A Woman Will Check Out a Man That is Socially Attractive and Then Another Man That is Sexually Attra

Added: 2026-05-08

[00:00:02]Hello there. This is Ram coming back at you with yet another car video. A woman will check out a man that is socially attractive. And then another man that is sexually attractive.

[00:00:19]Yeah.

[00:00:21]Like um I hadn't talked about that dual mating strategy that women have, but I'mma tell you something and this is this coming from an inner circle conversation last night.

[00:00:34]It's rare for a woman to have a man that is both socially attractive and sexually attractive. I'll get into that sexually attractive thing a little bit later, but that socially attractive You know what?

[00:00:49]He ain't as fine. He ain't as fine. He he got some stuff. She got to think.

[00:00:55]Let me listen to what I'm saying. She got to think about it. She she got to be like, "Well, he this, that, you know, okay. Well, he work hard. He don't look that bad." And no, he he he like the barber blossom. He fixed up.

[00:01:12]He he something, but you know, this guy might not give her that tingle. And you know, you know what the tingle is.

[00:01:21]Not turning her on so much, but she'll give him a chance because one of the things with women is even though you got many of these women now, they ain't trying to settle and they ain't trying to get married, there's still plenty of them that are.

[00:01:40]And it could be for myriad reasons. You know, it could be because of their uh religious background, you know.

[00:01:49]Their minister you know, get tired of tapping it and um I I'm not really joking that much on that one. Their minister get tired of tapping it and say to him, "Hey, you know what?

[00:02:02]You going to have to uh you know, get married." You you know how the minister be. He's like, "Marry that good church guy or something, right?

[00:02:13]Marry that good church guy.

[00:02:16]Or get something, you know, family. They might be like, "Well, you know, get some grandkids." Sometimes they do that woman she got to bring that dude to the cookout so Uncle Junior don't Uncle Junior and them at them and them don't clown her too much.

[00:02:37]Whatever the case or she could be in that social class like one of those uh 92 octanes. Shout out uh Master Teacher BGS for the octane model. One of those corporate women and they expected to be married or something.

[00:02:53]It could be whatever.

[00:02:55]Like when a woman gets married it's not always because she's sexually attracted to that man, but that man is somebody she can go out in public with.

[00:03:06]And I know some dudes will be like, "Well, what if he handsome?"

[00:03:10]He usually is. He usually is. The socially attractive man got to be. He got to at least be presentable.

[00:03:18]Now, he might not be that social model or you know, that supermodel or something like that rather. But he he's somebody who looks decent.

[00:03:28]Oh, I'm seeing one of my numbers.

[00:03:31]Yeah. Yeah. If I see certain numbers, I know spirit with me. All right?

[00:03:37]And I'll let y'all figure out what that means. Anyway, right?

[00:03:42]You know, she you know, she might be like "He ain't all that." She got to think about it. She might have to talk with him. Yeah, she might be like, "Well, you know, he is a nice guy. He doing all that. Plus, he probably one of those dudes who take out to dinner take her to that fancy restaurant." He doing his job because you know, he heard growing up he got to do all this. Sometimes a woman will let him do it.

[00:04:07]Right?

[00:04:09]But she's socially attractive. You say, "Okay, she can take him out. She can go with him. She can even marry him." He might even like look decent enough like she had she had that baby with him with him.

[00:04:22]We ain't going to get into paternity fraud, but she had that baby with him and she might be like, "Well, you know, he ain't bad."

[00:04:30]You know, and she might can talk with him and all of that. But she really got to work to get that tingle. She ain't sexually attracted to him. She don't get wet. Like when she see him, she ain't immediately taking off her underwear talking about, "I won't be needing these."

[00:04:48]Right? She ain't sexually attracted to him. But then there's the guy she's sexually attracted to.

[00:04:56]There's the guy she just she just she just glances way and she she getting wet. She getting hot. She feeling stuff.

[00:05:03]Shoot. She about to hit a trance. Shoot.

[00:05:07]She'll get down on that floor and like get done by his shadow.

[00:05:13]Shoot. She'll go to in the back of a semi lemon.

