AQUARIUS♒️THEY WON'T SEE YOUR WORTH UNTIL U PUT YOUR SELF FIRST! THEY GONNA GO CRAZY OVER THIS LOSS🥴

Added: 2026-06-02

[00:00:09]Aqua gang, what it do you guys? It's your girl Empress 777 here today with a general message for Aquarius soul family sun, moon, rising, and Venus signs. The messages are general, so take what resonates, leave the rest. Hope you guys are doing super fantastic.

[00:00:28]most certainly amuses and spirit guides please give us exactly what it is that we need to know regards to the energy showing up for Aquarius Aqua Gang don't force anything to fit you guys take it resonates leave the rest your crosswatcher place yourself where you happen to belong in the story line you also don't force anything to fit no pre-shuffle that speaks volume. Trying to act like I'm not sad, but I do feel sad.

[00:01:03]Like this makes me feel sad. Whatever is about to happen, whatever comes out in this reading, I'm trying to pretend like I'm not, but it it is sad is what I keep hearing. Erased is at the bottom of the deck.

[00:01:19]You are not responsible for this person's abandonment wounds and or issues.

[00:01:24]But a part of me does feel like this is somebody who feels like they were vulnerable with you about people leaving them and they thought that even if they operated in a manner that warranted you walking away that you wouldn't because you understood them on a different level.

[00:01:44]I do feel sad. I am going to say that that doesn't mean that if you had to step away from this, take a break, um, or just step back, whatever level to which you needed to protect yourself or create boundaries.

[00:01:57]It's not, they're not saying that that wasn't warranted. We're specifically focusing on this person's energy. They are trying to pretend like they're cool, but they're not.

[00:02:10]They have a lot of things that they need to work on. They are acknowledging that and I feel like they kind of thought that you would just thug it out with them whether they were working on those things or not. This is somebody who views love in that way. Right? So even if I have flaws, even if I have [ __ ] that I need to work out, things that I need to evolve, things opportunities in which could help us to to both grow.

[00:02:34]There's not a whole lot of growth. I feel like this is somebody who feels like once we say I love you, you're supposed to just take me as I am.

[00:02:43]Um, I heard a Chris Brown song before coming in here. Um, I don't know, y'all.

[00:02:49]Please don't judge me.

[00:02:54]So, please don't judge me and I won't judge you.

[00:02:58]They feel like you're harsh. Whatever this action you're taking, they feel like it's a harsh judgment that you're coming down on them with. You could just be making this person take accountability, which if they never have done that or not to the extent in which you're requiring it, it will feel harsh.

[00:03:17]I deleted everything that reminded me of you. So, this person feels like you just kind of removed them from your life.

[00:03:23]They might feel like that was done without any warning. They do not feel like you are warranted in this action. They don't feel like they deserved it is what I should say. Because you can do what you want to do, but I feel like you are confirming some things that this person already thinks about themselves in their mind by protecting yourself. To them, to this person, I feel like they hold on dearly to people who hold on to them.

[00:03:51]Whether they're doing you right or wrong is something that they need. It is those abandonment wounds. But you're not responsible for that. You're not responsible for this person's abandonment issues and the things that would have led them to trigger themselves, but they are looking at you as the party that did in fact trigger them. Bottom of the deck, we have you first. This sounds similar to a reading that you just got. I'm not going to lie, but it's it's still different in a sense. Um, I feel as though this is somebody who has been waiting to hear from you for sure. We have burdens here. Yeah, I feel like you release this They are all up in their head about their value, about their self-worth.

[00:04:33]They've gotten left behind a lot. And I feel like they use that they use that to take advantage of people's empathy and people's sympathy.

[00:04:42]Yeah. They just want you to like trust that everything will work out even if there are no true receipts and signs of change andor growth.

[00:04:53]This was a very burdensome connection.

[00:04:55]And this is why it's just sad all across the board, right? There's sadness on this person's side. And I feel it on your end as well. You don't necessarily, you maybe didn't necessarily want to have to let this go, but you did, right?

[00:05:07]You have to put you first. That's what this says. Putting you first above somebody else's wounds, above somebody else's burdens, above someone else's [ __ ] that they you have your own [ __ ] to deal with. But I feel like this person is a lot of work in relationships because they do require a certain amount of not just attention, but a certain amount of taking on their [ __ ] to feel okay.

[00:05:31]I I don't feel like you judge them, but I do feel like you started calling them out on some [ __ ] They're viewing it more as you judging them.

[00:05:42]They feel like you've been that you're being harsh and that you've been harsh.

[00:05:46]This person may have been able to get away with a lot of [ __ ] in their past relationships.

[00:05:55]Yeah, we have waiting game in the reverse.

