The Detail That Changes Ilya and Shane’s First Episode | Heated Rivalry Rewatch

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[00:00:00]Shane gets under Ilya's skin from the very beginning. And I don't think it's only about attraction, rivalry, or fear of vulnerability. I think that Shane threatens Ilya emotionally because Shane has things in his life that Ilya has been told he doesn't need. It's family, support, belonging, acceptance, emotional safety, and the ease of just being in the world without paying back for it. I think Shane is a living proof of many things that Ilya never had in his life. And once you rewatch the episode with this in mind, it becomes really clear how Ilya envies Shane from the very beginning. It's not just arrogance, it's envy, and I think underneath this envy is grief. Welcome to my channel. Here we talk about popular TV shows and characters and the emotional logic behind them. Don't forget to subscribe. Today we're rewatching Heater Family from the very beginning, starting with episode one.

[00:00:54]We're looking how this envy is shown in the episode. We'll see it in tiny phrases, actions that isn't just arrogance, it's envy.

[00:01:04]This is their first real conversation.

[00:01:07]On the surface, it's just Ilya being cocky, sassy, competitive. It's just pure rivalry and classic Ilya. But on the rewatch, I think it's something else actually happening here. So, Shane is offering this friendliness and showing this kind of this version of the world where your rival is friendly to you. And Ilya has nothing to say to that. That's why he goes back to the only language that he knows, language of mockery, language of competition, hockey, rivalry. And he says, "You will not be so friendly when we beat you." So, he turns warmth into rivalry. Not because he feels nothing, but because it's safer for him to accept rivalry instead of accepting Shane as a person, as a friendly person. And And also, Ilya tries to make Shane smaller because Ilya does not want to deal with Shane as a person, as an impressive person, as a friendly person. He tries to make him smaller, to consider him as too privileged, too perfect, too Canadian.

[00:02:09]The draft in money is the first time when Ilya noticed this whole Shane support system. Loving parents that came with him to the draft, they stand there and talk to the general manager of the metros.

[00:02:22]And yeah, he belongs there. He's going to be playing for the Canadian team, which is 2 hours away from his hometown.

[00:02:29]And Ilya really envies this support system, this belonging. Because what Ilya has, he has to move to another continent to play for Boston to play hockey. He came with his father, that does not help because the only thing that his father says about him to the general manager of Boston is that he's lazy. This is wild. This This phrase is really wild for me. He just got his first job, and the only thing that his father could say that he's lazy. I'm like, okay, yeah, going back to the topic. And it's also described in the book really well that this support system is really it's something casual for Shane. But it's a pure luxury for Ilya. And the next clip that described this ending perfectly is the Ottawa World Cup the next year. When actually Shane wins the cup, celebrates with the whole city, celebrates with his team, while Ilya is sitting alone in his room on New Year's Eve. And I think this scene also shows us that Shane belongs somewhere, he belongs to Ottawa, to Canada, and it's his hometown. And we actually see that Ilya is alone, he doesn't belong anywhere. And I think we also see it in the next scene. Shane Hoaglander, will you disappoint them? I think on the surface this scene looks like teasing. He's trying to win the face-off. It's their classic rivalry style conversation. But, I think [clears throat] the this phrase actually describes this envy. And this is the first time where this envy becomes so visible. And And this is the first time where Ilya talks to Shane about the envy. Not directly, of course, but "Will you disappoint them?" And I think by them, Ilya means this whole support system. Because the the game takes place in Montreal, right?

[00:04:23]It's Shane Holder's city, country, game, fans. And even though he tries to reframe it in his head, I think it's pure envy of this whole belonging that Shane has. Of course, it comes also with its cost, and Shane has his own uh like issues and thoughts and everything and beliefs and everything. But, I think when we talk about envy, of course, we talk mostly from Ilya's point of view, right? We don't know what's going on inside Shane's head. And like I said, the more we go into the episode, the more Ilya verbalizes this envy. And one of the best examples is is Shane's interview on the national TV, in French.

[00:05:05]Of course, like Ilya is disappointed that they lost, and he would not be happy to see his rival his rival to be celebrated on national TV. But, I think this is something much deeper happening in this scene. Shane looks glowing, happy, and accepted.

