Why Are you sitting in plays too long?

Añadido: 2026-05-26

[00:00:00]I think it's going to live in >> that' be good. Um, I'm live.

[00:00:10]Hey everybody.

[00:00:12]Hey y'all. Hi. Come on babe.

[00:00:19]See Co. Hey Trim.

[00:00:23]We ain't got nobody. Just us right now.

[00:00:26]So before we go to lunch, before we go to lunch, I'm going to I want to talk to y'all about something. It's been heavy on rotation, right, babe?

[00:00:39]>> Why people sit in their trades?

[00:00:41]>> Yeah.

[00:00:41]>> Why y'all sitting in them trades so long?

[00:00:44]>> We want to know. I know the answer, but I want to know. I want to hear you. Why are you sitting in trades that you know you need to be out of? And this a this a real thing now. This is serious. And I know I'm it might seem like I'm playing around, but I'm real serious. And I told my people on uh Tik Tok and Instagram to meet me over here. They're going to meet me. I'm not going to be over here long, but I think it's a conversation that needs to be had. Matter of fact, it's a couple of conversations that need to be had, but I'm just going to start with this one today. See trading, everybody like to talk about trading.

[00:01:20]Everybody want to teach you their strategy. That's cool. Great. Get a strategy.

[00:01:27]Shirt. I promise y'all. I'm really slimmering down under this shirt. I know. Um the strat is not about the strategy. You can have a million strategies if you don't understand why you do the things that you do.

[00:01:43]What's up, baby? Hey, Marty B. Marty, Mr. Robert. Hey, Robert. Come on in. I am talking about something. If you saw me on I put it on TikTok. Like, y'all come on over here real quick because before I leave this office today, I want to talk to y'all.

[00:02:00]It's something that is It's not new.

[00:02:04]But I got to understand why y'all sitting in these trades. And you can actually Let me Oh, let put my other glasses on. Why do you sit in trades that you know you need to be out of? You have a strategy, right?

[00:02:17]Hey, Miss Gton, you got a strategy that works. It tells you where to get out.

[00:02:22]You know when to get in and when to get out. Why are you holding? I need to know why you think you're holding. And then I'll tell you the real reason you're holding.

[00:02:33]Have you ever found yourself in a play you know you need to be out of and you refuse to cut the cord?

[00:02:42]refuse to cut the cord.

[00:02:45]Anybody, Mr. Robert, Marty, Miss Gayton, and anyone else? This video will go up.

[00:02:54]I'm just making I'm just I'm going live for about 15 minutes because um a lot of times once traders have either new traders do it or sometimes traders with about six months experience will start holding on to their plays.

[00:03:11]Miss Gayton said that's what everybody say. Hoping that I recover my money back. Hoping I recover my money back.

[00:03:19]>> Praying on wish.

[00:03:20]>> You know what that means?

[00:03:22]>> That's what everybody think. So what happens is when you pray and hope I don't like to lose. Come on with it now.

[00:03:31]We getting somewhere. Hold on. Let me write these down. Trent, thank you for these right here. I'm put on this real quick.

[00:03:38]All right. Let's get to this. Number one, hoping I recover my losses. Right. Recover. She said, "My money. My money."

[00:03:54]All right. Mr. Hayes said, "I don't like to lose."

[00:04:05]That ain't That's a real thing. What else? Marty B, you have this problem.

[00:04:09]Anybody else? If not, let's start with here. Let's start with that. Let's start with hoping I recover my money back. Do you know what that means? I'mma help you, Miss Gen today. Write this down.

[00:04:26]But I am attached to money.

[00:04:38]I am attached to money. I have money attachment issues.

[00:04:45]Marty B says, "I freeze up. I know I need to get out, but I keep holding."

[00:04:50]You know, that's a real thing, Marty.

[00:04:52]Ain't it, baby?

[00:04:53]>> It's a real thing. Yeah, we've had people for real like when I say freeze up, they're fine and then when the play goes against them, they literally can't move. Like I had one, she would just let it go to zero and then she get out. Like then she she said it's like she she froze in time and then she snap out when it gets to zero. But she's watching the whole thing. Marty says she frees up but keep holding.

[00:05:30]All right.

[00:05:33]So, Miss Gayton, you have attachment. You got money attachment issues. And that's not uncommon. Most people especially especially people if you are I don't know about other communities but I know about how we were in our community African-Americans I don't know if you are African-American or not but I'm just going by don't judge me but um we either grew up with lack right or we grew up with things but money was never discussed. It was never a money conversation. So all we were taught was to make money, hold on to money, make it and hold on to it, right? Never how to to grow it. And so we don't know when it's coming back. So you operate from a scarcity mindset.

[00:06:22]It's scarcity mindset. No matter how much money you have now, it's still in you. I'm attached to money. That's a scarcity mindset because you don't think it's coming back. It is all mine.

[00:06:35]All mine. No one ever No, nobody never discussed money. It's rare.

[00:06:41]It's rare. I don't know anybody that looks like me that told me they had a money conversation with their mama, their grandparents, their uncles.

[00:06:48]Nobody. Not from my generation. Um not like not wanting to lose. Uh who is that? Mr. Hayes. He said he don't like to lose. Mr. Hayes, you got a control issue.

[00:07:01]You're controlling.

[00:07:04]You're controlling. You want to control every outcome.

[00:07:09]You don't like to lose. You're controlling. And you have an ego issue.

[00:07:15]That's your ego. So what if you lose?

[00:07:19]You ever lost? What that feel like? You ever lost before? If you've lost before, it didn't feel good. So now you're protecting your feelings. So you put up a wall and you put everything in place so you don't ever lose again. So we don't have to feel that again. So you're afraid to feel. So you don't want to be vulnerable.

[00:07:39]You don't want to be vulnerable. And I'm going tell you something. You have to be vulnerable. And if you want if if you want God to move you to the next level and let God enter your take over, you understand? This is a vision that God sent us on. He put me here to help you all learn about money. How to make money so you can make it, grow it, disperse it. Make money, grow money, give money away. But he also sent me here to help you all heal because I want I know what I'm here for. I mean, I know that's what it is. But you can't just talk to people about that because people don't know that they need healing. You know, when people know they need healing, put some money on it. Put that money on it. Take that money from show something dealing with money. Money is going to bring out everything. Money is going to show where you left gaps at from a childhood, your early teens, your early 20s or 30s. It's going to show meaning there was a lesson needed to be learned. You didn't like how that lesson felt, so you skipped it.

[00:08:34]That's called gaps. You left gaps. We have gap fills in the market, right?

[00:08:39]Marty B, you hear me talk about a gap.

[00:08:41]When you go when the market shoots up too fast and it skips and it leaves a space in the charts, that's a gap. And the market has to go back down to fill the gaps or skip up to fill the gaps.

[00:08:54]Okay.

[00:08:56]Now, Marty, when you're freezing up, when you're freezing up and not just getting stuck in your play, that's denial.

[00:09:09]That is denial. Hey, Peanut.

[00:09:13]That is denial.

[00:09:15]You simply won't accept it. You don't want to accept what you see. You refuse to.

[00:09:25]You refuse to. That's a form of control, too.

[00:09:30]That's control, too. Having control issues. Now, we can work through every issue, but you got to know what it is first. You're in denial.

[00:09:40]When the market's going up in your direction, you don't be in denial. You don't freeze up. So, why would you freeze up when it go down?

[00:09:48]When it's going against you.

[00:09:50]Mr. A, I just call you out. Oh, y'all didn't know y'all coach cuz y'all didn't know that part about the coach that God that I'm a I can see things that God gives me to deposit and show me what the I'mma create a series called it's bigger than charts. It's bigger than trading.

[00:10:16]Baby, if you think it's about trading, buckle up.

[00:10:20]Everybody hit that like button. Thank you. Thank you so much, Marty. If you think it's about trading only, get ready to ride. This is going to change. This is a life-changing journey.

