It’s Not A Boogeyman, It’s Just A Little You. The One Question That Changes Your Whole Life.

追加: 2026-05-21

[00:00:00]They call me a god.

[00:00:03]Hello, my name is Bradley and I'm your host of the internal game. Before I get started on today's video, I would like to remind you that if you would like to work with me, rather that be the one-on-one coaching, rather that be the one-on-one monthly coaching, maybe you would like to join the YouTube membership where we have exclusive videos only found on the membership side plus a live stream every week, or you would like to join the school group where we have six group coaching sessions every week. Either way, the links are in the description of this video.

[00:00:34]Okay, so in alignment with Mayhem May, manifesting May, going all in May type [ __ ] I have another video, right?

[00:00:43]I have another another another topic, more more like a question to ask you guys. And I want you to really think about it. I actually was going to come on here and be a little bit softer today.

[00:00:56]Um I had a an idea that I wanted to talk about. And we'll get to it, but I made that intro that you guys just saw earlier and like it kind of got me fired up and I was like, "Yeah, they call me a god." Right? So, I was which is good. It saved Mayhem May from a uh softer video. I'm just kidding. I'm I'm still going to make the videos. It's extremely important and you guys would love to hear a different perspective because it still involves going all in, right? As all this [ __ ] does.

[00:01:25]Now, on the YouTube membership video that I released earlier today, at the very end I asked a question. And I know I've asked it to myself before. I know I've asked it to clients before. I know I've asked it to even you guys at at one point on this side of the channel, but cuz the video wasn't really about that, but it was about well, talking about the 3D for 15 minutes. I think that was the actual title of the video. And at the end of it, I was like, "Hey, check this out."

[00:01:56]And I want to ask you guys the same thing.

[00:01:58]So, and I want you to think about it.

[00:02:03]I want you to really think about it and yeah, put some put some thought into it. Put some being into this question.

[00:02:11]So, if reality selection was not a thing, if you didn't get you back, right? Like if you didn't get reflected, would you still be who you've decided to be?

[00:02:36]And think about that.

[00:02:42]And then let's go a little bit deeper.

[00:02:46]If SP wasn't coming back, because there was no everyone is yourself pushed out, right? Let's just say SP wasn't coming back. Um you weren't guaranteed any money unless you got kind of lucky break.

[00:03:01]Um because there was no law, right? There was no only you type [ __ ] right?

[00:03:08]What if what if you had some health thing, you know, some health issue going on and you couldn't select a new version of yourself that was healthy and dis-identify from the old, right?

[00:03:24]Would you still be who you have decided to be?

[00:03:34]It's pretty deep, right?

[00:03:37]But it should get you thinking.

[00:03:40]It should be one of the most important questions that you ask yourself.

[00:03:46]You know?

[00:03:47]Um would you still be who you have decided to be?

[00:03:58]Would you still claim perfection?

[00:04:00]Would you still say that you were the man or the woman?

[00:04:04]Would you still say you were the best?

[00:04:13]Whatever it is that you've decided that you are, right?

[00:04:18]Would you still be that if this whole thing wasn't a thing?

[00:04:27]Like if it was guaranteed that when a person said something to you, that that's that was final.

[00:04:36]Or if they left, that was final. Or if you were born into a certain amount of money or no money at all, that that was final for you. Unless, again, you caught some kind of lucky break.

[00:04:49]Would you still be who you have decided to be?

[00:04:54]Or would you say, "Fuck it. I I'm just going to suffer. I'm going to complain.

[00:04:58]I don't like this. I'm going to resist every single moment. I don't like this.

[00:05:01]I'm not going to I'm not even going to try to enjoy myself here."

[00:05:07]What's the point anyway?

[00:05:11]Because I'm not saying that you're not going to get your get your [ __ ] I tell the I tell clients, I tell the school you know, the people in the school group, I tell people in the membership live streams. I'm Now I'm telling you and I'm sure I've told you before, you're going to get your [ __ ] That's not the the thing here.