[00:06:00]So, this signifies to me coming to a breaking point. No longer wanting to wait for the things that you're asking for, the changes that they said they were going to make, the things that the two of you said you were going to do, the things that you were supposed to build. like this th this feels like a junction um a transition point, a really tough conversation. It's not that you wanted to release or try to erase this person, but [ __ ] what am I supposed to do? I'm not going to take on your [ __ ] right? Like, we're supposed to be a team. This person is a very heavy partner. They're they're heavy in partnership because they don't carry an equal amount of weight. They expect their partner to take on a lot of the emotional burdens. There's this is all about labor. It feels like a very laborous relationship. You see this person with all of these boulders on their back and you're still expected from this person in order for them to feel worthy or in order for them to be able to ignore the insecurities or those abandonment wounds. The person that they involve themselves with is supposed to be not only be willing to carry this [ __ ] on their back, which is this person's issues, which is their [ __ ] you know, their burdens. Um, as well as continue to walk, right?

[00:07:11]Continue to to move forward, continue to move the the connection forward.

[00:07:19]The longer you stayed in this relationship, right? And the heavier it got in that allowed a allotted amount of time, this person felt warranted in wanting that, expecting that, right?

[00:07:31]There was an expectation.

[00:07:35]I don't feel like they're viewing it as a lesson at this point. They're still waiting, but the weight game card is in the reverse. So, I feel as though they they'll be waiting forever. You're not going to show up in the way that you were before.

[00:07:48]You were meant to drop this. This was very heavy. It's a lot of it's heavy, but it's a lot of heavy [ __ ] that has nothing to do with you. If this person was to hold on to their own [ __ ] right?

[00:08:00]deal with their own issues, their own insecurities, their own lack of self-worth and value, um, and just work on themselves to make themselves feel better about themselves. I don't feel like this person likes themselves.

[00:08:13]So, they come into relationships and they're really heavy because they they expect their partners to make them like themselves.

[00:08:22]So, they expect you as a partner to come in and convince them that they're a great person. They don't already believe that about themselves. It's a lot of [ __ ] work. This person is a lot of work.

[00:08:34]They've been a lot of work. You both had to learn lessons here. Your lesson obviously was that you were carrying this by choice, right?

[00:08:42]We just going to be real.

[00:08:46]They're refusing to look at this as a lesson and they're also refusing to look at this as being over because then that does lead them into some form of an identity crisis. It's just depending on how long the two of you were dealing with each other. Yeah. See, we have regret. They are supposed to be focusing on themselves. They're unable to do that.

[00:09:06]They're focused on other people because they expect other people to make them feel whole, to make them feel better about themselves, to make them feel like they're worthy, to make them feel like they're a good person.

[00:09:18]Absolutely unable to move on. This unchanged card says, "I am who I am, not who you want me to be. I'm not going to change." And this is something that you would have come to find out and or know.

[00:09:28]It doesn't matter how many conversations you had with this person.

[00:09:34]They could have easily said, "Yeah, I'm going to do that. Yes, I'm going to change that. Yep, I'm going to show up in this way and this is my plans and this is what I plan to do." Right? We saw that trust the plan card pop up earlier if you go and rewind, but it went right back in the deck because it's just like who's trusting a plan that you're not making any moves towards.

[00:09:55]This sounds very specific you guys, right? There's something in particular that this person has not done for themselves, right? This could be the type of person who has not grown much in their lifetime. It doesn't matter how old they are. They're very stagnant.

[00:10:08]Their energy is extremely stagnant. They have not looked to have more or acquire more. And this is why they feel so low about themselves because there is no initiative. There is no ambition. There is no you know go-getter spirit.

[00:10:24]They expect their partner to bring that to the table.

[00:10:28]But they also even if they get a partner that will carry all of this [ __ ] for whatever allotted amount of time that you might have done that or people prior to you because this is a pattern for this person.

[00:10:41]Even when a partner comes in and puts this person before themselves, they put this person first and they carry the whole [ __ ] that's supposed to make this person feel good about themselves.

[00:10:52]That's supposed to make them feel worthy. That's supposed to eliminate, you know, the traumas and those abandonment wounds that have been there for so long, but they still don't do that. It still won't do that. Even if you did bring all of the ambition, all of the go-getter spirit, all of the coins, all of the love, all of the emotions, you could bring the whole [ __ ] You could bring all of the materials to build this [ __ ] up to the top, right? A skyscraper, a highrise, a mansion. You could be the one carry all of the tools and then putting that [ __ ] together as well. And this person would still feel a void.

[00:11:31]It wouldn't change a thing.

[00:11:35]It's pointless, you know, and that does make me sad cuz I feel like they're not getting it. Is the lessons card still at the bottom of the deck? No. They the lessons card has been shuffled back into the deck. This is a lesson for this person, but they are very much so deeply rooted in their ego and their pride that they're not able to really see things for what it actually is.

[00:12:02]they would have never been satisfied.

