In relationships, understanding the three-sided dynamic (your energy, their energy, and the connection between you) reveals that partners often reflect our own self-worth and healing work; Virgo's intense passion and forgiveness in this connection suggests a pattern of breakups and makeups where the other person's emotional walls and fear of rejection prevent genuine intimacy, indicating that sustainable relationships require both parties to address their own insecurities and unmet needs.
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VIRGO LOVE TAROT | They will come back, but Spirit wants you to know this… | MAY 2026Added:
Hello Virgo and welcome to my channel Tarot by Gabrielle. This is going to be a general reading for sun, moon, rising, and Venus placements looking at your connection between you and the person that you are dealing with and are needing to learn the most from right now. We'll be pulling for all three sides of the connection. So, we'll look at your energy toward it, their energy toward it, and the energy in between it.
The concept being that there are three sides to every story. So, we'll be looking at your version of the truth, their version of the truth, and this higher level unbiased truth in the middle. This middle section we'll be looking at what is the deeper purpose of the connection and the best way for you to move forward in order to align further with your higher self. Friendly reminder that these are general readings and they are not here to resonate fully for everyone and they won't resonate fully for everyone. So do please remember to take what does resonate and helps your personal situation and to leave what does not. On that note and especially if you are a crosswatcher just know this whole reading can be reversed. If that is the case for you that is totally fine and totally normal.
Again the point is to take what helps and leave what doesn't. Last thing is that any information on the extended reading or on booking a personal reading or coaching session with me can be found in the description box below.
All right, Virgo. We're going to jump on in. We're going to start with looking at overall energy for this connection through oracle cards first. So, we're going to look at your energy toward it, their energy toward it, and the energy in between it with oracle cards, and then we'll dive deeper into the reading with tarot as we progress. But let's first start here Virgo with your energy towards the person you are dealing with and are needing to learn the most from right now more.
All right. This is for Virgo side of this connection. Passion.
So, I feel like your feelings for this person um are really intense.
There's a lot of obviously passion and chemistry here, but there's something else. Okay, dead end. Forgiveness with growth. Okay, so I feel like you're constantly giving out forgiveness in this connection. Like this person is constantly doing things you're having to forgive. And I feel like there is this hope that eventually things get to a better place because again I think that there's you know the feelings are strong. It's it's very intense. It's very exciting. Um but then there's a lot of things that I feel keep you feeling unhappy or not having what it is that you feel you need to feel like secure or safe within the connection. cuz I feel like there's this energy here of just always kind of being on edge. Like there's a lot of anxiety um in this energy and maybe there's anxiety around this person, how they're going to show up, what they're going to do. Um and I think that there's yeah, there's a lot of trying to like waiting on things to improve, to get better, but like when it's good, it's good and it makes it feel worth it. Um but let's look at this person's energy toward you.
This person has major walls built up.
So, boundaries with optimism and friendship. Um, so this boundaries card here, um, it's like they have this wall built up to keep people out. Like I see this as kind of like a fence.
The thing that comes to mind is like a fence around a prison in a way, which isn't I guess the prison is to keep people in, but it's like they're trapped in some way. I don't know. But they they also really have walls built up here.
Um, I feel like they have feelings for this connection, but it feels like they don't show a whole lot of vulnerability with this friendship card. And I think that that's where you're, you know, you're always kind of wanting more out of it and from this person. And again, it's like they are constantly doing things that they're then asking for forgiveness for or like that you're having to forgive or like look past. Um, with this optimism card, I feel like they see a lot of potential here in this connection and with you, but it feels like they won't like let you in enough to actually develop that.
Like they see it, they want it, but they're keeping you out or keeping themselves in, trapped in.
Maybe that's where that analogy came from. Okay. Truth of the connection here between Virgo and this person.
Okay. Separation. I feel like there's a lot of like separation and reconnection.
like this energy feels very in and out.
It's like when they're they're in it, it's like they you feel it feels good.