[00:05:30]But if we are only deciding to be a certain way and empower ourselves and think highly of ourselves and um try to build better beliefs and select a better identity, right? Just to [ __ ] manipulate this external world here so we can get something from somebody or somebody can come back so we finally feel whole and complete or we can get the money so we finally feel free or whatever the [ __ ] Then how serious are we?

[00:06:07]Because that's why everyone's always looking.

[00:06:11]Where's it at?

[00:06:13]Where's it at?

[00:06:16]I've done everything. It's not showed up yet.

[00:06:21]Would you still be who you have decided to be if you were guaranteed to not get them back or guaranteed to not get the money?

[00:06:33]Would you or would you play life on victim mode still pointing fingers saying that like I can't be in a state of being because this person said that and that person left and this person did that and I don't have any money. I don't have this.

[00:06:49]I'll tell you what right now and I I I can tell you from from me stand from me standing here right in front of you. I am dead ass serious when I say I don't need anything from anyone.

[00:07:02]I don't need any amount of money. I don't need any amount of [ __ ] validation or people cl- clapping for me.

[00:07:13]I have decided who I am under any and all circumstances. And because of that, there's nothing that anyone can do to me.

[00:07:22]There's nothing that I'm going to buy into because I don't care. Because I promise you when you make it about this, when you make it about hey, this is who I am. This is how I'm This is how I'm living my life. This is how I'm playing the internal game.

[00:07:37]No matter what out there looks like.

[00:07:39]When you start doing that, there's no power out there. There never has been, but now you finally can feel it.

[00:07:45]Now you can finally feel it. Like, hey, I don't I don't care.

[00:07:49]Out there out I don't care. No one can tell me who I am.

[00:07:55]No one can tell me who I am.

[00:07:59]Actually, you know what?

[00:08:00]Now that I'm kind of just going off Well, I'm always going off the the top here, but like I am going to bring up what I was going to bring up.

[00:08:07]Because I think it fits perfectly now that I'm I've caught this this vibe. So, the video I was going to bring up today was Well, you know how we how I always say no one has trouble telling a new story.

[00:08:21]You know, it's always the old story.

[00:08:24]So, I want to tell you a little something about a previous version of myself.

[00:08:28]I'm going to tell you a little bit about about like [clears throat] uh some upbringing of mine that no longer matters, but like just for the sake of the teachings and just for the sake of relatability and just for the sake of hey, you don't have to stay anywhere you don't want to. I want to tell you something. So, when I was a little kid I had a nickname and my nickname was Willie.

[00:08:48]Right? My middle name is William.

[00:08:50]And so my grandpa's grandpa, like my like my pap was my hero and his grandpa was his hero. So, he talked my mom into naming me my middle name William and then everyone called me Willie. Well, Willie, which was me as a kid had big glasses, silver teeth, um I was scared a lot. I wanted to be liked and accepted by everybody.

[00:09:14]I um experienced some things that probably weren't ideal for kids to go through, but I mean, again, this is not for any type of sad story. This is Well, you'll see.

[00:09:26]And so, Willie's mom left him.

[00:09:30]Willie's dad wasn't there.

[00:09:32]Willie was raised by his great grandparents and his pap on the side or I mean in a duplex. So, great grandparents plus pap and his wife at the time in a duplex. Okay?

[00:09:44]Well, Willie's grandma his great grandma, who was his pretty much like his mom, died when he was 13.

[00:09:49]And Willie started to really grasp this idea that people leave or people die.

[00:09:56]Right? And there wasn't much constant, there was some violence sometimes, there was other things that were going on, but nonetheless, Willie was a scared little boy. And he had every right to to be so.

[00:10:07]Okay?

[00:10:07]And Willie got taller.

[00:10:12]He got older.

[00:10:16]He got uh maybe a little bit wiser.

[00:10:21]Maybe better at manipulating or trick maybe tricking himself and maybe some other people, who knows? Like, either way, none of that is super relevant, but just he found a way to survive.

[00:10:31]Right?

[00:10:32]But like what he even though he got taller and older, he still had the beliefs of the little Willie.

[00:10:40]Okay?

