This analysis sharply exposes how spiritual rhetoric is weaponized to mask systematic abuse and coercive control. It is a sobering reminder that the most dangerous cages are often built with the language of faith.
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Hello guys, I'm back.
So today, this uh reaction is going to be a little hodgepodge.
It's all leaning in the same direction, but I'm going to be doing a lot of skipping around to make my point.
So, the main subject that I'm covering is narcissistic behavior and when it starts becoming cultlike behavior.
This is still for me all dealing with IG farms. And I'm going to start with supportive clips, but then I'm going to still end with IG Farms. So, I'm going to go ahead and start this here and get into it.
>> It was scared of that dude, man.
>> Did you see the Mike movie? What you think about it? I give that [ __ ] like a eight or nine out of 10. Hearing all those old songs, man. That [ __ ] had me inspired. Was Joseph just not a good businessman? Like what happened to all that Jackson 5 money? Like why did he always need them to keep going on tour? And even at the point that Thriller came out and it was the number one album out. I I don't know how they money situation, the financial situation went, but it seemed like it was pretty [ __ ] up. The funniest part of that movie to me, and I ain't saying haha funny, but is when dude when Mike told Brona that his first duty was to fire Joseph.
Think about that. Mike had a [ __ ] up childhood, Jack. Crazy >> crazy [ __ ] about that movie to me is finding out that Mike was still living at the crib with his parents when he recorded Offthe-Wall and Thriller. Not just with his parents, but his brothers was there too. His brothers and sisters, like everybody was there. It's like [ __ ] was kind of weird. All he had to do was leave. He didn't have to stay there. But that [ __ ] Joseph did to their heads had them [ __ ] up. That's crazy cuz it had me thinking. If you not careful, you will [ __ ] around and wake up one day and realize you you in a relationship with a Joe Jackson. The movie was cool.
>> Okay, so just my little tidbit on that first clip.
This is where I'm getting into the subject of why is Megan still there?
I feel like the same as what I'm showing now where we start as a society enjoying Tik Tok or YouTube shorts, Instagram. It puts us in a mindset of things happening quick and then we translate that into our natural lives and we want things to happen quick.
So in watching Megan and Tim out there, we all, this is not me pointing the finger, we all want to see her leave.
Like, what are you thinking? why are you still there?
Um, but there's a psychology, a psychosis that goes in behind that as well. So, this is what I'm setting up for today is the why. I covered the story with Tina Campbell from Mary Mary and I felt like her situation was the perfect one to highlight what it looks like when you decide to stay even though you know you now know what's going on and ultimately the man still does not choose you.
But there's a psychosis that goes with that. It's just not fighting for a marriage.
It's outside appearance. And you know, I'm not going to get ahead of myself.
I'm going to let the video unfold.
>> These are 10 signs that you are in an emotionally abusive relationship.
I do not feel safe bringing concern to him or her. When I do, I'm met with aggression, retribution, or stonewalling. Number two, we can never talk about issues without him or her becoming extremely defensive and angry.
Number three, my opinions, feelings, and choices are not respected or heard. Number five, this person becomes enraged if I question or contradict anything that they say or do. For six, they know and care very little about my likes and my dislikes, my values, my hopes and my desires. And number seven, I feel like I am always walking on eggshells. Nothing I ever do is right. Nothing meets with their approval. Subsequently, I often feel anxious when I'm around this person. I'm afraid of their disapproval.
Number nine, it's difficult to put into words what is like to be with this person and therefore I feel extremely isolated and alone. Number 10, because of all of this, I have chronic stress. I have some signs of PTSD and maybe even complex PTSD.
>> So for women, we know that our hair can get stressed out of our head. And when you talk about stress, it can mean two different things. A stress spot can be where you have worn a certain hairstyle to the point that you have stressed your hair out with the way that you're wearing it. You can have a part and if you always part it there, you can stress your hair out in that area. If you're wearing it in a ponytail and whatever hair tie you use, you can stress it out in that area. If you're wearing a hair unit with combs in it, you can stress it out in the areas where that comb is.
Those are examples of stress points in your hair to get to the physical part of it.
The stress within your body can cause your hair to come out.
All of these things that he named I know are things that we all can say that we have seen and can identify in Megan.
Everything he said, not one of them will be left out of it. So it just, you know, builds more of a foundation as to why we see a person that we know is being tortured, tormented, and has not left.
Let's go a little bit further.
Here's the biblical reason for leaving because of chronic never going to stop emotional abuse. 1 Corinthians 7:15 says Paul of course uh speaking writing but if the unbeliever departs let him depart. All right that's the part about the unbeliever leaving. All right not leaving you. A brother or sister is not underbonded in such cases. That phrase in such cases is the key. What Paul is saying is that in cases like an unbeliever leaving you which is horribly abusive. All right. In a case like that you that is a biblical reason for divorce. Now I I only go as far for a separation but if it's a biblical reason for divorce it's certainly a biblical reason for separation.
>> Real life. So tell me how long into your marriage did the abuse start?
>> The abuse started even before we married. I was so broken. You know I had very low selfworth and self-esteem that I would have done anything to make it right because I was in love and I wanted to be with him and I wanted my kids to know their dad. I was like, "Okay, well maybe I did do something wrong for him to be abusive." People ask me all the time, you know, but you stayed for 26 years. I'm like, "Yeah, but it took me so long to realize that this is abuse."
That's because he was training you to realize that it was all your fault.
>> Exactly. even >> so before she finishes I want to interject here that you know we on the outside looking in can see that it's abuse but a person that's in that situation cannot always see it and then after they start to identify it then they have to come up with an exit plan and they have to gain strength to make that exit plan happen and it's a process so like I said yesterday as long as it took for you to get in that situation may be as long as it takes for you to get out of it. Everybody's situation is different. All of us have our limit that can be met. And when we get to that straw that breaks the camel's back, I'm out of here. But when we know that we have made it to that point for ourselves does not mean that the average person will have made it there with us.
So everything happens in in everybody's own timing. And so when I cover them, I don't want any of us to start feeling anxious like, "Oh my god, I'm ready for her to leave. Why haven't she left yet?"
When the process may not be to ever save Megan, but someone else. Our hope is that she wakes up one day. But in the meantime, do we have anyone that's out there watching going through the same thing that's on the fence? What do I do? How do I do it? Is this really what's happening to me? And so keep that in mind as well that the platform being built may not just be for Megan and may not be for Megan at all. It could be for someone else. And that's why it said before that I'm cautious of what I say because I never know whose ears it may fall on. So, I don't ever want to get ahead of myself and speculate anything.
I'd like to try and keep everything factual and at face value because it's irresponsible of me not to.
I when you talk about the well-being of someone else and you can't physically put your hands on them to help them, but maybe your voice can I take that very seriously.
So, I'm going to let her finish.
>> Tell me, you're nothing without me. You know, he used to tell me you're my property. I got the receipt on the wall talking about our marriage license. But no matter how much I changed to please him, it's like the bar kept getting higher and higher and higher. And I thought, I'm never going to reach that bar. And I really started to believe what he was saying was true about me. He realized once I found myself that I would probably leave him. And so I think for him to keep me mentally unstable, to keep me.
>> So I want to rewind just a little bit of what she said because that was loaded >> to please him. It's like the bar kept getting higher and higher and higher and I thought I'm never going to reach that bar. And I really started to believe what he was saying was true about >> She says she was starting to believe what he was saying about her was true.
And that's all a part of the process that they take these women through.
Getting them to the point that they believe what they're saying and take their value away from them. Take what they know to be true about themselves away from them. And that's where she is.
That's what she's saying for herself.
We definitely see that in Megan's situation as well.
