The Secret to Real Presence in Marriage

Added: 2026-05-16

[00:00:00]Now, presence is not physical presence, sir. Like you just don't walk around the house, that's not presence. Presence is being there.

[00:00:06]The husband that you've chosen to become, you can choose not to. Then you don't need to, then you can walk in and look at the mirror and look at yourself and you can be your priority. But now that you're married, you walk in and you look at your wife's face and if you do see there's a difference, it's for you to remember what's a difference what's not on your wife's face.

[00:00:21]That's for you to figure.

[00:00:23]That's the whole point of marriage.

[00:00:25]You're exclusive to her, so how the way you know her, no one does. So when you do look at her face, be understanding.

[00:00:33]How do you understand an emotion? Hey, WHAT ARE YOU DOING?

[00:00:37]HEY, what are you doing?

[00:00:39]Different tones. BABY, DON'T DO THAT.

[00:00:41]BABY, can you not do that? They're different tones. So your tone is your anchor to how your emotion is expressed.

[00:00:47]So you will get in there and you see she's a little closed, you understand her body language. Now when you get there, like, "Hey baby, you how you doing? I'm here. I'm here. What's happening? You know, I see something on your face, you're not looking great."

[00:00:57]And and she goes, "Yeah, baby. I'm not feeling too good today."

[00:01:03]Presence.