Amber, if you’re listening, could you tell me you’re not mad at me? || TOURROR STORIES - L&T Ep. 348

Added: 2026-05-27

[00:00:00]Hey guys, >> I'm Jerry.

[00:00:02]>> I'm Sierra.

[00:00:03]>> We're ladies and we tangent. My dogs have not gotten off of me.

[00:00:08]>> Every time I'm sitting down, all three of them are piled on top. I had every animal.

[00:00:12]>> That's how I feel about Brady and the kids.

[00:00:14]>> Oh, yeah. Well, yeah. My kids, too. I mean, I literally had every animal >> on top of me, plus Sawyer sitting on my head when I was laying on the couch last night.

[00:00:23]>> Yeah.

[00:00:23]>> I was like, "This is phenomenal." Feels good to be loved and wanted and needed and missed, but also get off. I'm over stimulated.

[00:00:32]>> Yeah.

[00:00:34]>> What's up, everyone? Hello.

[00:00:37]>> We're back. You didn't know that we were gone. Maybe you did.

[00:00:41]>> Some of you did. Some of you showed up to our shows.

[00:00:43]>> Some of us saw us in person.

[00:00:45]>> Some of us.

[00:00:45]>> Some of us saw us.

[00:00:46]>> Some of who? Some of you, >> dude. Honestly, uh, what a trip. And guess what? But we're only home for two [ __ ] days and then we have to go back to it.

[00:00:56]>> Um, so if you haven't bought tickets already, Portland, Seattle, and even Phoenix, uh, Salt Lake City, San Diego, Los Angeles, >> Yep.

[00:01:06]>> you should buy tickets because we had some phenomenal shows this last round.

[00:01:11]>> Yeah.

[00:01:12]>> Really good, really funny. Really could tell that my therapy was working.

[00:01:16]>> For sure. For sure.

[00:01:18]>> It was wild how different I felt. I feel like you should talk a little bit. Also, speaking of talking, I lost my voice after the third show.

[00:01:26]>> She did.

[00:01:27]>> And I have been trying to go on vocal rest. And by trying, I mean I only played a couple songs on the piano today.

[00:01:35]>> Jerry, I'm just kidding. No, I'm not. But it's it's fine. It is what it is.

[00:01:43]>> It'll be really fun when you can't speak for either of our live shows.

[00:01:45]>> No, it'll be fine. I have a microphone.

[00:01:48]>> What? Jerry.

[00:01:49]>> So, it'll be really loud.

[00:01:51]Uh but yeah, so if I sound different, both of my kids are like, "Why do you sound weird?" And I'm like, "I I lost my voice. It's fine." And then all day today, they were like, "Do I sound weird? Am I sounding weird?" And I'm like, "You sound fine.

[00:02:04]>> Stop trying to take my thing. This is my thing right now."

[00:02:07]>> Um yeah. Anyway, I feel like you should talk a little bit about what your therapy was before.

[00:02:14]>> Oh, okay. Yes. I forgot I didn't talk about this.

[00:02:17]So, I had a therapy session the day before we were supposed to leave. And uh it's funny just knowing what happened at the show, but basically if you don't know, not an ad, but I've talked about it extensively. And I was on the NOCD, get to know OCD podcast.

[00:02:36]>> You can look that up. Me and Jerry listened to it on the way uh from New York to Boston. Jerry sobbed. It was awesome.

[00:02:41]>> I just have my sunglasses on. I'm just like white knuckling and just tears are coming down my face.

[00:02:47]>> I was like, "Yeah, that's a great >> It's really good. I'll try. If I remember, I'll link it in the notes. You should go watch it."

[00:02:54]>> Yeah. But anyways, when we were talking about uh in that why I brought that up is because obviously we go into a little bit more detail on exposure uh response therapy, which is exposure response prevention, right?

[00:03:10]>> Yeah. I don't even remember when it's been so I'm so tired. Anyways, uh so a lot of that is obviously exposurebased and because the OCD that I have, my compulsions are heavily reassurance seeking which I thought was always because I was a people pleaser. It's wild how much of that is like linked to OCD. I'm realizing now. Anyways, she was like, "Why do you you know, because we were talking about the fuzzy socks and the visors and >> I was going to say, I don't know that they know that you have as many >> Oh, I had a lot >> rituals as you do when it comes to the shows."

[00:03:52]>> I had a lot. Um there were I had to wear certain travel clothes.

[00:03:58]>> Um and the way that I would get ready would be kind of similar. And then when we would be at the show, it was very important for me to have at least 30 minutes and I would like pace back and forth. And I always told people it was because I was nervous, but it was because I was going over the entire show in my head like over and over and over, which you don't need to, by the way, because most of what we do is improving, like a lot of it. So anyways, but I would like try to anticipate >> how I could do that, which was >> she had to have for vi for camp tangents, she had to wear a visor. For this show, I have to have my fuzzy socks.

[00:04:33]>> Well, you also had to have high socks.

[00:04:35]>> High socks for Camp Tangents. They worked. And so the fuzzy high socks were for this one as well. Especially if I was wearing uh shorts. If I wore pants, it was normally okay. But if I wore shorts, I had to have the high socks.

[00:04:45]>> So anyways, >> uh she was like, "We're going to do some exposures around imagining not having them." And she's like, "What do you think is going to happen if you don't have them?" And I was like, "I'm really afraid of saying something or doing something that like [ __ ] up the whole show that makes it super awkward, super weird. either I say something really horrible >> or the show just bombs and people hate me because of it. And she was like, "Yeah, that could happen." And I was like, >> I'm laughing not because this is funny, but because of what happened >> in Boston. Yeah. In Boston, but also like everywhere. What happened at all of the shows?

[00:05:23]>> Oh, there was something that went wrong at every single show.

[00:05:25]>> Well, not something didn't go wrong. It just maybe said a thought that should have been an inside.

[00:05:31]>> People thought it was funny. But anyways, >> so I had to like imagine scenarios where [ __ ] went wrong and she and and I was not allowed to tell myself like I hope people still like me afterwards or I hope they still like the show. I had to imagine that they didn't like the show and just sit with that feeling. And actually, you would think why the [ __ ] do people do that? That sounds horrible.

[00:05:54]It is so rewarding because it kind of the control aspect of it is you're like this is out of my hands because what she kept saying to me is you don't get to control whether people like the show or not. There will probably be people who don't like it and you don't get to control that possible.

[00:06:10]>> I know and I know >> that's not possible.

[00:06:13]>> But it was nice uh for that reason.

[00:06:18]>> I'm bad for your reassurance seeking right now. Hey, I mean I know that there's people that are confused by it.

[00:06:23]That's for sure. But anyways, so yeah, that was what we had to do. And it was nice because I we did some exposures. I didn't wear my travel stuff.

[00:06:31]>> Uhhuh.

[00:06:32]>> One night I didn't wear socks at all in New York. I had bare [ __ ] piggies out. Never done that at a show.

[00:06:38]>> Philly, you wore your hair differently.

[00:06:40]>> I did. I wore piggy buns.

[00:06:42]>> Yes. And I was worried that was going to like if we had a good show, I was worried that you were going to have to do piggies every show. And you were nervous that you didn't even like the piggies anyway. And I'm like, great, now she's going to hate her hair every show, but feel like she has to do it.

[00:06:56]>> Yeah. Yep. Yeah. No, I think it was fine. And I don't feel any type of way.

[00:07:01]I mean, it's still tough for me, >> but I think it went really well.

