SCRUTINY - (a student film)

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[00:00:09]Hey, do you have a pencil I can borrow?

[00:00:10]>> Of course.

[00:00:12]Here.

[00:00:13]>> Thanks.

[00:00:14]Should I address it to someone?

[00:00:18]Mom?

[00:00:20]Dad?

[00:00:23]Tommy?

[00:00:25]Ben?

[00:00:27]I don't even know where I'm going to put this.

[00:00:31]It's March 14th.

[00:00:33]If you're reading this, you already know that today is the day I've decided to kill myself.

[00:00:39]Is that too harsh?

[00:00:41]Maybe like I've decided to take my own life.

[00:00:46]But a decision implies that I have options and I definitely feel like I have no other options.

[00:00:52]So, I had no choice but to take my own life.

[00:00:57]Nice start.

[00:00:59]Now I just need to figure out what else to say.

[00:01:02]What am I going to tell them?

[00:01:04]>> Maeve, class is over.

[00:01:32]>> Hello to the love of my life.

[00:01:35]How was class?

[00:01:36]>> It was good. Nothing special.

[00:01:38]>> Well, that's true. Why'd you bring your backpack? We only have that one class today.

[00:01:42]>> Um Dr. Kahn said we might have a pop quiz today, so I wanted to be prepared.

[00:01:46]>> That doesn't sound like something Dr. Kahn would pull.

[00:01:49]>> I know. She's different now.

[00:01:52]More strict, I guess. And I think I know the reason.

[00:01:56]>> What? That's not my fault. I only cheated like twice in her class. Now if we're done staring into souls, I've got something urgent to attend to. You're coming with.

[00:02:08]>> What?

[00:02:14]There is no way that this was the urgent matter that you had to take care of.

[00:02:19]>> It's good.

[00:02:21]You want some?

[00:02:23]>> Okay.

[00:02:23]>> I'll grab Want to tell me? Hmm.

[00:02:30]Hey.

[00:02:31]>> Hey, Maeve.

[00:02:31]>> Hey.

[00:02:32]>> Hey, Tommy.

[00:02:33]>> Hmm.

[00:02:36]>> So, what are we doing tonight?

[00:02:39]>> Maeve and I are watching the next episode of our show.

[00:02:41]>> Ew.

[00:02:42]Okay. Anyone else free?

[00:02:43]>> Dude, don't you have to babysit tonight?

[00:02:46]>> Yeah, but that's at 9:00. I could get there at 9:30 and the kid would be fine.

[00:02:50]>> Jordan, that kid is my little brother.

[00:02:52]You better show up at 9:00 and help me.

[00:02:53]You know I can't do it alone.

[00:02:55]>> Relax. I was just joking.

[00:02:58]>> So, since tonight is off the table, what about tomorrow?

[00:03:01]>> That would be good, except we have a party tomorrow.

[00:03:04]>> Perfect. I've been waiting. The last one was phenomenal.

[00:03:10]>> This one should be just as good. Tommy is organizing it after all.

[00:03:14]>> I'm what?

[00:03:14]>> Dude, don't tell me you forgot. You're planning the next party.

[00:03:17]>> I'm throwing the party tomorrow?

[00:03:19]>> Yes.

[00:03:20]>> Just like you to forget.

[00:03:22]>> When did I agree to this?

[00:03:23]>> After the last party. You were really gone though.

[00:03:26]>> I wasn't that drunk, guys. Tommy. What?

[00:03:29]>> I even heard about how drunk you were, and I was at a conference out of state.

[00:03:33]You ran around the courtyard at 3:00 a.m. naked.

[00:03:37]>> Hey, I bet Maeve liked it though.

[00:03:39]>> [laughter] >> Maeve.

[00:03:41]Maeve.

[00:03:42]>> Huh?

[00:03:43]>> You okay?

[00:03:44]>> Yeah, I'm good.

[00:03:46]>> You haven't ate any of your food. Do you want to bite of mine?

[00:03:50]>> That's one of your mind, Maeve.

[00:03:52]>> She probably just thinking about Tommy naked.

[00:03:55]>> [laughter] >> So sorry.

[00:03:59]Got held up in the parking lot.

[00:04:01]You ready?

[00:04:02]>> Yeah, let's do this.

[00:04:14]>> So, you said I should add something in the third paragraph, split it or something?