We've seen the difference in her personality, how verbal she used to be and often times did not agree with her husband. She disagreed with him more than she agreed with him. She always had her own opinion and it was not in an argumentative way, but she would state how she felt about things. And since her freedom has been taken, we don't see that side of her anymore, but we know it's there. So what has happened? He has dominated her and made her believe the things that he is telling her.
This is not speculation. He talks to her that way on camera all the time. These are things that can be proven.
>> Without me, he realized once I found myself that I would probably leave him.
And so I think for him to keep me mentally unstable, to keep me feeling worthless, to keep me thinking that I was less than, that was his way of keeping me. And here's what I've learned, peep. So that was his way of holding on to her was to make her feel less than.
We're going to get deeper into that as the video progresses, but I just want to make sure that that statement sticks out. People will praise longevity and completely ignore toxicity even in a small form, right? So they want you to just stay married forever and ever and ever even when it's just not good because people don't recognize psychological abuse. They only want to pay attention to straight up physical abuse and completely ignore psychological abuse. And the reality is, even as a successful woman who had a very strong voice publicly on stage, on television, in media, I lost my voice in my marriage.
>> And I believe that if my ex-husband was willing to be radically honest, he knows exactly how the hell we got there.
>> Yeah.
>> And that is what it is, right? And so, we've had our conversations. He's taken responsibility for some of those things.
But the idea that women should stay and this was a part of my struggle with Christianity because a lot of >> I mean you said that you was fasting praying.
>> I was fasting >> praying doing all the things and anytime I took something to a pastor or to a Christian counselor >> they would make me the problem >> because people have a problem with women who are clear >> in their convictions. They want you to act like you're confused all the time.
And once you say no, I'm clear here, >> right? And once you say, "No, I'm clear because this behavior is inconsistent, is is detrimental to us, like this is not okay." Well, you know, you just got to you got to pray that y'all.
>> So, I mentioned that again in the video I covered with Tina Campbell about a our Christian faith.
making us believe that you are supposed to stay irregardless of what's going on.
This is what the Bible says. This is what the what the Bible says.
Um and we follow things that you cannot support in scripture, but you're supporting in what has become a religious belief. This is what you're told to do. And this is where our faith can start dabbling into cultlike behavior.
If I do it this way, the way that I know I need to do it, I'm going to be ostracized by my family. My mom is going to have something to say. My dad is going to have something to say. My pastor is going to have something to say. But them having something to say, does that make them right? And no, it does not. It does not make them right because they have something to say. So that's is key. It's important to note that saying Bible being in a Christian or church setting is not all that it takes.
Is he about to kill you? Are you staying there to the point that you may end your life? Are you staying there to the point that you could be wounded in a way that you can't recover from? Or even if you can recover from it, should you have to put yourself through that? It's just it's it's multi-layered.
But we have to stay vigilant over our minds. I say this all the time, but we also have to read the Bible with clear, and I mean clear understanding. We have to. So, I'mma let her talk now.
>> Tired of people saying that the the whole rhetoric that a woman should stay in an abusive relationship if she's a Christian because the only way to get out biblically of a marriage and have legal or biblical grounding to do so is because of adultery. I do not believe on any level that God wants his people to be abused in any relationship. You'll see that when the Israelites in the Old Testament would get out of the will of God, they would then be oppressed or abused by different regimes, God because of his grace and mercy and he did not want to see his people mistreated, he would save them from those people every single time. I do not believe as a person, as a human being, that God would want someone else to use their power and control to harm one of his children. So, no, I do not believe on any level on any level that God wants his people to be abused. And if you are a Christian woman who's in an abusive relationship, I would say for you to get out >> till death do us part is a phrase I hear a lot of times when I'm talking to with people about being married to a narcissist or a toxic person. And if you're new here, I'm a narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder.
So, a lot of times when people get married to a narcissist or to a toxic person, they feel trapped uh because they they don't believe in divorce.
Divorce is not in the Bible. And I hear all kinds of all kinds of things like that. And the narcissist when you're about to leave them, they always use that line. It's till death do it part.
What happened to death do us part? We're supposed to die together, right? Through thick and thin times. Even though I know I'm putting you through all these thick times, you need to enjoy the thin times.
What does it actually mean, though? What about emotional death? Because I truly believe that you emotionally die in a toxic relationship way before your actual physical death. So the longer that you are in a toxic narcissistic marriage and whatnot, I feel like the quicker your emotional death happens. So why can't it be till emotional death do its part as opposed to your physical being having to leave the earth before you can get divorced.
>> So it's a little different and a little unconventional, but I hope this helps.
Often times being married to a narcissist is probably one of the hardest things because you're locked in.
They know that. And there's also a piece of like, okay, good. I secured this person. We're good. Now I don't have to worry about it. But then the narcissist mind is like, "But I can still go out. I can still cheat. I can still do whatever I want to do." And often times they do that. But in those relationships, it can be really, really hard to get out of.
And there's a lot of people that are working to try to get out of a toxic relationship with a narcissist with, you know, another toxic person. They realize, wait a second, they say they hate the relationship, but they're unwilling to file. They're unwilling to actually put forth the effort to make it happen. Because a lot of times if you see a narcissist file then it actually looks bad in their mind or maybe to society or maybe to their family or people around and they can't look bad because that goes against the mask that they're trying to put up saying, "Hey, I'm a good person."
>> The moment I realized that I needed to leave my narcissistic husband after 30 years of marriage was when I had to accept that he was never going to respect me. I had to accept that he was never going to see me as his equal.
And the way that I had to accept it was necessary. There was no way I was going to be able to make that decision without hitting a bottom, a rock bottom. And my rock bottom was when he had an affair with someone that we knew that was in our circle and had brought her to my house. We had been to her house and I knew her well. She knew me well and all along they were having an affair. And this blatant and now this is what Tina Campbell went through is her um soon to be ex-husband cheating on her with someone that was very close to her. So they really care nothing about your feelings. It's all about them being happy and satisfied. If you go so uh low as to have an affair with somebody that you know is my person, my friend, my uh escape route, then you really care about no parts of my life at all.
>> Level of disrespect was what I needed to make the decision. So it sucks that we have to get to that point before we realize that we can't change them. We can't fix them. We can't be a better wife. We can't be a better significant other. We are who we are. And it's just never going to be good enough. It just has to happen that way to make the toughest decision of your life. And I'm thankful that it happened to me because I am so much better off and so thankful now looking back. The feeling of what I went through was horrific, but it led me to my peace.
And you can only find peace when you get out of those type of situations. But you also have to find the courage to leave.
And it really is different for everybody. Getting to that point where you have worked up enough nerve where you feel like you have reached out to the right resources. Um Latoya Jackson because you know the the Jacksons are in everybody's faces right now. But Latoya Jackson gives a story of being in her marriage and her husband being abusive to the point that he was the one that had her out there saying all that she was saying about her family. And she had finally gotten to the point where she had enough. She couldn't take anymore.
And she was trying to think, who can I call for help? So, she called her brother Randy, which is the youngest uh sibling.
Well, Janet is the youngest, but he's the youngest uh boy. So, she called Randy and she said Randy is the type of person never answers his phone. He's known in the family for not answering his phone.
He has conversations with people about why didn't you answer your phone, but her gut kept telling her to call him and she reached out and he just so happened to answer the phone. But as she picked up the phone because her husband is still in the house with her and he was taking the time to go and take a shower.
So she felt like that was her only chance while she didn't have his prying eyes on her to do what she was going to do. And now this is back in the day. So, she said they still had the landlines in the house and they had business phones to where the uh buttons would light up to let you know the phone was in use and what line was in use. So, she was hoping that he did not see it light up because they had a phone in the bathroom. So, she's nervous about reaching out about trying, but she says she knew that if she didn't do it then that she would not make it out of their relationship. So she called her brother and successfully she was able to get out of that situation. But she had to work up the nerve to even leave. And she had been wanting to leave and was petrified of just trying to escape, just trying to help herself.
