Why it's easier to blame her than look inward

Added: 2026-06-02

[00:00:00]Cuz, when someone hasn't done their deeper growth work, it's much easier to externalize the problem, meaning put it on her. It's easier to say she doesn't work out, she doesn't do Pilates, I'm just not attracted to her. That's the simple explanation. It's much harder to turn inward and ask, "Why did I feel so strongly in the beginning? What changed?

[00:00:24]Was it really her or did something shift inside of me? And why?" That is the kind of self-examination that requires humility and self-reflection.