Custody Court Isn’t About What Feels Fair to YOU

Added: 2026-05-27

[00:00:00]And so, what I say to them is look, I'm not saying you're a bad parent at all. Every marriage has a division of labor and rare that clients client you know that people sit down and decide okay, I'm going to do this and you're going to take out the trash and I'm going to do that. That's it just organically happens, right? Even in my own marriage that that's the case and so when you're going into a courtroom and you're asking a judge who right third party elected doesn't know you gets to see this much of you they're going to say well, okay the best interest of the kid is to maintain the status quo as much as I can. We're blowing We're blowing up the status quo. We're getting divorced.

[00:00:41]There's going to be two homes. Like so, it's not going to be the same. But how can I keep it as close as possible?