It's real and it it comes in all shapes and sizes. It can be a famous person. It can be our everyday common individual.
It's terrifying for them to try and have to get out of those situations.
So, it looks easy because we can see a map. We can see a way out for them, but it's a whole lot going on up here that has nothing to do with just an escape route. They're working through a whole lot of other stuff that has nothing to do with where I'm going to lay my head tonight when I leave.
So, we have to just be mindful like listen more for the inner voice of how can I help them out of this situation instead of putting a time frame on when they should be gone from it because we never know. It could be a family member that we don't even know is going through something like that and we could be helping them. This situation right here could help somebody help somebody else and it not ever pertain to Megan.
We're going to go on a little bit further.
If you're married to a narc, you are an unloved woman. You're never good enough.
You're not thin enough. You're not pretty enough. You're not smart enough.
You're not fill in the blank. The narc will never love you because he only loves himself. Stop trying to get the narc to love you. fruitless task, neverending task, and you'll kill yourself in the process. It's time for the narc to become an unloved man. Get my >> So, I've written this guide, um, seven steps, and to help you understand better what that means. And I' I've typed it all up. I've put it on my computer. So, I'm going to actually read off that directly because I don't want to get the words wrong because I think I've written it quite well. Um, so the number one identifier of a cult or a bad relationship is control and power, where you voluntarily give up your personal freedom and hand your control over to another person. And once they have control of your life by not letting you have access to your money, family, or friends, then the only person you have is them.
>> Did we get that? Did we get that? Her segment is not very long. So I want to make sure that her her key points hit home for carrying forward with this video.
>> A bad relationship is control and power where you voluntarily give up your personal freedom and hand.
I'm going to let her finish talking. But when we talk about giving up personal freedom, this is what I just mentioned that happened with Megan, giving up her personal freedom, which was her being able to go to work. Her freedom was not like she was um going and having dinner dates with girlfriends and, you know, going to get manicures and pedicures or even to get her hair done. She was only going to work. But can you imagine just the mental break that you get being able to do that? If the time is only your drive to work and your drive home, you're getting some time to yourself.
And then you can identify with yourself outside of the household. Like I have a job. I am Megan.
I am an executive. Well, what was she?
I can't think of what the title was, but she was admin in administration.
She can give herself titles outside of the house that helps her hold on to who she knows she is. When you take that from a person and now they're having to re uh identify with who they are and then you're constantly mentally breaking them down, it starts to create a whole mess for that person.
So personal freedom gone. And so that I I want her key points in this to hit home for us.
>> Your control over to another person. And once they have control of your life by not letting you have access to your money, family or friends, then the only person you have is them. When they don't let you have access to your money, family, friends, then you they are all that you have to depend on.
Did he not do this? He isolated her from her family. We have had one of her friends come on here and talk about what happened with them. So, we do know that it happened with friends as well.
Um, and then her money. He had her to quit her job. Now, Megan and the boys bring in income through YouTube, but Tim says it's his money.
He only says it's his money.
The video that I covered yesterday of them putting the kids in school, he said that he had not started putting into any savings. So it was good for them to for Megan to keep her job until he starts doing that. He's saying everything about YouTube is him. So he's not even giving her equal rights to that money. So he is taking her her uh finances from her.
Then she wrecked her vehicle and her insurance money went to getting him another vehicle.
He got Rooster after she had an accident in her vehicle. Her vehicle to this day hasn't been replaced.
So, this guide is to help you identify cults and bad relationships. And remember, although it may sound strange and extreme having cult and relationship in the same sentence, the techniques are very much the same. It's coercive control. So these people put themselves in a position of power and authority to control you and stop you from focusing your life anywhere else because everything is about them.
>> Everything is about them. Me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me.
Just discuss all of this this um attention getting scheme with uh getting teeth pulled. This is a me me tactic. I'm feeling like I need something. I have to shed the light on me. I keep trying to to do what the reaction channels say and that's not working. So, what can I do that would give me some pity me? I need for somebody to sympathize with me. Like, y'all y'all really don't care that I want some attention, too.
It's only going to ever be about feeling sorry for Megan. Nobody gonna ever feel sorry for me. I can't pretend to be sick and and somebody feels sorry for me.
That's what this whole season is right now. He is deep in his feelings about being told that every time he says he's a man, somebody will show him how he's not.
And he just put the icing on the cake with getting his tooth pulled.
Again, it gets no more wimpy than that.
But we're going to go on and I will be getting to that at the end of this video.
>> So, how did they do this? Number one, they separate you from your family. And >> tactic number one, they separate you from your family and friends. Now, I can remember when I first started doing reactions to them, it was a question shot around every reaction channel, not knowing why Megan does not have a close relationship with her family and waiting for her to just say anything about them.
Then Megan starts having surgery. She's having babies. We thinking her family's going to come around. They never come around. And then that's when it's like glaring at everybody. Okay, there's some type of separation here because her family has still not even come around.
She doesn't mention her family. What is going on?
So then I had a one of you all one of you all um asked me to cover the video on Megan's mother and you all found that video and and uh emailed it to me. When I covered that video was not when you asked me to cover it. I probably sat on on the that video for maybe a month, three weeks to a month that I sat on that video and didn't cover it because I wanted the timing of when I covered it to be right because at that time I was trying to still form a foundation of the dynamic that I'm seeing between them. So then when I introduce anything about her mom, it makes sense. So, I did watch the video, but I was just like, "Okay, it's not time yet." So, um, after I covered the video, I remember a lot of people saying they didn't even know that that video existed and that no one had ever seen her mom before. There were a few people that said that they remembered it, but it was very few. Very few people remembered that video. And it showed a dynamic between them, which I am going to get into in this video. It showed a dynamic of them that didn't make sense of how they can be where they are now. It just one plus one doesn't equal two with the visuals and the the distance that they have now. But this is number one. This is step number one of him creating any type of separation from you being a whole person.
>> Friends, so you are isolated and they are in control of you and your life.
They will discredit your family and say your family are bad for you, holding you back and that you shouldn't communicate with your family or share what you were doing with them. In the extremities of a cult or religion, they may ask you to live on their property or in their home, further isolating you.
>> Did y'all hear that?
She has to repeat that. She has to repeat it. She has to repeat this. It gets I mean it's scary how people who are independent of this situation will say the exact same things that are going on and this is how you know it's a personality. This is not an isolated incident. This happens commonly everywhere.
>> Communicate with your family or share what you are doing with them. In the extremities of a cult or religion, they may ask you to live on their property or in their home, further isolating you.
>> Cause you to live on their property or in their house to isolate you. When I talk about that lock gate, I am not just saying it's a lock gate. It's also a metaphor for the the um separation that he has caused from them and the world for Megan, his children, and the world. That is a barrier that he does not want penetrated.
You are not free to just come and visit us. You won't even be able to get to the door because you're locked out.
And the same for them. They can't just leave at will because this gate is locked. They cannot just get ready to go and roam around freely. They are on this compound with me until I give all of us permission to move around and do different things.
That's what that lock gate is. That um uh what do you call it? the thumbnail that I did uh earlier this morning with that lock gate.
That was for a reason because that lock gate means so many things.
Not just let's protect Emma. Let's protect us while we're sleeping. No. Who can we keep out? Who can I keep at bay?
Who do I need to understand that even if you have my address, you'll never get on this property to say something to her and I don't know about it. She'll never run out in the middle of the night in one of these vehicles and I don't know about it.
So, it's gone.
>> Number two, they will control your money, limiting your options so you can't leave.
They will control your money limiting your options so that you cannot leave.