[00:05:22]While Ilya feels his own accent, family obligation, and if we talk about language, he does not know the language really well. He's very self-conscious about his accent. If we talk about family, and actually his brother, Alexei, calls right after this interview when he turned off the the TV and asked for money. Alexei chides him because he's not there for his family.

[00:05:46]So, he's kind of an outsider for his family as well. From the Ilya's point of view, Shane looks effortless. And here he also goes back to reducing him, not reducing, reusing him. He says, "Oh, he's too perfect and perfect French right." So, he knows French well and Ilya struggling to learn just another foreign language that he needs for his job. This is the kind of contrast that we see between them. Shane is being celebrated on TV while Ilya [clears throat] is spending time alone in his room dealing with his family stuff. And another example of this early from the first episode in the All-Star car friends. We can feel this difference between Shane and Ilya because Shane looks like he belongs to this room. He fits into this room. Ilya performs his way through it. And we also see it with the language, right? So, it shows that actually Shane is very comfortable in media spaces and Ilya, yeah, he's very cocky, but he does not know English that well to be able to be cocky also in his interviews. That's why he goes with these blunt sentences, short sentences that kind of work for him, but that's not why he does that because he he cannot express himself in any other better way like Shane does, right? And I think it's also described in the book that Shane is a perfect North Star hockey player. It's also very important to understand that Ilya does not envy like Shane as a person. He envies Shane as the image because once he learns that who is Shane as a person, he stops envying him, right? He stops reducing him and he stops envying this image. And to some extent he starts sharing with his support system. I mean, parents and also Canadian fans. And language also gets better. And of course, we need to talk about boring. Oh my god, Hollander, you are so boring. I talked about the whole evolution of boring in my previous video. Boring is Elias a turn for hours and then he envies in Shane. It's his whole support system. It's his safety. It's his steadiness. He calls Shane boring because actually at the meeting that Shane's life looks really safe and attractive to Elias feels too vulnerable to expose. He cannot say that, especially in the very beginning. But throughout these years, he accepts that this boring is exactly what he needs.

[00:08:16]This type of safe life is exactly what he needs and exactly what he craves and something he never had in his life. And the key scene for this envy thrown in episode one is the rooftop scene. In the rooftop scene, this envy turns into grief. That was never about the word.

[00:08:35]That was never about Shane. Yeah, it can look that Elias sad because Shane won, but that's not what is happening here, right? And Elias makes it clear when he gets annoyed with Shane.

[00:08:46]>> Not everything is about you, Hollander.

[00:08:48]He's tired. He's sad. He's leaving. And Shane, once again, represents everything that Elias doesn't have. He won the word. His parents are there. He's going home. He has all the support while Elias needs to go back to Russia, which is a not a good thing for him. He goes back to his old role. He goes back to his father, to obligation, and to the world where he cannot be fully himself. Sad to watch, but when you get this idea that there is this envy and then Elias is grieving this envy because here's what Shane has, right? And here's what I have. Here's what I have to go back to.

[00:09:29]I have to go back to Russia, all this mess that I have in my life instead of just enjoying all the good things in my life like Shane Hollander does. In that scene, I really love the phrase that Yasha says because I think when we feel envy and I don't think it's a bad thing, right? All emotions are important. I'm not sure if there's an emotion of envy, but it doesn't matter. I think this feeling is important because it shows us some unmet need that we have, some unmet need for support, connection, belonging as in Ilya's case, for example. And one way or another, he accepts that what I need and this is what I'm going to have.

[00:10:09]I'm going to chase this. I'm going to have this relationship with Shae, this friendship with Shae's parents. I'm going to get more support from Ottawa fans. I'm going to get more friends like Harry's, Troy, other queer hockey players. He gets it, right? He gets the idea. But I think it's also very important that was never about Shae as a person. That was something that he needed to figure out. Shae was just a picture of something that a young wants.

[00:10:35]So that was my take on the rewatch of the first episode of Hidden Valley. Envy is the thing that I wanted to talk to you about because many people consider it's a something negative, something bad, but I think it actually in Ilya's example shows how it makes his life better. Thank you for watching this video. Don't forget to subscribe and also let me know what you think about this video, about envy, about the first episode in general. I would be glad to read your comments as usual. See you next one. Bye-bye.