[00:10:31]Once you learn how to trade and understand the fundamentals of trading, everything else is about you. You and your personal journey, right, of getting a line, it's going to expose everything. It exposes if you have greed, if you have an ego problem, if you have money attachment issues, if you have a m a mind a money scarcity mindset, if you are overzealous, if you are overconfident, if you're insecure, it reveals everything. If you have no discipline, if you have no self-control, no restraint, all those things. Um um rule breaker, rebellious, all these things. Stingy, controlling. I think I said that. Being tight, afraid to let things go, afraid to let won't change nothing. Still got the same dresser you had from 2000.

[00:11:27]Still rotating them same underwear. Like just don't want to let nothing go.

[00:11:33]I don't want to let nothing go. But yes, now I know. Yep.

[00:11:41]Know I know now. Yes. And yes and yes.

[00:11:44]And now that you know that, that's how you can go on the deep. Now you can start searching. Hey Kasha, you can say, "Okay, I have money attachment issues."

[00:11:55]That's what that is. And you go down a rabbit hole. I go everywhere, but I go straight to YouTube. What is money attachments? Money attachment. I would get books. I would go to chat GBT. Tell me how do I start with getting rid of money attachment? I can tell you the first thing you got to do, you got to go back to where somebody first told you to attach to money.

[00:12:19]You got to go back.

[00:12:22]I resonated with Ebony S and Charlotte said yesterday. Yes.

[00:12:27]Yes.

[00:12:30]That's so true. But Ebony and Charlotte.

[00:12:33]Yep. W.

[00:12:35]She came on the call today and had a beautiful confession. Charlotte W. She's like, I couldn't hold it. Got to be free. And be free. It's okay. It is okay to admit wrongs. It's okay to lose. It's childhood every time. It's always stuff that we carry. We we we really are bag ladies and bag men because whatever happened to us in our youth, we don't ever let it go. We just pile stuff on top of it and make it look good.

[00:13:11]Uh that that Yeah, it was a good discussion yesterday. It really was. I think you came in late, uh Peanut. Mhm.

[00:13:18]I think you came in late, but it was good. Y'all go watch it. So usually when people sit in plays and hold plays too long, what I have found is that they do not they're controlling. It's controlling. You want to control the outcome or you don't want to lose and you attach to money. I can't lose that money. I I it got to go back my way. You've you've forgotten about everything that you started out with, which was the rules. So if coach says, "Listen here. If you're doing the five minute orb or 15 minute orb, you need to take a 5% profit and get out if the play goes negative 3.5 or 4%. Right?

[00:13:59]That's clear as a bail. It's no it's no discussion. When you allow yourself to start coloring outside the lines, then you just now kiss your your your your compounding goodbye. You just go you just go ahead and tell your money. you can see it later because now you've given yourself permission to be a rule breaker and once you give yourself permission to be a rule breaker now you have entered into an area of disrespect and now honoring what the person who taught you what to do you saying I know you told me all that but I know more than you even though I have not traded longer than you haven't had experience that you have I don't have the money you got but for some reason my ego is telling me that I don't have to listen to you I'm gonna satisfy my flesh first and we are all here because that's what you're doing.

[00:14:46]Satisfying your flesh.

[00:14:52]Money attachment is a serious thing.

[00:14:54]Once you admit to yourself that we all come from trauma, financial trauma upbringing, meaning we either were ignorant about money or we were taught that we didn't have to have a plan for money or we were taught that we were supposed to hold on to money or we were taught nothing and we just are self-taught because we got the good job.

[00:15:13]We know how to pay our bills on time. My credit score 825. I got about, you know, 20K in this account. I got a 100,000 in my um one of my uh investment accounts.

[00:15:24]I got 700,000 in my retirement. I don't need to know nothing. Yes, you do. You still need to learn some stuff because whoever you leave that to, all that that's sitting up that you're stacking, are you teaching them?

[00:15:39]Because if not, all your hard work gonna be gone in a matter of eight months.

[00:15:42]They blowing it because they don't have they're not literate financially. They don't know about discipline. Y'all think it's about money. It's about discipline and consistency. It is having a plan for it. How do you grow it? I can give you can leave your um your loved ones money if you want to, which is cool, but if they don't know how to grow money, your legacy ends right there.

[00:16:09]Your generational wealth is over.

[00:16:12]Done.

[00:16:14]So anytime I meet people and they tell me how much, oh I got this, I got that.

[00:16:18]I said, well, who you teaching?

[00:16:21]Oh, you comfortable. You straight. Who have you taught around you so the legacy can continue? You found me this week and have signed up for Janelle. That is so good. That is so good. Thank you, Janelle. I got to go see your name. I'm looking forward to it. Uh, you are a woman of wisdom and great teacher. I am all those things that I thank you. I thank you. I take that. I receive that. I thank you. If you get a chance, go back and look at a lot of my old bit my playlist on here.

[00:16:51]It will help you kind of get an idea of my style, who I'm about. But you can see it. You see it.

[00:16:58]Thank you, Marty B. Marty. I'm so glad to have you on board. And you're gonna Listen, this thing will change your life. The market will change your life if you let it. And not just monetarily.

[00:17:09]You will be a different Marty. Marty be seven months. How much have you grown just by and Marty's not even Marty not five days a week?

[00:17:21]You're going to grow like you wouldn't believe. Kasha. Kasha. Kasha. Since you've been here, how long have you how much have you grown? Oh, you've been binge watching. Yay.

[00:17:32]Listen, when I start with you and Jay in July, I'm teach I'm starting from scratch. So that first week, even though you've been watching the videos, I'mma teach I'm showing up every day, five days a week, teach you all everything.

[00:17:45]And then that second week, we going into paper trading what we've learned to make sure we got the technique down pay. And that third week, we going in with $100 and we starting our compounding journey.

[00:17:56]And we're going to do that. And then that fourth week, y'all gonna migrate over to the bigger community with the drippers where you're gonna have a wealth of knowledge and information already over there and support hundreds of people. It's going to be great.

[00:18:11]But yes, you're going to grow. You're going to grow learning how Oh, Marty. Not 5200.

[00:18:24]Y'all don't understand this is starting with a hundred dollars.

[00:18:29]Learning how to compound it is not easy now. He said, "Marty, it ain't easy.

[00:18:35]It's not easy. You may you have to you might start and stop and start and stop not quitting, but you're gonna you may blow an account. Have to start over.

[00:18:42]Blow an account. You go because you're going to meet yourself. This journey you're going to show you're gonna meet you. And meeting you, baby. You a tough cookie to crack.

[00:18:53]It's not easy, but it's doable. Janelle, I tell you, it's the best journey you're gonna sign up for. I told y'all when you learn how to trade, I never told you it was easy. I told y'all it was doable.

[00:19:04]Y'all ain't no different than me. Well, I You are. Let me take that back because I'm perfectly aligned with God. And I'm on my lifelong mission to serve his people, to teach them how to make money through the market and grow money. But I'm also here to heal God's people.

[00:19:22]That's my life. That's it. I'm sold out to that. However, what I mean is put one foot in front of the other. Get up just like you. I am 100% disciplined. I I'm 100% obedient. I'm 100% full up free.

[00:19:38]Free. I've mastered restraint. I've mastered my emotions. I've mastered those are the things that you I' I master uh management. You understand how to manage all these things.

[00:19:52]I know you and the wife ready. I know Janelle, you in Atlanta, too. If you gonna come on in, Janelle, once you are a dripper every Wednesday. So when y'all see this class full on Wednesdays, it's drippers because it's no charge. I let the drippers come in every Wednesday at no cost.

[00:20:12]Non drippers have to pay 50 bucks.

[00:20:18]That's the way we get to be together. If you if you're in Atlanta, come on in. A lot of people fly in, they come in town.

[00:20:26]Big, it's been skinny.

