Is Being Gay Wrong?

[00:00:00]Welcome friends. Today's video is going to be interesting because I'm going to teach you why there is nothing wrong with being gay. A lot of people in this world are very homophobic and they say that being gay is something that is wrong, unmoral, unjust, and so on. Now, I'm going to prove today on this [ __ ] whiteboard that that isn't true. This is a follow-up on the shame and guilt video because one thing is to understand how to get rid of shame and guilt. Another thing is how to defend it. Because as we're changing the perspectives inside of our mind, we need to have the best tools and frameworks to actually combat the perspectives, the bad perspectives that is inside our mind. So I'm going to write it here because it's very important.

[00:00:47]This is the same framework that we used in yesterday's video. perspective, perception, emotional outcome. Your perspectives, they dictate your perception of reality and your perception of reality dictates your emotional outcome. Now, when people say that it's wrong to be gay and that it's unmoral to be gay, we first have to look at what morality actually is. What defines if something is moral? What defines if something is unmoral? Good and bad doesn't really exist or it's at least subjective. If something is to be moral, it has to be a conscious action that affects well-being. And I'm going to explain why it is that it needs to be this way. It has to be a conscious act that affects well-being. Now, if something is to be moral or amoral, it has to be a conscious action that affects well-being for the negative and then it's immoral and for the positive then it's moral. So an example that we can use with this, a person comes walking past me, right? I'm sitting here and I'm sleeping. If a person walks past me and trips over my leg, is that moral or is it immoral? I'm sitting and sleeping. I haven't seen this person walking past me. He tripping over my legs is not something that I consciously do. And if one of these three pillars isn't there, morality has nothing to say. If it isn't a conscious action, then it has nothing to do with morality.

[00:02:17]Now, if I sat sleeping and I saw a person walking past me and I then purposefully extended my legs to trip him. Well, that would be a conscious action. I consciously extend my legs to trip him.

[00:02:31]That affects your well-being and it affects well-being for the negative.

[00:02:36]So, that was an immoral thing to do. If I then sit with my legs extended and a person is walking here, I see that person and I then take my legs like this so the person can walk past it. Well, that is an conscious action that I have done that affects well-being in the sense that this guy don't have to, you know, take a different way past me or isn't in danger of tripping over my legs. So, it's a conscious action that affects wellbeing for the positive.

[00:03:11]Therefore, it's moral.

[00:03:16]Now, let's take being gay. So, being gay, is that a conscious action? And some people will say it is.

[00:03:26]And the thing that you got to ask that person is, have they chosen to like strawberry cakes? Because strawberry cakes, they taste amazing. But you did not choose to like them, just as you didn't choose not to like broccoli.

[00:03:41]Being gay is not something that you choose because you don't choose your desires. You don't choose whether you like strawberry cake. You don't choose that you don't like broccoli. It's not a conscious action that you do. Therefore, we can say being gay, it's not it is not a conscious action. Therefore, it has nothing to do with morality. You cannot say that it's immoral or immoral or nothing like that because it has nothing to do with morality. And if you want an example of this, we can also take being black has something to do with morality.

[00:04:10]If well, it isn't a conscious action to be black because you haven't chosen your skin color. So, it has nothing to do with morality. And it's weird if a person says, "Well, it's immoral to be black." It's kind of like what? The same goes being gay because you haven't chosen to be gay. You haven't chosen your desires. You haven't chosen to like strawberry cakes. The reason that I give you this framework and I know it's masterfully drawn is because your perspective now on being gay with this framework will make your perception do a little difference because now you can internalize that morality good or bad has nothing to do with being gay because it isn't something that you have consciously chosen. That is your perspective. Now that perspective is going to change your perception on how re reality works because if it isn't something bad then you are not bad. So your emotional outcome it will change. You won't feel bad about being gay. I tell you this because for first of all it's a follow up to the other video that I made. But secondly this framework have been teaching side games for a long time now and it gives people peace. As gay people, you really need to define your perspectives. You really need to know what you're putting inside of your brain. Is it good for you? Is it bad for you? If it's bad for you, why are you consuming it? A lot of gay people or people these days, they they just consume and consume and consume. They have no time to rationalize. They have no time to think about what they have consumed. And that's a very dangerous trap to fall into because if you cannot think and differentiate between your thoughts, well, you don't have any control over it. If you tolerate a bunch of [ __ ] being cast into your mind, then you have no control over it. Tolerance, it neutralizes control. And that's a very important thing to have inside your mind, very important motor to have too.

[00:06:00]So to be sure, absolutely sure that you have internalized this, right? If you are gay, you have a desire, you are a man who is erotically attracted to other men. When I say that, please internalize it. What does it mean to be erotic? What it means to be attracted sexually and romantically to another person? To cultivate those feelings for another person. When you just say that you are attracted to men, it's very limiting with what you think. Because if you're attracted to men, you're attracted to every single thing about men, bad and good. If you're erotically attracted to men, it's sexually and it's romantically that you're attracted to other men. And it has nothing to do with whether you're masculine or femininity to be gay. So being gay is just the sexuality. The personal traits that then comes on top of the fact of being gay. Well, that's just extra. But it has nothing to do with being gay because definition of being gay is a man who's rightly attracted to another man. Nothing less, nothing more. If you're very feminine, have you chosen to be feminine?

[00:06:58]Well, you haven't. It's probably been a part of your genetics, a part of your environment, a part of how you grew up, a part of how you were born. So, is it a conscious action that you are feminine?

[00:07:08]No, it is not. Therefore, it has nothing to do with morality. The same with being masculine, not a conscious action. So, it has nothing to do with morality. I don't want you because of your biological precepts to feel bad about who you are because there's nothing to feel bad about.

[00:07:28]The only thing that you can feel bad about is your actions and the consequences of those actions. And the reason you feel bad is in order not to do those actions again. Being gay is not an action. It's an erotic desire to be with another man. Let's put the conscious action aside and let's say that you are gay. Is it a conscious action? No. Don't have anything to do with morality? But let's go through it again. Does be does you being gay being erotically attracted to another man and you two and you having a relationship with another man, does that affect your well-being? And no, it doesn't like at all. You being with another man, it doesn't affect others well-being at all.

[00:08:07]But homophobia does. When we take homophobia, homophobia is a very conscious action that affects well-being for the negative. And I want you to internalize this. I want you to go through this. This is a framework to think about. One of many inside mask.

[00:08:23]And I first taught this on a live power upon mask. Every Wednesday I go live inside mask. And I give you one of these lessons. It's an extra YouTube video you can see and you get it for free because scare and mask is for free. I want clustered people to have a place to go to because I know what it was like to be clusted where I didn't have all of these frameworks and had the shame and had the guilt and had every single bad association you can have with being radically attracted to another man.

[00:08:50]That's also why I am so passionate about these subjects because I have been through them. This is procedural knowledge that I have around this. If you are a man who's irally attracted to another man, get inside mass. Get with like-minded people who wants the best for you, who have been through what you are going through or maybe are going through it themselves right now. Connect with those people because it's very hard to achieve things alone. And when you have a free opportunity to be with like-minded people who will teach you these things, who are on your team, on your side, who wants to get better mentally and physically themselves, too.

[00:09:29]Why not join them? You literally only have to create a school account and then that's it. The link is in the description. Otherwise, there is nothing left to say other than to go out, to be gay, to be great, to be unmask. I will see you inside of the next