"THIS PERSON NEVER HEARD THE WORD NO" AND NOW THE MELTDOWN IS HAPPENING IN REAL TIME!

[00:00:00]Hey, beautiful collective. Welcome back.

[00:00:03]Thank you for joining me.

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[00:00:10]Okay, so let's talk about Okay, let's get into it.

[00:00:27]The truth.

[00:00:31]We're cutting someone out. Woo.

[00:00:55]They're saying >> [clears throat] >> I guess someone never heard the word no.

[00:01:34]Oh, there's some kind of karma here.

[00:01:37]It's looking like this person never heard the word no, and you told them no.

[00:01:50]I'm not going to be one of your options.

[00:01:53]I'm not going to let you cheat on me.

[00:01:56]I'm not going to be juggled. I'm not going to be one of your options. This person never heard the word no.

[00:02:17]And you said it.

[00:02:21]Don't come near me, man.

[00:02:23]Look.

[00:02:26]You said to this person, "I'm not going to be cheated on. I am not going to be an option of yours."

[00:02:34]They never heard the word no before.

[00:02:41]I think you're the first.

[00:02:44]I think you're the first.

[00:02:56]>> [snorts] >> No.

[00:03:02]I'm not going to be juggled.

[00:03:08]I'm not going to be bread crumbed.

[00:03:12]I am moving on.

[00:03:16]I'm not going to be lied to. I don't want any secrets.

[00:03:21]Look.

[00:03:22]I've made my decision.

[00:03:29]This person thought you would get over it in time.

[00:03:34]They did. They thought you would get over it in time. They thought they'd you would No means yes.

[00:03:41]You don't really mean no.

[00:03:44]No means no.

[00:03:46]I think you're the first person that ever told this person no.

[00:03:51]I'm not going to let you juggle me. No, I'm not going to let you hide things from me.

[00:03:56]No, I'm not going to let you treat me as if I am an option.

[00:04:03]>> [cough and clears throat] >> They never heard that before.

[00:04:08]They thought you didn't mean it. They thought that you'd get over it.

[00:04:22]>> [snorts] >> I think you shocked the hell out of somebody when you just simply went on with your life and walked away.

[00:04:34]I think you got them booed.

[00:04:37]I think you have someone in shock.

[00:04:41]I don't think anybody's ever turned them down before.

[00:04:44]I don't think that they've used to hearing the word no.

[00:04:56]Like, they're used to getting attention.

[00:04:59]Okay?

[00:05:01]That's their ego talking here, I think.

[00:05:06]You may have crushed someone's ego here.

[00:05:09]They're used to having control.

[00:05:13]They're used to having control, and I think you shattered their ego.

[00:05:26]Ooh.

[00:05:28]Somebody sure don't like your confidence.

[00:05:39]And it's like you're manifesting You are manifesting happiness, and it's like you've got someone in shock. They don't think it's fair.

[00:05:54]They don't think it's fair that you could just simply move on and be happy.

[00:06:04]They thought that you would They thought you were going to compete.

[00:06:10]They thought you would fight for them.

[00:06:12]They thought they're not used to people telling them no. They're used to getting what they want. They're used to getting their own way. This shocked their ego.

[00:06:26]It's a shock to their system.

[00:06:29]Because I think their options used to fight for them, used to compete for them.

[00:06:38]Like this person's ego is beyond ordinary.

[00:06:43]>> [snorts] >> Um I think you've shocked the heck out of them because they didn't think that you meant it. They didn't think you were serious. They didn't think because they're not used to hearing no.

[00:07:01]Nobody rejects me.

[00:07:04]>> [laughter] >> I see. So, what they thought they could do everything in secret see that you wouldn't find out about it and even if they did that you would still hold on to them.

[00:07:23]Ooh, they think They thought wrong. See, they waited.

[00:07:29]They waited. They thought you'd be back.

[00:07:34]They thought you'd fight for them. They thought that you would react differently than what you reacted.

[00:07:43]Maybe they did this to test you to test if you really were serious or not. I don't know.

[00:07:51]But you told this person, "I'm not going to be juggled. I'm not going to be one of your options.

[00:07:57]I'm not going to be treated like an option.

[00:08:00]And I'm not going to settle for breadcrumbs."

