Narcissists Can Only Get Away With What You Let Them Get Away With ~ Narcs Need You To Avoid KARMA

Added: 2026-05-27

[00:00:04]Check it out. Got my bridges.

[00:00:12]Hey y'all. [music] Welcome back.

[00:00:16]We're going to do a breathing exercise.

[00:00:17]It's going to take 5 seconds. Five Mississippi. [music] And I appreciate y'all so so so much. I mean, a special special shout out to those of you supporting the tribe membership and subscribing and hitting that like button immediately. You you ain't even listen to the video. You should like, [laughter] man, total appreciation. As simple as it is, if I don't ask for it, I'm guilty myself of watching videos and it it's just easy to forget. All I'm asking you is for help so that it can now be referred to other audiences that are needing it just like you did.

[00:01:04]If you could do your part, man, that would help this channel grow so that it can reach out to brothers and sisters need needing a shortcut for free.

[00:01:16]The soonerest we can get you healed, the faster, quicker you can live a better quality of life without these ninkham poops. One thing we need to realize is we're both codependents. We just have a different way of coping people in the wrong way.

[00:01:35]5 seconds. Let's do this, man.

[00:01:41]Release slowly.

[00:01:47]Shake it off. Shake it off.

[00:01:54]Y'all, narcissists, there's a reason why they leave with what some would call the lack of closure, unfinished business.

[00:02:08]Uh, and the way they do this, some of them leave personal possessions so that they can have a chance to come back repetitively. They leave enough [ __ ] that they never really leave. It gives them a reason to come back every time after they're done doing what they need to do. Uh to pregroom another monkey jump cuz look, there's always maintenance required in the herm the herm closet and pmishes that don't get attention start threatening the narcissist and they're going to tell. I'm gonna tell I'm g Yeah. Yeah. And and so there's a lot of fires that need to be put out by these narcissists all the while trying to keep you from noticing cuz the only the great a supply is the one remaining unaware of the truth.

[00:03:05]And for many of y'all, you found that your own kids that you thought maybe were your kids, too. If you ain't checked, you might want to. Uh there ain't no reason now to be living in doubt. Not with the technology. It's available and and and look at here. It's cheaper than your cell phone.

[00:03:25]But anyway, the bottom line is this.

[00:03:30]Narcissists leave ways for them to return, but not all of them.

[00:03:39]No. No. Some hit the self-destruct button if they feel that they secured the bestest they ever have.

[00:03:47]And damn, in their mind now, keep this in mind because look, they they be they believe each other's lies. They ain't no one get woo woo more quicker as faster than the narcissist.

[00:03:59]Look, they they're impulsive.

[00:04:02]And that screams not only lacking intelligence, but the lack of the ability to think for themselves. That's that's what impulsive is.

[00:04:15]and the need for attention falling to total default with no self-control.

[00:04:25]Now, the narcissist that totally obliterates the bridge.

[00:04:36]Uh yeah, let me tell you what ends up happening in in in in those cases.

[00:04:42]They end up destroying any and every ability to have access to everything that meant anything to become everybody's nobody.

[00:05:01]Yeah. those get hit the hardest that have tasted having it and losing it than the ones that have never had it at all and just bounce from monkey jump to monkey jump.

[00:05:15]It's why the narcissist that experienced you is imprinted with knowing the difference.

[00:05:22]That's what haunts that special narcissist.

[00:05:26]Yeah. Yeah. That one you ain't ever going to get rid of. What you have to establish is the kind of boundaries that sting, have some bite to them.

[00:05:38]It don't mean be confrontational. It just means uh you show up with a butter knife, I show up with a bomb. That's all that means. It ain't nothing no uh putting on airs. It don't mean sometimes it may just mean, hey, they knock on the door, you call 50.

[00:05:57]Yeah, you go exaggeration on the moment, but it's not out of uh because you're paranoid trying to prove a point because you also have warning signs before it got to that point.

[00:06:12]If you intelligent and strategic, you know that available to your cameras.

[00:06:18]Look, if you can't afford the $100 camera that you can activate and view from your phone cheaper than the cost of your phone, that's on that you you work out your work what your life is worth.

[00:06:31]Boo boo, but you can spend up to 260 bucks on them. I got them all the way wrap around my trailer, got my rear view mirrors on my on my Jeep. Uh so that people know narcissists don't want evidence on them.

[00:06:46]So if you have preventative measures like that and they still confrontational, they meant it.

[00:06:51]Confirmations.

[00:06:54]Yeah. And understand they're not for that one that's dangerous that's had it all, lost it all. The worst thing that could ever happen to them is see you share that meat with others cuz it's they they understand how that would devastate them. Look, if it didn't, why do they try to make you jealous with others? It's called triangulations.

[00:07:18]Yeah. No, no, no, no. It It would totally destroy them. And you detoxing from the narcissist.

[00:07:26]Oh man.

[00:07:28]Yeah. It takes a lot out of you because look, there's some things you picked up.

[00:07:32]Some bas traits. Get look, it's no different getting some boo boo on your fingers and and and you shook it off, you wash your hands 10 times and you still got stinky. It takes a while. It's a process. It's a process.