[00:20:32]Marty, we are so proud of you. Marty, we took that 100 to 5200. I'm just girl, that's y'all got to realize it ain't it has not been a year. It's just been seven months. And if you look at that compounding sheet, she you right on here. And that's what taking some bumps along the way. Praise God. Thank you, Kasha. Kasha said, "Please listen and follow coach directions." I've never led one single person wrong. Not just in the community in my entire life. I've always been a person that give people sound advice and and lead you the right way.

[00:21:09]You always gonna be better when you lead from me. Never worse. Ever. Never.

[00:21:12]Never. I mean, unless you cross me.

[00:21:16]But you even if you cross for me, you still can't say nothing bad. You can't say nothing bad. You can't. You can't.

[00:21:27]I mean, you can. It just won't be true.

[00:21:33]No, don't cross on that coach in there.

[00:21:35]Marty, y'all been around a long time ago. You in Ellenwood? I'll be in Ellenwood this weekend. I gotta teach, not teach. I'm I'm speaking doing um speaking to a group of women in Ellenwood at a private home and I'm going to talk to them about where they want to talk to the successful you know lady made millions trading all that. Uhhuh. We gonna do that for five minutes and then I'm getting straight to work. I'm here to heal. I'm here to What about y'all? What what's going on?

[00:22:05]Because in order to be able to make a hundred grand or 500 grand or a million or five million or 20 million or 30 million and so forth, you have to be disciplined. You have to have order. You have to have structure.

[00:22:22]You got to it's a requirement. Listen to me.

[00:22:26]Holding your sitting in your place too long because you hoping you recover your money back or you don't like to lose or you freeze up. You just keep holding.

[00:22:34]All those issues h have listen they have to be solved before you get to the big leagues. They It's a requirement.

[00:22:43]It's a requirement. Thanks Bonnie. It is a requirement.

[00:22:47]Can't skip it.

[00:22:50]You can't skip it. All right, y'all.

[00:22:53]No skipping.

[00:22:56]Let me go over here and break this down.

[00:22:59]Make sure you all still making sure you and if you're keeping up with your journal, the journal will keep you on track. If you're not keeping up with your journal, you're all over the place.

[00:23:07]The journal is designed to keep you in alignment. So, if you don't have it, the journal is on um Amazon, the 5% drip journal by Arleta Harris. That's me. And I think it if it's not on my link, it's in my link tree. It's on my link tree.

[00:23:25]You can go there and get it. Get it. It keeps you check it off. Stop breaking the rules. Look at the journal. What the journal say? We getting money back.

[00:23:36]Baby, let count that as a play that just became invalid. When you can get in a play, it can make all the sense in the world and then it turns on you. Okay, exit. Not exit because you're afraid.

[00:23:47]What is your exit plan? If it's five minute orb and 15 minute orb, we know what it is. We get out at 3.4 3.5 or 4%.

[00:23:55]If it's J20, we getting out. 10% negative. We taking 10% profit. If it goes down 10%, we out. Or if it becomes invalid. If it becomes invalid, then we get out. That's it. Keep it. You get in one play is green. Close your laptop. What?

[00:24:17]That's self-control. That's restraint.

[00:24:20]You got one play, you got your 5%. Bye.

[00:24:23]See you tomorrow.

[00:24:25]Our letter just told you if you start with a 100, if you stay in the pocket, you can compound that 5% a day all the way 100,000, 300,000. It can do it. But you're going to have bumps along the way because some days you might get 15%.

[00:24:40]Just trying to get five, but some days trying to get 15, you might go negative 30.

[00:24:46]Stay in the pocket. Thank you, Robert. I changed your mindset. I did. So he said, he said, "You changed my mind." Said about trading. I was about to quit. I'm so glad God led you this way. I would Listen, trading is not easy. Um, and most people don't have the answers that you need. They can show you how to trade halfway. Most people don't even clearly take you hand by grab your hand and say, "No, no, no. This what that means. Oh, no, no, no, no. That's how you get that contract. Oh, no, no, no, no. That contract too expensive. You got to look at this one. Oh, no. This is what ask and bid mean. No, no, no. It don't. This all you need to look at right here. They'll tell you go get this book. Go get that book. Go get Tell me how you make yours. Sit with me, ma'am or sir, and show me what do you do when you get in and out the market. See, that's how I tell you that. Do that.

[00:25:38]Like, tell me exactly what you do. Now, when you tell me exactly what to do, you can let me do my thing and give me the rules. Now also, what happens when I hold my trade too long? What that mean?

[00:25:52]What happens when I'm overtrading? Why am I overtrading? Ain't nobody They gone. Nobody answer those questions.

[00:25:58]They're gone after that. I sit in the trenches with y'all. And And I'm a free woman.

[00:26:06]I sit in the trenches because I know you going to need it. I know you going to bump your head. I know you going to make them mistakes. I know that. And I know you're going to need somebody who is safe.

[00:26:17]and and trustworthy and that would be firm enough to tell you about you like no no no no it went no no no you're not about to blame spy I'm not about to let you blame Robin Hood why you staying that play too long some people start oh I got help me I gota my play turn on me I said well wait a minute let's go look at the charts you know why I look at the charts kasha you know why we look at the charts because I go and say what time you got in there. Hey, look. Let me show you.

[00:26:52]All right. I hope y'all can see this cuz I can't see y'all no more. But I'll go and say I'm on the one minute chart right here. You see me moving the cursor. Can y'all see this cursor moving back and forth? Let's hope y'all can see that. I'll say, "Well, oh, I was in it and it and it turned Well, what time did you get in?" for example, they'll go, "Well, I got in at 9:36.

[00:27:16]This is 9:36."

[00:27:18]I'm looking at it like, "There's no reason you should even be in that plate.

[00:27:22]It's going through. The candles are going through the EMA 9.

[00:27:28]I stayed in it. You did? I didn't get out till 954."

[00:27:33]You did. So, you got in this play the moment you saw it become invalid. Why didn't you get out? Then it became invalid right here. One candle above the EMA 9.

[00:27:46]Once it closed above, Once it closed, then it came back down. I'm like, "Okay, I can see you staying in it." Cuz it came came back down.

[00:27:55]Then it came all the way back down. You could have got your money back. But if you didn't get a good contract, you still negative only for it to go back up and it closed right above here. You You done got to go. You got to go. you don't get out of here.

[00:28:12]But sometimes people like to make me think, you know, that it was the that it was uh Robin Hood. Robin Hood got me stuck in my play trying to get back. How do I find y'all?

[00:28:27]How do I get back to y'all? Oh, there go right here.

[00:28:31]That should be it. Where are y'all?

[00:28:37]I not smooth your ass.

[00:28:40]Let me find my people. Here I go. Okay.

[00:28:42]Where my live go?

[00:28:46]Okay. Sorry. I got lost. Got lost in the shuffle. So, yeah, that's how So, we like to go back and watch to see. Uhuh.

[00:28:55]What are you doing? Why did you get in right here? You telling me you got that that that the market turned on you, but no, I see you overstayed your welcome.

[00:29:04]So, let's say if they got in right here, right here, it straight went green. And they'll go, I I was profitable, but I went negative. No, you held it too long.

[00:29:13]And why you held it too long? You got your 5%. Then your 5% was right in here.

[00:29:19]Well, I thought it was going to keep going up. Now you, Miss Cleo, got it.

[00:29:22]Okay.

[00:29:24]All right.

[00:29:27]Okay.

[00:29:29]Yes. So that that that is something I want to just touch on real quick about, you know, while you're holding plays.

[00:29:36]Holding place is a personal battle. Has nothing to do with the market. Has nothing to do with me. Has nothing to do with the strategy. It has everything to do with you and your trauma.

[00:29:47]Your financial trauma, you being unwilling to let go. That's what it has everything to do with. and you not letting go is a derivative of something from your childhood that you experienced.

[00:30:05]You've been in the green and staying consistent. Thanks for all the knowledge and support. Keep that journal. Keep keeping keeping up with your plays entries and exits. Don't let your ego get in the way. Keep the main thing the main thing which is following the rules.