It's exciting. You feel like things are going to go really well, like finally, you know, they're going to improve. And then it's like, oh, nope. And they build up that wall to keep you out.
synchronicity.
I want one more. What is that representing?
Feel like there's a reason you and this person were drawn toward each other. I feel like there's something about this connection that's very important for like your journey.
Breakups and makeups. That's literally what I was feeling. That kind of in-n-out energy.
Maybe currently you're at a disconnection with this person, trapped.
It's like this person is trapped within the walls of which they built, which keeps you trapped outside of them.
Um, the synchronicity card is interesting. It's almost like I think this is where I'm kind of getting that deeper reason for this.
I also am kind of gathering that your guides have an important message for you about this. I mean literally um 44 is the number of this card and I'm really drawn to this white flower or why did I say flower? Feather.
It's like um maybe you're seeing a lot of white feathers and that's kind of confirmation of this reading in a way.
I don't know. There are a lot of flowers on here though. There's flowers there.
There's flowers here.
Okay.
Just taking a taking in the imagery there. Oh, look. More flowers with romance on the bottom.
Okay.
Overall theme of this between you and this person, overall theme of this connection, of this reading, this is spirit wanting you to know about this.
Whoa. I knew we were going to see this card.
There will be a return, but then on the bottom you have never again. So, I feel like you've been stuck in a cycle with this person for a while and right now you're at a disconnect with them, but there's been a lot of breakups and makeups, a lot of distance and reconnection.
I said your guides have an important message for you about this. I don't know. There's something here.
Someone has unmet needs. This is you. Oh my gosh. Look, there's the feather again.
Huh?
I knew I was drawn to that feather for a reason.
So, your guides have a message for you about your unmet needs in this connection.
That's so interesting. It's literally Yeah, it's a white feather. I've never noticed that before.
Okay, let's see what comes through.
All right, Virgo, let's look at your side of this. Forgiveness with passion.
Virgo's energy toward the person they are dealing with.
I don't know. There's something about this person's energy that it's like kind of uh red flaggy, I guess.
See, this is for Virgo's side of this connection here.
King of Cups in reverse.
I feel like this person is really good.
Okay. The Empress at Here you are, Queen of Pentacles. Okay, hang on. I'm going to pull all the messages so I'm not giving like trying to give messages while they're coming through and it's it's messing with me. Justice in reverse.
Okay. Okay. Okay.
Eight of swords. There's that trapped energy.
Eight of swords and you have the three of swords on the bottom. So, it's like you're trapped in this heartbreak.
There's the 10 of cups. You see this as your 10 of cups. It's like there's such a desire for this connection here, but there's a warning around this. Okay. So, I feel like this person is really good at kind of keeping you like hooked in a way because again, I think that they've been really in and out of your life or like in and out of like investing in the connection, you know, even if they're still in your life. And it's like you're constantly having to kind of forgive the past behavior, you know, letting back in. And I think it feels worth it to you because you see such potential and such a future here. And with this Empress here, I do feel like you show up in this connection with so much love and care and empathy and compassion. There's a lot of really beautiful energy that you provide. And then with the Queen of Pentacles, obviously, yes, this is Virgo energy.
But I also see this is you just very stable, very, you know, like always there um for them maybe or like always there to kind of, you know, just like stable. Stable like uh what's the like loyal I guess is a good word for this here. Um, but then there's this justice in reverse. You keep getting screwed over. You keep getting screwed over in this connection. You keep ending up with the short end of the stick. And I think that that's what this someone has a met needs card is about is just like you are constantly finding yourself wanting more out of this. And like again, when you are connected with this person or like when this person is showing up the way that you want, I do feel like it feels really good and it feels really worth it. But then it's like you're trapped in consistently getting your heart broken. So, it's like, you know, things are good, but then eventually you end up in that three of swords energy. It was on the bottom of the deck for this eight of swords.
