On Mother’s Day the Narcissistic Mother...Does THIS

Added: 2026-05-11

[00:00:00]So, how is that narcissistic mother on Mother's Day? Well, I'm going to get into it today. Happy Mother's Day to everybody. I want to wish all you badass mothers a happy Mother's Day and any fathers who are raising their children because they may have married a narcissistic woman and they're raising those kids on their own. So, we're going to get into how the narcissist is on Mother's Day. Okay.

[00:00:33]On Mother's Day, the narcissistic mother acts like the queen of all queens. Okay.

[00:00:40]This is her day to portray to everybody else that she is the queen. She always thinks she's the queen, but especially on Mother's Day. Okay. And some of the things that she's gonna do is number one, she's gonna post on social media her kids. All right? Or she's going to have her kids wish her happy Mother's Day on social media so that everybody can think that she is mother of the year. But the truth of the matter is narcissistic mothers really don't want to be a mother. The only reason they become a mother is for image. Okay?

[00:01:19]Narcissistic mothers are extremely selfish. Selfish. Selfish. Did I mention selfish? Yeah, they're selfish. Okay.

[00:01:27]They want to live their own life. They want to do what they want to do. And they of course always put themselves first before their kids. But on Mother's Day, this is where they really play the role of pretending to be mother of the year because they want everybody to think they are the greatest thing that ever ever walked the earth.

[00:01:50]So they'll be posting pictures of, you know, everybody telling them what a great mother they are so that, you know, they could live that false image out in the public. But behind closed doors, the narcissistic mother can be very, very cruel. Very cruel to her kids. Except for the golden child. See, narcissistic mothers, they pick favorites. They always have a favorite. That's the golden child. That's the minion of the narcissistic mother. That's the child that validates the narcissistic mother, tells her how wonderful she is, flatters her all the time, agrees with her.

[00:02:30]That's who the narcissistic mother is going to prioritize. And especially on Mother's Day. See, narcissistic mothers, they don't unite their kids. They pit their kids against each other.

[00:02:44]Narcissistic mothers are also very, very competitive. They never want to see their kids do better than them. They're even jealous of their children. So, if you're a victim of a narcissistic mother, you're going to feel a certain way on Mother's Day because in a sense, you never really had a mother that was loving, nurturing, validating you. See, narcissistic mothers, they never validate you. They victim shame you.

[00:03:12]They always tell you, "Well, you did it to yourself." All right? They don't have any empathy when you're going through anything. They feel that if you have problems, you cause those problems yourself. So they will never ever comfort you or make you feel loved.

[00:03:29]They also feel entitled to treat you any which way. Okay? Because they have the they have the mindset of, well, I'm the mother. I had you. So I could treat you any which way and I don't need to respect any kind of boundaries whatsoever.

[00:03:45]And if you don't like it, then guess what? That narcissistic mother could abandon you, drop you, leave you for dead. You know why? Because her pride is bigger than anything else. Her pride is bigger than any kind of love she could ever have for a child. That's why narcissistic mothers could cut off their children and not worry about it and and always blame that child. Okay? Because a narcissistic mother doesn't want to resolve conflict. She wants to sweep conflict under the rug. So on Mother's Day, here's how the narcissistic mother is going to roll. She's going to pretend like everything is all right. Even if she's not all right with all of her kids, she's going to pretend like it's all right. Because in her delusional world, she wants to think that she's a great mother. Okay.

[00:04:39]She's also going to be looking to who respects her on Mother's Day and who doesn't. who calls her, who sends her something. She's keeping a a record, a checklist of who does this and who does that so that she could use it later on.

[00:04:56]She will also guilt trip her kids if they don't make her the priority on Mother's Day. So, she will want her kids to put her even before their spouses.

[00:05:07]All right? So they she expects you to bow down if you're a child of a narcissistic mother. She comes even before you know your your husband or your wife or whatever. All right? She expects complete you know priority over anybody or anything else. And the irony in all of this is during your lifetime that narcissistic mother treated you like you were a burden. You were a new nuisance.