[00:30:20]you'll continue to see and even on your green, even within a green, you're going to have a red here and there slide in.

[00:30:27]And there's no problem because if you look at the the the grand scheme of things out of 20 trades, if three red or four red or five red, you're still doing good.

[00:30:44]Oh, that's a good question. It's a I call it Janelle. Is it Janelle? Janella or Janelle? Janelle Atrice sold Janelle before I started trading. I was uh housewife.

[00:30:58]I was my hus coach strength and retired me when we got married. But prior to that, I've always been a businesswoman. I've always worked and so I came from social work background then to marketing in the medical field, right? Then to starting my own I I've always had a a business and a job. So, I've always been that like I had a coat check business in the 90s. I had a weight loss company. I was a black Judy Craig. I had a weight loss company for about five four years. And then I um started doing marketing for I got out of social work because it was enough cash. I got into healthcare marketing where the money took off because I was chasing the bread then.

[00:31:43]And then from there I uh started my daughter was into um my daughter wanted to be an actress. So even though I was still working full-time, I became her manager and agent. And so I learned about that. So uh she then she didn't want to do it anymore and I spent all the time and money. But then I had all these resources. So I started helping other people other parents learn how to get their kids gigs. And then I started getting recruited by models and actors.

[00:32:10]So I be started in the industry as a manager for talent and I opened my own agency and then I became a manager in the music industry and then I have my own booking agency because the music industry got too crazy back in that time one of my artists was murder murdered and it's very wide known a lot of people know who it is but I left that and just started doing booking but I was still working in the medical in the medical field. And so once I sold my company, I just completely just kept working in the medical field. And then I started doing like um talent for new artists, making sure they got the exposure, making sure they had the right people, looking at the contracts and stuff like that.

[00:33:00]Yep.

[00:33:03]And then um that's how I met Coach Trent. And then we got married and he said, "Oh, you got to do none of this stuff."

[00:33:11]And I did. But then I went to work on his life and making our life supreme.

[00:33:18]And so I was a full-time housewife. I took it seriously.

[00:33:21]And um my goal was to retire my husband.

[00:33:24]That's how I got into trading. I wanted to retire coach strength. He had retired me. I wasn't fun at home without him because now he working he working 12 16 hours. And it's just me in that house. a nice big house. And I said, "I want to retire him." And I went on a mission to retire him. I tried everything. Not everything, but I tried um well, I started another healthcare agency, transitional care agency that did well by the time I paid out everybody. It was not left a lot left for me, like $8,000 for the month.

[00:33:57]So, that ain't going to retire him. And then I did um wholesaling real estate, and that was good money, but it was a lot of work. It's a lot of work. A lot of work. And then the money, it was sporadic. And I was like, that's not going to retire him. Yeah, Marty. I think that is why I think I'm good with people because it was a from birth I've been like this like a little girl. Like my friend's parents would tell me to babysit them. Like they would leave me in charge. We the same age. I'm seven watching a bunch of six and seven year olds. I'm 10. Got to be in charge. I've always had that natural nature about me.

[00:34:33]caring and kind of like the overseer and very resourceful. Always been resourceful and always been friendly.

[00:34:39]Always been nice and friendly. But serious, I have. I have. I'm 55 years old. I just gave y'all a summarization of the last what 40 years I started working at 15.

[00:34:55]So yeah, that's a lot of years, right?

[00:34:59]And I don't hold stuff long.

[00:35:02]Nope. If it ain't working, I'm out. You might get two, three years out of me.

[00:35:06]You not give me a raise. Bye. I'm not hanging here for 20 years. I knew I was supposed to be great. I knew I was supposed to be a multi-millionaire.

[00:35:16]I'd be sitting there with trying to figure out how I'm going to get gas in my car. Didn't matter. I knew I gonna be a millionaire. I just knew it. I didn't know how God was going to do it. But I never gave up. And I never stopped helping people. Ever. Ever. Never.

[00:35:31]And on that. Yeah. Thanks for asking, Janelle. I said I just asked. I'm open book.

[00:35:40]Open book. And on that journey been married three times.

[00:35:44]Coach is my third husband and final.

[00:35:48]It's been 16 years. The other ones were one they both the two were mistake and the second one end up being gay. So he had to go.

[00:36:01]I never had a mentor in trading. Had to figure out the hard way.

[00:36:06]I would pay but they weren't real men. I never had what I am. I became what I needed. And you ever heard you ever when people say when you complain about something they tell you you go ahead and feel it. If oh they ought to do this about city. I was always that person. If somebody's like oh it's never anywhere to go. I can create something. Oh, it's hard. I just would create stuff. Fill the void. Fill the gap. And I was like, like I never really had never had a big sister. So, I just became the best big sister I could be to everybody around me because I just wanted that back, you know? Had a awesome big brother, but I never had a big sister. God has blessed me now. So many beautiful women in my community. They like sisters, big sisters I never ever had, but I knew I was supposed to have, you know, somebody around me that would pour into me like I pour into other folks. But um yeah, I had to figure it out though. And I never want y'all to have to do what I did. It was difficult. It was beyond difficult. I went through a lot learning how to trade. I went through a lot. Not just losing my my my money and coach Sherw here's my our money like 43k before I made a penny. Marty B, you know that you for her to say she's made $5,200 starting with a hundred just from learning under me and it's just been seven months and I had not I lost $43,000 real American dollars. The first trade I got in Janelle, I didn't know how to exit it. I was on It's not It's a Charles Schwab, but what did Charles Schwab used to be before they sold it? They uh God, what was it?

[00:37:54]What was Charles Schwab?

[00:38:00]It's on my brain now. But it was on there basically Charles Schwab platform.

[00:38:06]There you go. TDM trade.

[00:38:10]It was TDM trade and I had no I got in a play I never get I think that was a what's that my um auto zone that's right TDM trade baby I got in that AutoZone play I just thought I was about to make it seven didn't even know what I was doing about contracts nobody really broke contract sound this after I paid for several classes at this time I probably was I'll just say $6,000 into paying people.

[00:38:43]Yeah. To show me and would still be lost. Because one thing about being new, you don't know what to ask. So people go, "Why you didn't ask?" I didn't know what to ask. I didn't know how to ask about how this contract gonna make money. All right. So the way I teach, people say they like how I teach Janelle because I'm very clear and plain. I'm clear and plain because I wanted somebody to be clear and plain to me and they weren't.

[00:39:10]It was hard all those big words and this means that but that means this but they all mean up. So we all just say up. Why we got to do all this six or seven things just and just say up.

[00:39:24]I didn't know what I didn't know. I didn't know I didn't know. So first play out $7,000.

[00:39:31]I'm watching it. I think I'm seeing prophet and I'm like okay how did you get out?

[00:39:38]How do you get out?

[00:39:41]Couldn't call a soul.

[00:39:44]Did not know I could call their uh customer service number. I ain't know that. I was scared. I'm like I don't know if I can't call these people tell them I can't get out of play. They going to close my account. I supposed to know what I'm doing. So I can't call. Right.

[00:40:00]And I remember calling Tren at work. I just I was crying because I saw the money disappearing.

[00:40:07]It went from seven, it went up to like 7,300, 7,500.

[00:40:12]Now I know that means I had made $500.

[00:40:15]And then I saw it going 65 62 59 55 43. Then I started realizing wait.

[00:40:24]That's my money gone.

[00:40:28]Uhhuh.

[00:40:30]And uh I watched it till the bail closed. Closing bail.

[00:40:36]So I said, "It's saying zero, but I don't know what that means." And Trent didn't know what it means cuz he wasn't even in the trading at all. I was the one. And I got on the phone with the people the next day cuz I'm like, "They owe me some money.

[00:40:52]They owe me some money. I know it was seven." And they had explained to me, "Oh, you let your contract expire." I said, "Oh, expired." They said, "Yeah, if you don't sell it by the end of the expiration date, it's expires at zero."

