When Shayla tells Amber not to argue in front Kai!

Added: 2026-05-05

[00:00:00]Hey, I could use another drink. Where is delicious?

[00:00:02]>> The drinks are bomb here.

[00:00:04]>> They are so good.

[00:00:05]>> But do you know what I'm saying, Amber?

[00:00:06]This world is so crazy.

[00:00:08]>> Yes, honey. I know.

[00:00:10]>> It is crazy. Especially as a mother. My biggest concern is protecting my child.

[00:00:18]>> I feel like that. And I'm not a mother.

[00:00:21]I mean, >> I'm a stepmom to my baby, but you know what I mean? I feel like that about Kai like really protecting him from this crazy world. There's so much craziness in the news.

[00:00:34]>> Do you know what else I was thinking?

[00:00:36]>> More. Hey, >> can I get one more, please, when you get a chance? Yes. Thank you.

[00:00:40]>> Thank you.

[00:00:43]So, how often would you say that you and Anthony argue in front of Kai?

[00:00:51]Because you know when I was at your house on the front porch and and I felt that tension, it just made me wonder how often you guys do that in front of Kai.

[00:01:04]>> Shayla, what goes on in my house is my business and people are arguing >> and I agree with that, but not when it comes to my child.

[00:01:16]>> Nobody is putting Kai in danger.

[00:01:18]>> I didn't did I I didn't say danger. or you were just talking about you got to protect him.

[00:01:22]>> I just add Okay, so here's my ass of you.

[00:01:28]Can you please just not argue with Anthony in front of Kai? because I feel like even though he's one and you know he's still like taking in the negativity subconsciously >> and I know that divorce can be like very heavy and and maybe you say some things to each other in the heat of the moment but >> just not when Kai is there.

[00:01:52]>> You know it's so funny cuz I remember you coming over smelling a certain way Shayla. What's that have to do with anything?

[00:02:04]>> Are are are you protecting Kai against you're smoking? Are you mind smoking?

[00:02:09]Whoever smoking in your house and nobody has come over smelling like >> smokes in front of Kai. But what I'm asking you, Amber, you're you're diverting the topic. I'm asking you kindly just not to argue in front of Kai. He's just a baby. He doesn't need to have he's going to have to learn the real world. Are you exposing him >> at one years old? Learn the real world is crazy. Amber, I know that you haven't had children yet. Maybe one day you will have children. You have to always go there.

[00:02:38]>> No, I'm just saying because when you're actually not a parent, you don't understand how a parent feels.

[00:02:43]>> A parent doesn't send their child over smelling like weed. And so many times a guy is coming over my house and he smells like he just got smoked out.

[00:02:50]>> So what does that have to do with you arguing in front of?

[00:02:53]>> I'm saying it's just the pot calling the kettle black. Shayla, no.

[00:02:56]>> You don't smoke, I won't argue. How about that? I'm the mother and I'm just asking you not to argue in front of Ky.

[00:03:04]>> You can't ask me that. You can't ask me that.

[00:03:05]>> Well, but why can't you?

[00:03:06]>> Because Shayla, things happen and I can't guarantee that.

[00:03:10]>> A lot of things happen. But I'm just saying as a woman, a business woman, you have self control.

[00:03:15]>> I will try my best. I will try my best, but Anthony and I are in a very peculiar place.

[00:03:22]>> And I cannot guarantee that things won't happen. But I do I do I am conscious of Kai being around and I try my best >> to distract him when this is happening.

[00:03:36]But I cannot say for sure, Taylor.

[00:03:38]However, you do have control over what's going on in your house. And that's all I'm going to say.

[00:03:43]>> Do you know my pet peeve is when somebody brings up an issue and somebody else brings up another issue. Like I'm just coming to you and I appreciate your response. Like thank you for that. I just want to keep the arguing to a minimum around Kai because even though you think you and Anthony are the only people going through things, everybody else is affected, too. Clearly, >> we all areffected.

[00:04:03]>> I mean, you must be going through something cuz Kai be coming over there smelling like a whole gas chamber. All right.

[00:04:08]>> And it's not about be diverting.

[00:04:12]I'm saying don't judge me and I won't judge you.

[00:04:14]>> I'm not judging you. I'm asking you to not argue in front of my child. That's that's not a crazy thing to ask.

[00:04:19]>> Okay, fine. There's no water.

[00:04:23]>> Or who knows?

[00:04:25]>> Okay.

[00:04:25]>> Either one.

[00:04:27]>> Where is my drink?

[00:04:28]>> I really need it now. told me it.