Your Worth Was Never Theirs to Give #real #relationshipadvice

Added: 2026-05-27

[00:00:00]How can someone start building their self-worth without the validation of others? Spend a long time doing things consistently as much as you can.

[00:00:10]Because if you can't feel good enough alone, then you're going to constantly be seeking it through others and it's never going to be enough.

[00:00:19]And so you want to be able to radically create a space for yourself, whether it's working out, eating right, educating yourself, doing things that make you feel alive. Um you got to do that. Now, if you're single, it could be easier cuz you have more of an opportunity to be alone. So go do something radically to to to get outside and and and find that within yourself.

[00:00:42]But sometimes it could be very difficult when you've only been used to being validated by others cuz it's like, what do you do? Does it fall from the sky? Do you wake up one day feeling good?

[00:00:52]Uh it's it's hard to explain, but you have to find a way to get it with yourself, by yourself.