That is the sole purpose of controlling the finances. You have nothing that you can leave with.
Now you are dealing with somebody who is mentally being broken down.
They have no support system, no family, no friends, and then you are talking to them and treating them like scum of the earth.
These are a lot of things that are happening all at the same time that's just steadily breaking somebody down, steadily breaking them down, just cutting away at who they are. And we've watched it. We've been verbal about it.
We've talked about it the entire time.
We've gone back and seen old things. And we've seen current things all equaling up to the same thing. Breaking her down, keeping her the person that he wants her to be only, only only for his ego.
That's it. All of this is just for his ego. There is no greater good than that.
They'll control your spending and or dictate where you spend your money or they will have you spend all your money on them.
Number three, they will convince you that you have an emotional trauma, usually around your family, which they >> we're about to get into that, but they will convince you that you have a trauma.
They will convince you that you have a trauma.
Now, he he kind of said it yesterday when he was talking about God uh told him not to put people in uh certain uh places that they weren't ready for.
Like somebody made him, somebody gave him authority like he knows something that other people don't know. Like something about him makes it magical when he appoints you to a position and that God told him, "Don't do it to nobody that's not ready, that's not worthy." That's what he said yesterday. We're going to get into that.
>> They tell you is holding you back and they are the only ones who can help you.
Number four, their way is the only way.
There is no other way according to them.
Number five, they won't respect your opinion or allow you to have a voice.
>> Do not respect your opinion or allow you to have a voice. How many times yesterday did Megan say she could not handle that? And he kept going back to they're going to be homeschooled, but they can always be homeschooled.
He didn't care about her opinion.
Nothing that she said. I don't care how you feel. I don't care that you're telling me what you can't do. I'm telling you what you're going to do.
that he has. He doesn't care.
It don't matter. She was She could get no more matter of fact with him than she did and he did not care. He just didn't.
He let her have her say and wouldn't even let her halfway finish her sentence before he was writing behind her. But this is how it's going to be.
Doesn't respect her opinion. And we see that I'm I'm keep going back to yesterday's conversation, but that's definitely not the only time. We know that >> they will talk over you and dominate you until you give up and you don't bother speaking your truth anymore. Number six, they will use fear as a form of control.
They will make you afraid that if you don't listen to them and do as they say, bad things will happen to you. You may get sick. You may go to hell. You may lose your family, your security, your privacy, or the world may come to an end. Number seven, they will create rules and rituals for you to follow, usually based around fear.
So, those are the steps that I've put together as a guide to help you hopefully identify whether or not you are in a cult or a bad relationship in a coercive control situation.
Okay, so that was the first one. Now, where's the next one? Right here.
>> Families never receive a bill from St. Jude for treatment.
>> So, we doing a little hopscotch, but hopefully my point is made >> to be the church and to walk and pray.
And that's something that we art.
>> The Lord called us to go to different churches and to train them in the art of evangelism.
And when I hear evangelism, all I can think of is preachers.
I'm trying to remember. I think I need to go back some. I'm not going to cover all of this video. Not even close to all of it. I'm just trying to make a point.
video which the Lord did not challenge her. He asked her to do this >> but I think it's important and I think okay this is for the ones who don't know this is a video of Megan supposedly um he has her repenting.
She's supposed to be repenting in this video, but she's not repenting to God.
She's repenting to her God, which is Tim.
And hopefully I can find the clip after this to prove what I'm saying. Um, but I'm going to let Megan talk.
details about me that don't make me look good. And um that's hard, but I think it's important and I think it's something that Jesus wants me to do. So, I'm going to do the hard thing for me for once in my life and I'm going to come.
>> So, she's saying that she's having to tell things about herself that don't make her look good. Her husband has her doing this. He wants to break her down.
Everything that we just watched, that's what this is in the process of doing, breaking her down. And he's doing it before everybody. And he's disguising it to be one thing. But when you have vision and can really see what's going on, you know that she is not repenting to God in this video.
is to tear her down, to make her question her beliefs because he keeps saying that God talks to him for them.
So, he's making her feel like and think she crazy like, "Well, God told me something different, but maybe I'm hearing wrong." But for Megan to be h as vocal as she was and to get to this point, I can only imagine what happens off camera to get a person there.
So, I don't want us to look at this and think that she got to this point by something we've seen.
So, go ahead and go on with this.
And if you read my blog, if you subscribe to my blog, you already know what I'm talking about. I share it there. But I want So even though this is her video, we know who does the editing.
So he added a lot of cliff notes in this video. So here he's saying, I'll put a link to Megan's blog in the comment section, which we know doesn't exist anymore. So this was back then and description box. Megan is a writer and is more comfortable writing her thoughts, but the Lord challenged her to share what she had written in this video, which the Lord did not challenge her. He asked her to do this after she did her blog.
want to share here on um the IG Farms YouTube channel because um y'all need to know and not just y'all need to know but I need to be real for myself so that the weight of sin and so that the weight of this image that I have been trying to put out there is like no longer on my shoulders anymore. So, >> and I want to say back then their comment section was still open. So, she wasn't putting a image out there like um she was Miss Goody Two Shoes.
People watching were falling in love with Megan and they would leave so many different comments praising her. at the same time is this is when he's starting to really get um fussed.
So, I feel like he had her do this video to bring her down a couple notches because she was getting too many praises on his channel. Meanwhile, he's getting uh fussed.
I can just put that at Jesus's feet and get rid of it. So, I have kind of like talked not I haven't talked about it.
I've like alluded to it or mentioned that in past seasons I was disobedient.
I've never gone into detail. Um, some of these things I've never said out loud and I want to say I can't continue to carry around this weight anymore.
And the the tone of voice that we're hearing from Megan in this video is not a sad tone. This is exhausted and she has a lot of battles in herself right now because she is fighting what she knows to be true and what he is trying to teach her to be true. This is an exhausted person right here. She is mentally exhausted and I can imagine he rode her to the point that she made this video.
>> A lot of people who did ministry with us in the past season don't know this, but um I just have to be honest. So, I'm just going to get to it now. Um in our past season of in our past season of ministry, I was disobedient. The Lord called us to go into the four walls of the churches and to encourage people to come out of the walls and to be the church and to walk and pray. And that's something that we are the Lord called us to go to different churches and to train them in the art of evangelism.
And when I hear evangelism, all I can think of is preachers with tents doing revival as a go forward a little bit because this is not what I want to >> join >> the churches in order.
>> We ended up working with hundreds of different churches and outside of the four walls and take territory in the wrong place. Like I was concerned about what people would think of me if I was joining multiple churches and joining more than one church. And I thought like I just had this religious strong hope.
We are not just joining churches. We are serving at different churches to help them with the vision that the Lord has given us.
Now he said we are not just which means that they were joining them but that's not all that they were doing. But just in a few more join these churches.
>> We had a home church where I was licensed and ordained. But the blessings and understanding of those we served under, God gave us an assignment to reach out and train other churches.
>> Isn't I was trying to come out of like this religious stronghold, but in actuality, I was more >> question.
How is a person that is fresh out of prison being called to train other people that have been doing this longer than he has been?
>> How just how >> where does his expertise come from?
Just a question. attaching myself to the religious stronghold because I regarded that as something, you know, like a one time thing because of just the mindset that I had in my she's serving and doing what she feels the Lord has led her to do. Then you have someone in your ear telling you you're not hearing right. That can't be what he told you to do because he told me that this is what we we are supposed to be doing.