[00:05:16]Right? Shoot. Have sex with him in a park wherever cuz he turning her on. But the only problem with the sexually attractive guy well, one, he might have five other women.

[00:05:31]And she know and you know, she she might not want to be bothered with that, right?

[00:05:37]Or or he got something with him. He might not be the same social class. Like say she a corporate woman. The guy who turn her on sexually he he working in the mail room or something.

[00:05:53]Well, she she might not be able to deal with that class thing. She might not be able to deal with it, right? Or sometimes she she be he could be a different race.

[00:06:05]He could be a different race. It could be a bunch of stuff, but she turned on by him, but he ain't good to marry.

[00:06:14]Right? Now, what a lot of women will do they'll they'll marry the socially attractive guy.

[00:06:23]They'll marry him.

[00:06:25]Maybe even have his kids. Though I would still recommend that he do a paternity test.

[00:06:32]But then fool around with the sexually attractive guy. In fact, if a guy suspects that he's socially attractive he needs to like really double back home with that.

[00:06:47]I'm always saying that, but that's some real stuff. And really you might not catch the woman there because the real slick women, they ain't going to do anything there. They ain't shoot. They'll go 20 miles out of their way, go to some hotel or go to his place something. If a woman don't want to be caught, she don't want to be caught. If a man catches a woman deep down she wanted to be caught.

[00:07:13]But that could be a whole other conversation.

[00:07:16]That could be a whole other conversation if she wants to be caught, right?

[00:07:21]She trying to get out that relationship and hoping he do something. And if he don't do anything he a cuck.

[00:07:30]He he's a cuck.

[00:07:31]All right? But I'mma tell you what.

[00:07:35]How would a guy know he's just socially attractive to a woman?

[00:07:38]Very simple. Very very simple.

[00:07:41]He got to work too hard to get her. She ain't trying Like I'mma tell you something with women.

[00:07:47]I don't give a what women say. If they want a guy, if they sexually attracted to a guy, oh they trying to hook up with him right away.

[00:07:55]They ain't going to make him wait. But with a socially attractive guy they they'll take a while. They they they going to be checking out stuff cuz they ain't sexually attracted. They ain't getting wet, but they looking at his other stuff and you know, that could take a while.

[00:08:10]They want to you know, they ain't they ain't sexually attracted, but they say, "Okay, let me see if he got a good conversation."

[00:08:18]You know, they might not have a strong physical attraction for him.

[00:08:22]So, you know, they'll look at him and say, "Well, let me let me look at him.

[00:08:26]Let me think about it." And then, you know, you get some of them they'll get their girlfriends and see what the girlfriends are saying.

[00:08:36]They'll be like you know, they'll pass his picture around, check out his social media, check out all of that. They be thinking about it. Like when a woman gets with a man who is socially attracted to her she ain't using her for JJ. Let get that out the way. She ain't using her heart either. She using her brain. And you know, unfortunately, you got a lot of guys they want a woman to think about it logically.

[00:09:05]But if a woman gets with a man and she's basing it off of any type of logic that's not the that that's the man who needs to double back home.

[00:09:17]Because I'mma tell you something now with a woman her JJ and her heart going to override her logic.

[00:09:27]Because let's just be real. If a woman was dealing with a man based on logic we wouldn't have the problems now.

[00:09:36]Shoot. They'd just get with who they going to get with.

[00:09:40]You know?

[00:09:42]They'll get with the right guy.

[00:09:45]If they were going off of logic.

[00:09:48]See, here's here's the thing. A socially attractive man, he fitting into her world. Whatever her subculture is, whatever her social class is, whatever.

[00:09:59]It was like, oh yeah, I guess I or, you know, she might be thinking, well, it's time for me to get married. Like, I knew this woman, she married this guy, and she said the only reason she married him, she thought that was the thing to do.

[00:10:14]And she was more upper middle class anyway.

[00:10:18]See, but when a woman is turned on sexually by a man, all things go out. Shoot, that's why you get some of these teachers going for these young guys. I mean, miss a shame, but every single time they turned on sexually. Some of these women Some of these teachers and stuff, female teachers be having husbands.