[00:12:08]The deepest regret here is pushing you to focus on yourself when they themselves cannot focus on anything but you.

[00:12:19]Do they want this?

[00:12:21][ __ ] yeah.

[00:12:23]Absolutely. They absolutely want this.

[00:12:26]Do they want to change in order to have it? No.

[00:12:31]Not as of right now. I don't see that.

[00:12:36]They're a lot in relationship. They are.

[00:12:40]They're very much so worried about what you will go and build elsewhere.

[00:12:45]This person feels like they put all of their um eggs in one basket when it comes to you.

[00:12:52]So, you deciding to move forth without them because of their lack of change or holding them accountable. Whatever it is you said or did is definitely sticking with them.

[00:13:06]They are pretending as if they're all right though.

[00:13:10]The sadness is lurking in the air.

[00:13:13]Not much more left to say is how I'm hearing that as well.

[00:13:18]They feel a strong tie towards this relationship in particular. Even if they have tried to um go out there and date, they have failed. They've tried but failed.

[00:13:29]That is by design.

[00:13:32]Yeah, their energy is dismissed by other people. They're not able to pull in another relationship or another person or just move on. Um I do feel like you were the end of that cycle as they know it. I feel like your relationship with this person, this will be the last relationship that they will be able to operate in this manner in. They think they're not about to change. And you know what? Free will is at play. They can they cannot change. But they will also be without partnership. They will also be without another person. Spirit is not allowing this person to come in and place all of their [ __ ] on another person. They cannot do it anymore. This has been outgrown. The cycle is shifting and changing whether this person wants it to or not.

[00:14:15]So they're dealing with lots of rejection, ghosting even. You could have ghosted this person, but this is about energy after you, right? They also like to lean on like friendships and family members and stuff like that. People are like tired of this this person. They are everybody got [ __ ] that they got going on. This is somebody who wants other people to take on their [ __ ] So they might have people who just disappear on them. They may have people who don't answer their calls. Nobody wants to hang out. But specifically when it comes to romantic partnerships, there is no interest whatsoever. No, they're not getting the same level of attraction um the same level of traction when it comes to pulling people. That's if the two of you are no longer um involved with each other at all. If you're still involved, but you just backed up or like took a break, I feel like they have tried to like just move on from this. Maybe not in the way, not by way of jumping into something else, but putting their energy elsewhere. Anywhere other than themselves is how this person operates, right? Like they want to deal with everyone and anything else but themselves. And that is the saddest part of this reading. We have well played that goes right by the waiting game in the reverse. And then we also have extra.

[00:15:28]So I do feel like this person might actually act out here shortly.

[00:15:35]they've been kind of waiting to see what move you'll make next because they're refusing to look at this for what it is, which is a lesson. Um, it might lead them to be excessive and dramatic in their approach because they feel played, they feel less than, undervalued, right? These are all energies that they feel about themselves. Not because of what you did, but because they're refusing to look at it as the lesson that it is. They are viewing you as the culprit. Especially if they're not able to gain attention elsewhere.

[00:16:19]Damn.

[00:16:23]The Empress.

[00:16:28]Here's what I will say you guys, okay?

[00:16:30]It's like I want to be mad at this person and you can blame someone for their actions, but I do feel like they are completely oblivious, right, to their lack, what they lack, how heavy they are, how much work they are. I don't really think that this is somebody who understands what it takes to be in a relationship with them.

[00:16:56]They refuse to see themselves, so they don't actually know. That's not giving them a pass. And please don't take it that way because it's not. Um, but what I will say is I don't know whether to be annoyed, mad, sad, angry, you know, furious, livid, indifferent. My emotions are kind of all over the place. And maybe I'm tapping into some of what you would have felt.

[00:17:27]The Empress to me does suggest that this person definitely sees your value without seeing their own.

[00:17:35]They definitely place you on a pedestal.

[00:17:37]They absolutely see your value. Did they rise to the occasion in order to be able to sustain a connection with someone as high as an Empress? Well, obviously not.

[00:17:48]But it's not that they didn't. See, I feel like this is somebody, like I said, who weaponizes what they've been through and what they've gone through, especially if they've told you their past, their story, what they've gone through, what happened to them.

[00:18:01]They kind of consider that as a declaration of a tie, right? Tying the two of you together, a bond.

[00:18:10]They may have shared things with you that they've never shared with anybody else before. And because they place so much value on that vulnerability, because to them, that's a big deal. But for you, it might not be such a big deal. They do feel like not you owe them, but like this is deeper than whatever you're trying to make it not be, right? Like you're supposed to be locked in. This bond should have been tethered forever because I told you this or I showed you this or I was I allowed myself to be this way with you. They placed a value on a particular action, thought or experience with you that in their mind made them feel like the two of you were tied forever and that you would have the patience that it would take to be able to navigate this with them. So, they do feel bamboozled by your lack of desire to carry this anymore.