[00:07:06]>> Yeah. No, I agree. And I feel like your hair looked so good >> in the piggy buns.

[00:07:11]>> In the piggy buns. And then after your hair has been looking so shiny and it's probably because of the Blissy pillowcase.

[00:07:18]>> That's exactly what it is. I already told you guys as a part of the swag that I got my bridesmaids for the wedding. I had a Blissy pillowcase in there because it is truly changed my life. It's changed my skin. It's changed my hair.

[00:07:33]And I I wanted to give the gift that keeps on giving. Yeah. Guess what? It's my travel pillowcase now. I bring it with me because I don't want >> I have to get the the frizz before the show, after the show. Those hotel pillowcases do us nothing for my hair.

[00:07:50]>> Absolutely not.

[00:07:52]>> They also reduce fine lines and wrinkles and sleep creases, which I get a lot of because when I sleep hard, especially after tour, I'll wake up with just like the worst sleep creases in my face and then I swear they stay there all day.

[00:08:05]Uh, but they also help prevent breakouts, which we both love. They also have additional products if you already maybe you already have a Blissey pillowcase and you're like, "What else can I get myself?" They also have bonnets and sleep masks. Sierra and I both travel with our Blissy sleep mask.

[00:08:21]>> Did you love seeing me with it? Every single morning they woke up. Of course, it's phenomenal. I cannot tell you how annoying I was to travel with because I would have to make it I have to be like a vampire. It's pitch black in my room or I cannot sleep. And now it doesn't need to be. I didn't even worry if if windows were shut or anything. That's how good those sleep masks are.

[00:08:41]>> And they're also cooling. The pillowcase is cooling. The sleep mask is cooling on my face and I run hot when I sleep. So, it's so nice to feel that coolness on my face. And it's all because of the silk that they're made out of.

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[00:09:10]>> Thanks, Blissy.

[00:09:11]>> Thank you. We love you. Um, so yeah, back to it. So, I'm doing all of these things and I and I'm telling myself like, you know, if things go wrong, things go wrong. Like, it's out of my control. And then things do go wrong.

[00:09:25]The first show, she's told me all of this and I'm like, I don't get nervous for shows because in my mind, I'm like, whatever happens is going to happen. I am. She has always looked at me like, "How are you not flipping [ __ ] before show?"

[00:09:42]>> Yeah, because I am I'm a a ball of nerves and anxiety.

[00:09:47]>> No, I think I more so pretend it's not happening, which I don't know if that's healthy either, but it's that's my I guess way of coping with it is just being like >> it's not happening till we're sitting out there.

[00:09:59]>> Yeah. and and then it's gonna be over and then we get to go home or go back to the hotel and like at some point I'm gonna open my eyes and I'm gonna be in a different place and and whatever happens in between now and that time is what happens and I don't know.

[00:10:15]>> I love that. But it's funny because was this not the first time that you felt like I was like that as well? Yes.

[00:10:22]>> I looked at her and I was like, "Oh my god, I understand how you can nap backstage. I was so not filled with anxiety and adrenaline that I was like, I could [ __ ] take a nap. I was scrolling on my phone. We did a Patreon live before the uh Philadelphia show, which was [ __ ] hilarious, by the way.

[00:10:41]They are the ones that bullied me into doing the piggy bug.

[00:10:44]>> It looked great. But um if you Hey, if you want to get on Patreon, there's so many goodies for you. But if you don't and you just want to buy that live, it's worth it. It's really funny.

[00:10:58]>> It was so funny because people in the audience were also watching it. So they were there was like a call in response kind of happening. The way we could hear them, first of all, we get on and then we start to hear the audience singing Averil Lavine together.

[00:11:11]>> I cried because I was like girlhood. But then they were yowing and then I was yowing back.

[00:11:17]>> She was like a sleeper. Every time she was Pavlov's dog. Every time one of y'all yowled, she yowled back. It was like she wasn't even thinking. She wasn't in control of her her mouth at that moment. Not at all.

[00:11:28]>> You yow, she yows.

[00:11:29]>> I couldn't help it. It just was happening.

[00:11:31]>> We all ya.

[00:11:32]>> So they uh I was talking about how I was hating my hair and it was annoying me and I was like, I could do like >> it rained. Yes, we got caught in a freaking torrential downpour on the way to the venue. My nightmare. M. And um anyways, so someone from the audience was in the Patreon live and was like, "I have hair ties." And I was like, "Yes, girl." I think it's Megan was her name.

[00:11:56]And so I was like, "I'm going to open the door." And so I opened the door and she tosses me. Well, she was going to toss me one or two.

[00:12:02]>> Her to throw them on stage. I want to make it very clear.

[00:12:05]>> No, I did. I said >> told her to throw them.

[00:12:08]>> I did. I yelled, "Throw it on stage."

[00:12:10]And she couldn't get just one to go. So she throws me her entire pack of hair ties. And I was like, "Thank you. I love you so much." As that's happening, two bouquets of flowers get tossed our way, too. And I'm like, "Oh, no."

[00:12:24]>> People just start throwing stuff on the stage like it's a hockey game. And at that point, I think the staff is like, "Hey, >> yeah, >> don't do this."

[00:12:34]>> I apologize. I was like, "That was kind of my fault a little bit. I didn't know they were going to throw flowers. I didn't tell them to do that, but it was kind of funny." Uh, I said I felt like Selena at the end of that movie. No, you didn't. No, I didn't. Spoiler alert for the end of Selena. We What happened there did happen to us other than the flowers?

[00:12:55]>> Yeah. Yeah. But yeah, we did we did sign the >> the hair ties.

[00:13:00]>> We signed the pack of hair ties and I gave them back to her when we started the show.

[00:13:03]>> That was fun. Um, but Sierra had told me all of these things that she had worked through with her therapist and she also had mentioned, you know, like I'm not going to be wearing my travel shirt. And so, >> um, I was just kind of like, I'll lean into this with you. I'll do whatever >> and I will be a support person during all of this. And I even said to you backstage before we were on the live or after, I forget when, but I was like, you're not pacing.

[00:13:32]>> Yeah. you're able to just like sit like you are not a ball of anxious energy and then even after the shows >> you were able to sleep. You didn't normally she's wound for [ __ ] sound because her adrenaline keeps her up.

[00:13:46]>> Yeah. Literally after the shows I would have to take like one or two of the drinks they give us like white claws back to the hotel room with me and I'd just be pacing and trying to drink them so that it would literally bring it down a notch so that I could sleep. And I normally end up going to sleep 2 to three hours after Jerry. And every night I was in bed before you a couple of the nights. Like I was ready to turn cuz she was watching Summer House.

[00:14:09]>> And I was I was ready to be like, "All right, time to go to sleep before you a couple of nights." That's never happened.

[00:14:15]>> I literally remember turning the TV off cuz I'm like, "I think she's ready for bed." Like this is >> I guess I guess I'll go to sleep then.

[00:14:23]>> What the [ __ ] is this?

[00:14:24]>> It was so wild. It was so different. I told Corey all about it because I was just so happy and I'm like, "Hey, if there's any and I didn't originally go for tour stuff cuz I really didn't know how much of my tour stuff was OCD."

[00:14:40]>> Yeah.

[00:14:40]>> Um I knew like the flight stuff was but I didn't realize how much was tied into the all of it. Travel.