[00:10:42]So, in relationships even though he could get women, right? He's a good-looking guy.

[00:10:50]Right? Good-looking guy.

[00:10:52]Um he feared abandonment a lot.

[00:10:56]And often times he would leave before he got left.

[00:10:59]So, or things got pushed out. Either way, you you you guys know because everyone is a self-pusher. Right?

[00:11:06]He didn't have the best money beliefs.

[00:11:08]Um he was always scared of what people thought about him because he thought that meant something. So, he thought being tough was a a cool route to go and that was like something give him some respect cuz he didn't feel like he had any, right?

[00:11:21]And so, like he was and because of that he was constantly looking at uh did this guy say this or that guy say that? And if they did say that, did anyone see cuz now now Willie's got to like do something about it, right? And kind of act in in violent ways, kind of how he was he grew up around, right?

[00:11:33]Either way, again, Willie was older.

[00:11:38]But Willie was still Willie.

[00:11:43]Now, I'm talking from my own experience, but and I'm fully aware that only me is here, right? But everyone that you see yes, is reflecting you. Just hear me out here.

[00:11:59]Most of the time, people in general are taller than they were when they were kids.

[00:12:05]They're older.

[00:12:07]Their body looks a little bit different.

[00:12:10]But they're walking around with the same beliefs that they inherited when they were when they were a kid. And then because they got got a whole bunch of evidence, it's really engraved in them, right? It's really how they think reality works. Now, luckily for some of us, we have realized some of this stuff and we can start shedding things and selecting a new.

[00:12:28]I get it. I get it. But nonetheless, no one has trouble telling the new story. They have the issue believing the old, right? And something that helped me more than anything that's ever helped me in my entire life as far as like, well, being aware of thought and not believing I was thoughts or realizing I didn't have to believe thoughts, right? Was this little [ __ ] idea that when the fear came up, when the cuz again, I didn't have trouble telling new stories.

[00:13:00]But when the fear came up, when those thoughts or when those natural perceptions came up about being left and I feel that anxiety in my body, right? Now, again, you can affirm to this stuff if you'd like. You can whatever you'd like [clears throat] to do.

[00:13:15]But not everything is for everybody, right?

[00:13:19]Now, there's a time to be aggressive.

[00:13:21]There's a time to be like, "Hey, no, I'm I'm no I'm going all in. I'm this is the new story. I've decided this, whatever.

[00:13:27]And there's also a time where you like for some of us where you want where you need to just be aware of what's actually happening. When that little Willie inside you is trying to perceive that person. It's trying to perceive that bank account. It's trying to perceive the world around it.

[00:13:46]Because it feels normal.

[00:13:51]Right? And I know that people say that I There's some people that say that like, "Don't worry about like feeling safe and da da da." But that's exactly what that little Willie inside you is doing.

[00:14:01]Right?

[00:14:04]Because at one time little Willie's perceptions and fear and trying to make sure the other shoe didn't drop and and and is this person gone? Are they coming back? All this stuff that at one time it kept little Willie safe. It it served a purpose for it for for him.

[00:14:22]But then when I got older, it didn't really serve too much of a purpose.

[00:14:26]Except for to keep creating what I was creating.

[00:14:30]But I didn't know. Right? So, I found this stuff and I was telling the to the new story and then I'll just [ __ ] bite. [ __ ] I'd still be like, "Dude, is this Is this going to happen?

[00:14:39]Is this going to I I I I I I I would be so worried."

[00:14:41]Um, again, this little Willie. And so, there came a point where I was trying to There's this book called like Best Self, right? And it's uh it's cool. I read a lot of books and it was cool, but it was about like give your new identity a a name and give your your one you're trying to get out of a name so you know what's coming and da da da. And I I remember like thinking, "Hey, I'm going to give my name like some [ __ ] awesome name like the new me, right? And then and then uh the old me was I forgot. Right?

[00:15:21]And then I was like, "But I like Bradley.

[00:15:24]I like I I like that name. I want I I I want to be Bradley."

[00:15:28]And I was like, "So who can the old man be then?"

