Abhishek proves that the most effective therapy isn't found in a clinic, but in the courage to break the silence with a stranger. His journey shows that reclaiming your voice is less about mastering social skills and more about the raw audacity to be seen.
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One Random “Hello” and We Couldn’t Stop Talking 🌊Added:
Hi. Are you reading something?
What are you reading?
I love story.
Love Story We Are There For Each Other. Are you from Mumbai? What's your name?
My name is Abhishek. Nice to meet you. I just saw you alone sitting here.
So I was like okay I will say high.
Yes. So do you come here every day? And how is it?
No I Stay Navi Mumbai.
You stay in Navi Mumbai. It's not even a part of Mumbai.
Yes, visa is required, visa is required. And were you born and brought up here?
No, I am from Madhya Pradesh.
Oh you are from MP?
or Wow I'm from MP Guess Where I Could Be From?
I am from city called Chhindwara. You are from?
You are from Chhindwara?
Ok.
Chhindwara is on the I no border. Right?
Maharashtra border.
Maharaj at the border.
You are from?
Bhopal.
Guess?
Bhopal? Indore close by. Close by. I am from Ujjain. I am from the city of Mahakal. Yes sir.
Can I join you?
Or cool. So how long have you been here in Mumbai?
I am in Mumbai from 2018 208 What?
What? That long? I Record Conversations with Strangers. So, where are you smiling.
Exterminated Indian.
You know me already? I think I follow you also.
You follow me. Then you must have seen my videos also no.
So would you like to be part of a conversation? Or how many boys compliment you in a day?
This is not right. Nothing like that.
You are just telling a lie. Okay, I understand. [laughter] But how many compliments anyway? How like how many do you do men approach you? Of course what a silly question? Yes of course they do.
No no, there is nothing like that about Dave. Nothing like that.
No, but so I like to [nasal sound] travel, you like to travel, okay, and I started traveling solo when you could say six months to seven months, okay, and how is it going?
Awesome.
Awesome. So something happened in my life after which I started solo travelling.
Yes.
Or [laughter] okay, yes. Yes, look, I like travelling. I like travelling. Nothing like that.
But yes, okay. There was some recent trauma. To overcome it, I started doing things which I like.
Ok.
And traveling is one of those things.
Traveling is one of those.
So I started traveling on weekends, working like Monday to Friday. If I get a date on Saturday or Sunday and there is a location nearby, I just go there.
Ok.
So what's the best place you've found so far?
I haven't seen much of anything like that. Not much. But one crazy thing is that I went to Georgia alone on New Year.
It was a group tour but I went alone.
Hmm let's work or okay cool how is your morning going?
Of course, if you want to meet me then a few moments later, I feel that it will be more fun to talk to you off camera.
Why so?
Because we are talking about more interesting things off camera.
You know about your profile, you already know of course. Isn't it? Yes.
So I have a question about the okay smile [laughs] whenever you smile like that, I feel like something mischievous is about to happen.
I am going to ask some questions like that.
Few moments later I am improving my personality. Okay so whenever I meet the woman of my life she should look like a polished version of a man like oh my god how does she know all this?
[laughter] How is it so good with everything?
[laughs] Come on, then you should also develop your personality.
Exactly, yes, no, along with that, you are doing for others as well, for sure, of course.
So, this is what I tell everyone, I am improving myself.
You are all part of my journey, correct?
So, if you improve along with it, then it is a very good thing.
Yes, friend, why not like that? But where did this come to my mind that [laughs] you write in support of all the boys.
Yes, I write. I am not disgruntled.
Your videos are supporting women. Your posts are supporting men. Which is a very good thing. Exactly, it is not offensive. What kinds of guys do you like? I like these people. I don't get caught in many of these things. I don't like this. I don't like that.
No, please stay away from trying to be too cool.
Please don't become that. [laughs] get lost. I like people who love to talk.
Okay, chills now. Yes, when I talk to her, we just keep thinking are we doing it? You know it's a big difference.
So someone is doing this. I want to appreciate because what we are doing is just the dream of so many people. Can't do it. Thank you. It's a really good thing.
Thank you so much.
So I want to try.
Ok.
So I want to test myself.
What is that? So with great difficulty it has been a week since this purchase. I take him to office every day so that I can study for at least two hours in the train.
Ok. Hey, it takes two and a half hours to go by train. Oh my god, why are you living so far away?
Hey, I have become used to the condition of Navi Mumbai, but still it means 2 hours to come and 2.5 hours to go, yes what are you saying? Five hours? Do you live there with your family?