[00:41:09]That was the first time I broke down crying for real. I was like, "I'm not doing this no more.

[00:41:16]I ain't doing no more." For about a week, I was like, "Nope."

[00:41:20]And I went back said, "No, look, I got to get my money back. Here was the start of revenge trading. I got to get my money back.

[00:41:32]Didn't happen. Didn't happen. Lost it again and again. Then I said, "No, I can't do this platform. I got to figure out another way. Is it somewhere else I can go?" So, yeah.

[00:41:46]Oh, Marty used to say that too. You are going to be one.

[00:41:51]You definitely going to be one.

[00:41:56]So yeah, so I would not I refuse to let another person go through what I went through. I would have loved to had a to have had a great mentor like me. Someone I can talk to that's real plain and nice and relatable, but firm enough to not let me BS myself.

[00:42:13]You know, they say, "Uhuh. You make an excuse. Get it together." And this is why you holding on to money. How much I always ask people, "What's the most money you ever made in your life? What's the most money you ever made in a day?

[00:42:26]What's the most you've ever made in a day?

[00:42:30]From working.

[00:42:32]Not from a income tax. I said, "What have you made earned?"

[00:42:40]That lets me know what I'm dealing with right there.

[00:42:47]Because you'll go from $5 a day to $10 a day, eventually 300 a day to eventually 600 a day. Who are you? If you've never made more than 300 a day, do you even know who you going to be at 600 a day?

[00:43:02]Do you know who you going to be when you get to 2500 a day? Do you know it's like to make to have that type of income coming in?

[00:43:12]Right.

[00:43:14]Looking forward to meeting you, too.

[00:43:17]Thank you. I don't know what that means.

[00:43:19]What's that? Flow state of jew for 200 jewels. That's cool. Thank you. I don't know what that is, but it's cool. I appreciate it.

[00:43:29]But yeah, so I I I'm a very I'm going to be always straight up and candid with y'all. I'm never going to tell you no lie and try to because I don't have to convince you of nothing. I'm just here to get something to you. I'm just here to teach you.

[00:43:43]I just want to teach and I want to help you understand sitting in place is you're going to it's never the right answer. Being disciplined and consistent is the answer. Following your plan and your strategy got it y'all good.

[00:44:01]Was this informative? Did did this help you? Did was this a sign of relief like, "Okay, I'm not alone. I understand. I got it, coach." Copy. Copy. copy. Let me get out my way. Let me get my notebook.

[00:44:16]Let me follow my rule. Let me not let my emotions rule me. This money prints every day every day. I don't have to chase it. All I got to do is chase the strategy.

[00:44:29]Be real with myself. When that when that person show up, that that you when your twin show up telling you to do the opposite, you got to be willing to talk it down. You also got to be willing to go back and release and forgive yourself for all the stuff you didn't know.

[00:44:46]Release yourself from your childhood trauma about money. Got to be able to release it and release it just speak it out loud.

[00:44:56]Just speak it. Speak it in your prayer time. Speak it in your car. I'm going to get rid of this. This is not me. This ain't me. This ain't the new me. Because the version of you that you need to be to be able to be that millionaire and multi-millionaire, Marty, is not the person that's right here.

[00:45:15]It's not you. It's not the person you are right now. You're going to be a different person, right? You're going to look the same, but your mindset is going to be different. You're going to have a type of peace that you've never had ever, ever.

[00:45:29]You're going to literally float in the land of milk and honey. Everything will be a yes, yes, and amen. Everything you touch will work. Every situation you walk in will just be favor.

[00:45:40]But you got to go through this refinement and that's discovering me.

[00:45:44]Who are you? Getting rid of the the oh what's not. See, we got to get rid of what did not work over all these 10, 20, 30 years when Janelle was like, "Oh, you've done a lot. I've been around 1985 to now." That's a lot of time getting to know who you are, making mistakes, failing. When people say life, life life gonna continue to life. You don't get to sit down in it. You get to keep moving.

[00:46:13]You got to keep moving. You got to keep moving. So, I just want to thank you, Marty. I just Thank you, Janelle. I just want to reassure you all and thanks for saying it was informative and reassuring, Janelle. Um, that's what I'm here to do. God told me to do it. It was impromptu. I didn't plan it.

[00:46:31]I just did it. So I I I'm 100% obedient.

[00:46:35]It don't have to make sense to me. It just has to make sense. Uh I have to just do it. I just got to do it. So to anyone, I would love to. My goal is to create traders and eventual traders can become coaches and or mentors. That would be so fantastic.

[00:46:59]Marty, uh, Peanut is asking, "Do you work 9 to5 in trade?"

[00:47:04]Uh, I got a lot of people that do that.

[00:47:06]Yes, this was a mini. Oh, that was a Peanut. That's so good. You know what?

[00:47:10]Maybe God had me. It was just for you. I don't know why. He just I just listen.

[00:47:16]God said, "Go live and talk about why people sit in trades. I don't care if one person show up or 50 people show up or 200 people or 5,000." He said, "Show coach why they sit in trades."

[00:47:30]Yeah. A lot of people uh that trade with us, they work 9 to5. We got people do everything. Teachers, firemen, people that work on Listen, I got some people, they on a line, they on a flight line.

[00:47:39]We're talking to flight line drippers.

[00:47:41]They work on airplanes and helicopters.

[00:47:44]They can even have phones on the floor.

[00:47:46]They trading. They go to the bathroom.

[00:47:51]She go to the bathrooms.

[00:47:54]She go to the bathroom. Do you hear me?

[00:47:58]Where there's a will, there is always a way. And if so, you may need to do swing trading. If you can't do the daytoday trading, intraday, you need to do swing trading.

[00:48:13]Don't let nothing stop you from your future.

[00:48:19]Amen. Marty says she no longer is working. That's why she's growing her money so she don't have to look back at a 9 to5.

[00:48:33]Oh yes. A peer coach. Yes. Yes. Yes.

[00:48:38]Oh, I'm so glad. I'm so glad to be inspire in inspirational for for you and everyone else. It is about learning, right? So you can truly give back. You can't give back if you ain't got no I don't care what nobody say. That's why Rob the we need I need hundreds hundreds like when you all come over to the community and um with the mini drippers starting in July.

[00:49:04]I have peer coaches that will be assigned to you. They couldn't have done this a year ago or eight months ago because no one had experience. So now I have over I think it's 60 ambassadors that are their own on day on call to do volunteer too like coach what you need me to do. And so some people help moderate, some people when I'm on live, some people do peer coaching, some people do retention. They call and check on the folks that's fall that fell off.

[00:49:36]Hey, are you okay? I got some people just do my um I'm I'm always sending out flowers to people. They in the hospital.

[00:49:44]Uh they have a death in the family or they had a a celebration. So I have people that just do that for me. Hey, can you make sure this person get FL?

[00:49:54]Yes, they do it. Now they got my credit card. But I'm saying and one of them I had to make use my card. She was paying for it. I was like you can't keep pay. I got a card on file. She was like no coach. You already do enough. this my way of giving back.

[00:50:08]I had to force her to use my card after like three times. I she still was doing.

[00:50:13]So, and we also have people that will um can actually help when I administratively.

[00:50:20]All right. I got two graduations coming up. I got a founders day coming up in July. Y'all love it because I'm gonna be live. The founders day we celebrate here in the office but we also will be live on every platform at the same time so people can celebrate with me and love they gonna love on coach it's a it is a financial celebration so I don't send no I want no perfume and all that now my birthday in two weeks you can do that for Gemini but for that founders day when I have changed lives all over this world y'all know it and we'll run it like a tellathon. So it' be like donation start 150 200 you can go and just whatever you want to give your coach to show how much you appreciate it. That's what you get a chance to do that day that moment and we will it's going to be four hours. I'll have somebody host it. It's going to be just us reminiscing about hey when you start when did you start with me? What did you learn? And you get to celebrate.

[00:51:19]So we're working on now where we can have people come in across the screen.