[00:04:21]>> Yeah, uh make it two separate paragraphs for your two separate ideas.

[00:04:26]>> I mean to me, they're the same idea, just different perspectives.

[00:04:31]>> But, in Dr. Brand's mind >> that's just not the case.

[00:04:36]See, there's one thing I never understood about college.

[00:04:39]>> What's that?

[00:04:41]>> This place promotes individualism, like constantly. It encourages us to have ideas and lifestyles of our own, so we can bring something new to the table.

[00:04:55]I'm appealing to the professor.

[00:04:58]I mean, seriously.

[00:05:01]How the hell can you advertise my individualism, but then grade me on it?

[00:05:07]>> Sam.

[00:05:09]>> If I keep appealing to my professors then how will I be able to recognize my own writing, you know? As something I made.

[00:05:18]As something I made.

[00:05:21]My name is on the paper but where did I go?

[00:05:25]>> Sam.

[00:05:27]I hear you but you still have to separate the paragraph.

[00:05:31]It's not a professor rule, it's just a rule rule.

[00:05:37]>> I know.

[00:05:38]I know it's not that big of a deal, but it doesn't feel right. This is just the beginning >> of >> other changes.

[00:05:47]If I change this, then how will I be able to recognize my own writing?

[00:05:54]As long as you feel that way, I doubt that you will.

[00:06:10]>> Babe?

[00:06:13]Babe?

[00:06:15]>> I'm here.

[00:06:16]>> I tried calling you, but you didn't answer. Everything okay?

[00:06:19]>> You did?

[00:06:21]>> Yeah.

[00:06:22]You didn't hear it?

[00:06:24]>> I guess not. I think I left my phone on my bed. What's up?

[00:06:29]>> What do you mean?

[00:06:31]We have plans, remember?

[00:06:34]>> Oh, right. Were we supposed to bake those cookies tonight?

[00:06:40]>> You're joking, right?

[00:06:43]I can't believe I was the one to remember.

[00:06:45]Um, we're supposed to watch the next episode of our show.

[00:06:48]>> Right.

[00:06:50]Right. Uh, the remote is on the couch and I'll go pop some popcorn while you pull it up, okay?

[00:07:26]Got it?

[00:07:27]>> Yep.

[00:07:37]>> I'm so excited.

[00:07:38]>> Really? I'm glad.

[00:07:39]>> Are you not?

[00:07:40]>> I am. I have something on my mind.

[00:07:44]>> Want to talk about it?

[00:07:46]>> Do you want to talk about it?

[00:07:49]>> What is that supposed to mean?

[00:07:50]>> Nothing.

[00:07:52]>> Tommy.

[00:07:53]>> I'm serious. It's on my mind, but it's not that big of a deal.

[00:07:57]>> All right, just promise you'll tell me.

[00:07:59]>> Of course.

[00:08:01]Can you promise me that, too?

[00:08:04]>> What? I tell you everything.

[00:08:06]>> I know. Just in case.

[00:08:17]>> [laughter] >> Did I make that for the party?

[00:08:19]>> Yeah.

[00:08:20]Wait, [ __ ] I forgot to help make a list of things we need to get for tomorrow.

[00:08:26]Have you seen my phone?

[00:08:37]>> It was here. It wasn't on your bed.

[00:08:41]>> I I guess I forgot.

[00:08:44]>> And you didn't hear it ring?

[00:08:46]>> No, I think it was on do not disturb or something.

[00:08:50]>> That's crazy. You never keep it on silent.

[00:08:54]>> I did this time.

[00:08:57]>> Okay.

[00:09:01]>> Tommy, did you think I was ignoring your call?

[00:09:05]>> I didn't I don't want to accuse you of anything. I just don't see how you didn't hear it ring, but if it's on silent, then I guess you couldn't have.

[00:09:12]So, um >> I didn't hear it.

[00:09:18]And I'm not ignoring you.

[00:09:21]>> Okay.

[00:09:37]>> So, May, two things. Jordan on her way to your room, and your laundry has been done for like 10 minutes. So, please move it over.

[00:09:45]When you can, of course.

[00:09:49]>> Hey, sorry I didn't come back last night. I decided to stay at Laura's.

[00:09:55]>> What?

[00:09:57]>> Nothing happened between you and Laura?