Nice.
You Stay Alone Then Why Are You Living There? [laughs] Farah Light Navi Mumbai side.
But five hours every day. Yes friend.
I mean like take it next to the workplace so that you get five hours every day you will get more. I know whoever hears it says the same thing but it's okay.
Ok. If you're me if you're liking it than life means I do n't even want a lot of that piece. There is a little case. I get very little time for myself. Butt is fine. It is very challenging right now. If you are living alone then there is no re re re re re re re re re re responsibility right?
So okay, no problem. When problems arise in the future, why are you living alone?
Or like that like that. Just like that. Like this hello hello hello hello hello yes yes how do you hear it, what do you mean when you are saying hello then how do you know, the frequency of the voice is higher there, right, so as soon as the frequency increases then I know it is working and the green one which is visible above means it shows connected and then the frequency of that voice goes up and down, so then yes then you know yes it is working, oh that's right.
So anyway, of course, he is enhancing your voice by doing that.
Yes.
Yes. Why so?
He enhances the voice of those who have a good voice. Thank you.
[laughter] When was the last time someone flirted with you?
It's it's okay. yesterday?
yesterday. [laughter] Okay. Or.
Who was it?
We will talk off camera.
Ok. [laughter] So how did it go? Tell me that. How did it go? Good. Do you respond to good flirting?
I am pathetic. I am pathetic. I am pathetic and yes I am pathetic. So I have already apologized, is that okay? Right now, You're So Young is so bad. [laughter] It's okay you're so young. so you you you you you know how to respond to. Thank you.
It's fine.
I have a list of questions. But I want to ask you a couple of questions. And I want to see how you responded to that.
Like in general, you ask everyone this?
No.
Ok.
I am the Chose. You are the chosen one, when you are special.
Okay, thank you.
Ok. If you want to introduce yourself to me without mentioning your occupation, your ethnicity, where you come from, where you grew up, what are your hobbies?
Without all superficial markers, how would you describe yourself.
Okay, okay.
Like, what am I? Yes.
I am someone, if you are hanging out, you are traveling with me, you will go home with lots of good memories and the photographs.
Ok. Without any fussiness and I am someone I will encourage people to go shoot yourself capture your moments and if there is any shyness then I will check that you give me all the responsibility just enjoy I will capture you live your life live your life okay okay and leave the rest to me then I will manage [laughs] okay and I am 100% when you go home and when you look at all those photographs and videos you will be spike that's a great answer yes okay let me ask you another one okay not a difficult one [laughs] not the difficult one okay yes what is one thing people consistently misunderstand about you that you might not fully realize okay people misunderstand something which I don't know whether I should say or not that I am an attention seeker something else I am also an attention seeker but for women they take it in a wrong way yes by the way Or like yes, I mean I like attention, I am not sure that I am not an attention seeker, but I like attention, yes that is true, but I am saying that I think in a wrong manner, okay, people misunderstand that about what I am talking to you today, so with me, like they just link, yes, by the way, do like that, desperate, no, I am not [laughs], okay, I get it and I feel like, okay brother, I don't know, but I feel that you might miss it because I am someone, I think that I talk very easily, that's a great quality, these people who misunderstand you, I guess I said that is a concept of mine, I just go and if I want to ask someone to click my photo, also for example, I will not hide it, I will say can you please click me, what will happen, no, I will say no, if yes, then I will get a good photo, so I take chances, okay, you believe in taken chances, I believe in taking chances, I mean, I am very I am an overthinker and because of that overthinking I have lost many good years of my life and many golden opportunities.
Perhaps if I were somewhere else today, I would have been in a very good place, but I am not there, it does not matter, but where I am, that is the best for me, but I am saying that now I came to know this very late in my life, so those who are watching, you see, now those who live around me, I tell them that please just do whatever you want to do and do what you like, do not think about anyone, okay, so there is a code for them, yes I had read it a long time ago. And it has been with me now for so long that if you want to come into my life, the gate is open.
If you want to go out of my life, the gate is open. Just don't block the traffic.
Exactly, exactly, that is what I am saying. If you want to be a part of life. C I am not asking anybody for anything.
And I don't have expectations.
I only expect whatever I expect, I feel mase.
Ok.
I have realized that there are certain things in life that I will never get.
Ok?
Ok.
I am literally happy with all that. I am happy for you. Thank you. Maybe I want to talk to you about what you were saying a while ago, but maybe that is an off-camera topic. soy.
If your younger self wrote here 12 years. [laughter] So if your younger self could see you now, what do you think he would be most surprised about?