[00:07:49]But the good thing is this.

[00:07:52]After a period of time and you leave, uh you now learn you can't run from these zombies, but you can coexist in a way.

[00:08:05]and still live a better quality of life than you ever could without this awareness.

[00:08:13]Uh yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's real easy because once you detox, it's like you have full access to zombie technology, to all their data, each and every one of them. You know their PIN number.

[00:08:32]And it's real simple because narcissists are the easiest to manipulate. Even sociopaths, psychopaths have their ways with them.

[00:08:41]They just have a way of making a mess of things once they have a thought.

[00:08:49]Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Once they have a thought, it's like, oh [ __ ] Yeah. Yeah. No, no, no. Ain't nobody safe, even them.

[00:08:59]So stop hurting yourself in order from for narcissists to be shielded from their own consequences. That's what that's why they've lasted as long as they have. See, back in a certain period of time before computers, they eliminations themselves through natural attrition.

[00:09:25]Yeah. We had crazy games like yard darts.

[00:09:28]Uh yeah. Yeah. We we we go uh telephone fish, call them up.

[00:09:36]Uh we just we jump ramps and 10 speeds and choppers, bicycles, jumped over ditches and [ __ ] Uh played cowboys and engines with bottle rockets.

[00:09:53]things happened by accidental that wiped out nonsense before them ever made it into adulthood.

[00:10:02]Nowadays, well, nowadays they kind of been getting away without having to learn a lesson.

[00:10:12]Yeah. Uh because too many folks have been coddling and not raising.

[00:10:21]this generation screwed. I mean, it's gonna take a salt and peppered amount of them in order to reproduce and teach.

[00:10:32]You know, I have an opinion. I heard it on the YouTube. Some woman with a uh not a fedora hat, but one of them straight up hats spoke truth unlike no other. Uh but she was talking about women to a woman talking to women. straightforward, no lies told.

[00:10:52]And said, you know, as women, if you expect men in society, then raise them better.

[00:11:06]And you could have heard a pin drop. I think I heard that on repeat for a little while because how many stubborn asses had to be broken and lose it all damn near to their last breath before you open your eyes and realize dancing with the devil ain't no winning propositions.

[00:11:30]And you know the truth.

[00:11:35]And look the desperation right now in narcissists and keep in mind that because of I'm a man. I'm dealing I if I deal with anything very few male narcissists in the competitive spirit of corporate America all the time. Uh it's a different level of competition, but you could tell the ones that was raised with uh lacking discipline and self-control in their tongue or uh when they're losing it, you can tell they're not they're no longer able to carry on a conversation with substance and debate uh with without getting emotional and keeping on topic.

[00:12:27]What I found to be true is this. Men monkey jump on jobs like narcissists.

[00:12:37]Cuz corporate America and business rewards that rewards the comeup, the goal oriented, the ambitious.

[00:12:49]Women monkey jump on men as if it were a business transaction.

[00:12:56]That's what relationship is in today's what you would call dating. It's not even dating.

[00:13:09]Uh and the thing is everyone's going in with one foot out and the ones being taken advantage of are the ones that believe in love.

[00:13:27]blindly and it's either going to destroy you or make you stronger.

[00:13:41]And for narcissists, understand they get screwed up in the head, in the noggin when they come across a real one.

[00:13:51]And they realize too late that you were always the blueprint in their life. Not only the blueprint, but the imprint.

[00:14:03]Not every narcissist you run into has an imprint, which is to say a point of reference that will haunt them for having what was more better best and isn't even in the competitious.

[00:14:29]Yeah. You see, for that narcissist, it's going to be very, very, very, very, very, very hard to coexist.

[00:14:37]They would rather be like the rest of the narcissists who have never tasted authenticity and love it.

[00:14:47]Yeah, that's a hell of a hell of a crash and burn.

[00:14:57]You won't be hoovered.

[00:15:01]by that narcissist cuz the sting of just the memory of you is enough.

[00:15:10]Can I get a what? What?

[00:15:22]Stay tuned for the next upload.

[00:15:29]When I remind you how no one calls you when your halo's on fire, when your halo goes crooked or you start losing feathers in your wings, I want you to remember who was there for you.

[00:15:57]Yeah, I needed to breadcrumb you for I can give you a good example of what it means.

[00:16:06]It's never goodbye, warriors. It's always until next time.

[00:16:11]Namaste.

[00:16:16]Oh, you know what?

[00:16:20]What?

[00:16:23]confirmation.

[00:16:26]Some little fairy came and loaded me up with more cookies. I don't know if these are going to be biblical or not, though. It's a a shot in the dark.

[00:16:40]But a donations can't be complainers.

[00:16:43]It's a donations from warriors.

[00:16:46]All right, let's see. With God all things are possible. Matthew chapter 19 verse 26. Not my words.

[00:16:57]The one that made us words.

[00:17:00]That twinkle of light at the beginning.

[00:17:07]Who's your daddy? Who your daddy?

[00:17:09][laughter] Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Thank y'all so much.

[00:17:17]Namaste.