[00:14:47]>> Anything that has a routine to it, you will start to assign >> like rituals to it without even knowing it. By the way, um, a lot of times it's just like, oh, this is just it's part of my routine cuz I also really like routines. And now I'm kind of trying to figure out, do I like routines or do I need my rituals?

[00:15:07]>> Yeah. You like things not to be unpredictable.

[00:15:10]>> Yes. Yeah. And I like to feel like I am in control of them even though that's not how that works.

[00:15:14]>> Yeah, that's not how that works.

[00:15:16]>> But anyways, it was great. I felt amazing. I think the shows all went well. We had some tech problems at the first two shows. So, I don't know if you guys have Do you hear my stuff?

[00:15:27]>> I did. I thought it was Mo.

[00:15:29]>> I'm so scared.

[00:15:31]>> I drank something that's supposed to help me poop because I've been so [ __ ] constantly.

[00:15:35]>> We both didn't [ __ ] like at all. And it's that's another bad thing about travel with the two of us. And so, I finally did. Earlier, she took like magnesium glycinate or whatever it is. I thought it was Is it citrate?

[00:15:47]>> Citrate. Citrate. One of the I can't remember. One of them. But it's supposed to make you poop.

[00:15:52]>> It's basically what you take before a colonoscopy.

[00:15:55]>> And I've pooped like a couple of times, but it's been like rabbit turds. Okay.

[00:15:59]Sorry, TMI, but like it's been like almost nothing.

[00:16:02]>> Yeah.

[00:16:03]>> And I keep texting in our Girls Gone Mile group because Taylor and Nicole have done this before and they are like, "Hey, you're going to think it's not working.

[00:16:13]Don't do more."

[00:16:14]>> Sierra's like, "I'll bring stool softeners if it's not going." And Taylor's like, "Please, for the love of God, >> don't take stool softeners. Sometimes it can take up to 12 hours." She goes, "Mine normally takes six. When did you take it?" And I was like, "Like 3:30."

[00:16:30]And she goes, "Oh, okay. Probably like 9:30, 10. You're really going to feel it." And I'm like, "Good." When I'm recording.

[00:16:34]>> It's literally right now.

[00:16:35]>> Awesome. So, we are quite literally sitting in a time bomb.

[00:16:40]>> We are.

[00:16:40]>> Of my body.

[00:16:41]>> I'm scared.

[00:16:42]>> Me, too. Especially after the sound it just made. But I'm going to be I'm going to be really brave and I'm going to be really strong. And by me, I mean my [ __ ] I'm just going to be really strong. My sphincter is going to be so tight. I [ __ ] believe in you, dude.

[00:16:55]>> Yeah, me too. Okay. I even got on the vibration plate.

[00:16:58]>> Oh, I know. You get it. Get out of me.

[00:17:00]>> It's so I don't know why travel does this. And Cory was like, it's just because you guys are eating the way you're not like used to eating. And I think we're eating at different times.

[00:17:09]Like next week or when you guys are hearing it, it's now we're traveling to the Pacific Northwest. So, time zones are different. Everything's all different.

[00:17:17]>> Yeah, >> it's [ __ ] us up.

[00:17:19]>> Anyway, >> I've been trying to sit on the toilet with my [ __ ] open just praying for things to move and they don't. But anyway, so if you were at Camp Tangents, then you know, we have um a pre-show situation where there's like a couple slides that'll show. Normally, it's like the logo for the show, it's our socials, and then it's a drinking game.

[00:17:45]>> And that will just loop until the show starts. We started Camp Tangents the same way we start Girls Gone Mild with a video.

[00:17:52]>> Mhm.

[00:17:53]>> And we at the end of the video, our intro music plays and we walk out to that intro music.

[00:17:59]>> Yep.

[00:18:01]I have found that it's been helpful for the venue to play the uh pre-show slides and the intro video and then just switch to my computer when I get out there because I run the rest of the show.

[00:18:18]>> Mhm.

[00:18:20]>> For whatever reason, the venues that we went to, at least the first two, couldn't do that. And so I was having to run them from my computer and I >> Sometimes it's worked because then Corey when he would come with us would run up on stage and hit it for us so we don't have to go out there and it would be >> Yeah. And it would be like a bit it would be like oh there's Corey whatever.

[00:18:42]>> So >> Oh look at that dumbass.

[00:18:45]>> Oh look at that. Uh so for whatever reason I was using Canva and Shut up. I know there's different there's better things to use. I've been educated. I'm figuring it out. Just so for the story, we were using Canva. Okay.

[00:19:03]>> And the reason I like it is because >> I can play the next slide from my phone in the back. So, I don't have to have somebody out there.

[00:19:14]>> Yep.

[00:19:15]>> I can take a there's a little QR code, I can scan it, and that's the remote. for whatever [ __ ] reason.

[00:19:21]>> First time this has ever happened.

[00:19:23]>> Canva now only has that remote last for so long. 26 minutes.

[00:19:29]>> Yeah, it was like it was like 19 or 20 some minutes.

[00:19:31]>> Maybe it was 30 minutes and and I only noticed at 26. But anyway, >> time isn't real.

[00:19:36]>> So, >> I'll tell you right now, >> it's because I didn't wear the [ __ ] socks.

[00:19:40]>> So, I'm texting and I'm trying to get the the remote up and I'm like, "Oh, [ __ ] The remote is no longer active."

[00:19:48]Luckily, Rachel was at the show and so I'm texting Rachel in the audience and I'm like, "Hey, can you go up to the stage, take a picture of the QR code, send it to me so that I can get the the remote back."

[00:20:02]>> She goes up, she texts me that she's done it and that she's been yelled at because she did it. Then I'm like, "I'm so sorry." She literally texts back and she goes, "Maybe yelled at was stronger."

[00:20:13]>> Dramatic. Yeah. Maybe maybe that was dramatic. Yeah.

[00:20:17]>> So, anyway, I get the the QR code. I try to upload it. I'm hitting the video to start cuz they've done their announcements. They've said, "Here they come, ladies and gents and everyone in between. Here is >> Jerry and Sierra from Ladies and Tangents."

[00:20:32]>> It's silent.

[00:20:33]>> Nothing happens.

[00:20:34]>> Nothing.

[00:20:35]>> And I'm pressing the button. Nothing happens. So, I'm like, >> and everybody's looking around like, "What the [ __ ] is going on?" So, I decide I'll I'll make this a bit. And I crawl out of the green room on all fours to try and switch it just on the computer.

[00:20:53]>> Mhm.

[00:20:54]>> And it plays for like a second and then stops.

[00:20:59]And I do it again. It plays for a second and then stops. And I was like, [ __ ] forget it. And so then I crawl on all fours. I get to the front and I'm sitting in the seat and everyone's like cheering and I'm yelling at them to shut the [ __ ] up and pretend they don't see me.

[00:21:11]>> This isn't happening. And you don't. The show's not even started yet. You don't see me.

[00:21:15]>> You're ruining the illusion right now by pretending that you see me or acknowledging >> acknowledging that you see me. So, I get up and I finangle some other [ __ ] to make it work. And then I crawl back on all fours as the video plays so that Sierra and I can walk out together during our queue. And while I'm getting everything situated, I'm like, Sierra's therapist is going to love this. sitting the exact exposure she needed.

[00:21:43]>> And you know what was great? I felt fine.

[00:21:45]>> Yeah, >> I felt fine. I felt like Jerry's got it handled no matter what. I feel like she's got it. It's going to be funny no matter what. And if they hate us because of a a tech issue, >> [ __ ] it.