Whatever you're hearing is wrong. So now she has an inner conflict and she's giving us this testimony now like she's overcome that. But you can hear in her tone she still is conflicted by it still to to this day at this moment right here. We we will never know again because you know he limits what she can say now. But here where she had free reign to talk and then he just felt like putting those little cliff notes in there that we would see what he said and disregard what she said because he's constantly correcting her like don't believe what she said. This is actually what it was. Who do we believe? Yeah. He had her up there talking, but for every purple card that I was reading, he was either saying the opposite or overexlaining into his detail what she meant by what she was saying. So, she's supposed to be repenting. This is supposed to be her repentance slash testimony, yet still he has his comments all through it. This is not Megan's comments. This is Tim talking on top of what she has to say. Like he wants it still to be seen from his point of view. I don't care what came out of her mouth. This is actually what she meant by that. That's what those purple cards are that keep popping up.
Him editing himself into what he calls is her repenting.
I was worried about pleasing God and how God would uh want me to do or what he would want me to do or just the strategy that God was giving us to take down um to take spiritual territory in churches.
I was more worried about like I don't know like this law of made up of like not joining multiple churches. I don't even know how to explain it. It sounds crazy.
We were serving a multitude of churches, not joining a multitude of churches, even though he just told us he was joining them, but that's just not all that they were doing.
you know when I talk about it now. So I just I cannot make sense of it about what he feels led to do and that's why she's having this inner conflict that she keeps talking about.
>> You found the right one.
>> So I'm going to end that one there and go to this one.
And this is just going to be a little bit >> gives you a break to keep you covered.
>> Yeah. Whether it's on your >> This is going to be a little bit of this one.
And then I have around two more that I want to uh get into. The last one being what he put out today.
argument years earlier about you feeling away about her writing.
This is just a little segment of this like little notes or whatever, but we can go forward. Um, but I'm going to start here with Megan.
Um Tim and I were like almost a little bit joking around about how I wrote on his prayers, but y'all I did that. And I did it because he was praying for me to be strong. And I would So here she's talking about some prayers that he had written out and she wrote all over them, like little notes or whatever. But she was upset that his prayer was for her to become strong.
And she >> Now, what kind of prayer is that? Before I even let me finish talking, what kind of prayer is that? He's writing out prayers and his prayers have nothing to do with him. He's praying to God for for Megan and then leaves it out for her to see. His prayer is that he needs no correction but my wife does.
How can you do this for my wife? I need no correction.
What type of person and personality does that? Who says God and feels like they are above God correcting them? But I tell you what you can do for my wife. I don't I don't need nothing from you. You know I got this. I'm perfect. But I tell you what you can do for my wife.
She feels like she's strong. She knows she's strong. So why are you writing this out? And to me, if you're It's your prayer and she sees it. You left it out for her to see it on purpose. So you wanted to break her down, make her feel a certain type of way about how you feel, how you view your wife. But nonetheless, she's upset >> about this. But here we are watching her confession, her repentance, her testimony, because they call it multiple things. But we're watching this and he has written all over it from beginning to end. There's a purple card explaining this, explaining this, explaining this. But this is her her video, her repentance, and he has written all over it. So, isn't it ironic that you made her feel a certain way about something years ago, and then here you are today, no wiser than you said she was then to be doing the exact same thing. It's no different. He asked her to make this video. Then he turns around and gives a rebuttal for everything that she had to say when it has something to do with him.
But this is her repentance, her testimony. Yet and still you're writing all over it. And y'all had an argument years earlier about you feeling away about her writing on your things.
So clearly he does. He never sees himself as um wrong.
Clearly >> is so angry that he didn't already see me as strong. So proud that >> and she's saying she was angry that Tim didn't already see her as strong and and that was her issue with it. But he knew that and that's why he did what he did because he knew that. He knew it would get under her skin. Then he turns around and has a problem with her reacting to it. But that's what he wanted her to do.
She played right into his hand.
>> Get past this. That was a a This is what my part two was finishing Megan's video and then getting to the point where >> when eyes feel dry relief should >> where he took over and gave his rebuttal for what she had to say. Um so I'm trying to get to that part of it where he comes in and that's just going to be a brief uh minute of him talking and then I'm getting to the next two.
But he did what he did on purpose and got the reaction he wanted. All of this is him breaking her down. Like he's playing with her mind and he's literally winning. This video of us watching her go through what she's going through right here is him winning.
We watched in real time him break her down like he did. Now, we did not see all the behind the scenes tactics, but we have seen him break her down.
That's what all of this is. So, for him to ever act like somebody's hating on him instead of just being observant, that's what lets you know that that he's not the swiftest person. He's showing us everything wants to see is being birthed.
Um, and this this is why I feel like she gets um the criticism that she gets now from uh different directions because he's birthing what he wants her to be as opposed to who she is at the core. She's going along with what he wants.
So now she's a mirror image of him.
We see him in her. So now she's being attacked as well. She wasn't being attacked here, but she's being attacked now because she's definitely mirroring him.
He's building her into what he wants her to be. And he only knows how to be himself. So he's duplicating himself.
Duplicating himself. you know, um, a lot of people will say that imitation is the highest form of flattery, you know, copying what somebody does. Um, so him copying what he does and and tagging it on to Megan, you know, he could consider that flattery. But for me, I've always said it's the lack of a personality. You have no personality if you feel like you have to um copy somebody.
And we definitely know that that would fit a description for him. Lack of a personality. He doesn't know who he is as a person.
So, let me move forward just a little bit to him. That's still Megan. Still Megan.
The biggest part of the video was was Megan. The the first one and this one.
His wasn't as long.
>> Church, the body of Christ, not the building, but the people. He just showed me the building as a physical example so that I can know what he was talking about. But he showed me the church, the building or or or the church, not the building, the people. And he said that we were being restricted or restrained.
And he said that he wanted us to be sick and free. A and what he meant is >> can't listen to that. I hopefully we just look up on what I wanted us to hear cuz him trying to give any type of preachable, I'm not going to be able to answer that >> in this video.
>> And you want me to get on board with it?
That's really all that's happening.
Not >> let me see if I can back up what I'm saying.
>> Gospel, you know, bring life and life more abundant, you know, and come against the death that that the enemy, you know, because the enemy's desire is to kill, steal, and destroy. But the Lord wants to give life and life more abundantly. And the Lord uses uses his desires to use the church as that vessel that carries out that abundant life or that manifest that abundant life here on earth. you know, to carries out his will. And so during that time, >> I'm getting mad at myself like press pause cuz I'm tired of hearing Tim >> because that's how God sets it up, which is so untrue because the first thing that >> I'm missing it cuz I want him to shut up.
>> The revelation she didn't quite understand, you know, the revelation at that point and she didn't need to understand it.
>> She didn't understand the revelation at that point. She didn't need to understand. See, he's thinking everything has to come through him. And he is less studied in the word than she is. He's a baby Christian. When we talk about a baby Christian, he's like he still has afterbirth. That's how fresh he is in it.
But he has all all the base in his voice to say, but she didn't have to understand it. Like he know what he's talking about. The person who still to this day mis misquote scriptures. The person who still does not open their Bible.
Oh, >> you know what I'm saying? Because >> this is why I couldn't play all of this because he'll get me going.
I can't do it today. So, I just got to hit on this point and and get on up out of this video.
>> That's how God sets it up. You know, Adam, God spoke to Adam.
So she didn't need to understand it because that's how God sets it up. Which is so untrue because the first thing that he is not is the Arthur of confusion. We all know that. So he definitely wants you to understand a mission that he's sending you on.
But when he's not talking to you, no, you don't hear it.
And yeah, you're going to have to beat this into my head because this is what you supposedly are hearing and you want me to get on board with it.
That's really all that's happening.
>> That's all.
>> Now, he's talking to us. But now, let me set up this lie using the Bible. So, let's get into misusing God's word.
Okay. So, that's all I wanted to show for that one. Then I'm going to get into this one. And then I have the one from today. And it's just going to be a piece of that one, too. This is her baby.
And she is in love.