[00:10:40]Now, they got with their husband off some social attraction.

[00:10:44]And they probably had a good guy and all of that, but they weren't sexually attracted. But see, they get that young guy, they get that young guy hitting puberty, got that joint that's straight like a baseball bat, they go crazy over them.

[00:10:59]And I mean, they be risking prison and everything and But all it is is just sexual attraction. See, one of the things when we talk about that thing of ours called game, a lot of dudes really don't talk about the sexual attraction.

[00:11:16]And that's the thing.

[00:11:18]And that's what a man really if you dealing with a woman, you got to make sure she wants to you.

[00:11:28]All of that. Then you got some guys, they don't want to deal with that cuz, you know, they deep on some level, they want to think all the women ain't all into sex and all of that. Look, first of all, all women into sex.

[00:11:43]Get that out of the way.

[00:11:44]You want that woman to look at you and take her panties off and say, I won't be needing these. You want her to get wet.

[00:11:53]You want her to be tapping her legs and stuff. Shoot, you want her to be tapping her thighs instead of her arms. You shoot, you like a drug to her and right?

[00:12:07]See, you want her to be sexually attracted.

[00:12:09]But see, one of the issues out here is a lot of men just ain't sexually attracted. In fact, when I talk about that whole select and non-select thing, that's the biggest difference. The select men are sexually attractive to these women. The non-select men are not sexually attractive. And let me let me say something real quick, too, cuz you got some guys out here thinking they um just because they getting some sex from the woman that they sexually attracted.

[00:12:42]Not necessarily.

[00:12:44]Cuz first of all, a lot of women got to deal with non-select men because there ain't enough select men to go around.

[00:12:51]And if you had to work hard to get it or do anything, even if you even if you that side piece, you still might be um non-select to that woman.

[00:13:02]And it's a little nuance. It just depends on what you had to do cuz like, you get some non-select men, yeah, they get the sex, but how much they had to do to get it? They might had to work with them.

[00:13:14]You know, they might had to be a a woman's friend, you know, go over her house, you know, suck on her breasts or scissors or something. That one time just kind of working. And then she had one of those moments where she just needed some.

[00:13:31]So, what she do? She get with that guy, right? She get with that guy then. And just cuz and even then, he really ain't getting none.

[00:13:41]See, if a woman One thing, if a woman is sexually attracted to a man, the best way to tell is her reaction in the bedroom. Wait, excuse me.

[00:13:53]I like doing that. Bedroom, right?

[00:13:56]The best way, like, is she going into that mild trance? Is Is she just down?

[00:14:02]Is she flexible or something?

[00:14:05]Has she reached Is she going like at least to the fifth level orgasm? She hitting your butt saying, "Harder, harder, damn it." Talking trash to you or something. Getting nasty.

[00:14:17]And then, you know she really getting into it if you say, "Hey, baby, how does feel?" If she can like articulate it to you say, "Oh, yeah, that feel good." You you got some more work to do. But then, you tapping that good and you say, "Baby, how does feel to this?" She be like, "Ah."

[00:14:35]She can't talk. Oh, yeah, you got it.

[00:14:38]Because at the higher levels, her left brain which talks starts shutting down is all right brain.

[00:14:46]So, y'all remember that. That's That's That's a little something I'll share sometimes on my on my Patreon.

[00:14:55]And just real quick, um I've been putting my Patreon link in the description box. I'll put it in.

[00:15:02]Y'all check it out. That's where Uncle Ruckus uh street level raw.

[00:15:07]The The car video still ain't in.

[00:15:10]The car videos are still not in.

[00:15:13]And I'm just going to be real. There might be a point I just go all Patreon. I don't know yet. I'll see. I'll see.

[00:15:23]Yeah, all y'all getting that free game, might be running out.

[00:15:28]A brother got to feed his babies.

[00:15:33]Yeah.

[00:15:35]But yeah, but when women out here, you got to understand which one are you to that woman. Even when you being chosen. Like, a lot of dudes get caught up into chosen choosing signals and stuff. Here Here's a issue with the choosing signals. And Alan Roger Curry, may he rest in peace, he talking about it. What are you being chosen for?

