00:10:03]>> Wow.

[00:10:03]>> You know what I mean? Um, >> so this was the fan that shot you in the >> the fan >> um in the hospital.

[00:10:10]>> Yeah.

[00:10:11]>> That's the one that that you that you're with, correct? Yes.

[00:10:13]>> Okay. Okay.

[00:10:14]>> And um a lot of people, you know, >> you know, wasn't around >> Mhm.

[00:10:19]>> to see what was going on with me because I kind of secluded myself.

[00:10:24]>> Okay.

[00:10:24]>> And I was at a real low state because of the alcohol.

[00:10:27]>> Mhm.

[00:10:28]>> I was real sick.

[00:10:29]>> Mhm.

[00:10:30]>> And I didn't really know this girl for real. We met probably couple weeks before before I really got bad >> bad. Okay. And you know, she stayed around.

[00:10:42]>> You >> know, she didn't really know me. Um, she would drive 30 minutes from where she was staying at her house to my house and stay with me the whole day and she would have to take her son to school that morning and then come right back to me.

[00:10:58]>> Uh, she was cooking for me.

[00:11:00]>> She was really nurturing me, you know what I mean? I didn't I was like that was somebody I was confined in, right?

[00:11:07]>> You know what I mean? And um but she you know was she was telling me a lot like you need to stop drinking like you know what I mean like it's getting scary you know she tried to stop me but you know when you you know when you when you >> when you in it it's hard. Yeah, it's hard. You know what I mean? And um so when that situation transpired and how it happened, a lot of people don't know, you know, what led into that situation.

[00:11:33]We had, you know, I don't really like to go too much in detail because it's really like a lot of a lot of stuff people really go through this. Yes.

[00:11:41]>> It's just not >> advertised. It's not public.

[00:11:44]>> It's not public.

[00:11:45]>> You know what I mean? So, you know, this is somebody I love and I know she loved me. And um you know, since that situation when we really broke down and and we talked and cried and apologized and talked about this cuz it's a lot that came like a lot people just don't know like even with certain people that kind of stung the situation cuz you don't my my relationship is never public so nobody knows. So when they seen that it's like >> what the you know what I mean? Who this And you know, of course, that threw me off that she put it out.

[00:12:21]>> Mhm.

[00:12:22]>> Even though I was already going to kind of show that, >> but you wanted to do it on your time.

[00:12:26]>> I wanted to do it on my time. You know what I mean? And that's what bothered me. It's like, damn, you did that out of spite.

[00:12:33]>> That's not, you know what I mean? Like, >> since when was that, you know, your character?

[00:12:37]>> Mhm.

[00:12:38]>> You know what I mean? So anyway, um you know, we sat down with each other personally and um you know it was a lot of tears, a lot of you know things said that was needed and um you know we we kind of casually worked it out and you know casually dated throughout that time just to see and um >> because before that like she's you know she's really been there for me you know what I mean like she's been a good girl.

[00:13:09]She don't go out, >> you know, cheating and all the [ __ ] face all day. You know what I mean?

[00:13:13]She's really a good girl. You know what I mean? She take care of her kid, take care of mom, >> you know what I mean? So, I always held that part, >> right?

[00:13:22]>> You know, of her >> and um >> yeah, so it just got to a point where, you know, I'm older now and I try to like forgive, >> you know what I mean? Like, like I said, that having that relationship with God changed how I see people sometimes, >> you know what I mean? And um >> when we when we got through it and I prayed so much, I just felt like God was just showing me a lot >> um with who needs to be in my life and who don't. And I think this situation right here woke us both up >> because since then, uh we've been actually closer.

[00:13:58]>> Wow.

[00:13:58]>> Um we don't argue. M >> we we barely did then, >> right?

[00:14:02]>> But >> we don't argue, we don't fight, we don't >> I mean like it's I don't know like she supports me, she she nurtures me, >> she cooks, she cleans, you know what I mean? And >> that was just the balance I needed in my life at the time.

[00:14:18]>> But it was also a situation that, you know, it did with me when when that was exposed, >> you know, and it's something I do got to see often. But I've just gotten to a point in my life where I've moved on from that. And um >> I don't really see no other woman being that woman for me.

[00:14:36]>> You know what I mean? Right. You know, from from that situ even from that situation like just how the generation is now. It's like all right with this girl is like it's good. Like we we talked about it. She admitted like >> I was I was wrong. Yes.

[00:14:51]>> Super wrong. You know what I mean? So long as I got that from her, I was able to move on.

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