Surprised that I'm talking to so many women now.
That would be a shocker. Surprisely leave shock.
He will be shocked, so what do you mean you are talking?
How? Because I never used to talk to girls. I am still one but I try my best to ensure that that personality never comes out where I feel that I am not able to talk to anyone.
Because I was like that from inside. Whatever you say remains the same. I mean, how will you change that? Meaning of course you can develop a personality where you know certain things, you can behave, you can act according to the situation. But the core inside can never change, it will definitely be shocked. If any of my 12 year old or 15 or even 20 year old is doing what? [laughter] Yeah, what are you doing, man? That wow you could do this, can this also be done, that would be a shocker because I never used to talk to girls, I always used to think why no one is coming and talking to me and because of that I was never able to talk to anyone, there would be a moment of no, I should not, I should not, I will leave the car type, so I was always single every time, my entire college was spent in that, should I do it, should I not, will they do it? Why not, why is n't he initiating from the front and my entire time was spent in that. I used to think about it. I was playing all those scenarios in my mind.
I was playing different scenarios in my mind, like, oh yes, we are sitting somewhere, going on a date, doing this, doing that, all that remained in my mind.
So, for those years, I feel like, friend, all that, I mean, I probably should have enjoyed my life a lot, but at that time, I did n't understand that, hey, this can also be done, just say hi a little, see, maybe if we talk a little, this can also change the situation. No one ever explained it to me and I couldn't explain it to myself because I didn't understand that much. I realized it a lot later in life. So tell me, like, he's not here.
Question: When you are not shooting, what does that Abhishek do?
Right now, that Abhishek doesn't even exist.
I think [sound of clearing throat] the real one or because I am always This means but sometime some time must come [gasping sound] something which are [sound of clearing throat] not doing right then I know I know because don't let that part go away yes do n't do like this I know I if it is my mistake this will remain this will remain here okay this what you are doing is good but then that self means keep it alive I mean what this what I am trying to tell you you are right I know I also get that feeling from inside sometimes I mean of course this thing comes out somewhere or the other that sometimes someone asks me what do you do what I suppose to tell you I am always working like my whole day like I was telling about yesterday also no I did n't get up from my desk the whole day yesterday I woke up at 9:30 in the night I slept and that too when I was supposed to eat I didn't even have my meal because I knew that I had to go to Mumbai. So I was like I have to take two days' work. So I still couldn't do it because there was so much work.
So I know he is wrong but he does not exist. It is not existing right now.
But what will happen when the butt exists?
Oh I I will want to spend my time when I'm not faking it like when I.
When I am I will I will explain.
Whenever I'm talking. Like we're talking right now. So even if I'm not feeling that from within, I mean I'm still putting in the energy that is required for this. Yes. I wanted that [ __ ] off mode.
Yes. [laughter] No, not like that.
No, but understand the feeling behind it.
Meaning that if I don't want to do it, I don't have to.
Yeah. So that I can't because I know that this is work and I want to make sure that it is.
But when I am not feeling like talking to someone. Still I am putting in the energy that no, no, this should happen. This is supposed to happen. So you need to do it.
Because no one else is coming to do it for you.
You are the one to do this. Will come.
So still I would if no matter how bad my day is going I got rejected by 10 people.
I will talk to the 11th person like you are the first one I have met today. So they feel that okay, it is giving importance to us. The energy is still there and otherwise how will it come, every conversation is exhausting sometimes. It is quite exhausting. Like people don't even know right now I'll tell you. So don't let that part just eliminate from your life. But that is very important. As I said no, I understood it very late.
Ok.
So right now I am just in that mode. Brother, I cannot compromise now. Now I don't know how many more years I will live.
I do not know. You don't know. Right?
Hey, you are still at a very young age.
Meaning it is a matter of saying.
Teenager, right?
Yes. 19 Or just yesterday I gave my last paper of 12th.
[laughter] 12th grade is the last graduation, right?
Graduation would have come at graduation. Ok. Let's do PhD now, okay, let's do PhD, friend.
[laughter] No one, you said PhDs do PhDs.
So what I want to say is that it's okay, I understood it a little late. And you don't need a lot of efforts to do this. But meet yourself every day for at least 15 minutes. I will I will try. I will try. Or.
When I say you off camera.
Off camera. C That is the problem. Do you know what? It has also happened that I like someone talking to me but I don't talk off camera because what comes to my mind is that if this also comes on camera then it never becomes an equation because of course you don't share all those feelings in front of the camera, right I will, I might do it because I say it for fun, okay this will be a little fun in the conversation but it has happened many times that people have told mirror feelings off camera and I am I have done nothing about it because of this and the first thought that comes to my mind is that I wish I could record this also, then my mind starts working in a different way that means but I am saying that is not wrong.