>> This is all I'm going to show of this part of >> we ain't got nothing. Now this is musty TV here. We wouldn't be here without y'all.
Now, it's hard to tell because I couldn't pause it in time, but it's just like the camera dipped just a little and it looks like they are holding hands.
This is her baby and she is in love with her mom and it's odd to see them so loving and then they're nowhere to be found right now. Um, you know, if you live in different cities, of course it's not somebody that you're going to see every day, maybe not even once a year because it's just hard sometimes to get away. But for the birth of an unexpected child and for a surgery, you would think that this type of relationship would have them showing up, but no. and Megan. There's a joy inside of her right here that we don't see anymore. She smiles, but this is a happy person right here. This woman has joy.
She still has her family in her life at this point. She feels whole.
You know, she doesn't feel like anything is missing. She feels like everything is right with the world. Even if she and her husband argue, that's what married people go through. But I still still have my other support system, right?
She looks healthier.
It's hard to tell right here, but her hairline looks different. I do remember when she used to wear her hair like this. And um to get it up like that suggest that her hair was longer than what it is now. All of that to say that her stresses were not what you've been seeing. Her health, her body looks different. Like it's rested and it's just full of life.
You know, he said that the hernia came after was it Noah?
So, she had the hernia here, but physically we don't see it because her body is just is not being forced to do things that she couldn't handle. She's not doing 50 lb bails of hay right here or however much hay weighs cuz I don't even know. So, however much a bail of hay weighs, she's not having to do that. This body has not done that yet repeatedly.
So this is just very interesting to see that people that care about you so much are not there.
But this is a beautiful relationship right here.
>> You got anything to say? Anything encouraging, mama? To the to the YouTube world? We got about 4,000 people that that's watching this video right now. So you got anything to say to encourage them?
>> It's all about God.
>> That's right. That sums it all up.
first and only time we've ever seen their dynamic. And if y'all can read energies, then you read everything right there.
That exchange was brief and powerful at the same time.
When I was married and when my ex-husband would say anything to my mom, it was like a regular conversation.
Hers was brief and it said absolutely nothing. She said, "It's all about God." She repeated back to him what he says to everybody.
She had no conversation for him. She didn't even answer his question.
She said something, but she didn't answer his question.
Uh, he wanted her to have conversation with the camera.
She said, "It's all about God. She's done with it." Like, it's a wrap. You know, I don't I don't fool with you. And I was not even getting into that part of it. My whole point was to just show the dynamic between Megan and her mom because you can see the love.
These are not people that don't get along. These are not people who are into it with each other. Um they are acting like people who always act like this.
We can tell that this is not staged or forced.
You know, even when I look at the the dynamic between Tim and his mom is strained, which I can only imagine dealing with that child, but it's strained. But for Megan and her mom, no, it was very easygoing.
And so that's what this entire video is to show and encompass is how you can take somebody who's looking and acting like she is right here. And I will rewind this just a little just so you can see.
Stressfree Megan. Megan who has a support system. Megan whose mother is still in her life. Megan whose sister is still in her life. Megan whose niece is still in her life. Megan who still has a full-time job. Megan who has an outlet outside of her husband and her children.
A wellrounded Megan. a Megan who is still able to get to a church and share the word with people who are knowledgeable.
This is who we're seeing in this video.
And this person is so far removed from who we see now. This video is so key to seeing who the the closest glimpse we'll get of who she really is and not who he has turned her into. And if you were ever that person, then that person always resides within you always. So, she's still in there, but it's the getting that person back out of there.
And what will it take to get that person back out of there? But I'm going to rewind this just a little, not very much because I'm going to get into this last just a segment of the video from today.
I'm not even covering all of that either.
So, this is just very interesting to hopefully I have a different type of AC system in my new place.
The AC be acing.
Somebody in the video I did yesterday said, "Girl, turn that air off." I promise I understand. It's cold here today. It was hot yesterday. Like polar opposites of of uh yesterday and today, but it was hot yesterday. So, unfortunately, I couldn't turn it off.
They may be saying some I told you so moments.
I'm trying to get to I don't care for you too much. That's just the vibe I'm getting. The sister doesn't say a whole lot.
Um, and I think Tim knows to leave her alone, but he's being him.
Like when you watch it, you just see a very easy relationship. Nothing for.
Yeah, this was the part that I wanted to get to. Not necessarily what I'm saying, but just, you know, the love that they're sharing between them.
Interesting that she's never been put in front of this camera before.
So, this is a whole new situation to them. And to my knowledge, this is the first and last time that we see them on camera. So, she's doing what she has to do because she's already been put in that situation. He's asking her as he's already doing it. So, even if she says no, he's already done it. Like, what's the point in the question, sir?
You're already doing it. But any person with class is going to address it with class. And so, you know, without her getting too irritated or, you know, making him take her out of character, she just, you know, answers to the best of her ability.
>> That's right. This >> That's right. This is Megan's mom right here.
>> Okay. So, look at Megan.
First of all, she does look identical to her mom. That's that's a fact. But look at how happy she is. This does not look like a fake relationship. It doesn't look forced. It doesn't look like, you know, all families have some type of little issue, whatever it may be. But it just looks like they just get a lot like this is mama. This is my heart. This is She's been everything to me. She raised me right. She kept me in church. You can see the God in Megan. You can see the God in her through their relationship with each other. It's just there. It's not being forced at all. Her mom is out in the middle of nowhere to come visit her daughter and check on her daughter.
Can y'all just see the inner joy in Megan? It's just it's beaming out. That is a smile. Smile.
She is in her happy place.
Her mom is there. Her mom is in her presence.
Her mom has been invited into her world.
That's everything for her.
She didn't have to go see her mom. Her mom came to see her in her environment.
And she is just beaming. She is so happy. like my mom is here. My mom is where I am. I didn't have to go to where my mom is. My mom is where I am. So, not only is it showing love, you know, by her mom is extending this to come to where she is, but it's also allowing us just to see that the dynamic between them. This is Megan. This is Megan, not what we see now. This is Megan. This is who she was raised to be. This is who she was the majority of her life. She was single at this point longer than she's been married. Now, we creeping up on on, you know, it not being that way.
But up to this point, she still was single longer. So, she was this person longer than she's been who we see now.
And even in that him browbeating her into this this version that we see of her, it's still we're only like three years into that. So it's still very fresh compared to her being used to being a warmhearted, happy golucky person that can speak her mind and live out her dreams. You know, Megan has been out of the country. She was able to live out some dreams.
So, she remembers those things. It's in there. But how easy is it for her to get back to being that person? How stuck does she feel right now? And those are, you know, legitimate questions because he has taken her through a lot. And the first thing he took her through was removing this out of her life. He has removed this from her.
Megan's mom is still physically alive, but it has to feel like a death when you don't have access to them.
So, that's it for this. I'm going to go ahead and cover this last foolishness from today that I caught a glimpse of as I was about to record. So, I'm just adding this on because I was making this video.
You know, it may line up, it may not, but that's why it's going to be in >> this May. Renewal by Anderson wants to give you a heap.
>> I don't want to do a full video of it.
So, I'm just going to, you know, add in a little bit of it and we're going to get up on out of here because um I heard him saying something about Lord, I can't remember. I know it had to do with his his mouth. I can't remember what he said anymore.
What did he say?
I can't remember.
That's how much attention I paid. I just like, okay, I just, you know, add this to the end of what I'm about to do because I'm not going to do a full video about Tim and his foolishness with his mouth. It's just not It's not worth the time of day. So, you'll get some the ending credits.
He's going to get the outro.
