What Loved Ones of Addicts Get Wrong

Added: 2026-05-27

[00:00:00]I think that the biggest thing that I have to recognize in this situation was that while you were the drinker, I was the enabler.

[00:00:09]And that was never a phrase that I was comfortable with when it was happening.

[00:00:16]I think that's pretty understandable that most people probably are like, "No, no, I'm not the enabler. I'm I'm the bystander."

[00:00:23]And so having to reconcile with that and realize that there were things that I could work on and there were pieces where I had to step up to such a degree that I had a hard time backing off it.