[00:15:30]For some reason, I just had this I it clicked for me.

[00:15:34]It just It just clicked. It was like, "Oh, Willie."

[00:15:39]Because that's his name.

[00:15:44]Like I don't have to make up a name for him. That's That's his name.

[00:15:47]The scared kid, the scared boy, it doesn't matter if I if he was in a adult body that and would would scrap you.

[00:15:54]It was a scared little boy in there that was running the show. It didn't matter if he got girls from the outside, he was little little Willie was scared of of them leaving and him and him feeling that abandonment again, right?

[00:16:11]So then I started to change some things from little Willie still.

[00:16:19]Right?

[00:16:19]Trying to add different beliefs to Willie, trying to um get him to make Maybe like, "Hey, I'm going to do this."

[00:16:26]Instead of realizing No, no, that's what I was doing. My apologies. That's what I was doing. And then when I realized that like Willie was me but separate, different version of me that grew up and was still scared, I was able to be like, "Oh, I can't change Willie. Willie's just Willie."

[00:16:41]But what I can do is show Willie that I got it and it's safe. It's all good.

[00:16:47]Cuz Willie's Willie's never really trusted anybody.

[00:16:51]Right?

[00:16:52]Willie, I mean, even though he had a pop, he didn't really have some type of strong stabilized father figure in his life.

[00:16:59]Right? So then I had to step in and say, "Hey, you know what?

[00:17:03]Willie, it's going to be all right."

[00:17:06]It's going to be all right.

[00:17:08]I got this now. Bradley's here, right?

[00:17:11]And then I decided I decided I've decided who who I wanted to be.

[00:17:15]How do I How do to live this thing?

[00:17:17]And it made it so much easier when these these stories were coming up and the perceptions about this person going to leave is this What's this going to look like? Is this going to happen? Oh, that's Willie.

[00:17:29]That's Willie. And guess what? If you can be aware of something, we all know that once you're aware of it, you're not it. You're not being it. And that's the game here, right? We don't want to continue being it cuz we're going to keep seeing it. But guess what? When I thought about all the pain that Willie had went through, and I've talked about this many times about like giving yourself like uh like some call it the hiccup. Whether that be the SP video series in the school group, whether that be the um I've talked about a membership before. I've talked about it even on here before. About like looking at all the pain.

[00:18:00]Like looking at it at what Willie created all by trying to protect himself.

[00:18:08]And just being like, "Whoa. Whoa.

[00:18:11]I don't want to do that anymore."

[00:18:14]Like this like this isn't okay.

[00:18:18]Right? This isn't okay for me. This is no longer how I want to live.

[00:18:24]And then you're like, "Man, is it But am I going to get it? Is it Is it going to work?"

[00:18:29]And then guess what? When you really look at the whole thing, you say, "You know what? I don't give a [ __ ] if this is a thing or if this isn't a thing.

[00:18:37]I don't give a [ __ ] if they come back, if they don't.

[00:18:42]I don't give a [ __ ] if the money ever hits my hands or if I stay or if I stay with $17 in my pocket, what I whatever whatever or however much that you have.

[00:18:56]I am going to be this for me.

[00:19:01]I'm going to select this version of reality and this ver My bad. This version of myself for me.

[00:19:09]And there's nothing that anyone or anything is is going to do about it. And nothing's going to take this from me because this is me now.

[00:19:19]Right? Now, again, just because I was taller, just cuz I had some cool moments in my life, it didn't mean that I wasn't Willie.

[00:19:34]Now, this I'm not on some Trust me, I'm not about the [ __ ] healing the inner child type [ __ ] I'm not for that at all, really. All right? If people want to do that, that's on them. But I am saying that you need to recognize that that motherfucker's in there.

[00:19:48]And and even though you're tall, I'm not saying you have some inner child, I'm saying you have beliefs from when you were a child passed on to you how on your on how people how your parents thought, things you experienced, and then you thought you were like this, and then you thought the world was like that.

[00:20:02]And it kept you stuck experiencing the same thing over and over again. And sometimes people tell you fight through it. Sometimes people say, "And you know what? Yeah, everything works, but not everything is for everybody.

