The Only Way To Actually Get Into Flow State

Added: 2026-05-30

[00:00:00]Let me guess. You're ambitious and you want to do great work, but every time you sit down, you get way less done than you thought you would. In this video, I'm going to teach you how to achieve flow in seven simple steps that you can repeat every day. How to get your brain to go from this to this. However, before we go one second further, I want to challenge you. Make this video full screen and pay attention. No phone, no notifications, no tabs. Because if you can't focus for 7 minutes, you're not going to find flow for 90. You know, I've been studying motivation and human performance for nearly 30 years now.

[00:00:36]There's no way I would have been able to produce seven books without these strategies. A psychologist with a name that looks like someone fell asleep on a keyboard. Mihi Chick sent me high gave us the concept of flow. A single word to describe those moments when you're fully focused. You lose track of time. You lose your sense of self. In flow, your attention is so tightly directed that everything else falls away. Flow feels magical, but it's not magic. It's mechanics. One, pick one clear, specific task. Flow hates vagueness. Work on project doesn't work. Your brain doesn't know where to aim. But draft three opening slides. Now you've got a target.

[00:01:19]That's why when I write, I set a daily word count. Write 800 words before you do anything else. Do that Monday through Friday and suddenly you've got 4,000 words. So, here's my challenge to you.

[00:01:29]Think about what you want to get out of your flow state. Pick a starting point and choose a measure that will let you know whether you're moving forward.

[00:01:36]Clarity directs attention and attention is the raw material of flow. Two, set the difficulty just beyond your skill.

[00:01:43]Flow lives in a narrow band between boredom and anxiety. In fact, that was the name of Chicken Mihi's first book.

[00:01:50]Too easy, you get bored. Too hard, you get anxious. The sweet spot is in the middle. Just right. The Goldilock zone where the challenge slightly exceeds your skill. For me, writing one paragraph, too easy. Writing one amazing chapter, too hard. Writing 800 pretty good words that I can revise the next day just right. Here's a good rule. You want to be getting it right most of the time, but not all of the time. Find the place where you're stretched, but not snapped. Three, do it during your peak hours. Not all hours are equal. Most people move through the day in three stages. Peak, trough, recovery. For most of us, the peak is in the morning, which means 10:00 a.m. is a Ferrari. 2:30 p.m.

[00:02:34]is a lawn mower. And yet, we schedule our most important work for the lawn mower hours. Once I understood this, I reconfigured my schedule. Mornings, my peak hours, that's writing time. The rest of the day, that's everything else time. If you want flow, protect your peak. Don't spend your best hours on email and meetings and other crap. Four, remove every obvious distraction. Your environment isn't neutral. It's either helping you focus or it's hijacking your attention. Especially this thing. If your phone is on your desk, you're not doing deep work. You're doing interrupted work. It's like trying to read a novel while someone taps you on the shoulder every 30 seconds. So before I even go into my office, I stick my phone in a drawer until I've done my most important work. Phone out of the room, notifications off, one task, one screen. Your attention problem is often an environment problem. Fix the environment and you find the focus. Find the focus and you capture the flow. Five block 60 to 90 minutes and expect the first 15 to feel hard. This is where most people mess up. Flow has a delay, usually 15 to 20 minutes. Early on, your brain resists. It's finding excuses, scanning for easier options, desperately seeking an escape. And if you quit early, you quit right before it gets good. So stay with it. 20 minute bursts often don't work. I like 60-minute sessions. And if I'm really in it, sometimes they stretch to 90 minutes. If you stick with it beyond the uncomfortable beginning, something shifts. Your lazy brain gives up. Your better brain takes over. That's the doorway to flow. Six. Start before you feel ready. This might be the most important step. Flow doesn't come first.

[00:04:24]Action does. You start, then you focus.

[00:04:27]Then sometimes you reach flow. Not the other way around. If I waited until I was ready to write, until I felt perfectly aligned and deeply inspired, I would never have written a word.

[00:04:38]Motivation isn't a prerequisite. It's often a result. You're never going to feel ready, but you're always able to start. Number seven, track visible progress. When you see movement, your brain stays engaged. When you can't, it drifts. So, make progress visible. Check things off. Measure output. Notice forward motion. I keep a running tally of my word count and sometimes a calendar where I X out dates I've done good work. Progress is what keeps you in the game long enough for flow to take over. Congratulations. You've done the hard part. You're doing the work you set out to do. Now, let's make it the best work you can do. Here are two multipliers. First, ritual. Same place, same setup, same opening move. You're not forcing focus, you're triggering it.

[00:05:23]Second, purpose. Ask, why does this matter? Who benefits? That small shift turns effort into engagement. Flow isn't something you wait for, it's something you build. When the conditions are right, it shows up. When they're not, it doesn't. So, if you're struggling to focus, don't ask, "What's wrong with me?" Ask, "What's wrong with my setup?"

[00:05:46]Fix that and everything changes. Now, close this tab, block an hour, and begin before you feel ready, starting right now. Hey, if you found this helpful and you want it all on a single page that you can reference every morning, I've created a free PDF that you can download with the link in the description. Make sure to subscribe and I'll see you in the next video.