I will tell you why? Because you it's not your you want to put it in a camera because you want to post it. No. Maybe you want to capture the moment because now your mind functions like that. If it doesn't come then I want to post it. [laughs] Oh, abusing [laughs] I mean, oh, because because I have nothing else on my mind right now.
I want you like someone. I know that's not it, I am just saying that I don't take any action against him.
I [laughs] don't take any girl in such a situation.
I know friend, don't do this friend, spend time, spend time, have a real conversation somewhere, somewhere, in the future, I or just sit with her, have a real conversation with her, I am singing with her, right, I am talking to her, right now, next question, this is the same face where I am pathetic, arre I am very pathetic [laughs], don't do all this, if you sir scold me today, I mean, scold me for flirting, friend, I give too much instant reaction, yes, that is visible on the face [laughs], I give instant reaction, I would abuse a lot, I am not doing any abusive work friend. Because we come on.
Hey, I am giving an example not for you but for these generals. Like what I am in general, it does not mean that I would tell anyone openly.
Hmm first.
If someone flirts with you in a good way.
How would you you you you you? Do n't know.
You don't know. I don't know.
Why I mean you must get hit on a lot na.
No ok. [laughter] You're not meeting the right people?
No I do, I am meeting very good people. I am very happy with the people surrounded around me.
I am not talking about them.
No, no, no. I, I'm saying I have enough, and these are the people I need.
I don't want to go into that zone.
I don't want to get into that [ __ ] all over again.
I am happy with what whatever I have today. I am saying I honestly I am telling you. That is the current mindset.
Yes yes somewhere down the line in these yes yes. So yes that's something.
Now actually this is what has happened.
Ok. But no [laughs] so or that's it.
No wait, I will interview you right now.
You're taking a lot, you wear a girl. You are doing too much. Now [laughs] it should go live.
Yes. I know I get like this.
I am getting nervous. [laughs] Sweat, yes I mujhe bahut mazaa raata hai logon ko aisa uncomfortable mujhe in Delhi, there was a girl who asked me so many things and I had tears in the middle of the conversation because I do n't give all these answers to anyone, that is to say nobody asks me these questions first of all and even if they ask I refrained from sharing so many things mostly but at that time it was quite peaceful. It was almost 11:00 in the night and we were sitting quietly. There wasn't much around and I was like okay you ask me these questions because she was asking such good questions.
So I was like, dude, ask me more because I also want to know what I think about it because I wo n't sit and tell myself. I will not sit and tell myself what I think about this. She was asking such a good question. So I was like okay ask me more na.
I also want to know what I think about this?
Yes, this happens sometimes. Like you want someone to ask you.
Or if someone asks the right question then it's oh it's hmm completely out of this world conversation.
So you [laughs] when you're sitting right now, there's a 'Chalo Chalo' crowd here. You're singing alone.
Yes, I mean with your friends and if you are talking to a girl also and what will be the one topic which you would love to talk about life in detail, no, life mein bhi bahut kani versions or meaning, you should ask me about your life if if I like someone then I don't want to know everything meaning I will find out [laughs] I don't care if they like it or not, I will ask them, can you say I don't want to talk about it then it's fine with me I don't mind but I want to know everything so basically you are like this what I want to know if you are comfortable tell me today or later but I want to know about it or not, right? Yeah.
That means if you want something not to be discussed on camera that's fine. We can talk off camera as well but I don't want that curiosity to remain in my mind that hey, this was something that happened then why didn't he tell me about it? As such.
So I want to know everything because I don't trust people easily.
Hmm so untill I know their intentions, how they think, how they treat other people. How they want to be treated, if they really know how they want to be treated, or else they are just struggling to live their lives. I am quite jazzy. I I I accept now because many times people told me that you judge a lot. You judge a lot, you judge a lot.
Earlier I did not become like this.
Then now I have accepted, yes brother I judge a lot because if someone is trying to come into my life then I will judge him a lot first. After that I will decide whether these should come.
Meaning, even if someone tries to come, you are not going to believe it at first.
Yes I don't I really don't mean hey to me it's okay. But speak [laughs] speak speak speak speak speak.
[suddenly heavy breathing] Hey, I've been getting a lot of messages lately. The frequency of girls has now gradually increased. Ever since I changed the format a little, I get a lot of messages. And people write something, something, something and I was just talking to someone the day before yesterday and someone says to me that friend, I want you, I want to date you or says something like this, then I think like this, first thought, why do I want you? What is it [laughter] about me?