[00:51:23]So, it will be folks here in the office and all over the world. It's for four hours straight. Might be five. We're going to stream nonstop. And I think it's going to be fantastic that everybody gets to celebrate. The day that I got on this thing called Tik Tok.

[00:51:37]Didn't know how to use that phone.

[00:51:39]Didn't know how to never have been live.

[00:51:41]I had that turban on because God said go now. And I was like, I got to do it now.

[00:51:47]I can't wait. I can't wait to go get my hair fixed. I can't wait to get make sure my nails right out. No. I said, "Go right now."

[00:51:54]>> Yes.

[00:51:56]And I did it. I would love for you to be a peer coach. Listen, so again, when you become a dripper, a mini dripper, when you get over there, you will have a peer coach assigned to you. They're going to meet with you for every Friday. They're going to text you, call you, or they may set up a Zoom. I'm letting them do it what works for them and their schedule.

[00:52:14]Um, so for every I think five to eight drippers, they'll it'll be one peer coach assigned. So nobody get falls off.

[00:52:23]Nobody gets left behind. You can quit, but you're not going to be left behind.

[00:52:28]So if you quit the journey, that's on you. But you're not going to We don't If you stay connected, we we stay connected.

[00:52:36]Um Oh, and I have people too because you know I do alignment. I teach alignment mindset to millions. So I have some that are coming on board with me to help with that. They'll be speakers sharing their story. See, see you if you don't want to share your story and be naked in front of people. When I say naked, not literally, but vulnerable, honest, then you can't come. You can't be speaking to people. But if you wasn't lay it all on the line, I had to do it.

[00:53:06]I had to come here and tell y'all that I'm here because my husand lost almost a million of our dollars after we had just made it 832K and then another 100k revenge trading after we had already sold our house stock child.

[00:53:23]Yes, Lord. Um and then of course all the things we have going on. I have people that are event planners. Um you can volunteer in any way.

[00:53:34]Yep.

[00:53:38]Hey darling, who is that? I can't see who that is. BK BKD0587.

[00:53:46]I don't see I don't know who that name tell. Oh Blair, I didn't know that was now Blair. Blair, how many names you Blair? I got Blair. Matter of fact, Blair, we got it. We did then you get the directory like Blair. Blair. Blair has volunteered. Blair is a dripper, but she volunteered to do a directory. Uh a dripper directory. Lord, that's your YTNA. I just got the Instagram name, I mean the YouTube Tik Tok name down, but Blair just pitched in and said, "Coach, let's do a direct." Blair, what I need? Are we finished? What do we need? Girl, what? You got to pull me to the side on that directly.

[00:54:22]Oh, it's ready.

[00:54:24]Oh, you got to get Kayla for the final step. Okay. So, what you need me? Do you send Kayla your email address or you need to get Kayla's email address? I see you Kayla's email address. You can email her or you could text her. It's faster than she she checked both. So, thanks Blair. I had some drippers like Blair just she volunteered to do a dripper directory so we can keep up with everybody. We know when your birthday is. We know what state you live in. We don't need to know the city. But if you're in New York and I need and I might have an event and I need to know where my drippers are in New York. I know I got 30 people in New York or 40 people in Atlanta and stuff like that.

[00:55:06]Okay. So, I'll get on that Blair. I got that.

[00:55:10]My make sure I take care of that today.

[00:55:13]So, also my my journal. I got jerked around about my journal originally and my drippers stepped in and said they came as a team. Oh, this my experience.

[00:55:23]I got this experience. We can do your journal. and they got in and did it at no cost after I had spent all all that other money and it was a waste and it was the most disrespectful project to turn into me and I paid the person up front. They cut in and did it. So, it's a group. So, so whatever your skill set is, be willing to as you start making your your your jelly beans and money and doing well, you're ready to get back.

[00:55:47]That's what it's about.

[00:55:51]So, yeah, Blair. So Blair, what we're talking about, I was about to end, but what we're talking about over here is why y'all sitting in plays too long.

[00:56:04]Why are you sitting in place too long?

[00:56:06]Now, we done went all the way around the world because Janelle asked what I did before this. I had to take them through my whole life history or what I did before this and why I did it. But my ultimate goal was to and I did retire coach Trent. And so I would like to show other women or have you know maybe be support for them on how to do that even if it's not through trading. Like there's some ducks you got to get in a row. Mr. Bus but Blair here were some of the issues.

[00:56:33]Some people said I'm I'm hoping I recover my money back. That's why I sit in a play.

[00:56:39]Someone else said I don't like to lose.

[00:56:41]I think that's Mr. Hayes. I don't like to lose. Period. And then someone else said that they freeze up. They just freeze up and they they just keep holding like they go they can't do nothing.

[00:56:56]Blair say she thought she was going to have to get a May tag tattoo when she first started. That's y'all know may tag that we call it when you get knocked between the washer and dryer so many times cuz your heart head.

[00:57:14]You ready?

[00:57:15]>> Okay. Yeah. Yeah.

[00:57:20]So hold it in your place because people are not used to it. They don't they haven't attached detach from the money.

[00:57:28]So they take it personal. They take my money.

[00:57:34]So I came up with I told them that um number one you have money attachment issues controlling Ego and denial and denial.

[00:58:01]Yes. Where we going? Oh, we're almost an hour. It's been a long discussion, y'all. I thought it was just going to be I would come on here for 15 minutes.

[00:58:09]I'mma do a little quick little quick quick. We've been on here yapping and yapping, but it's going to bless somebody else because when this video is uploaded and other people will see themselves. So, I appreciate you all being here. Blair says she had all the above. But let me tell you what's beautiful about it, Blair, and about your your journey. You stayed. Marty B stayed.

[00:58:34]Peanut stayed. Even even though you were going through those things, you did not allow it to deter you from the bigger picture cuz you see the bigger picture.

[00:58:44]And I told you that this journey was not going to be easy. I said it's doable. I didn't say it was easy. I said if you stay here with this coaching or some mentors behind you, you can get there.

[00:58:59]It has been a great discussion. You're welcome, Marty. That's what I said.

[00:59:04]We're not looking for perfection. Never perfection. Just obedience. Consistency.

[00:59:10]Can you be consistent? Can you be consistent? That's all we looking for.

[00:59:22]That's all. It's going to come out in a minute, y'all. I have to get all the stuff in.

[00:59:32]Electrolytes.

[00:59:35]the protein shake with the creatine and the and the uh collagen and then the green tea. It's just a whole thing.

[00:59:42]Blair said the same stubbornness that kept us here um is the same stubbornness that keeps us in those.

[00:59:50]The difference is discipline and following the rules. That's all I've been screaming talking about.

[00:59:56]Being disciplined and following the rules that there's no other way.

[01:00:00]Discipline and following the rules.

[01:00:02]Discipline and following the rules.

[01:00:05]Discipline and following the rules. And guess what? If you follow the rules, it leads to discipline.

[01:00:13]People like to talk about being disciplined. They don't know. No, this is how you be disciplined.

[01:00:18]Do the same thing consistently.

[01:00:19]Consistency leads to discipline. Having a plan, believing that the plan works.

[01:00:25]Structure. Having structure get something. We got structure over here, right?

[01:00:31]We have structure.

[01:00:34]We have a plan. The plan got rules. And if you show up and do the same thing with consistencies, you'll look up and that will be discipline. Just like that. Just like that.

[01:00:50]Just like that. And once you're disciplined, you start hearing God talk more and more because he's still there talking. He just You got so many distractions. You got so many things on top. Yeah. Hey Don. Don, you came at the tail end of a great discussion. Baby, a great discussion. Coach Trent said it's time to eat. You You already know because y'all know I've been going since the live. Since alive and I got 2:30, too. Got to talk to one of our drippers at 2:30. But I could do that in the car.

[01:01:21]Yeah, coach. You know, Coach Trent, he on, you know, I be on that shot. So, I'll be like, "Eat what?" Cuz but you got a protein shake. You got electrolytes. Hold on. I got my my superwoman cup that Blair gave me. Blair gifted this to me. Miss Blair is right here on the call. Y'all see that Yeti coach or letter? Look at there with the A.