[00:09:59]>> Dude, Maeve, we were babysitting her brother.

[00:10:02]>> And after you put him to bed?

[00:10:04]>> Nothing happened, I swear.

[00:10:06]>> Oh, please. You swear on everything.

[00:10:08]Something definitely happened between you two.

[00:10:11]>> Whatever.

[00:10:12]What are you up doing?

[00:10:14]>> Catching up on some homework.

[00:10:16]>> Of course. You're always doing that [ __ ] like 2 weeks in advance. I'd pay you to do mine.

[00:10:21]>> You would if you could. You blow all your money on ridiculous stuff.

[00:10:25]>> I do not.

[00:10:26]>> Do too.

[00:10:40]>> Maeve.

[00:10:41]Maeve, Ben's here.

[00:10:50]>> Hey, Tommy here?

[00:10:52]>> No, he's out getting the stuff for tonight.

[00:10:54]>> Oh, okay. What about Sam? I know you guys are planning to meet today.

[00:11:00]>> Dude, hush.

[00:11:04]Is Jordan still here?

[00:11:05]>> I don't know.

[00:11:07]Why should that You still haven't told her?

[00:11:11]>> And I won't tell her.

[00:11:13]>> Do you want to know something?

[00:11:14]>> What?

[00:11:15]>> Small problems turn into bigger problems the longer it takes for you to address them.

[00:11:19]>> I know that. I feel like everyone knows that.

[00:11:23]>> If you know that, then why do you let it happen?

[00:11:25]>> Because I don't think she's going to care that I'm helping Sam.

[00:11:28]>> Well, yeah, she might not care about that, but she's going to care that you're not telling her.

[00:11:32]>> I doubt that.

[00:11:33]Now, if you don't mind, it's actually time for me to go.

[00:11:54]So sorry, Sam. I didn't sleep much last night, so I woke up late and had some things to handle this morning, so >> It's all right. I just got here not too long ago.

[00:12:04]>> Perfect.

[00:12:06]Okay, what part of your paper are we working on today?

[00:12:09]>> You mean Dr. Brandt's paper?

[00:12:11]>> I mean the paper for Dr. Brandt.

[00:12:14]Uh >> Well, do you mind if we work on the um conclusion?

[00:12:19]>> Okay.

[00:12:20]You're usually pretty good at writing them on your own, though.

[00:12:23]>> Uh it's just because I think I really need help with this one if that's okay.

[00:12:28]>> Of course. Here.

[00:12:31]>> Hey, Maeve. I'll catch up with you later.

[00:12:34]>> Oh, I see. All right, don't take too long.

[00:12:37]We got [ __ ] to do.

[00:12:41]>> You're coming to our party tonight, right?

[00:12:43]>> I have no choice but to.

[00:12:45]>> All right, see you then.

[00:12:52]Oh, okay. Was Was Was that one of your friends or was that Tommy?

[00:12:57]>> No, he's just a guy from one of my classes.

[00:13:00]>> Okay.

[00:13:02]And there's a party?

[00:13:03]>> Yeah, at their frat.

[00:13:05]>> What time?

[00:13:08]>> You're not actually interested in going, right?

[00:13:11]>> I might. I don't know.

[00:13:15]>> Are you sure? There's going to be a lot of stuff happening that you're usually not a fan of.

[00:13:20]>> So, I'm not a fan of this assignment, yet I'm here doing it anyway.

[00:13:27]>> But >> Maeve, why don't you want me to go to this thing?

[00:13:34]She'll be there, won't she?

[00:13:38]>> I'm sorry.

[00:13:41]>> You don't have to be sorry, especially since you told Jordan that >> I didn't.

[00:13:46]I haven't.

[00:13:47]Yet.

[00:13:49]>> Oh.

[00:13:50]Okay.

[00:13:52]So, this assignment >> Right.

[00:13:55]The conclusion.

[00:13:57]>> Um Priya, do you think I can handle this on my own?

[00:14:03]>> Okay.

[00:14:05]I'm sorry, again.

[00:14:08]>> I told you you don't have to be sorry.

[00:14:11]>> But, I am.

[00:14:25]The party's at 10.

[00:15:46]>> Yo, glad you made it.

[00:15:48]>> I told you I had no choice but to be here.

[00:15:52]>> So, what's the story? Why aren't you dancing?

[00:15:54]>> No reason.