It's not out right now, but it's like you get you're this is this eight of swords talking about kind of being trapped here. Um, so things are good, but then you end up back in that three of swords energy and back in the energy of like hoping, waiting, wishing, you know, wanting things to be better. And I think throughout this, it's like you've shown up with nothing but kind of like like the word that comes to mind is like poise. Like trying to be very understanding, very patient. Um there's a lot of like consideration here. So I feel like you're really taking this person's feelings, their situation into account. It's like um yeah, there's this willingness here, but it doesn't mean you don't have feelings, right? I think that you're also struggling a lot. I also feel this King of Cups in reverse is something interesting. You could be dealing with a water sign, Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio. But I also see this as something a little bit different. It kind of feels like there's this energy of um it's like like there this person is like your you're not that you are a weak person but like your weakness in a way where it's like with other people I feel like you wouldn't really have like let this go on for as long as it has or you maybe would have put your foot down or set boundaries or just been like whatever it's not worth it but because it's this person and because you see them as your 10 of cups I think that it feels worth it. Um, even though I do feel that you keep getting screwed over here. Um, so interesting.
Let's see where we go from here.
hair all over me.
Okay, this person's energy toward you, Virgo.
See what's going on here.
Spirit's got a lot to say about this person.
Your guides are like really trying to get a message through this person's energy toward you.
10 of wands, two of pentacles reversed.
Oh, I don't like this energy with the four of cups in reverse.
Let me get some more here.
Two of swords in reverse, the sun, the hermit in reverse.
There's a lot of reversed cards here, I guess. Two, four.
Okay.
Um, this person is really used to being alone in their life. I feel like they even if they h are like surrounded by a lot of people or they've had a lot of relationships, it's like they've always been it's kind of that like alone in a crowded room energy where it's like even if they're surrounded by people, they're always really distant from them. Like nobody ever really gets too close cuz I don't feel like they ever really let anybody in. It does feel as if they do everything in their power to keep people out or to keep them from having to be vulnerable. There's a huge fear here and this is really interesting cuz I think this might shock you. I think this person this person comes off it's like their energy is very confident like they're very sure of themsel and I kind of feel that with like just this like I guess the sun energy in a way. It's like they they try to to present themselves as somebody who it's just like this very self assured energy.
Um I also feel like the sun is kind of a reflection of how they do see you. Like I do feel like they see you kind of as a light in their life, but I also feel like that yeah, it's like they they come off as very selfish assured, very confident, but it's like deep down there's a huge cuz with this T of Wands, it's like they're carrying this huge burden. And this burden almost feels it's like this fear of rejection, this fear of like, oh, if somebody gets too close to me, they're going to see that I'm not like lovable or worth it. Um, so I'm just never gonna let anybody in. And this deep-seated like fear of rejection, it keeps them from really ever letting relationships develop or to get too deep because it's like I already know I'm going to get hurt or I already know like this person is going to reject me or whatever. I mean, there's a lot of insecurity here, which I again, I feel like would really surprise you about their energy um or about about them because of how they show up. Or maybe you know that because you know them really well, depending on how long you've been around this person, but there is a lot of insecurity here and they lead with trying to protect themsel from that insecurity. So, I feel like they've built up kind of this this uh I mean it's it's very egotriven. It's like they've built up this identity, this um mask or this this version of them that they kind of portray to others and it's a version of them that you know they don't probably don't ever show weakness or you know they are just very like it's like very say like cold in a way but that's not who they really are. I actually feel like this person deep down is very sensitive, but it's like they would deny that.
And I know this is interesting. There's a lot there's a lot spirit, like I said, spirit has to say about this person. Um, so that's why I feel like their energy is so wishy-washy is they desire connection. They desire intimacy, right? but they also fear it at the very same time because they're afraid of what that could result in.
They're carrying a lot from their past they haven't dealt with and they're not seeing things like they're not it doesn't feel like they actually have a lot of like self-awareness. So, I feel like they don't see things they don't pay attention to how their actions impact others. I feel like this energy is very it's it's it does feel a little bit selfish. I'm not trying to just like it's not hurt people hurt people, right? It doesn't mean they're a bad person, but it does definitely feel like they play with other people's emotions a lot. Not even necessarily intentionally, but because they like that control. I think that that keeps them in that kind of ego place.