[00:21:57]>> They know that this is a professional podcast for professional people. We handle things so professionally.

[00:22:02]>> Yeah.

[00:22:02]>> And that's exactly what happened there.

[00:22:04]That's how I felt about that.

[00:22:05]>> Guess what? It happened again in New York. again in New York.

[00:22:10]>> Oh my god, I felt so bad though. I felt so [ __ ] bad.

[00:22:14]>> Sweet, sweet Angel Harley from New York.

[00:22:17]Love her down. She was the stage manager. She was so nice. And also, this is a theme that keeps happening. I know we've told you guys about it before, but it's really happened a lot. She was like, "You guys are like so nice. You're like the nicest people we've ever met."

[00:22:30]>> Which is bonkers to me because >> we're always like, "Who hurt you? Who's me? I just want to talk. Who's [ __ ] mean to you guys?

[00:22:37]>> Who the [ __ ] is coming here?" And how are they treating you? Cuz me and Jerry like we're not going over like over the top.

[00:22:43]>> We're just saying like please and thank you and if something goes wrong, we're like it's fine. Don't worry about it.

[00:22:49]It's cool. No worries.

[00:22:51]>> Wild. Anyways, >> Harley was like, I'll go out and start it >> because I noticed I said there's an issue with me and the remote. So, you may have to go out and start it. This is how you do it. She's like, not a problem.

[00:23:03]>> Like, I got you girls.

[00:23:04]>> So, they announce us again. She goes out. She presses the button. It starts to play. As she's walking off, it stops and she >> looks at us >> like like she's about to be hit by a bus.

[00:23:22]>> It was so sad. Like like my child when he dropped his ice cream.

[00:23:29]>> It was so sad.

[00:23:30]>> So she turns around.

[00:23:32]>> This sweet girl is like no. She's like I had one [ __ ] job. She turns around.

[00:23:36]>> It wasn't her fault at all, but >> No. And she does it again and it shuts off again.

[00:23:43]>> And I was like, Harley, don't worry.

[00:23:45]>> She says, "Don't worry." She gets on all fours.

[00:23:47]>> I do see all fours bit again. I was like, "All right, we Hey, I know. I know what to do. Fear not, everyone. We should put a blanket over you next time.

[00:23:56]You just look like >> like a sheet so nobody can see you."

[00:24:02]>> No, it won't happen again. I was like a scream mask or something.

[00:24:06]>> Phantom of the opera have a cape and and have my face covered.

[00:24:12]>> So anyways, yeah, that was really fun.

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[00:26:00]>> Thank you so much. Okay. All right. So, we're in Boston and there's there's there's let's just say I don't want to give too much away with the show, but there are supernatural elements to it.

[00:26:18]>> So, we got a message.

[00:26:22]>> So, you know, we've said this before.

[00:26:24]We've said this before where I have been kind of witchy at shows. Remember the whole Pittsburgh thing?

[00:26:32]when I pointed at someone and said something about a funeral.

[00:26:35]>> Okay. Well, I got another situation here. The name Amber came up and I was like, "Is there an Amber in the crowd?"

[00:26:41]One person in the crowd admitted to being an Amber.

[00:26:45]>> Honestly, wild because I was like, "For real? One Amber?" Okay. There was like six Sarah.

[00:26:50]>> I know. There always is. There's Sarah's and Ashley's out the [ __ ] ass, but there's one Amber.

[00:26:56]>> Wild. So, anyway, I Amber raises her hand. I spot her in the crowd, right?

[00:27:02]Sierra has no idea where she is.

[00:27:04]>> Sierra often times is just pretending to know where people are and she just has her head in the direction that mine is, but she can't [ __ ] see. I can't see [ __ ] when I'm up there. So, I look at Amber and I get this feeling that there is a male presence who has passed on.

[00:27:22]And I said, "Do you have a male who is deceased in your life?" And she said, "No." And I said, "Do you want one?"

[00:27:34]I said, "Why? I don't know. I'm just saying." And I said, "Do you have anyone who's dead?"

[00:27:43]And listen, you got to understand that at the show, these hit. So, >> they do. They do. You guys got to come to our show.

[00:27:50]>> It's so [ __ ] funny.

[00:27:51]>> Here talking to a camera and no one's laughing at us. It It feels like it doesn't hit. But I promise you, it is.

[00:27:56]>> That's why I'm really scared to say this. So I said, "Do you have anyone who's dead?" And she says, "No." And I said, "Not a single person."

[00:28:05]>> You are an adult in your life and you don't have one single person who's dead.

[00:28:10]And she said, "No, >> damn. What's that like?" And then I said, "Maybe it could be you." I said, "What the [ __ ] is wrong with you? You know, our audience is full of people with mental health disorders." I it was one of those things that popped into my head and before I could say yes or no to it, it came right out the mouth. I was like I looked in in Sarah in Amber's general direction and I said I'm so [ __ ] sorry immediately. I'm so [ __ ] sorry. I don't know why I said that. Jerry was like this is going to be hilarious to tell your therapist cuz this is the thing that you said you were afraid was going to happen that you would say something to hurt someone's feeling or that was offensive and I was like >> you were going to say some offthe cuff [ __ ] wild [ __ ] Amber, I'm so sorry.

[00:28:51]I didn't mean to offend if I did. I I truly truly am so sorry. Um, and then I said, I I assume you're over here. I can't actually see where you're at, but I'm trying to look in your general direction because I would love to see if she was like actually laughing or mad.

[00:29:07]Most people were laughing. Yeah.

[00:29:09]>> So, I was like, Sarah, I just want to know if you're laughing or not. I can't see. And Jerry goes, >> I said, Sarah, I won't tell you where.

[00:29:18]Sarah, Sarah, Sarah, Sarah, Amber, Sarah sounds like a dumb horse.

[00:29:26]>> Anyway, you guys will get that if you come to the show. I said, Amber, I won't tell her where you are. She can't hurt you.

[00:29:33]>> It was really funny. I think that Amber, if you're listening right now, could you please tell me you're not mad at me? You don't have to. You can actually tell me nothing. And it's okay if you are.

[00:29:42]>> Tell Hey, comment. I might be.

[00:29:44]>> You could be. That would be the best thing for her in her treatment.

[00:29:48]No, actually, please tell me you're not, dude. And we did that in Philly, too.

[00:29:52]She was talking about how well Jerry because there was tech issues. There continued to be tech issues when we got out there. So, before we started the show, Jerry was like, I'm going to do some stuff on the computer to get this right. Sierra, take it away.

[00:30:07]And I was like, you guys know how I'm in therapy?

[00:30:10]>> Okay, this is exactly what I was afraid was going to happen. And I kind of told them a little bit of what we just talked about. And so then yelling, "You're doing amazing. You're doing great." And Jar was like, "Stop it.

[00:30:23]>> Don't tell her that.

[00:30:25]>> Hey, tell her she's bombing."

[00:30:27]>> Yeah. And so then it was all quiet and one person just yells, "You're doing okay." I was like, "Thank you."

[00:30:34]>> That's the energy. We love that.

[00:30:36]>> Because what I'm supposed to say to myself while I'm working myself down from the anxiety feeling is I can't control how people receive the show. I can't control what happens. I just need to I'm I know I'm doing my best and I want to try to do my best >> and that's really hard to do and that's just fine. You know what is living rentree in my head right now?

[00:30:57]>> Tell me.

[00:30:58]>> It is when I look down into the audience in New York because you guys know it's a sleepover themed show.