[00:15:56]>> Well, I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to see you having fun and shaking some ass.

[00:16:00]>> Sorry?

[00:16:01]>> It's my party, so I'd like it if everybody was having fun.

[00:16:05]One sec.

[00:16:16]Drink this.

[00:16:18]>> What is it?

[00:16:19]>> Liquid courage, or jungle juice.

[00:16:22]>> Isn't the point of jungle juice that it's supposed to be like fun colors? This is almost clear.

[00:16:28]>> Relax. It's because it has vodka and some coconut-flavored stuff in it.

[00:16:35]See? Pretty good, right?

[00:16:37]Finish that cup and you'll be the life of the party in no time.

[00:16:39]>> Thanks.

[00:17:20]>> What did I tell you? Everyone's loving your moves.

[00:17:22]>> I'm glad. I won like two dance battles.

[00:17:24]>> Woah.

[00:17:25]Maybe I should sit you down for a minute.

[00:17:39]>> [panting] [sighs] >> Why are we here?

[00:17:55]Let's go get some more of that jungle juice.

[00:17:57]>> I don't think so. I think what you need is some water.

[00:17:59]>> Hell no.

[00:18:01]I'm okay.

[00:18:02]I haven't felt this good in a long time.

[00:18:04]>> You'll feel much worse later if you don't have any water.

[00:18:07]>> I don't need it.

[00:18:14]I think I need to find Tommy.

[00:18:16]>> He's out there somewhere, but we need to get you some water first, and then I can take you back here and you can have a nap or something.

[00:18:22]>> Thanks, but I'd rather find my boyfriend.

[00:18:25]>> He doesn't even know you're drunk.

[00:18:28]I can help you, Maeve.

[00:18:30]>> If it weren't for you handing me a drink, I wouldn't be like this. I'm finding Tommy.

[00:18:43]There you are.

[00:18:44]I go, I'm leaving.

[00:18:46]>> No, you're not.

[00:18:51]>> I don't want to stay here anymore, Jordan.

[00:18:53]I I can't find Tommy anywhere, and I don't want to run into Zane again.

[00:19:00]I'd like to go home.

[00:19:02]>> And who is taking you?

[00:19:04]Like, what the actual [ __ ] Were you just going to leave without telling me?

[00:19:08]I don't know what mood you've been in lately, but I feel like you're keeping something from me.

[00:19:13]And we promised each other that if we needed to talk something out, we would.

[00:19:16]Together. So, I guess we're just breaking promises now.

[00:19:20]Because you promised you wouldn't speak to Sam again.

[00:19:23]And then I find out you've been helping them.

[00:19:26]And they end up at this party?

[00:19:27]Magically?

[00:19:28]Really thought I could trust you, Maeve, but it's clear to me now that it's true what they say about you.

[00:19:32]Get your boyfriend to drive you home.

[00:19:33]I'm going to go try and enjoy myself.

[00:19:35]>> I'm sorry for not telling you about Sam, but I think >> No buts. You do believe what they did to me, don't you? Do I have to show you the scars to prove it?

[00:19:45]>> I care about you.

[00:19:47]I believe you.

[00:19:48]>> And I don't believe you.

[00:19:50]I'm going back inside.

[00:19:51]>> Wait.

[00:19:54]You said something about people saying things about me?

[00:19:58]>> Is that what you took away from all this?

[00:20:01]Should have known that'd be the least of your worries.

[00:20:06]>> Whoa, what happened?

[00:20:08]>> You okay? I'm going home.

[00:20:10]>> I'm No, you're not.

[00:20:12]You're drunk.

[00:20:13]>> Right.

[00:20:14]Ben, do you mind taking her back to my place? I have a guest room she can stay at.

[00:20:18]>> Of course.

[00:20:19]>> I'm going to go find Jordan and I'll be right behind you.

[00:20:23]>> All right, Maeve.

[00:20:24]Let's go.

[00:20:27]>> Okay.

[00:20:34]>> I'm here.

[00:20:35]What's going on?

[00:20:36]>> About time.

[00:20:42]>> She hasn't spoken to us.

[00:20:45]>> Maybe she'll talk to you, though.

[00:20:51]>> Where were you?

[00:20:53]>> Same place as you.

[00:20:55]The party.

[00:20:57]>> I couldn't find you anywhere.