We almost up out of here. And we'll mention you being a wimp again. Like he he clearly is on the me me. He's on me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me. So we going to give you you you you all these darn commercials. Lord, what's going on A farm family? Welcome to another episode of I AG episode trailers and bonus footage. And I'm back. At least I'm I'm kind of back. I'm almost there. I'm still kind of nursing the uh my my jaws and my head and everything after uh my dental surgery, but I've been slowly working my way back into Farm Projects. Little like Farm Projects. We did a fun family farm day yesterday.
Big greasy nasty self talking about easing his way into anything from his mouth.
If he was used to brushing his teeth, he wouldn't even uh be all all feeling some type of way about somebody going in there like his mouth is not used to activity at all. So that's why it's a big deal for him. What? Something touched my tongue other than spit >> and y'all will see that coming in coming videos. But uh I even doing just a light day of work, I had to like cut the day short because I started feeling so much pressure and I actually had a setback in after my surgery because I was feeling a lot of pain and I had a tooth pull before and it wasn't that bad and I was like cuz it it only took like 3 days before I was like back at it and like really that same day I was on it and I didn't have to take any pain like half strength pain medicine or anything like that. But when I had when I had these three teeth pulled, and the one I had pulled before was one of my wisdom teeth, as y'all saw on the video where we explained that. And I had the final three of my wisdom teeth pulled like uh in in in in the in the last video as y'all saw. And uh it >> one of y'all one of y'all like I can't remember if y'all say does he have wisdom teeth or y'all say it wasn't wisdom teeth, it was just teeth cuz he don't have any wisdom.
And I'm with you on that. Oh, I'm with you on that.
>> It was hurting so bad and I was trying to figure out what it was. And I remember the uh the the surgeon telling me to really like uh uh favor or baby this side because he had to put stitches in and the tooth wouldn't come out. So, he had to Didn't Tim say this was a 20 minute procedure?
The stuff that he's starting to describe would go into more time than that.
Stitches.
You saying you had three teeth extracted and stitches in 20 minutes?
We starting to get into tall tails now.
He might as well start talking about uh Jack and the Beantock.
This just it sounds make make believe.
It's growing now. stitches that fast.
Yank yank yank and stitches in 20 minutes.
Okay, going to let him keep lying.
>> Grind some of the jawbone off and uh some of the root broke off. He pul he he thought he was going to be able to pull the teeth like just straight up. He thought it was going to be quick cuz if he knew that he was going to have to do everything he knew if he knew he was going to have to do everything that he did, he would have put me to sleep. But the teeth wouldn't just pull and so he was trying to pull them trying to pull them but they wouldn't pull. So he had to like drill them and uh cut them in half. And then you know you Okay. So now we have gone from pulling teeth to grinding teeth. So now a whole new instrument has had to be pulled out. My loud neighbor.
A whole new instrument has had to be pulled out.
This is Did Did they not say 20 minutes, y'all? They did tell us 20 minutes, right? I haven't heard anywhere where that changed, but what has been done is growing. He's adding more and more steps, y'all, into this 20 minutes.
So, he couldn't just pull.
Stuff was tangled up in there. He had to grind. Then, he got stitches. But, he was out in 20 minutes.
just repeating. I really don't have a lot to say to this. Like, you know, I'm just reporting on the latest.
>> They just come out. But he said they still didn't come out. And so, one of them actually when he was pulling one side out, the root broke off. So, he had to go in there and get it and drill the the uh jawbone away from the root. And this is the boy who cried wolf.
This procedure just keeps growing, y'all. Y'all hear it, right? I think he's coming up with this stuff as he talks like right here in the moment.
Have to be.
And he had to and and and he had to and that didn't work. So, he had to And then he had to 20 minutes. 20 minutes.
20 minutes is what he said. This took 20. He'll never be able to back up off that lie.
Just remember, for every step he adds, he still told us it took 20 minutes and he cannot back up off that lie. That's in history now.
Okay.
>> Uh cut the gums and all type of things like that. And I ended up having to have stitches over in this side right here.
Well, the first thing that happened is the stitches fell out. like not uh they they fell out and the meat that the stitches were attached to fell out as well. So, usually you have like a little Okay, so the next thing that I'm going to cover, well, I can't think of what it's called right now, so I won't even have to look up what it's called. But let me write down what I want to cover next.
where like there a blood clot can develop and it helps to protect your uh your nerves and it helps to cover the uh the jawbone after the the extraction has happened and uh they call it if that that blood [ __ ] clock comes out it's called dry root or yeah dry dry socket it's called dry socket and so I was having all this pain all this pain and I knew that the stitches had came out a little bit too early and some of the meat that the stitches were attached to came out so the stitches and other words, didn't didn't attach properly.
And so I knew that, but then I was having all this pain and then I started reading up on it reading up on it and I realized I had dry socket. And so not only did I have the dry socket and it caused me to have extreme pain, I'm talking about rad.
So what he has done is taken this opportunity to explain why he has needed a week off from a tooth procedure.
That's what he's doing. He is Jack and the bean stalking this story to the point that see this is why I needed a week off. It wasn't just cuz I had a tooth pulled. You see this happened and then that happened and then this happened. Y'all see how it end up being a week? Y'all see how I needed a week? I know I didn't give my wife that, but can y'all see why I needed one?
Let me see what else can I add to this slide real quick. I need for them to believe me. I need for this to work.
Now, this was supposed to give me some brownie points. How can I pull this back around? Oh, yeah. Okay. I'll say that they need to grind the two up. Oh, did I get a stitch? Yeah, I got a stitch.
Guess what, though? The stitch came out, too. All this is in 20 minutes. But this is why I needed a week off, y'all. Can you see why I needed a week off, boy?
getting pain in my head and the temple and everything like all down my back, neck, all down my throat. Like it was just I'm talking about just radiating.
>> Yet again, his wife his wife was still split in two while she was standing up there before him.
Still split in two.
Still just midsection just cut in half.
And he made her stand up.
And he talking about his head.
His head.
His head. He had a head ache. And his wife was split in two.
And do I believe anything he saying right now? Not one word.
Why? Because for every video that Megan made that that he was supposed to be resting on, you can see him somewhere.
You see him being like uh Loch Ness Monster just in the shadows, peeking around corners like they doing what I told them to do? Am I staying out the camera? No, we still saw you. You did not stay out of the camera, sir.
When I told you that this is Peter Pan and the Lost Boys when he loves to be in make believe, he's still there. Now, this goes all the way back which he shows that clip earlier. I'm not going back to it of him and the pet alligator make believe. He's still doing it now and he thinks that somebody's buying this. Tim is trying to make up an excuse for why he was off for a week for a tooth.
Wimpy. Just wimpy and a liar. A wimpy liar. and likeoo like like because I I I've had >> so if his nasty mouth was doing that, what does he think about his wife's abdomen after Benjamin and after her uh surgery?
What does he think?
How does he think that was feeling?
Boy, don't nobody feel sorry for you in that nasty mouth. Nobody. You still did not.
Oh, you you just keep making it worse.
If you never understand anything else, I want you to understand everybody is not dumb. And I'm going to leave that statement right there and and go on. Let you keep talking.
>> Migraine uh issues my whole life. And so I know how to deal with a migraine, but this wasn't a regular migraine. And so it was just radiating pain. No matter what I would do, no matter how much medicine I would take, it would just be woo woo woo. I would just feel that pain like my head was going to explode and figure that I had dry socket. And so the stitches fell out and and and they didn't attach properly to the the the the gum tissue like they were supposed to. So that gum tissue just fell out.