[00:31:07]>> We don't expect everybody to wear sleepover stuff. We truly don't.

[00:31:10]However, when most people are and >> it's quite obvious to me on stage when there is like people in our merch, people in pajamas, people in like I don't know going out attire and then a man a first of all man wearing a suit a full business a full business suit. So I stopped the show. I go, "Is this somebody's dad?" Because listen, dad's come to the show. If you were in Boston, you know, dad's come to the show. We basically, he was our third host that night essentially.

[00:31:47]>> I talked to dad the entire show.

[00:31:49]>> The whole show was to dad. Everyone else was a guest at Dad's show in Boston.

[00:31:54]>> And honestly, bless him because at the he came to the meet and greet then and I was like, "I'm so sorry I was [ __ ] with you so much." He was like, "I thought it was hilarious."

[00:32:02]Yeah. They were like, "It was so funny.

[00:32:04]You guys are hilarious." And I was like, "Thank God." Because I was really I was razing dad. Well, and that was that was a dream scenario because that's not what happened in New York. What happened in New York is I point and I go, "Is that someone's father?"

[00:32:17]>> And it gets quiet and the people shine the light on them.

[00:32:21]>> I was so Why would they do that?

[00:32:22]>> They shine the light on them in the audience. And I go, "Is this your dad?"

[00:32:27]And she says, "My boyfriend." And we were like, "Amazing." So, the only thing I can think to say is my husband's seven years younger than me.

[00:32:36]>> I was like, I went >> period. Congratulations.

[00:32:41]Congratulations.

[00:32:43]Or whatever.

[00:32:45]>> And I couldn't stop thinking about the rest cuz guess what? He wasn't laughing.

[00:32:49]>> No, he didn't laugh.

[00:32:50]>> He didn't think it was funny. I thought >> he didn't have a meet and greet so that we could ask him if he was okay with it.

[00:32:55]So, I don't know. I just have to sit with that.

[00:32:58]>> How's it feel?

[00:32:59]>> It's not good.

[00:33:00]>> I No, it's really >> It's as bad as when I yelled at the guy in Dallas when I thought he was calling me a [ __ ] and I found out he wasn't.

[00:33:06]>> He wasn't at all.

[00:33:07]>> He wasn't. And I had to do a public apology.

[00:33:10]I had to retract my [ __ ] and to say sorry. You [ __ ] with him the whole show. He did love it.

[00:33:17]>> He was a good sport.

[00:33:18]>> He was a really, really good sport.

[00:33:19]>> They didn't know that. I thought he called me a [ __ ] >> No, no, no. They thought you were just because he was a man >> and I kind of was.

[00:33:27]>> Yeah. Oh, >> there is one thing I really love about the shows is when there's like good sports cuz we do tend to sometimes pick on people who we let me tell you from people uh the two people on the stage.

[00:33:42]We can tell when people are there for us and when people are drug along and it is kind of fun to like not pick on them in a mean way, but just kind of like include them in the show >> in a way that feels funny and fun.

[00:33:55]>> Well, yeah. Because it's almost like we're acknowledging that a lot of this is inside jokes that you aren't aware of.

[00:34:00]>> That's what we kept doing with dad at Boston. So, every time there was an inside joke, I was like, "Dad, so she got a divorce.

[00:34:06]>> Here's the lore."

[00:34:07]>> Yeah.

[00:34:08]>> And it's it's a fun way to engage the audience in the inside joke by really [ __ ] going hard at one person.

[00:34:21]I swear we we let up if we could tell that you're uncomfortable. I promise.

[00:34:24]Oh, yeah. We never let we never push on if we could tell. The second I knew that that person's boyfriend was uncomfortable when I called him her dad.

[00:34:34]I didn't look at them again the rest of the show. We never spoke to him again after that.

[00:34:39]>> Not one time.

[00:34:40]>> Oh my goodness.

[00:34:41]>> I said Howie Mandela is at our show right now and I don't know what to do.

[00:34:44]We have to get out of here.

[00:34:47]>> That's not actually who it was.

[00:34:48]>> No, but it it could have been.

[00:34:50]>> Would have been cool.

[00:34:50]>> Would have been neat.

[00:34:51]>> Would have been very neat. Um, what was another thing that we did? Oh my god.

[00:34:55]Driving in New York. Let's talk about it.

[00:34:57]>> Do you want to talk about just getting the rental car period? We should because why did that happen to us?

[00:35:04]>> I don't know. So, we get off Philly airport.

[00:35:08]We have to We're flying to Philadelphia the same day as a show. So, we're up at 6:30 in the morning and on a flight at like 8:30 or whatever. or we're at the airport, whatever. And so all of this is before we actually have to get we're praying we need to get to the hotel early so we can take a nap. We can get a bit of a nap in before we have to get ready for the show cuz we're up early.

[00:35:35]The shows a lot of time meet and greets can go later. And again, I didn't know if I was going to be up until 2 or 3 in the morning. I'm like, I need to nap. So anyways, that's where we're at. We get >> to where we need to be at the Enterprise.

[00:35:49]>> Yes. And they tell us, >> and I have already checked in. I've checked in early. So, I just have to get off the bus. I don't have to go to the counter. And I go directly to where the cars are. And they tell us, "Follow me.

[00:36:00]>> You're going to go down this row. Pick any of these cars." And I know that I need to find a car with a USBC port >> because one, that's how you start CarPlay. And two, I knew that we were going to be driving a lot. Yeah, we were building to New York and then New York to Boston. And >> New York to Boston was [ __ ] >> 5 hours. So, I knew I was going to need to charge my phone.

[00:36:26]>> Yep.

[00:36:27]>> I didn't want to even risk being on any of those drives not having Yeah.

[00:36:31]>> GPS. So, >> we get into the first car and we choose this blue Mazda because it was blue.

[00:36:38]>> It looked nice >> and a Mazda and I was like, "This is fun. We never get Mazda. We never get blue. Let's be Let's be wild. We're normally a real white car kind of gals.

[00:36:48]White or black?

[00:36:49]>> Yep. So, we get in and I look, no USBC.

[00:36:52]>> Yeah.

[00:36:53]>> And I say, "By the way, we've already put all of our [ __ ] in here. All of it's already in the truck." So, I've already turned the car on and started the AC when I realized that there's no USBC.

[00:37:04]>> Oh my god. By the way, because it was like 94 degrees. It was [ __ ] hell on earth in Philadelphia that day. Why?

[00:37:09]>> They had a heat advisory. They did.

[00:37:11]>> Meanwhile, back at home, there's a flash flood warning.

[00:37:13]>> There was. It's something's wrong with the universe. I don't know. So, I say, "We got to get out of the car." So, I get all of our luggage out and I move.

[00:37:22]Not all of it. Sierra gets the backpacks.

[00:37:25]I'm so [ __ ] weak. The luggage is She's [ __ ] hulking them out. And I was like, I got the backpacks. So, we move over to the next car and it's a Jeep. And I was like, I like a Jeep.

[00:37:37]>> Yeah. [ __ ] cool.

[00:37:38]>> It has the USBC. There was definitely some kind of come stain discharge stain on on my seat. But at this point, I was so hot and so tired. I said, "I don't give a [ __ ] I'm sitting on here.

[00:37:49]>> I who just get the AC in my face and get me to a goddamn hotel.

[00:37:54]>> I need to sleep." So, I put our stuff at the back. I get in. We drive to the front. And it's finally our turn. When you get around a car, you have to like go through kind of like a toll area where you talk to somebody in a window and they get all your info and say, "Yeah, you're allowed to have the car.

