Someone is pissed off to the core because they can’t understand why you wouldn’t fight for them

Added: 2026-06-02

[00:00:00]Have you ever watched someone ride through a massive fit, a massive tantrum only to stop instantly when they realize that nobody is looking? This is exactly what this person, this is the kind of shock and confusion that they are facing at this current moment. This person is just upset and pissed off to the core because they cannot understand why you stop fighting for them. This is somebody who thought that you had the infinite patience and that you will always be there. You will always show up. Right?

[00:00:38]And so right now that things have completely gone cold. right now that things are not going the way they intended for it to go. They don't understand why you stop fighting for them. You see, they believed you would always be there. They believed you would always show up, but you decided to quietly, you know, move and walk away because this person caused you nothing but pain. and now they're extremely bitter because they don't know why you stopped giving or putting in the effort that you were putting to begin with.

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[00:02:10]And so, they believe you would always show up to fix things. You will always be the fixer. You will always be the one who will put things together. No matter their reaction, no matter their disrespect, no matter their unwillingness to put in the same effort, they know that you will always show up. When this person was around, right, they caused you a lot of pain. They caused you a lot of discomfort. The reason why I say so is because this is someone who will intentionally start up an argument where they don't need to be one, right? They will pull away, right? Or create drama just to see how you know hard you would work for for them or how hard you will work to make things right. This is how this person was. They caused you nothing but constant worry, constant pain, constant stress. You were always going back and forth. You could not understand why you guys could not have a stable consistent happiness or joy for a while. That is because when this person see that things were going too good, they intentionally cause pain or cause an argument or cause a dramatic scene where you would work hard to make things right because this person knew you would, right? And so this is somebody who um in their mind, right, every time you begged, right, every time you begged or apologize or stay up all night trying to talk things through, it fed their ego, right? It fed their ego. They felt so big. They felt so proud. They they knew that they were extremely important in your life and that is why they would intentionally cause issues. Now, let me make something clear, right? You are not somebody who was just begging for the attention. You are not somebody who was constantly begging because you didn't know what to do. You are someone who really wanted things to work. You were someone who believed that inside that person there was some there was some kind of good, right? There was some kind of person that will meet you in a reasonable state. But you wanted peace to reign.

[00:04:31]And that is why you would usually apologize to some things that you didn't even cause or mistakes that you did not make. But this person to them it was their ego boost, right? Every time they needed an ego boost, they set up a dramatic scene. They cause issues and so on and so forth, right? This person loved the feeling of being chased. They loved it so much. They mistook your loyalty for weakness, believing that because you love them, because you care about them, because you show up for them, you will tolerate their bad behavior forever, you will not have any um you will not um there's a word I'm looking for. You will never oppose what they say, right? And so this person completely misunderstood everything. And this person thought they could push you to the absolute edge. They could push you to the end of things and you would just hang on tighter. They knew that you were not going anywhere. They knew that you were fixed. They knew that you were a a permanent fixture for them, right?

[00:05:41]But this person this person completely misunderstood everything and misunderstood who you really are, right?

[00:05:47]And so they they didn't realize that the strongest people are not the ones that fight forever, right? But the ones who exactly know when to stop.

[00:05:58]You had tried and tried and then you finally got to your stopping point. And so the exact moment you chose to stop fighting, their entire strategy collapsed. Their ego went downhill. You didn't make, you know, make them to feel like they're less important. You just told them that you've had enough and that you are not going to keep fighting for something that you don't get results for. And so they are facing a massive downfall because they cannot handle the fact that you will not always be there.

[00:06:31]They are facing a downfall that because they cannot um their people they cannot handle accountability. This person cannot handle accountability. This person got so used to always blaming things on you for all for this person got used to always pointing the fingers at you, right? For for when anything goes wrong, you were the problem. And you know when you were fighting for uh the relationship, friendship, whatever connection you had with this individual, they could print out your frustration and say you were the difficult one. They will point out your where you were really struggling to make them see things with you and tell you you were the difficult one. They will literally gaslight you. But now that you are completely gone and they have absolutely nobody, you know, to force they uh to to to point the fingers at they are forced to face their own choices and take accountability for their own actions.

[00:07:35]Right? This person is realizing that you were never the problem, right? Their inability to appreciate you was the problem. And so their regret is getting heavier every single day because they realize that what life is actually like without a safety or that a person that brings so much peace is crazy.

[00:07:59]They are coming into that realization.

[00:08:02]>> [snorts] >> um when they had you right, they were safe. They had you. You were always pulling up, showing up, trying to make things right. Now that you're completely gone, they are facing it. They are going through the darkest moment. They are going through the hardest moment. And so that is where your importance is beginning to pop up. If you haven't given the video a thumbs up, family, kind go ahead and do so. Hit the subscribe button, become part of our awesome family, keep those notification bells always, always turned on so every time a new video is posted, you will be one of the very first people to know. I want to use this opportunity and thank each and every single one of you who have swn into this ministry. I pray that the Lord blesses you and may your pockets never run dry. If you feel led, if you feel touched to sew a seed, we have cash app and PayPal link on the scrolling line below the screen and I have also put it in the description below this video. As you sew into this ministry, the Lord richly bless you.

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