[00:08:06]I think you had You gave this person an ego shock.

[00:08:11]Cuz they're not used to hearing They're not used to being rejected.

[00:08:18]They're honestly like, "No one rejects me.

[00:08:23]I get what I want when I want it."

[00:08:28]But you did.

[00:08:41]That's why they feel betrayed.

[00:08:50]They're [laughter] crying over spilled milk cuz you went silent on them.

[00:08:58]Okay.

[00:09:00]So, it's almost like, "Oh, they'll be back."

[00:09:05]See, they're a player and they're used to getting what they want when they want it.

[00:09:14]I think you shocked them.

[00:09:17]I think you turned them down.

[00:09:21]I [snorts] think you did not fight for them.

[00:09:25]At the end, you may have fought for them earlier on in the relationship, but you're just like went silent. Okay.

[00:09:35]Having your own But I'm not settling.

[00:09:43]Whoa.

[00:09:47]You got this person shook.

[00:09:57]You're no chump change here. You're very attractive yourselves.

[00:10:02]And I think that they may have broke your heart, but I think they broke their own more.

[00:10:22]>> [snorts] >> They waited.

[00:10:28]They thought they'd be hearing from you or that they wished They wished that that they never it that they didn't end this situation.

[00:10:41]I think you made a fool of somebody. I think you made somebody feel foolish.

[00:10:58]They thought that you were attached to them.

[00:11:03]This person was moving so slow.

[00:11:07]It's like it's almost like no one has ever turned them down before.

[00:11:20]No one has ever meant what they said and said what they meant. Nobody's ever just like stopped talking to this person.

[00:11:30]They pride themselves on like like people just are so attracted to me that they'll put up with me. They'll put up with everything I do. This might be the most polite individual that you met. They were a gaslighter when you met them.

[00:11:56]Like they put their best foot forward.

[00:11:58]They could be very romantic, very charismatic, very charming.

[00:12:05]Uh they think they can charm the clothes off of people.

[00:12:11]They're a flirt.

[00:12:18]They think of themselves as like Prince Charming.

[00:12:30]And I think that's why they feel betrayed and hurt is because you told them no. I'm not going to put up with you.

[00:12:38]I'm not going to be cheated on. I'm not going to be with somebody who cheats on me. I'm not going to be breadcrumbed.

[00:12:44]I'm not going to be an option. They didn't like it. I think you shook them to their core.

[00:12:52]You damaged their ego.

[00:13:06]Everyone in their past let me do this.

[00:13:10]Everyone in my past. That's what they're saying.

[00:13:14]Everybody let me do this.

[00:13:23]And they thought that you were a fool. Oh, for for not Oh, it's that you're the one making the mistake, that you're the one who's a fool.

[00:13:36]Do you know who I am?

[00:13:39]I'm Prince Charming, right?

[00:13:43]This is how they think of themselves.

[00:13:45]This person is so egotistical, it's insane.

[00:13:56]Like They're used to getting whoever and whatever they want.

[00:14:03]But you.

[00:14:07]Everyone else put up with it.

[00:14:10]Everyone else Everyone else did. Everyone else put up with this person, but not you.

[00:14:20]You shook their ego to the core.

[00:14:26]That's why they can't get over you.

[00:14:31]That's why you'll be the one that broke their heart, because everyone else put put up with it.

[00:14:43]I break people's hearts. They're like, I'm the heartbreaker. Nobody breaks my heart.

[00:14:50]But you did.

[00:14:53]Because you said no.

[00:14:56]You said no, I'm not going to let you treat me this way. Nope, I'm not going to let you treat me like an option. I'm not going to allow it. I'm not going to let you do it.

[00:15:12]They waited.

[00:15:16]They waited.

[00:15:19]They thought you would come back.

[00:15:23]They thought you would reach out. They thought you would chase, and then they would have had complete control of you.

[00:15:35]They would have had you exactly where they wanted you.

[00:15:39]Allowing them to breadcrumb you, juggle you.

[00:15:45]Oh my, this person they've done this before.

[00:15:52]And they're well educated in it.

[00:16:02]You're the first person that ever said no to them.

[00:16:06]And meant it.

[00:16:10]You got them shook. That's why they will never forget you.

[00:16:16]Cuz you're the only one that told them no.

[00:16:23]Take care.