That thought comes to my mind, what is there in me first? Tell me, explain to me why I need you brother? I mean, what special did you see in me? Because right now it is very easy for them to get attracted because it appears to us that this is something else which is actually like this. There is nothing like that actually, that means I do not have any extra veg life. I am living a very normal and simple life. But maybe it may look like this to people from the front. I mean, hey friend, yes social media of course. Then I feel like you should first tell me what you think about me.
Tell me yourself. So I myself am not able to believe it, so what are you saying? The Real You Actually.
De de really don't.
Like the version which they give. And that's what I'm afraid of whenever someone that is Carrie and the real Abhishek you are not spending time.
Yeah.
You are not spending time Abhishek.
I am not.
How about the [laughter] third person who is approaching you. Expecting them to know about? Or.
You have to figure it out first for yourself.
So, I am saying the same thing which you were asking just now, how should I believe it because you are seeing something else and from inside I am a little bit saying that you are judging them, right, yes I do, I am judging them, but that is so wrong, ask why, because you are saying that you are asking them why me, yes you have the answer to that, why you, why someone should choose you, yes yes tell me friend, I am a very decent person, I mean, some time back, someone asked me in a podcast that hey friend, how many dates have you been on?
I said that out of all the girls I have met till date, I might have opened their messages for the second time or I don't respond at all. The date is a distant thing. I did not go.
Hmm.
And it was such a shocker for them and I was saying from inside that brother, I am a very different person.
You probably feel very different here because of social media.
I don't go because I don't trust anyone so easily, so I don't go. I met someone for the second time and I really liked her and we went on dates but apart from that, I don't meet anyone, forget about meeting them, I even talk through messages. I feel like what should I talk to you about now?
I don't have time.
Meaning there is no time. Of course, don't say that, that is also a factor that of course, if I want something with someone, then I have to invest my time. Which I don't have, so it's no, first you have to invest time on yourself or yes, I want to see that, okay I will, yes, I mean I don't know, has anyone told you like this or not, I will say it like a teacher that you will have to do that, your life will be different, right now, of course, it is the best. I am not saying that the current situation is bad but I am saying that it can be better.
High crazy crazy I will try my best.
Yes do it do it do it. But it was really nice talking to you, same here, same here, same here, take your questions and answers [laughs], of course not that many answers, you did not give good answers either [laughs] you gave good answers, but I liked it, friend, I liked talking more about it, you know, see, this is something that I really like, where I am not putting in extra amount of energy, where I am putting in energy deliberately [laughs] and I am trying, it was fun, right?
It was really fun. Do you talk to yourself?
All the time.
Yes, perfect.
All the time.
That's why I have n't needed a therapist till date. [laughter] That 's right, man.
People tell me, hey we go to therapy. Oh hum hum my therapist has to tell me this. I am like, I never thought about it because I do n't get time for myself. I keep saying so many things to myself all the time. If something bad is going on then I will talk to myself. If something good is going on, I will be telling myself something good.
It's so frustrating that I'm trying to convince myself, what's happened, why, what are you doing with it, I talk so much to myself, and I feel like when I'm driving, I'm muttering a lot, I mean, something. I feel like someone is watching me from a distance, or maybe they're shooting, and they'll say, 'Brother, I'm crazy, man.' [laughs] What do I mean, nothing? Or I'll sing songs, yes, I put on headphones, I sing loudly while driving, I sing on a two- wheeler, not a four-wheeler, but on a two-wheeler, and I feel like I'm a heroine [laughs] It's like I live goes, yes, it was really nice talking to you, say, bye, bye, say, bye, look, say this on line chat, hey, bring it, there's a line of girls here, you want to say, hi, hi [laughs] We just came to eat Rustomji's ice cream, what are you saying, I'm getting it, let me get the ice cream. Have some ice cream, let me have some, you don't have any ice cream, what should I do? Wherever I go, people love me so much. What should I do?
Hey, madam.
A mango.
I have taken coconut pistachio.
I have taken mango.
Mango let's cheers. Hey, you haven't eaten it again.
Should I open my hair? I like to open my hair.
Hey man, I am preparing to record the video.
And it is getting ready here.
I have taken coconut pistachio. I wrote Mango.
Chairs. Chairs.
No, mango is good.
Good? Yes friend. I feel like that right now too. The mango one is really good.
Literally feel like you are eating original mango?
We can eat another one. What's in it?
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