[00:38:10]>> You can leave."

[00:38:11]>> Yeah. So, we get up to that window and the lady leans out and she wants to talk to me and I'm pressing the button.

[00:38:18]>> Nothing.

[00:38:19]>> The window doesn't go down.

[00:38:21]>> Nothing's happening.

[00:38:22]>> All of the other windows they both this woman and Sierra are like, "Is the child lock on?" I'm like, "I don't think child locks work on the front windows. First of all, it's secondly, why the [ __ ] would they be on the driver's side?

[00:38:34]I'm I'm positive a child's not going to be in that seat or they definitely shouldn't be. So, and if I if they are, we got bigger problems in windows coming down.

[00:38:45]>> So, I'm trying to press I'm pressing all the buttons. Literally, every single window works except mine at the driver's window. So, I open it up and I think nothing of it. I I order at drive-thrus with no window. I Hey, my windows didn't roll down for like seven years one time in my car. Didn't give a [ __ ] >> Sierra couldn't There was one time Sierra couldn't get out of her car without rolling her window down. And then it was real tricky if the window was iced shut. That happened to me all the time. I would have to crawl through my passenger side window to get into my car cuz my door handle broke on my car.

[00:39:17]I couldn't couldn't get into my car.

[00:39:21]Pain in the ass. Funny. Anyways, so anyway, I open the door and I'm like, "Hey, the window doesn't come down." And so she like, "Here's your stuff." I'm trying to hand her my ID. She's looking at us >> above the door. And she's like, "No, go get a different car." And I was like, >> we were like, "We did. We're honestly >> we're so fine with this car." I said, "We're not going to use the window. No, it's so hot. I'm not going to open this.

[00:39:49]Who gives a shit?" She was like, "No, you have to go back." She already She's like, "I already radioed them." And I'm like, "Fuck." So now now I have She's telling everyone to move back cuz there's a line behind me. So kind of embarrassed. Have you ever had to reverse in front of all your peers who are trying to leave the rental car place? So embarrassing. Then you have to pull up beside the >> Cuz they don't know my window's not coming down. They don't know why you send me back to start. No. No. It looks like we just [ __ ] stole a car.

[00:40:18]>> Yeah.

[00:40:18]>> It's like you're not in the right car.

[00:40:20]you idiot. So, we go back and we open a car and it stinks. I'm like, "This one stinks."

[00:40:29]>> And so, I said, "This one they just brought back. It's like freshly clean."

[00:40:34]>> So cleaned.

[00:40:35]>> This This is the This is the one.

[00:40:37]>> It was great.

[00:40:38]>> It had finally had a great screen. USB >> USBC.

[00:40:43]>> USBC.

[00:40:45]>> Yeah.

[00:40:46]>> Yeah. Plenty of room for our stuff.

[00:40:49]>> Yeah. the next so much room.

[00:40:51]>> Finally able to leave. But I was like, is this a [ __ ] joke? How many cars am I going to get in before you let me leave? It was giving Goldilocks in the worst way. I was like, are we being [ __ ] punked? What is happening right now?

[00:41:04]>> Absolutely were. Uh, but yeah, we did drive it in New York City, which was honestly Jerry did phenomenal. And everyone was mad at us.

[00:41:12]>> Hey, everyone. Everyone's mad >> is mad all the time.

[00:41:15]>> And guess what? I'm mad now, too. She was just because I I have secondhand anger.

[00:41:20]>> I am secondhand mad from all of you [ __ ] people. The the the light would turn green and they would immediately honk if you didn't sprint through the light. Mind you, there's people in New York that just walk into the street. No regard for their life. They're staring down at their phones and just walking and the light is green and so you can't just go. And this guy's honking his horn at us. So I was like, I guess hit this lady. He wants to [ __ ] leave. And again, in New York, you drive like, I don't know, maybe what 10 feet and then you're at a [ __ ] another red light. So, it's not even like you could get anywhere.

[00:42:00]>> And a lot of it's one ways. And there's so many there's it's one lane, but somehow there's four car it's four cars wide. It was so wild. Nobody >> all three of them are parked. to figure that out. And two of them are bicycles going through the the parked cars.

[00:42:17]Everything was so confusing. I was like, there's no [ __ ] rules here.

[00:42:20]>> The amount of stress that I felt was so high. And I don't like feeling stressed.

[00:42:27]I really don't. And if there's anything that could like lower my stress >> that I want that in my life. And you know what lowers my stress is having all my finances organized.

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[00:44:26]>> Thank you. By the way, whenever we were talking about doing this, I was talking to Corey about it because I got a new cell phone, >> which is great because I dropped my cell phone so many [ __ ] times and it was every time it >> shattered to [ __ ] there were just like pieces of glass falling out on it.

[00:44:42]>> I remember it falling in one of the hotels and I was like, "Yeah, there we go. That is >> I was on it in bed in one of the hotels and I felt glass fall onto my face and I was like, "Okay, well, so I went today and got a new one and because of that it it did lock me out of all the emails cuz I was going to do a uh >> scandals >> scandals which I think we'll probably do next week or something something along the lines soon." But anyways, I was like, "What should we do?" And Corey was like, "You could do like just tour stories. You could call it horror stories."

[00:45:14]Tor stories. That's so cute.

[00:45:18]>> He was so excited that he came up with it. He was like, "You could call it tours."

[00:45:24]>> I was like, "Thank you so much, Cy. I'll tell them you said that."

[00:45:27]>> That's so funny >> because it was kind of like tour, but also I feel like we had >> Was it like bad bad?

[00:45:34]>> We had one of the best times I think that we've had in a minute. And I think it's cuz we're both in good spots. We're both really healing. Oh my god. Wait, I have one last story. I have a story about the [ __ ] parking garage.

[00:45:47]>> Go ahead. You tell your story on >> Okay. I don't even know how much longer we have to go, but >> Well, we definitely have one more ad at some point.

[00:45:53]>> We do.

[00:45:53]>> Yep. Figure that out.

[00:45:56]>> So, um I realize I've been saying figure that out a lot. So, I don't know if any of you guys are picking up on that and it's kind of like a and I've always said that, but >> it wasn't intentional, but if you want to use it, >> there it is.

[00:46:10]>> Think of me. Um, >> think of me.

[00:46:14]>> Think of me. So, we park outside of our hotel after doing a lap.

[00:46:20]>> That's right. This is >> in New York.

[00:46:22]>> There's nowhere to [ __ ] park in New York.

[00:46:24]>> We Hey, one thing about us, >> New York City, by the way.

[00:46:27]>> We love a budget. We love saving money.

[00:46:32]But if there's one area where I'm going to splurge, it's on the [ __ ] valet.

[00:46:36]>> Valet. We [ __ ] with valet hotels.

[00:46:38]>> Do not want to park. I'm sorry. I don't want to park. I'm Ubering to the venue most times anyway.

[00:46:46]>> Yep.

[00:46:48]>> We're not drinking and driving.

[00:46:49]>> Yep. We drink at shows often. So, we Uber every single time. Almost. Unless we can walk there >> for sure. So, sorry. I'm [ __ ] with a valet because I There was one time I tried to park myself and I almost wrecked the car. You almost took the [ __ ] mirror clean off. Yes.

[00:47:06]>> Yes.

[00:47:07]So, we had to have a man who worked there hop into the car. Mind you, hold on. I don't know if we ever told this story.