[00:05:39]Every time you called her, you felt like you were bothering her. She was so engulfed in her own life. All right? But yet, when it comes to Mother's Day, she wants to be treated like the queen of all queens. A narcissistic mother is also going to constantly remind you of everything she's done for you. Okay?

[00:06:00]She'll constantly constantly bring up everything she's done for you. And what does that do? that makes you feel completely indebted cuz again she's guilt tripping you that you need to bow down and do for her all the time. All right? And the irony is she always loves to say how you don't appreciate what she does for you. Okay? But meanwhile, you know, she never ever looks at anything that you've ever done for her because in her mind, you never really did much for her. You know, she's always been the one who's always done for you. even though maybe during your life she was emotionally unavailable to you. Now, if you're dealing with a covert narcissistic mother, she will always be playing the victim. Always be playing the victim and again making you feel bad, guilt tripping you so that you bend over backwards to do everything for that covert narcissistic mother. you can't live your own life because you're constantly constantly guilt tripped to always have to feel like you've got to do something for her or she's the victim. So on Mother's Day, it's all a joke. It's basically all a joke. It's all to play the game. Pretend that she's mother of the year. Post on social media what a great mother she is or expect her kids to to, you know, praise her in front of other people so that she could feel that she's the greatest mother of the year. But in reality, that woman is, you know, not there for her kids. That woman is completely self-absorbed, selfish. Um, she's the kind of mother, if she's a covert narcissistic mother, that anytime you bring something up to her, she'll run into a silent treatment and freeze you out. This is a means of control so that you never ever bring up anything that she doesn't want to hear where she has to be accountable or somebody has to be accountable. She just can't deal with any of that conflict, any of that shame. So instead, she runs into a silent treatment and blames you and punishes you by withdrawing any kind of communication with you. The reality is a narcissistic mother would rather lose a relationship with her child than to ever submit and say that she's wrong. She'll never ever say that she's wrong. You're always the problem.

[00:08:35]So on Mother's Day, you may feel a certain way. You may feel a certain way.

[00:08:39]If you have a narcissistic mother, you may feel a certain kind of emptiness or pain within yourself because you never really felt like you had a mother because the narcissistic mother was emotionally unavailable to you or had no empathy for you or never validated you.

[00:08:59]So you might feel a certain kind of sadness, but understand this, it's not you. It's the fact that you have a narcissistic mother who has a sick mindset. That's what they have. They have a sick mindset. See, the narcissistic mother should never have become a mother. Because to become a mother means to have to sacrifice, to have to nurture, and have to do all these things for your children. And narcissistic mothers just don't do that, okay? Because they are incredibly selfish and they put themselves first even above their own children.

[00:09:37]But on Mother's Day, that mother is that narcissistic mother is going to, you know, she doesn't see the reality in it.

[00:09:46]She may have an issue where she's not well with one of her kids or something like that, the scapegoat or one of her kids, but yet she's going to in her delusional mind think that it's her day and that she is the greatest mother and she's a great mother to all her kids and she's wonderful. All right? Because she just can't bear the shame of knowing that she's not she's not a mother. All right? She's not a mother and she hasn't been there for all of her kids.

[00:10:18]So, Mother's Day is a complete hypocrisy. That's what it is. With a narcissistic mother, Mother's Day is a complete hypocrisy because you never really had a mother. You had somebody who birthed you and pretended they were a mother, but in reality, they weren't really a mother and they put you down, criticized you, ridiculed you, judged you. never validated you, weren't there for you emotionally when you needed them, but yet on Mother's Day, they act like mother of the year. That's the joke of it, you guys. So, I hope that helps you guys to understand the narcissistic mother on Mother's Day. Okay? Have a great Mother's Day, everybody, and don't forget to subscribe. And if you're looking for confidential one-on-one phone coaching, check out the link in the bio at ask.wigsite.com/thegameexpos.

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