[00:20:59]>> I was everywhere.

[00:21:01]I was in the back when they did shots, went out to get more ice, danced a little.

[00:21:05]>> I needed you, I couldn't find you.

[00:21:09]>> I'm sorry.

[00:21:12]What happened?

[00:21:14]>> Everything.

[00:21:16]>> Everything is in >> Just a lot.

[00:21:19]A lot of bad things.

[00:21:21]>> Okay.

[00:21:23]Tell me.

[00:21:25]>> I don't know if I can.

[00:21:27]>> May- We made a promise to each other.

[00:21:29]I'll listen as best I can.

[00:21:33]>> And if you forget?

[00:21:35]>> Look, I know I'm insanely forgetful, but if it involves you, I try to remember.

[00:21:40]In fact, you've been the one who's forgetting things lately.

[00:21:45]I didn't mean it like that. Just that I'm doing better now.

[00:21:50]>> You're right.

[00:21:53]I'm forgetting things.

[00:21:55]I'm just so distracted and overwhelmed, and I can't even pinpoint what's causing it. I just want it to stop. And I thought I wasn't alone, but tonight made it very clear that I'm very alone.

[00:22:23]>> Um I'll be back in the morning.

[00:22:26]We can talk then.

[00:22:28]For now, please rest.

[00:22:48]>> Laura! Laura! There's a big spider in here. Can I keep it?

[00:22:53]>> Absolutely not. Better not touch it until I get over there.

[00:22:59]>> Oh, hey.

[00:23:02]Sorry. I thought you were still in the room with Tommy.

[00:23:05]>> He left.

[00:23:06]>> Okay.

[00:23:08]I'll send Ben to go get your car for tomorrow. I've got to take my little brother to the dentist in the morning.

[00:23:13]>> That's Bart's and stuff.

[00:23:15]>> I said don't touch it.

[00:23:18]Uh let me know if you need anything.

[00:23:21]I'll see you tomorrow.

[00:23:30][ __ ] What am I doing?

[00:23:50]>> Maeve?

[00:23:52]Wake up.

[00:23:58]>> Mhm.

[00:24:04]>> How's your head?

[00:24:06]>> Aching.

[00:24:07]>> Good thing I brought some ibuprofen and water.

[00:24:23]So, what about last night?

[00:24:25]>> What about it?

[00:24:27]>> I heard Jordan was upset.

[00:24:29]>> Yeah.

[00:24:30]>> Talk to me.

[00:24:33]>> Okay.

[00:24:35]When I got there, I got some of that jungle juice from Zane and he filled my entire cup with it.

[00:24:42]>> Yeah.

[00:24:43]It came out this crazy green color.

[00:24:47]>> Green?

[00:24:49]>> Unless I'm misremembering, we dumped a whole thing of green apple Svedka into it.

[00:24:54]You might have been too drunk to remember. So, what else happened?

[00:24:59]>> Uh then Jordan pulled me aside and said a lot.

[00:25:07]>> I'm sure she didn't mean it. You know what alcohol does to her.

[00:25:10]>> No.

[00:25:12]It meant something. I just can't bring myself to say it out loud.

[00:25:16]>> I'll help you.

[00:25:20]>> I feel like a burden on you.

[00:25:22]>> What?

[00:25:23]>> There's just so many things going on in my head and >> May, I I didn't Are you okay?

[00:25:32]>> Yeah.

[00:25:34]I am now that I was able to talk to you.

[00:25:37]>> That's why we made that promise to each other.

[00:25:41]By the way, it is 10:30 and I know you have your tutoring with Sam, but I really think you should call it off.

[00:25:48]>> No.

[00:25:49]I'll go.

[00:25:52]Is my car here?

[00:25:53]>> Yeah, I'll walk you out to it and I'll clean up before Laura gets back.

[00:26:07]Oh.

[00:26:08]Ben dropped these off.

[00:26:11]>> Thank goodness for Ben.

[00:26:13]I'll see you.

[00:26:14]>> Bye.

[00:26:17]I love you.

[00:26:19]>> Bye.

[00:26:29]>> I remembered everything.

[00:26:32]I'm taking her to a dentist appointment next Wednesday, her brother's baseball game is Friday, and our anniversary isn't for another 4 months.

[00:26:42]So, what did I do that made her not want to say I love you back?