[00:47:13]>> I think we have told this story, but >> he hops into the car and Jerry's like, "Can you park this?" He's or help us out. And he was like, "Yeah, I've done this before." So, he gets in and I'm just still sitting in there and I >> first he tried to direct me and I go, "Absolutely not, sir. You're going to have to get in here." He goes, "Okay."

[00:47:30]Then he gets in and I'm just sitting in the car with him. I'm like, "Hey."

[00:47:34]I just say no words. I'm just like, and then he gets done and I'm like, "Thank you so much. Good job."

[00:47:40]>> Anyways, go on.

[00:47:41]>> I was just giggling the whole time because that's my panic.

[00:47:44]>> Yeah.

[00:47:44]>> My panic default is just giggle.

[00:47:46]>> It's true.

[00:47:47]>> Um, so anyway, we go in and we're like, "Hey, where's parking?" And she's like, "Oh, like three blocks away there's a parking garage." And I'm like, "Are you [ __ ] my dick right now?" Like this is I'm so pissed off right now. I'm so pissed. We just [ __ ] had to drive into New York from Philadelphia and now we have a show tonight. We have to get ready. I'm not going to get to take a nap.

[00:48:12]>> Mind you, we hadn't eaten at all that night either.

[00:48:15]>> And the room we're in is the size of a [ __ ] shoe box.

[00:48:19]>> A shoe box.

[00:48:20]>> It's probably the the entire hotel room is smaller than the room we're in right now to record this, which this room >> and it had two beds in it.

[00:48:29]>> Yeah. So figure that out.

[00:48:32]Also, and when I took a shower in that shower, my elbows, and I'm a small girl, touched the wall almost anytime I turned.

[00:48:39]>> It was like I genuinely felt like we were in a camper.

[00:48:42]>> Yeah. So, >> by the way, it was a sweet.

[00:48:45]>> Yeah.

[00:48:45]>> So, figure that out. So, figure that out.

[00:48:50]>> So, then I'm like, I guess I got to [ __ ] drive the car.3 miles to find this.

[00:48:56]>> You said you were going to do it without. You're like, I'm gonna go take the car. I was like, I'm I'll come with you. What the hell? So, we go to take the car and we find it. I've never entered a parking garage like this in my life.

[00:49:09]>> Oh, it was like I'm going to take you down into hell.

[00:49:12]>> So, you go down and then when you turn most parking garages, you just keep it's like a corkcrew, right? And you just find a place to park. THIS IS DON'T EVEN TRY TO PARK YOUR own car.

[00:49:24]>> As soon as you got into there, it was like stop.

[00:49:27]>> Yes. And it says pull ahead here. wait for the attack. Roll your window down.

[00:49:32]And I was like, thank God we got the car that has a window. They can roll down.

[00:49:38]How awkward before. Well, close call.

[00:49:41]They must have known in Philadelphia.

[00:49:43]>> Yeah.

[00:49:44]>> So, and it says, "Wait for the attendant." So, Sierra and I are sitting in the car window down and no one is coming to us.

[00:49:51]>> No.

[00:49:52]>> There's nowhere for me to drive forward.

[00:49:54]There's no parking spots.

[00:49:56]>> I was like, "Do we just leave it here?"

[00:49:57]Like, what?

[00:49:57]>> I don't know what to do. And so then all of a sudden from a distance a man yells and he goes, "Are you wanting to park?"

[00:50:04]I was like, "No, I just thought I'd [ __ ] sit here a while." Yeah, I want to park.

[00:50:09]Now I'm mad. Now I'm mad. I'm a New Yorker and I'm mad. So I get out the car. And I'm like, "Yeah, I want to park. Who the fuck?" And he's also looking at us like we're the dumbest girls you've ever seen.

[00:50:22]And he goes, "When do you want the car?"

[00:50:24]And I was like, "Never again. I actually hate it here. It's your car now." I'll say goodbye. I was like, "Tomorrow." And then he just wrote, "No time." And I was like, "Cool, perfect, cuz whenever I tell you." Uh, and then we went to a pub, Fitzgerald's pub. And by the way, again, another person who was our server there. The nicest. Well, we he like acted like we were the nicest people he's ever met. Again, I'm like, who who's hurting you?

[00:50:52]>> He said the funniest thing when Sierra asked for more water. He goes, "Not crazy about it, but I guess I was like, "All right, sorry to inconvenience you."

[00:51:04]>> Anyways, what I was going to tell the story of was the night after New York.

[00:51:09]So, >> well, I was going to tell that story, too.

[00:51:11]>> You do it. You do it.

[00:51:12]>> No, I don't want to tell it.

[00:51:14]>> You do it. It's so funny.

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[00:52:52]>> All right. So, here we are. We're in New York City. The night is young. We've just finished our show.

[00:52:58]>> Young for New York.

[00:52:59]>> Young for New York for sure. Although, we were having a tough time.

[00:53:02]>> An old Ohio. A young New York.

[00:53:05]>> Yeah. Yeah. So, we wanted food. A lot of times we don't eat very much during the day because we have to travel a lot of times on show days. So there's not a lot of like being able to sit down >> easy to go find somewhere to eat.

[00:53:19]>> No.

[00:53:20]>> And we're in a rush because we have to make it to soundcheck and sometimes they often times the venues will offer us food but >> at that point we're kind of like >> it's tough to eat >> nervous. Yeah. And you you don't want to have to poop before. So, we kind of eat very light when we're backstage. Um, so anyway, >> and then by the time we are at the venue to when we're done, it's probably like four or five hours anyway.

[00:53:44]>> Yeah.

[00:53:45]>> So, we're hungry again. So, we decide we're going to walk the streets of New York and we're going to find somewhere to eat and we wander into this little >> what, like a taco place.

[00:53:56]>> Yeah. And it looked great. I was like because the first two places we walked into, they were like, "Yeah, we we're done serving food." And I was like, I thought this was [ __ ] New York City.

[00:54:05]What the hell? What is this? Minnesota.

[00:54:07]>> I thought this was a city that never sleeps. Turns out it's a city that doesn't eat past 8:00. The [ __ ] >> So, we do find a place and I was like, amazing. We sit down. This nice young gentleman comes over and gets our orders. Jerry says, I said, "I'll have a Modello." I was still drinking. I was having a good time in New York.

[00:54:27]>> I said, "I would like a lemonade." And he goes, "We don't have lemonade." And I was like, "Okay." And he goes, "I think I can make you one."

[00:54:35]>> And Jerry's like, "No, no, no. It's okay.

[00:54:36]>> No, you don't have to make me one." He's like, "No, I think I I want to make you fresh squeezed lemonade." And I was like, >> she was like, "I will have a Sprite."

[00:54:44]And he was like, "I'm making the [ __ ] lemonade." It's like, "Okay." Yeah.

[00:54:50]>> So he does. He goes, he makes it. He comes back. He's like, "Try it." She does. It's just like very >> tastes like fresh squeezed lemonade.

[00:55:00]Amazing.

[00:55:00]>> Wonderful.

[00:55:01]>> We get our order put in. Um and then he comes back and he's like >> to Jerry. He goes, "So, you're not drinking a night?" Like drinking a beer.

[00:55:10]And she was like, >> "Um, no, not really." And he goes, "Why not?" He goes, "Do you like beer?" And I said, "Yeah, I just I don't know. I'm I'm not feeling it tonight. I'm not feeling super well as far as like wanting to consume more alcohol and also I have to drive tomorrow.