[00:20:12]Sometimes people have have so much [ __ ] bad [ __ ] that they may have experienced within themselves as far as how they believed about themselves and what they experienced out there, that like just telling it, "Hey, it's all good now."

[00:20:27]just wasn't enough.

[00:20:28]And so sometimes you have to separate like what it is that you are from this from this version because it's just a version.

[00:20:41]But it's But it's a kid.

[00:20:46]It's a It's a It's a It's a kid.

[00:20:49]Okay, how old it is or how tall it is or what or or what its job is, it's a it's a kid.

[00:20:57]Right?

[00:20:58]So, if you have those those stories come up and those those perceptions that come up that are just absolutely [ __ ] the rib.

[00:21:08]Yes, you can affirm through all that stuff. You can.

[00:21:11]But maybe, just maybe, you can look at it and say, "Hey, this is little me."

[00:21:17]All right, this is little me.

[00:21:20]The the little me, bro.

[00:21:25]All right?

[00:21:26]And then you can actually have some compassion with yourself.

[00:21:30]Because it's little you.

[00:21:33]All right? Maybe you never got a [ __ ] hug or something. Maybe you never like maybe people did leave you.

[00:21:38]All right? And then yeah, it it it does suck, right? Luckily for you, there's a whole new reality, a whole new version for yourself, whatever. But and there's a time where you say, "Fuck it, I'm the boss. I'm bossing up. Got to take it to a whole 'nother level." And then sometimes that little you rears its head and you and and sometimes you just don't need to fight it. You just say, "Hey, I I hear you.

[00:21:58]But I got this. Like this is this is not me.

[00:22:03]This is not me.

[00:22:04]This is this is little me.

[00:22:08]And being aware of it and not buying into it.

[00:22:12]And realizing, "Hey, it's it's okay. I got this." All right? Still keeping your claim of whatever it is you say you are alive. But most importantly, through your awareness of what the [ __ ] is happening.

[00:22:24]And what's happened this whole time was the little kid was running the show and you didn't know. So we we look at this thing like, "Oh, is these are just belief systems." It's true. Right? Is is this is a beliefs about self, self-concept, I think that all this stuff. True.

[00:22:41]But it came from when you was a little [ __ ] And when I think of little Willie and those big glasses and those silver teeth and um his his his need to to be loved and accepted and liked so he could feel some kind of way and he would always go and try to to to find new talents so people could see him, right? When I think of that kid, it's not a boogeyman.

[00:23:13]It's not some boogeyman ego trying to get me.

[00:23:17]It's little Willie trying to stay safe.

[00:23:30]You can apply this to your own experience.

[00:23:33]But we all have a a little me, right? We all had a little me. If you're who knows either way like it's there. And when you look at it like that, it's not scary. Like this oh, the ego's trying to get me as some boogeyman. No, no, no, no. When you do it like that, it's like this [ __ ] battle and I got to fight this and fight that. It's like, why don't you just recognize it for what it is? It's a little kid.

[00:23:56]It's a little kid.

[00:23:59]You think You think my 7-year-old son You think that if if he comes to me and he's like uh this is happening and I'm scared. You think I'm going to be like [ __ ] call him stupid or something?

[00:24:11]Tell him that he's he's wrong and that he can't do anything right?

[00:24:15]And that You get what I'm saying? Cuz that's how I was doing myself.

[00:24:21]So when you look at it like that, you can have compassion for yourself because yeah, it's no longer you, but it's who you were being.

[00:24:28]Right? And it's it's never been you.

[00:24:30]It's just who you thought you were. Who you had to be as a little tyke as a little as a as a little youngster, bro.

[00:24:36]As a little young dude at dude.

[00:24:40]You got to take the fear away from this stuff. You got to take the boogeyman out of it.

[00:24:44]Right? And then when you look at maybe the mess that that it all that was created from all of it.

[00:24:51]And you can look at your parents.

[00:24:54]And you can say, "Oh man, yeah, you yeah, it's cool. You can revise all this stuff you want to, right? But, you can also get it take a deep approach to it before you get there. And you can say, "Oh, you know what my parents were doing?

