They Called RM ‘Ugly’… But The Backlash Was Immediate”

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[00:00:00]Something about this situation is not sitting right with fans and the more people look into it, the more uncomfortable it becomes because what started as just another viral post has now turned into a much bigger conversation, one involving beauty standards, misinformation, racism, and the darker side of online communities.

[00:00:20]And at the center of all of it is BTS leader RM. So, let's break everything down carefully because this situation escalated fast and it reveals more than people expected. It all started when RM suddenly became the target of criticism in a post that quickly went viral online. But this wasn't just random hate. It wasn't just a typical fan war or a one-off comment. This was connected to something much more specific and much more concerning. A controversial online trend known as looksmaxing.

[00:00:53]Now, if you've never heard of that term before, here's what it means.

[00:00:57]Looksmaxing is part of an online subculture [music] focused on maximizing physical attractiveness. On the surface, that might sound harmless. Things like working out, improving your style, skin care, like normal self-improvement. But that's not where it ends because within these communities, things often go much further into extreme and sometimes dangerous territory.

[00:01:22]>> [music] >> We're talking about ideas like bone smashing. Yes, literally applying force to your facial bones and attempt to reshape them into what these groups consider a more ideal structure.

[00:01:34]And before you think this is just some niche idea, there are real videos circulating online promoting it. People demonstrating it, encouraging others to try it. But medical professionals have already spoken out against this. They've made it very clear this doesn't work the way people think it does. The concept that if I bone smash, I'm going to get chisel jaw. That is not biologically [music] founded. I could do that anywhere on my body then. My hands, my feet. [music] Wouldn't it be nice to be able to do that? But I'm sorry, the concept of jaw smashing to be able to create a chisel jawline [music] is one that is false.

[00:02:11]Bones don't safely remodel from trauma like that and trying to force that kind of change can cause serious permanent damage. We're talking about fractures, nerve damage, and long-term deformities, not improvement, damage. But despite these warnings, the trend continues to spread. And that's where RM gets pulled into this because recently videos started circulating, especially on platforms like TikTok, where people began analyzing facial features using these looksmaxing standards, breaking down faces into measurements, [music] ratios, angles. And one specific focus that gained traction were jawlines, chin structure, mandible shape. And in these videos, individuals, including RM, were being compared based on whether their features matched what these communities considered ideal. That's when things crossed a line because RM wasn't just mentioned, he was used as an example, an example of what these users labeled as less ideal. And from there, it escalated quickly. One of these videos was reposted on X, but this time it wasn't framed as analysis, it was framed as mockery. The post directly referenced RM in a negative way and almost instantly it exploded. Fans noticed immediately because this wasn't just criticism anymore. It felt targeted and more importantly, it felt disrespectful. The reaction online was immediate, intense, and very divided. Fans [music] rushed to defend RM, pushing back against the narrative, calling out the post. But what made this situation even more serious is what people started pointing out next because this wasn't just about one idol being criticized, it was about something deeper.

[00:04:01]Many fans highlighted that the features being mocked, things like certain jawlines or facial structures, are actually natural ethnic traits. And that's where the conversation shifted because in many cases, >> [music] >> these features are often compared against eurocentric beauty standards, standards that have been normalized globally, standards that don't represent everyone. So, what gets labeled as an imperfection isn't actually an imperfection at all. It's diversity.

[00:04:31]It's natural variation. It's identity.

[00:04:34]And that realization changed the entire tone of the discussion because now people weren't just reacting to one post, they were questioning the mindset behind it, the system behind it, the culture that allowed it to go viral in the first place. And that's when another layer of this situation came into focus because many users started pointing out that the looksmaxing community has been linked to incel culture. Now, that's important because incel communities are often associated with harmful ideologies, including misogyny, toxic standards, and in [music] some cases, even more extreme rhetoric. So, when RM was used as an example within that space, it wasn't just seen as criticism anymore. It was seen as part of a much larger, more problematic environment.

[00:05:23][music] And that's what made people uncomfortable because suddenly this wasn't just about K-pop. It wasn't just about fandom. It was about the kind of content being normalized online, the kind of messages being spread, [music] and the kind of impact that can have. At that point, the backlash intensified.

[00:05:42]People weren't just defending RM anymore, they were calling out the entire trend, calling out those sharing it, [music] calling out those supporting it. Some users even expressed shock at how far people were willing to go just to criticize an idol, siding with harmful communities, spreading their content, >> [music] >> amplifying their message, all for the sake of dragging someone. And that raised an important question, where do we draw the line? Because when something like this goes viral, it doesn't just affect one person, it affects everyone watching, everyone consuming it, everyone comparing themselves to those standards. And that's something fans were very quick to point out. At the same time, another part of this trend also came under scrutiny and honestly, it sounds just as questionable. This idea that breathing, specifically mouth breathing versus nose breathing, can change your facial structure. Yes, that's another claim being pushed. Some videos suggested that the way you breathe could reshape your jawline over time, that it could determine your appearance. And again, experts have pushed back on this because while breathing habits can affect health, the idea that they can dramatically reshape bone structure in the way these videos claim is misleading and in some cases, completely false. But the problem is these videos don't always explain that.

[00:07:07]They present these ideas as facts, as quick fixes, as things people can control. And that's where the danger comes in because misinformation spreads fast, especially when it's packaged in a way that feels convincing. So now, this situation has grown far beyond RM.

[00:07:26]>> [music] >> It's no longer just about one viral post. It's about misinformation.

[00:07:31]>> [music] >> It's about unrealistic standards. It's about the pressure people feel to change themselves and how far they're willing to go.

[00:07:39]Meanwhile, throughout all of this, one thing has remained consistent. Fans continue to defend RM, not just because they're fans, but because of what he represents. Many pointed out that RM has always been confident in who he is. He's never tried to fit into a single standard. He's built his identity around authenticity, around intelligence, around creativity. And that's what makes this situation even more frustrating for fans because reducing someone like that to a set of facial measurements completely misses the point. RM isn't just a face, he's a leader, a songwriter, a global figure, someone whose impact goes [music] far beyond appearance. And that's something fans made very clear. Still, the conversation hasn't slowed down because situations like this don't just disappear. They leave a mark. They spark discussions.

[00:08:36]They force people to reflect. Right now, people are still debating. Some are calling for more awareness around the dangers of trends like looksmaxing.

[00:08:46]Others are urging platforms to take more responsibility, to limit the spread of harmful content, and many are encouraging users to think more critically, to question what they see, to not take everything at face value because at the end of the day, this isn't just about one idol being criticized, it's about how easily harmful ideas can become normalized, how quickly they can spread, and how deeply they can affect people especially younger audiences, people who are still figuring out their identity, their confidence, their self-worth.

[00:09:22]And when they see these standards, when they see these comparisons, [music] it can change how they see themselves. And that's something we can't ignore.

[00:09:48]>> [bell] >> Mhm.