[00:55:27]>> Yeah. I said we're on tour. We have to drive to Boston tomorrow and she's driving. He's like, "Oh, you guys are on tour." Well, he doesn't like ask a lot of questions about it, >> which is interesting because anytime we mention that we're on tour, that we've just done a show. Normally people have questions.

[00:55:41]>> They'll be like, "Are you in a band?"

[00:55:42]>> He didn't react at all. He didn't react at all. But he would just kept staring at me like, >> "You're not going to drink. It's >> okay." So he walks away walks away and I look dead at Jerry and I go, "He is hitting on you. He is hitting on you. He is being really pushy about this beer."

[00:56:00]And honestly, I wouldn't drink whatever he breaks. She goes, "I'm actually a little concerned about you drinking that lemonade right now. What the [ __ ] did he put in there?" And I want you to drink a beer so bad.

[00:56:11]>> And I said, "Sier, I promise you with everything in me, that man is not hitting on me. And matter of fact, no man has ever hit on me. And that's how I know that that's not what's happening right now. I don't know why he was so [ __ ] curious about my drinks, but it has nothing to do with him wanting to get in these sweet, sweet pajama pants.

[00:56:34]>> Yeah. So, I'm like, "All right, whatever you say." I'm not convinced, though.

[00:56:39]Mhm.

[00:56:39]>> So then we get our food and we're eating a little bit and these two sweet sweet ladies come up to us uh and they were like, "Oh my gosh, hi. We were just at your show. We can't believe you walked in." The one girl was like, "She's a huge fan." Um she started crying and shaking when you walked in here. And she says, "And we wanted to buy you guys some drinks." He asked what I thought you would like or what I wanted to buy you guys because he told me one of you wasn't drinking. And she was basically like, "I know beers are probably a safe bet. Bless her." And so I was like, "Oh my god, that's why he was being so pushy about the beers."

[00:57:15]>> I said, "I told you."

[00:57:17]>> I told you.

[00:57:18]>> God damn it. We were so confused.

[00:57:20]>> And while they were talking, he came over and he's like, "Sorry." Yeah. I was just trying to get some information for them because they really wanted to treat you to another round. And I was like, "I thought you were trying to [ __ ] me."

[00:57:31]And he he never looked. I said, "I told my husband." And I I told my husband you were trying to [ __ ] me and he never looked at me again the whole rest of the time we were there. He acted like I was invisible.

[00:57:45]He said, "Not going to make that mistake again." But he did come over then later because we were like, "Okay, we're ready to go." And he was like, "Oh, they actually paid for your whole bill."

[00:57:55]>> We tried to uno reverse and pay for theirs, but they had already paid.

[00:57:58]>> Son of a [ __ ] We did. We were like, "Can we pay for hers?" And they were like, "They paid." And I think they left at that point. I wasn't sure if they did or not.

[00:58:05]>> No, they were still there. I said, "Are they still here?" And he said, "Yeah."

[00:58:07]And I go, "Can we uno reverse and pay for theirs?" And he said without looking at me. No, they already paid. We're like, "Well, all right. So, thank you so much. We appreciate you. That was really sweet." And also made for a really funny story because we immediately then another fun thing that we like to do is we'll get back home and then we like both FaceTime Corey and Brady. And then it's like all four of us are talking to each other at the same time cuz Cory and Brady will talk to each other while they're on FaceTime with the two of us.

[00:58:35]But sometimes Sawyer will get on and I was like, "Soyer, say hi to Uncle Brady through my phone."

[00:58:41]>> So yeah, they were we told them that story and they >> they thought it was funny. I was like, "No need to worry."

[00:58:48]>> Yeah.

[00:58:48]>> It was just because someone wanted to buy us drinks, but I was really convinced. I was like, "Hey, don't [ __ ] take a drink of that lemonade again." Also, I choked at that restaurant on a huge glob of cheese while Jerry was talking to someone else.

[00:59:03]She might have been facetiming or texting Brady. And so, I just was like, leave pull the cheese out of my throat as I'm choking on it. And then I was like, well, hopefully nobody saw that.

[00:59:16]You know what I learned today?

[00:59:17]>> The scariest thing that's ever happened to me. And that's how I know that if I do start choking, I will probably die because I was so embarrassed. I didn't even want to tell you. I thought I was choking.

[00:59:27]>> That's me falling down the stairs. I'd rather die.

[00:59:29]>> Yeah. Instead, I just leave and fish hooked myself to try to get it out so that no one could see that I was sitting there choking.

[00:59:37]>> Yeah. No, I think my stomach's starting to rumble. So, >> Oh, yeah. I think that might be >> Glad you found it. No, but I was going to let you guys know. A lot of you at the meet and greets wanted to see my ring.

[00:59:51]If you saw my hands at the Philly show, they looked beautiful. If you saw my hands after that, they were busted ass.

[00:59:57]She did that to herself.

[00:59:58]>> And they will be busted ass for quite some time.

[01:00:01]>> I actually think they look gorgeous right now. I don't know what you did, but I think they look phenomenal.

[01:00:04]>> I put nail polish on them.

[01:00:05]>> Well, I don't didn't know if you like shaped them up, but they the shape of them is really pretty.

[01:00:10]>> Oh, thanks.

[01:00:10]>> They look great for short nails.

[01:00:15]>> The [ __ ] I'm just kidding.

[01:00:18]>> No, they really do. I think they look nicer than mine right now forever. for grown out nails. For grown grown out as [ __ ] Hey, if you're in Portland and Seattle and you're coming to the show, don't look at my nails.

[01:00:30]>> Both our hands are not off limits.

[01:00:32]>> They're not usually like this. I swear.

[01:00:34]>> I swear to God there. This is a This is a tough couple weeks for us.

[01:00:38]>> Yeah. I uh had one nail break and because one nail broke, the rest of them had to go.

[01:00:44]>> She was like, "Do you have toenail or fingernail clippers?" I gave her my toenail clippers.

[01:00:48]>> I left all my nails.

[01:00:49]>> Industrial strength.

[01:00:50]>> I left all I felt so bad. I left all of my nail clippings on the floor in that that New York shoe box. So, sorry to the cleaning people who had to go in and vacuum up. That probably sounded horrible. Why didn't you just pick them up? There were so many. Jerry, there were 10. Nine.

[01:01:11]>> No, no, no, no, no. They didn't come off in one.

[01:01:14]>> Oh, I see. I see. I understand. Okay.

[01:01:17]>> They look like they went through a wood chipper.

[01:01:18]>> Oh my god.

[01:01:20]>> Okay. Fair. Fair. We did have a broom in the room. So, what could we what could we do?

[01:01:24]>> There wasn't a broom in the room.

[01:01:28]>> Anyway, um just so everybody knows, that's our tour stories. I'm sure we'll have more because we're doing it again.

[01:01:37]We got a two-day break and then we're [ __ ] back at it. So, Portland, Seattle, when you're hearing this, there's still time. Come buy tickets to the show. I promise. Give us something way more cooler and fun this time.

[01:01:54]>> Yeah, please. Uh, and also again, West Coast, uh, California and Arizona and Utah.

[01:02:03]>> If you have any tips about how not to make your shoes melt in Arizona in July, I'm so [ __ ] Leave them in the comments.

[01:02:08]>> I'm so scared.

[01:02:09]>> Anyway, hey guys, thanks for hanging out. We love you so much. We'll see you next week.

[01:02:13]>> All right, we're out. Goodbye.