[00:25:05]My parents were doing the best that they could. They actually were raising me from them little from from their little [ __ ] selves or not raising me because they were still them little selves."

[00:25:18]And then guess what? Forgiveness happens naturally.

[00:25:21]Guess what? Like you start to realize, "Oh, it's not that It's not that deep, bro."

[00:25:26]Bro, it's some profound The people are just literally doing the best that they can.

[00:25:32]And so, when you when you do that, you can let go of all that that ickiness that's weighing you down.

[00:25:38]And and let go of all that like, "Oh, this happened and this happened and this happened." It's like, "Dude, all that happened was you thought that you were [ __ ] something was wrong with you. You thought you weren't enough. You're You got passed down however long Even if they didn't pass it down, that's how you interpreted it. Either way, you were you thought you were something that you weren't.

[00:25:59]And it And it And you stayed that way even though you got a little bit taller, even though you got a little bit older.

[00:26:06]That's it.

[00:26:07]There's no boogeyman here.

[00:26:10]And then you need to look at it and have some compassion.

[00:26:13]Cuz why would you fight yourself?

[00:26:15]You fight yourself, the world fights you.

[00:26:17]When you fight yourself, you you want to fight other people.

[00:26:21]If you can look at it and say, "Listen, I I I'm aware there's versions of reality.

[00:26:27]>> [sighs] >> And I like this game. I'm glad I found out about it, right? Like and it's cool, but I I I want to select the perfect version of myself. I want to select the best version of myself. And I want to be want to have some money. I want to have some honeys. And I want to have some health and all this other stuff, right?

[00:26:40]I want This is what I want, right? You You Whatever you decided.

[00:26:49]But, I got to I got to let go of this one.

[00:26:57]And to do that, you need to be really compassionate with yourself. You need to realize that it's not who you are. And the more that you're aware of little Willie's thoughts and perceptions, whatever your inner whatever your little you is, and you're aware of its thoughts and perceptions. I don't care if you're 50.

[00:27:15]If if if I don't care if you're 50, I don't care if you're 55, I don't care if you're 65, I don't care if you're you're 22, most of the time, almost all the time, it's the little you still running the show.

[00:27:26]So, you need to be aware of its thoughts.

[00:27:30]Be aware of of when it when it's when it starts to try to protect you.

[00:27:37]Still seek itself because even though it's dysfunctional, it's how it knows to how the world operates and how it operates, so it can kind of like maneuver this. Even if it sucks, it's like, "Okay, I can do this." But the change stuff is scary, right? So, you just said, "I'm this." And we all know that no matter what version you identify with, no matter what your identity is, it doesn't want to die off.

[00:27:56]And that includes little Willie.

[00:27:59]But, we don't need to kill little Willie off.

[00:28:05]We just simply need to take our our place as who we are.

[00:28:10]And we can look at little Willie and his and his his world of infinite versions that he he's one of them.

[00:28:18]There's no need to hate on it.

[00:28:20]No need to be scared of him.

[00:28:22]But to be aware and say, "Hey, I got it from here."

[00:28:29]And on top of all that, be so [ __ ] for yourself that even if this wasn't a thing, you still choose it.

[00:28:41]Because you deserve it.

[00:28:42]Because because you put up with with your own self your own [ __ ] for too long.

[00:28:49]But you didn't know any better.

[00:28:51]Like Maya Angelou said, if you know better, you do better. When people know better, they do better, right? If you knew better, you'd do better, right?

[00:28:57]So, now you know better.

[00:28:59]Now you know that there's nothing to be scared of. Just a little you that's fighting for its existence because it's all it knows.

[00:29:09]Fighting to still see the world the same way because it's all it knows.

[00:29:13]And then you you find out about like the SPs and then they're like, "Okay, cool.

[00:29:16]I'm going to affirm for them." All the still while it's this It's It's this little you still viewing the whole thing, trying to make something happen from that version. You got to let it go.

[00:29:25]Be aware of it when it happens.

