Do you know a vulnerable narcissist?

Added: 2026-04-29

[00:00:00]recognize how that might be showing up in different relationships.

[00:00:04]>> So if the person is narcissistic in this relationship dynamic and if they are in that avoid an attachment pushpull dynamic, then we're looking at what type of narcissist is the person, right?

[00:00:17]Because there's different types. So there's destructive entitlement and vulnerable narcissism. Vulnerable narcissism is the pain is the biggest pain in the room.

[00:00:25]>> Destructive entitlement is the world owes me something.

[00:00:27]>> Let's land with that a little bit. Two of the things that you mentioned is my pain is the biggest pain in the room right now. And I think so many of us have probably experienced that in friend dynamics, group dynamics, right?

[00:00:39]Classroom dynamics maybe even my pain is the biggest pain in the room. I I hear pain Olympics.

[00:00:44]>> Oh yeah, >> right. It's a pain Olympics challenge.

[00:00:47]>> It's a challenge, but it's also nobody is going to get this.

[00:00:51]>> Yeah.

[00:00:52]>> No one knows.

[00:00:55]>> No one knows my pain.

[00:00:57]>> Right. Right. And don't you even