And then I developed dry socket and it was on my intense pain. And then after the dry socket, I actually had an infection in that area where that tooth was at. And so it took my recovery time from being three to five days or five to seven days to being more like 10 to 14 days. And uh I'm I'm right in the midst of that recovery time now. But uh one thing that I did learn during this this uh this I guess it's almost like a sickness. But after this surgery is that God's strength is made perfect in our weakness. His grace is sufficient towards us. And it reminds me of what Paul said because Paul had some type of ailment. We don't know because he didn't uh specifically say what that ailment was, but he said that he pleaded with the Lord three times. And he says the Lord decided not to take that that thing away from Paul and to use that thing as a messenger of Satan to buffet his flesh is what Paul his words were. And so Paul had this abundance of revelation.
He sound like he trying to preach and I can't do that. So, let's get on towards something else.
>> It's your will. Let this cup pass from me. But not my will.
>> Always that are made by the government.
The systems that are made and established that we've been >> okay. You still trying >> because we know that we're not relying on self because if we're relying on us, we're going to be in bad shape. But we're relying on God. you know, it's some other area that will throw something off in your life. And in Paul's situation, it was his humility become prideful and that he allowed that that God allowed that thing to continue to tear with him so that he wouldn't >> I'm sorry y'all can't do it >> on a property like I'm an asset and I'm not interested in being a liability and so I'm used to being an asset and and >> still scratching that armpit. Go take a darn shower. Nasty >> nap. Lay down because I can feel that pressure starting to come back. And so that I usually have like I just I'm just walking down to the pond right now just talking and doing this video right now.
Like I'm I'm running out of steam. Like I'm building back up my energy. I'm building back up my power. And so like after I do this right here, I'm gonna have to go in and probably take a nap later.
Like I said before, a man will never know what a woman's body goes through to have a child. And that's from conception to birth. We go through a lot of changes from how hungry we can become to how weak we can feel to a whole another being pulling on us. And then we still have to be responsible to just live every day.
Whatever your previous responsibilities are, do not fall to the wayside because you're carrying another human being. You still have to be you.
and he's about to have to go lay down from having a tooth pulled. His head is throbbing. So he says, "I still don't believe nothing." Because he had a tooth pulled, but he didn't care what Megan was going through.
The dummy recorded it for history. Megan was straight off the operating table. He put a camera in her face. Do you know what he's doing for himself? Telling a story. we're just going to have to take at face value that he's telling the truth. And since he has no good credit when it comes to that, then for me, everything he's saying is a lie. He didn't record it, so I don't believe it.
And then he has added 50 different things that has happened to him from having three teeth pulled and steadily trying to create while he's been off all this time but didn't allow it for his wife who with everything that he just described. Even if it were true still does not come close to what she went through. He's still not touching on what she went through. None of it. Dry socket stitch coming out. None of it still touches anything that her body went through. And he doesn't get that.
Clearly, he don't care either. But he doesn't get it. He thinks that he just one upped us. Like, okay, maybe maybe they'll believe this.
I think I explained it away. Lord, it was just a week. I just went off a week.
No, you made it worse. First of all, we just watched you and create create an entire story for the world.
Everybody that know that you're not telling the truth is laughing at you right now. And then you just double down on being wimpy.
>> Damn. Because I can feel that pressure starting to come back. And so, uh, just like yesterday when I was working with Megan and the boys doing long fun family farm day, usually I'm able to like get it like on days like that. But uh just just letting my body heal and letting my body get back to where it needs to be at because uh somebody said that anytime it doesn't matter what type of surgery you have. They said anytime you have a surgery, anytime you have like some type of something extracted from your body, your body doesn't know what happened. It don't know if you got stabbed in the alley or if you got a tooth pulled. And so, uh, my body is trying to heal and it's it's is it.
>> So, if your body doesn't know what happened to it, it's just trying to heal. Why is this something that we need to know now, but we didn't need to know when his wife was going through that?
Why do we need to know what his healing process is? And all he cared about was how fast Megan was going to do something. Her doctor told her before she was wheeled into surgery.
Nothing heavier than a milk jug. No strenuous work. She gave her plain and simple instructions. And it was so that his idiotic self could hear it. And he didn't care. He made sure that just because you asked her that in front of me, I'm going to make you work as soon as you get off this operating table. And he did that. As soon as she got off, before she could even touch her own soil, he had her working.
And now he wants to tell us studies about what the body goes through because he had a tooth pulled.
Do you know how many people back in the day tied their tooth to a door and slammed it shut and went on about their day?
I'm I'm trying. I just No sympathy. He gets no sympathy over here. None.
None. I don't hear nothing that I feel sorry for.
He's just making it worse. That's all I can say.
Head throbbing. Head throbbing. U stitch. How many stitches did Megan have? He had a stitch in his nasty mouth.
Let's get on.
>> Healing from that trauma as if I got stabbed in the alley. As if I got shot.
You know what I'm saying? Because it just knows that something happened, you know? And it knows that it needs to like take the energy that my body usually spreads out in different areas and it needs to focus it in that one area to heal it, you know. That's a beautiful thing. And if the Lord has like developed our bodies and situated our bodies to where they heal themselves, you know, it's just it's a natural process that the body is able to say, "Okay, you have something going on in this area." The body doesn't know what happened. I don't know if you got shot.
I don't know if you got stabbed, but I know that this area get through this.
>> And so when they like when I had my first wisdom tooth pulled, when they pulled it, it had a bone fragment at the end of it. So literally they I don't care.
>> Uh, not every everyone gets that. If you don't deal with headaches, uh, just in your normal life, you probably don't won't deal with headaches when you get your wisdom teeth pulled. But as far as for me, I'm dealing with headaches, ladedness, just all the things associ with Eddie with the head. I'm I'm vulnerable to.
>> Okay. I can't do no more. I tried. I'm sure he said a lot of stuff. I'm not gonna be able to make it through it because I already feel some type of way.
Like he's changing my mood because he is really trying to get people to feel sorry for him.
This is a 30-some year old man. What? 37 38. He way too wrong for this scene right here.
He wants somebody to feel sorry for him about getting a tooth pulled.
I've pulled my children's teeth. I remember as a child pulling my own teeth.
Um, I've had to uh help pull somebody a grown person's tooth. I mean, it was almost out, you know, but still.
Now, I did get a little lightheaded with that, but we still did it. We made it happen. It's a tooth. Then one of you all mentioned in the comments how fast your mouth heals. My grandmother used to tell us go get some hot water with warm water, put some salt in it and gargle all day long and that's what we would do. And the next day we back gums closed. So whether his tooth I mean tooth the stitch fell out or not which I don't believe but if it did your mouth still would have been just fine the next day. He didn't go through none of what he said other than pretend make believe and and I want a pity party and you're not getting one. So, we're still with the wimpy kid, but I'm going to go ahead and close this out. So, this entire video was to show how a person who clearly feels like he deserves sympathy can wreak havoc on the person in his life. Not a loved one, but she's a chosen one. He has chosen to drag her through the mud. He has chosen to belittle her and to um use her as as his um I don't know way to make himself feel superior.
Um he just he doesn't care anything about Megan. Megan is just a source of if I punch you down, I'll feel better about myself and that's it.
I need meat. I'm happy about meat. So, I need for you to raise my meat. And I need for you to pop these kids out so that they can help you raise my meat.
And that's all he cares about.
Having a tooth pulled if that's really what he had done. Cuz to me, 20 minutes is saying a tooth cleaning. But if he had a tooth pulled, three teeth pulled.
Three teeth pulled. If he did, nothing else that he described happened. So, with that being said, guys, this video is getting into that 2hour mark. Again, I apologize. I know some of y'all said you like the longer ones, but I promise that I don't be trying to do this. But I would rather get it all in one than do parts one and two just because if I stop something, I might not get back to it.
So, I have to keep myself going to keep myself on task. But yeah, I'm going to go ahead and end this one here. So, hopefully I shed some light on everything that I'm thinking for this this uh series of videos that are coming out for right now. So, I'm going to do some research on the next one that I want to do and I will see you guys on the next one.
Bye.
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