[00:29:27]Keep selecting the new.

[00:29:31]Have your moments of I'm bossing up, I got this, taking it to a whole 'nother level.

[00:29:37]And then have your moments where it seems overwhelming. Instead of fighting yourself and telling yourself that I'm dumb, I can't get this, how come everybody else can get this and I can't get this? You just realize for a for a moment that it's still not you, but there's a version of you that's trying to stay alive. And it's the little It's the It's the It's a little you.

[00:29:58]And there's no need to be scared of it.

[00:29:59]There's no need to hate it. There's no need to try to smack it.

[00:30:02]You just be aware of it.

[00:30:04]And let it know, "Hey, I got this from here.

[00:30:07]It's going to It's all right. I'm I'm I'm the one now."

[00:30:10]Okay?

[00:30:15]Would you still choose who you are if none of this was a thing?

[00:30:21]Because I can assure you that you deserve it.

[00:30:28]You deserve it.

[00:30:31]You deserve the person coming back. You deserve to have whoever it is that you want. You deserve to have the money, deserve all that stuff, right? There just It's just a version of of of you that you pick and you experience what comes with it, right? That's the That's the easy stuff.

[00:30:43]You deserve it.

[00:30:45]But, can you take your throne so much so that even if this wasn't a thing, you would still take the throne.

[00:30:55]You would still decide that no one is responsible for my state of being.

[00:31:00]No one is going to scare me. I'm not going to feel inferior to anybody or anything. I don't care what happens. I wouldn't give a [ __ ] if they came back if they didn't come back. Now, I'm not saying that's how you're desired that you shouldn't have them. I'm saying you need to get to a place where you say, "I wouldn't give a [ __ ] if they came back if they didn't."

[00:31:16]Because I got me for once.

[00:31:21]And of course, of course, of course, there's a happy ending here. I mean, that's all happy stuff, right? But, it's a happy ending that like when you do that, of course you're going to see a different reflection because life is this way.

[00:31:33]Right?

[00:31:37]Well, you're not changing, you're choosing.

[00:31:41]I think we know this. And so, when you choose the new, stick with it. But, when the little new or when the little you comes to mess with the new you, you need not out of not out of [ __ ] trying to punk you, but out of literally out of fear trying to stay alive, you're going to make that choice again.

[00:32:05]Be aware continuing your choice.

[00:32:09]Okay?

[00:32:10]I believe in every single one of you.

[00:32:13]I think that you guys are are dope as [ __ ] And make the decision to be who you are, not because of trying to manipulate the ex- Not to Not Not to try to change a couple things and and and affirm for your self-concept. Like, think about this.

[00:32:32]Just who the [ __ ] would want to I get it, I've been there.

[00:32:39]Not saying that, but I I do Another question, who the [ __ ] wants to change their to think highly of themselves only to get something?

[00:32:51]That's sad.

[00:32:53]The fact that we think so low of ourselves and we're so caught up in an illusion that like if if this this person comes back or the money comes here, whatever the [ __ ] case, that I'll finally be okay, that I'm willing to just tell myself some nice things for a little while because then everyone on the internet said they'll come back or the money will get here.

[00:33:10]Not for the love of the not just for like hey, you deserve to [ __ ] say nice things about yourself?

[00:33:16]Because you deserve to to to know who you are and and believe in you and and believe nice things about yourself? Not not just for that reason alone?

[00:33:31]Because again, if we're doing it just for that reason, we need to take a look at that.

[00:33:39]Take a look at that.

[00:33:41]Are you still operating in the illusion that somebody's going to complete you or that or something's going to make you finally feel valuable when the money comes or that or people watch you or whatever it is that you're doing?

[00:33:49]I've been there, it doesn't work.

[00:33:51]And I'm sure you have too and you probably realize by now it doesn't work.

[00:33:54]You just don't see another way because you're still letting the little you view everything.

[00:34:00]That version can't be changed.

[00:34:04]You have to select a new You deserve it.

[00:34:17]Would you still be who you have decided to be if this was not a thing?

[00:34:23]I'll see you guys soon.