[00:19:11]Deep in their heart, they do view you as an empress or an emperor, somebody who is much more mature. They do know that they go towards people who are like that um in hopes that that will rub off on them. This is a lost person. This is a lost soul, right? Like they don't they're not seeing things clearly because of how they're because of the the lack of desire to truly look at themselves, right? It's too painful.

[00:19:37]So they will go for a king, a queen, an empress, an emperor in hopes that you will show them their worth. Right?

[00:19:47]If I can, if I could pull somebody like this and they themselves will show me and reflect to me how good I am, how great I am, what I'm worth, what I deserve, then that will fix me, right?

[00:20:00]Well, no. It's just heavy as [ __ ] is what it is.

[00:20:07]10 of Wands. Look at all those bags. So many [ __ ] bags that the person in the video can't even The person in the video, the person in the imagery can't even carry it all.

[00:20:20]You need a mule. I also heard a war a workhorse.

[00:20:25][ __ ] is too [ __ ] much. This is too much work. This is way too much work. It really is with not even a high enough payout if at all. It's not worth it.

[00:20:36]This amount of work is not worth it. And you are logical. You work in reason, right? You're very good with reasoning, analytical, logical.

[00:20:51]The [ __ ] has to make sense. Yes.

[00:20:56]So, sure, I could build this whole foundation. I could build it from the ground up. I can use only the best materials because I'm an Aquarius and we like [ __ ] luxury out this [ __ ] Okay, imagine. Yeah, we're gonna fill a fridge up.

[00:21:15]Get some fine china from Kraton Barrel.

[00:21:18]You know, cars galore in the driveway.

[00:21:24]Bills paid.

[00:21:26]AC on in the hot summer.

[00:21:30]pool in the back.

[00:21:33]You can make it as cushy, as cozy, and as homey as you want to. This is an analogy, by the way. Right? So, take this in context and it still wouldn't be enough to fill whatever void is going on in this person. You could do all of that and finish the task in impeccable taste and timing.

[00:22:06]And guess the [ __ ] what? There was still be more work to do.

[00:22:12]There would still be more to do.

[00:22:21]That's what they're not getting. And for for some of you, they're they don't want to get it, right? They they they they refuse to un blindfold themselves. They refuse to get it.

[00:22:38]So then you forfeit a union. That's just how that goes. You know what I mean?

[00:22:42]Like this is how it's looking. Now they might come to their senses. Who knows?

[00:22:46]Right? This could all be past energy. I don't know. Right? Um they are being called to the carpet. It's their move.

[00:22:53]It's your goal. You got the ball. It's in your court. What are you going to do?

[00:22:57]And unfortunately, just like with you, okay, this is a mirrored message. Now, just as you had to see that it didn't matter what the [ __ ] you did, it still might not it would not have been enough. There would have been more to do. There would have been more work to do. it was it wasn't going to bring this union together in the way that maybe you saw it at the beginning. Okay. The same goes for this person just depending on how much time has passed or how much um you still desire this if at all. Yeah.

[00:23:36]For some of you, you're tapped out.

[00:23:40]That's fair. That is fair.

[00:23:44]you stayed longer than you should have.

[00:23:47]That's what I'm hearing, right? With the predicament that it was in, right, with what you were being given.

[00:23:56]So, just as what I said about you pouring into this and getting nothing out pretty much to pay out was not enough. Even if this person went and did the work, that still doesn't mean that still don't mean that they would have worked enough to uh be able to afford you or this connection now. Right? Today's price might not be yesterday's price, but I do feel like they're going to try.

[00:24:25]I do.

[00:24:27]Um let's hop over to the extended and see if they've made those necessary changes. I would love to see what their approach is going to be. At the very least, you can at least know what they're bringing to the forefront, to your doorstep. You know, what they're coming towards you with and you can prepare to either, you know, see what is given up or to reject this.

[00:24:44]Unfortunately, for some of you, that is the name of the game.

[00:24:49]There might be a cancellation of the policy of the contract. Okay, we will have to see. I want to know what their next steps are going to be, their intentions. Let's see what their deepest fears and the desires for the connection is. Okay. What they hope to come of things. I would love to know, are they actually ready? Can they actually handle this? Are they ready for you? Um what they say they're going to give, can they actually provide that? Is it all talk?

[00:25:18]We'll look at the best possible outcome.

[00:25:20]Okay? Whether you decide to re-engage this or go in the opposite direction.

[00:25:23]And we'll pull advice as well as time frames. And because of the magnitude of this energy, I might throw in a ask the universe reading, but I have more instructions for that over in the extended. Okay, so without further ado, click the like button and the subscribe button. I'm going to put the link for the extended down below in the description box. I'm going to see you guys over there. Let's go.