[01:01:44]The drip queen. And then these have my initials right there. That's so cute.

[01:01:50]The A. She did good, didn't she?

[01:01:54]>> Great. Great. Great. Thank you, Blair.

[01:01:58]>> Ain't that cool?

[01:02:01]So, it's full of water. Coach Trent does. He makes sure it's full every morning. So, that's why they like, "You hungry?" Like, "No, I got all this liquid in me.

[01:02:11]I'm liquid down."

[01:02:17]So, if you see me like, "Did she just drink some shake? Did she just Yep."

[01:02:22]Oh, you order food. They text you, told them something came up. I'll be there shortly. Go get your food, girl. Marty said she had just ordered food right before I came on. It's time to eat. It's past lunchtime for the folks that eat food.

[01:02:38]I just want to tell you how much I appreciate this. It's been a blessing.

[01:02:42]I'mma close this book up and I go on to my next phase and I'll be ready to see y'all in the morning. And just for the record, it is Gemini season. Your coach is a Gemini. I'm celebrating all my Gemini. Now, you gotta be a Gemini dripper.

[01:02:56]If you're a Gemini dripper, I'm giving all my Gemini drippers $100 each for their birthday.

[01:03:02]What time do I start? Oh, I did drop the gems. It'll be back. John, go back. Go back and look. We talked about why are you sitting in them place? Why y'all holding them place so long? Why, Lord?

[01:03:16]Why? That's what we talking about. And we got some good ones. Don't want to lose that money.

[01:03:24]Don't Don't um What was it? He said he didn't want to lose the money.

[01:03:31]Don't want to lose.

[01:03:34]Hold on.

[01:03:36]Thank you, Blair. T season was amazing.

[01:03:40]Uh look, hope I recover my money back.

[01:03:43]Dawn, she was talking about me.

[01:03:46]was >> mine was um keep holding. She said she frees up just can't get out.

[01:03:55]And I told her well told them you got y'all got attach money attachment issues, control issues, ego problems, and total denial.

[01:04:08]Yep.

[01:04:10]And lack of following the rules. Because if you stick with the rules, you don't leave room to do any of that. Cuz the rules don't say that. So now you're being defiant.

[01:04:22]And so why are you being defiant?

[01:04:26]Your ego told you you could do it. And then see how far that gets you. You know, you always got to start back over.

[01:04:32]Still going to start over. No matter what you say and do, you going to start and you going to come on. How do I join to catch the lies and training? What that means, son? Is that son? Catch the lives. Okay. Oh, my lives are in a private community. So, we I come here because I I'm on I'm on all the platforms, but we have a private community called the drippers where we meet Monday through Friday in the mornings. I have a mentorship at 9:30 to 10:30. Then I have the drippers from 10:30 to 11:30. We meet live. Now, if you want to catch me, you can come every um Wednesday.

[01:05:09]Every Wednesday here on YouTube, I go live from 1 PM to 3 PM teaching trading from scratch. All right? How to trade.

[01:05:18]That's what I do every just to give back. I do it on Tik Tok, Instagram, YouTube, but now it's just YouTube and Instagram.

[01:05:28]Now, if you want to be a dripper, there are a few ways you can be a dripper.

[01:05:31]Now, the training too, I got all the videos in this playlist. If you look here on YouTube, go to my playlist.

[01:05:37]It'll say learn how to trade with our letter the friendly trader. 18 videos.

[01:05:43]18. Watch those and then come here on Wednesday when I go live and ask your questions. That's the best thing I would do first. Number two, drippers. The dripper community is $2.99 a month. Or I have a new one starting. is a mini dripper because this one is it went for 12 months. But this one is six months, a six-month commitment. No contracts, nothing like that. But you just going to sit here for six months like I'm going to stay here. It starts in July. It's only 99 up until June 15th. It's $99 a month from July to December, but you have to pay $99 a $99 deposit to to secure your spot. Anything after June 15th is it goes back to $2.99.

[01:06:33]If you wait till July 1st, it's $4.99.

[01:06:38]I am creating real um let me say what I want to say. I'm changing people lives. There's no price to put on your life being changed for the better forever.

[01:06:51]Blair can tell you, Don, Marty B, even Mr. Hayes, they could tell you Mr. He's he he's a dripper that's starting in July, but he and his wife been watching my videos. There are thousands of people that I've helped. Me and Coach Trent, right, baby?

[01:07:08]>> That's right.

[01:07:10]That is right.

[01:07:11]>> There's no when there isn't a dollar amount when somebody change your life.

[01:07:19]Thank you so much.

[01:07:22]You starting you starting in July. Okay, that's what's up.

[01:07:26]Okay, you changed my life, Tana. That's so sweet.

[01:07:32]Open my eyes. Hallelujah. That's gonna be so good. Like, I I just every time I see somebody join, I be like, "Oh, y'all just It's gonna be so good for y'all." I know it's going to be good because I know who I am and what I am and what we got and all these people on this call and and in the larger community when I'm on TikTok and where where I got all the thousands and thou 11,000 followers over there, they're going to tell you same thing. It is lifechanging.

[01:07:59]It's the family that you never ever ever knew you needed.

[01:08:04]She get FOMO.

[01:08:06]Yep. You can trade. What do you trade, Tana? She says you can trade. get FOMO.

[01:08:12]So you know why FOMO is there?

[01:08:16]You know why FOMO is there?

[01:08:19]You do ENQ. So you do U that's futures.

[01:08:23]You do ES or you do both.

[01:08:28]Got ENQ and ES.

[01:08:33]Okay. Does anybody know why she get more?

[01:08:38]Thank you, Marty.

[01:08:41]Thank you, Marty B. That's so sweet. She said, "You're unique and one of a kind."

[01:08:45]I'm I'm gonna agree, but I appreciate it humbly. I really do appreciate it. Oh, yeah. ENQ. I like I know about ENQ. ENQ move real move real fast, baby. ENQ gonna move fast. ENQ gonna pay you. Do you have first of all you have FOMO because you do not have structure.

[01:09:11]I got again you go against your plan. I just you don't have structure and you you go against your plan because you are um you you do not um you lack discipline.

[01:09:26]Yes. is structure. You lack structure and discipline.

[01:09:32]And because you lack structure and discipline, FOMO is now has now become your buddy. It feeds into your ego of not wanting to lose or miss out. But it also is a deeper issue. You have a money scarcity problem.

[01:09:52]You have a improper relationship with money. You operate from a scarcity mindset and it's okay. It could be fixed. All of this could be fixed. But you got to know how to fix it. Where to start? And you know how to do that. Somebody around you got to have done it. We all came from that. You have to surrender complete control.

[01:10:17]Oh, let me add in there. You controlling too.

[01:10:20]I hope you wrote all this down. That's those are things dot dot dot. So over the over the next six months from July to December, you going to get all you got all that you going to conquer if you're willing. If you're willing. There you go. There you go. Boom.

[01:10:39]That's it. Structure, discipline. So four more fees. That's right. That's right. That's right.

[01:10:46]So if you start with structure, structure leads to discipline. Correct.

[01:10:51]Well, structure leads to consistency.

[01:10:53]Consistency will lead to discipline.

[01:10:57]You've been and let me get some more attention. You've been crying and releasing since the live started. Baby, we were crying yesterday. It was a crying party yesterday, too.

[01:11:08]So, first things first, what's my structure? What am I supposed to do? What are what are my rules for trading? When I see my play, I get in here and I get out there. That's what I do. So, while you're doing that, go back and think when did I when did I let my when did I give myself permission to hoard to be a hoarder of money of things?

[01:11:46]Right?

[01:11:47]Why do I feel like I got to have it?

[01:11:52]If I don't get it at that time, what if I miss something? What's going to happen? When did that become okay? Was I nine? Was I six? Was I 12? Go back and think on that. And then we got to go back and release that.