And I think that what's hard for you is, you know, you see all the potent because again, you might see past that mask. You might see who this person really is. you might see who like what this connection could potentially be, right? And you're like, if you know, if we could just get to a certain place and things would be so good. But this person, they have a lot of work to do on themsel. And I think that spirit is wanting you to be wary, like be cautious around the things that they say. It's like paying more attention to actions instead of words because I feel like this person, it's like they don't want to lose this connection, but they don't really want to have to show up any different. And that's where I feel like you're needing to be cautious is it's like if you want somebody who, you know, is capable of being vulnerable, is capable of commitment, is, you know, able to really grow and develop healthy, sustainable connections.
That's not them. And I think that that's why it's like they might come back. In fact, I feel like they they plan to like it's like there's just this constant returning, but it's like they return only to get to a certain point, but then they withdraw. They pull back because they don't want to go past that point in terms of like intimacy and commitment.
And you but you want that, right? That's where your needs aren't being met.
You're wanting more out of this. You're wanting commitment. You're wanting consistency. You're wanting somebody who chooses you. And that's something that I feel like you are continuing to lack from this person. So, I feel like spirit has a little bit of like a cautious vibe about this message, wanting you to kind of understand where they're at and and ultimately understand that how they're showing up in this, this has to do with them. Like, they've got a lot, like I said, of work to do on themsel here. Remember, our relationships with other people are um or or how other people show up for us are more is more of a reflection of where they're at, you know, in their own energy. That's why hurt people hurt people, not because they, you know, we deserve to hurt or to be hurt, but because um they treat, you know, they we can only value, choose, show up for others to the extent that we do so for ourselves. So if deep down we're very insecure and we don't believe that we're worthy, lovable, deserving things of that nature, then the way that we're going to show up is going to reflect these feelings of ourel which if we aren't careful and we're dealing with somebody who's showing up in that way, we're going to take that personally and we're going to go, "Oh, you don't think I'm good enough, worthy, and deserving." And it doesn't have anything to do with you. It has more to do with them and where they're at. But yeah, I definitely feel like spirit has just like this caution message about this person cuz it's like you want what you feel this person could potentially provide if they changed, healed, grew, things of that nature. But you know, and you might see that potential, but the thing is everybody has the ability to be the best version of themsel and everybody has the potential to be the worst version of themsel. Like we all land somewhere on the scale between our higher self and our shadow. And the am the extent to which or it's not that we're perfect all the time, right? We're not trying to be. That's not the goal.
But the more that we l, you know, we lean more toward like showing up in alignment with our higher self is going to depend on how much work we've done, how much healing we've done, how much we've gotten intentional about our growth. And if we don't do that, then we're obviously going to show up more in our shadow. And so when we see the potential in another person, we're essentially saying, I mean, I see, you know, the potential that you have because I see the potential that I have.
That's why other people's um you the potential we see in another person is a reflection of our own. But I just I feel like in general here there's a need to understand what is happening in a different way and just just proceed with caution cuz again like I do think you see this person as your 10 of cups but I think you see this person's potential as your 10 of cups but there's no guarantee or really indication that that's that's where they're headed. Um, and we don't want to put our eggs in the basket of someone else's potential because we're putting our eggs in the basket of somebody who doesn't exist, right?
Because somebody's potential doesn't exist. But we're going to dive deeper into this. Um, you have synchronicity with breakups and makeups. We're going to dive into the deeper purpose of the connection and the best way for you to move forward in alignment with your higher self to attract and receive the love that you deserve. I'm going to pull 12 different messages. Then I've got an advice card that I will close out that reading with at the very end. Any information for that is in the description box below. Thank you so much, Virgo, as always for your support of my channel. I obviously hope that this helped and resonated with you in a way that you are needing today. And as always, I wish you nothing but love and healing and all of the wonderful things you deserve and desire on your journey moving forward. All right, bye. Never go.
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