[00:26:47]Should I even worry about it that much?

[00:26:50]She does spend a lot of time with Sam.

[00:26:53]She's never canceled on them.

[00:26:56]She's canceled on me.

[00:26:59]She's not taking care of herself.

[00:27:02]She's lost sleep on things in the past.

[00:27:04]She's never really been interested in Sam.

[00:27:07]So, I guess it's fine.

[00:27:09]Yeah, she even said so.

[00:27:10]She's always fine.

[00:27:22]>> Okay.

[00:27:24]I think if we cite this article, we Wait, never mind.

[00:27:29]Not enough citations.

[00:27:31]What if we Okay, we're not >> please take a break?

[00:27:33]>> I'm sorry. It's just Professor Brown wanted me to change my research topic to something that's more me. And I don't know how to take that. I mean, he doesn't even know who I am outside of his classroom. Yet, he has the audacity to tell me to change my research topic to fit an idea of whoever he thinks I am.

[00:27:51]But, he doesn't even know who I am.

[00:27:55]Then again, there aren't that many people who do.

[00:27:58]>> Wait.

[00:28:00]What? We have to change the whole paper?

[00:28:03]>> We aren't changing anything.

[00:28:05]I just wanted to tell you how ridiculous Dr. Brown is being.

[00:28:09]>> Sam, did he tell you how to make it more you?

[00:28:14]>> No.

[00:28:15]He just said it doesn't feel like me.

[00:28:18]>> Right.

[00:28:19]Because we were trying to make it fit his standard.

[00:28:22]But, now his standard is to make it not his standard.

[00:28:25]>> Apparently.

[00:28:27]I'm beyond confused. I can't believe a paper is making me lose who I am.

[00:28:32]>> I feel that more than you know.

[00:28:34]>> Yeah?

[00:28:35]Well, I find that hard to believe.

[00:28:37]You're A+ student. I doubt any paper you've ever written made you doubt who you were.

[00:28:44]>> Do you remember what you said earlier?

[00:28:46]About Dr. Brown having an idea of who you are.

[00:28:50]>> Yeah.

[00:28:51]Well, >> clearly you have an idea of me, too.

[00:29:01]How about um since Dr. Brandt is asking this change of you, we add an extra session tomorrow?

[00:29:08]>> Yeah, that sounds good.

[00:29:10]But I think I have an idea.

[00:29:12]>> Really?

[00:29:13]Good.

[00:29:14]Can't wait to hear it.

[00:29:15]See you then.

[00:29:26]To Mom, Dad, Tommy, or Ben.

[00:29:30]It's the week of March 14th.

[00:29:33]If you're reading this, thank you.

[00:29:36]Thank you for all the love you gave me.

[00:29:38]It was more than enough.

[00:29:41]I should have loved myself as much, but that is hard and I've spent a long time fighting myself.

[00:29:47]It felt impossible to come to terms with the fact that I wasn't alone, that I didn't need to protect everyone like I was some sort of superhero.

[00:29:55]I thought I was losing everything about >> who I am.

[00:29:59]It's always been difficult to hold an idea of what people have of There was a need to lie about how I was so much that it became second nature.

[00:30:08]Each time I lost more and more of that connection to myself.

[00:30:12]I couldn't tell if it was because I didn't want you to worry about me or because I didn't think you'd understand.

[00:30:21]I just wish someone had known without me having to open my mouth to voice the problem.

[00:30:26]I didn't really know the problem, just that I wasn't okay.

[00:30:33]So, even when all the signs are there, right in front of your face, some suffering is silent.

[00:30:40]The sky is a gift itself.

[00:30:42]It wants to go unnoticed.

[00:30:44]Because when it's noticed you're afraid that society will call you weak.

[00:30:51]Your mom will say you're troubled.

[00:30:53]And wonder what happened to our baby.

[00:30:56]Your partner will say you're just not the same.

[00:30:59]Leave. And never look back.

[00:31:02]But the biggest fear is when you look in the mirror your own head your own body you see a stranger.

[00:31:12]And you know what's crazy?

[00:31:14]No one knew.

[00:31:16]No one even noticed that a stranger was taking over until you weren't you.

[00:31:23]That's the problem of today.

[00:31:27]We don't pay enough attention to each other.

[00:31:30]It's too common.

[00:31:32]It's an everyday thing.