[01:12:11]Forgive her. Release her from that moment.

[01:12:17]and then go back to your structure and then pile positive stuff. Now, this being in a positive community, being around positive people that's speaking your language that's keeping you holding you accountable, right? Y'all get this?

[01:12:31]Am I y'all feel where I'm going with this?

[01:12:34]And we're piling all that good energy on top of that old man so we can get on out of there and reassure you the market is here. The market's not going anywhere. The money is going to be okay.

[01:12:49]You just want a little bit anyway. Every day a little bit. Compound every day.

[01:12:54]Just compound.

[01:12:56]Let it let it let make the money. Let it compound.

[01:13:00]Focus on get outside of yourself. Focus on blessing other people.

[01:13:07]All right?

[01:13:09]Slow down.

[01:13:11]Don't have to trade every day. You don't have to catch every trade.

[01:13:15]You don't.

[01:13:17]And you can make mistakes and you can miss out.

[01:13:21]You can sit on your hands.

[01:13:24]It'll be okay. And when you show that you can surrender, God open up doors that what you thought you were chasing will chase you down, honey. And it's the truth now. It's not a it's a fact. It'll chase you down.

[01:13:43]And I'm And let it catch you, too.

[01:13:46]When it when it get to that kind of overflow, let it let it let it let it change. Let it catch you.

[01:13:54]Ny, catch you, Blair. I got you got my jeans on today.

[01:14:05]I put the barrels on again, but you see I put them on with the red the red slides.

[01:14:11]So, yes, we got it.

[01:14:22]I know. That's right. Chase me down.

[01:14:25]Chase me down.

[01:14:27]So now, Tana, you got homework, don't you?

[01:14:32]It's never about the charts. It's bigger than trading. Come on, bear legs. You see my little ain't it cute enough?

[01:14:44]Come on. Um Um So what structure? What are my rules?

[01:14:49]When do I give myself um when do I get to hoard money at things when I need when Yep.

[01:14:57]Now, let me tell you something about you and your note takingaking girl. You on you on point with it. Love it.

[01:15:05]Thank you. I She's a sweetheart. Thanks, Mrs. A. You know I got y'all now. That's what I'mma do. That's how you get right.

[01:15:15]what what Tana did. She didn't deny nothing. She got her notes and said, "Okay." Cuz she already know. She know.

[01:15:22]She know it's right.

[01:15:25]She know.

[01:15:28]All right. That's fantastic.

[01:15:31]It's been a blessing. I'm glad that I've been able to impart and open up anyone's eyes today. And just let you know, don't feel bad if you are a holder. If you're a holder, don't feel bad. Just know that you can you can you you don't have to do that. You're going to be successful, but you can't force it. You cannot force it.

[01:15:52]You cannot rush it. It don't work that way. You can't force the place. You can't rush the plays.

[01:16:01]God don't care about that. God don't care that you feel like you ready. That you I got to have it right now. God don't care about that.

[01:16:11]God care that you have structure.

[01:16:15]Are you do you have some structure about yourself?

[01:16:20]Are you disciplined?

[01:16:23]Right? Have you managed your emotions?

[01:16:26]Do you know how to manage your time?

[01:16:28]That's what God is looking at, not all that other stuff.

[01:16:42]Oh, I'm Look, I'm sitting up cuz you know Coach Tren almost by the door.

[01:16:52]He almost by the door. He's like, "All right, now when I force, I lose." Absolutely.

[01:17:02]Whenever I do, don't.

[01:17:11]Yes.

[01:17:13]Whenever you you think about it, the struggle is real, but you can get over it. See, this is I don't know how old you are, Tana, but y'all talking 20, 30, 40 years, you know, 50 years of accepted bad behavior. unchecked.

[01:17:32]Unchecked when I don't do a stop loss. I know. I know you do. Cuz listen, when Trent, he didn't have a stop loss when he hit that negative 832,000. It was no stop loss.

[01:17:45]You know, I was on stop loss because it feels good not to have stop loss.

[01:17:50]When you being greedy, who want a stop loss? Anybody stop me out? I'm trying to go for the gusto. I want it all.

[01:18:02]Yep.

[01:18:05]You're gonna do good. We got that futures meet up. They meet up. The futures meet up. The swing meetup.

[01:18:14]I'm like a deer in the headlights. Yep.

[01:18:16]I know you are.

[01:18:18]This is the hardest and most rewarding journey I've ever been on. Blair said, "I'm someone who has always had stuff come easy, but this market does not care about any of that." It don't. And I am thankful for you, coach. Amen. Amen.

[01:18:35]Where are we in the lesson? We about to end the lesson. Uh El Rover, we've been on this call an hour and 18 minutes, but this was simply about you. Go back watch the video. It was simply about why do you sit in trades?

[01:18:51]Why do you sit in trades when you know you supposed to be out?

[01:18:56]Why?

[01:18:59]Now I got to put my want to be cute or something. Know why I said why? Why you sending tra you you know you supposed to be out there trade. You know it.

[01:19:12]That was the discussions.

[01:19:17]Yep. One, two, three. That mean release them. They said that's it.

[01:19:22]Time to roll.

[01:19:26]All right. This has been grand.

[01:19:29]Fantastic. I love y'all. I'm proud. And um I'll be back tomorrow. We go live Monday through Friday. So, my mint uh the mentees and my drippers, y'all know I see y'all in the morning that we have a there's no trading on Monday. There's no trading on Monday. So, don't go look at them charts. Ain't going to be there.

[01:19:49]But what you can do is back test, right? Go back and look over your journal. And if you're not journaling, you need to y'all ain't no reason not to journal. I'm also coming up with a futures journal, too. And I got my swing. Miss me and Miss Ruby. We gonna finish that, too. She She got it done. I just got to give her my part. Swing journal.

[01:20:11]Futures. It's like a swing checklist.

[01:20:14]Futures checklist as well. And I have my trading journal that's on Amazon. So, go support your girl. Go in there and get it. But $39. It's beautiful. Dedicated to my wonderful big brother back there who is pulling strings in heaven. We still We still a team. We still a team.

[01:20:33]The journey didn't end.

[01:20:35]And what you say and don't get clapped.

[01:20:39]And don't get clapped on Friday. Don't give money back to Wall Street. Please don't. Don't do it. Reconsider. You're welcome. Twana.

[01:20:49]I've helped you so much. That's what the goal is. God bless you. All right. Marty B, Mr. Hayes, all my folks. Blair, Tana, uh, forgot who else on here. Don't let me leave nobody. I I can't see names down to I I took the real GL the these the fake ones but they they did hold up these are not fake YSLs but they're not prescriptions.

[01:21:14]Matter of fact, they got my glasses over there. I got to go check in the vision works.

[01:21:19]>> It's been seven weeks. It should not take that long to get my glasses. I got two pair of glasses. Why I went over?

[01:21:25]Oh, I'm sorry. I got distracted. But yeah, I love y'all. Have a wonderful rest of your day.

[01:21:32]and I will see y'all um see my folks in the morning, right?

[01:21:38]Oh, the journal is pretty. Yeah, you don't even want to write in it. I know.

[01:21:42]I know. But you got to write in there.

[01:21:43]But thank you so much, Blair. I appreciate that. God bless you all, too.

[01:21:48]Okay, everyone click the like before we end today. Paying u praying for you.

[01:21:55]Look, I see pretty good a little bit. I can read that. Look, I I'm stretched back, but I can see it. Thank you, Peanut.

[01:22:02]You love it, too, Marty. Thank you.

[01:22:03]Ain't that beautiful? This a good picture of Tim in there. He's always gonna be over my shoulder.

[01:22:09]This best best big brother ever for me.

[01:22:11]I don't know about anybody else. Look, but yeah. So, we still tag teaming. All right. I love y'all. I'll see y'all later to the next live.

[01:22:21]Release them.

[01:22:25]Blair smell pine.