[00:15:58]What are you being chosen for? Just cuz she choosing you don't mean she's turned on by you.

[00:16:04]She could be showing some interest because you might have what she looking for socially.

[00:16:11]Like, say she in some church or something.

[00:16:15]She looking for that good church guy.

[00:16:18]And she meet that good church guy.

[00:16:21]So, she she hook up with him. Or she could be one of those acculturated prostitutes or as the honorable pimp god would call them acceptable hoes. And just real quick, an acceptable hoe is just a woman God damn, dude.

[00:16:41]And dude, and that dude coming all out in the street and Driving that car.

[00:16:49]That's why I got to be keeping my head up straight.

[00:16:52]Cuz I remember I had one bammer wanted to like wanted me to be looking in the camera all the time. I was like, come on, man. I'm driving in the real world.

[00:17:02]So, you can see the side of my face. All you doing is listening to my information any way.

[00:17:08]Yeah.

[00:17:09]But anyway, right?

[00:17:15]You know, that woman, she could choose that guy just cuz he up in the church or she she could be um you know, an acceptable hoe. You know, she see that she could see that man got some money or something.

[00:17:28]And she say, "Look, let me get the money out of him." But see, that's that's more of a social thing.

[00:17:36]Cuz in fact, um the pimp god the pimp god, he was on a live stream with Cousin Teeto last night.

[00:17:46]He was talking about this woman in this this woman in her phone, she had the pay dates for all the guys in her phone. I was like, oh, man, she working them.

[00:17:58]She knew.

[00:18:00]See, but if a woman is sexually attracted, it ain't about the money, ain't about your position in life. All it is, she wants the man. That's all she want.

[00:18:13]And that man, that's why you get some situations, a whole lot of situations, where a man um ain't spending any money or anything like that or have as much as the woman, he still getting some.

[00:18:29]Like, there's still a lot of talk cuz that's all real trying to go in on broke men. As long as that broke man got a working dick, he'll be all right. And the and the women that he deal with is sexually appealing. Cuz see, once a woman finds a man sexually attracted, she just want to get with him. She hungry, she thirsty. She don't She don't give a about all this other stuff.

[00:18:54]But then, if that man is just socially attractive, well, yeah, he probably got to have some money.

[00:19:00]He got to have a certain lifestyle. He got to be living a certain way.

[00:19:04]He got to look a certain way.

[00:19:07]But as I always say, you need to double back home sometime.

[00:19:14]And that's only if she don't mind being caught.

[00:19:17]Cuz liquor women, they Like, I knew this dude, and I knew where he lived, I knew where his woman worked.

[00:19:29]10 minutes away from where they lived.

[00:19:32]But then, he said she would she would leave 3 hours early. Then find out she was cheating. I was like, that should have been your first clue. Why she leaving leaving so early just to get to this job?

[00:19:45]And she was going early in the morning.

[00:19:47]Nothing was open in that early in in either. Nothing was open.

[00:19:54]But he had a good social thing with him.

[00:19:58]Cuz one thing, you get some of these women, they they they'll get a guy, but they they thinking about it. Like I said, if they if they thinking about it logic, they thinking maybe him maybe he's chasing them down, he'll be around, maybe.

[00:20:15]But really if you a man the best thing to be is both of them cuz I know I know somebody going get in and say, "Well, how come you just be both of them?" Okay.

[00:20:30]But one thing I'll say to somebody who would say that, are you both of them?

[00:20:35]Are you both of them?

[00:20:37]Because it's hard for a man to be both of them. I mean, I talk about that. I mean, that's part of the whole program with nice guys and players. You want to be that nice guy and you want to be that player.

[00:20:50]You want to be both of them.

[00:20:52]Like you got to you got to get like yeah, you want to be somebody she can take to see her uncle Junior and them.

[00:21:00]You want to be somebody maybe she can go to church with, she can go to the office party with, she can be out in public with.

[00:21:07]But then you also want to be somebody going tear it up in the bedroom.

[00:21:13]You going to be you want to be somebody shoot, she happy. She attacking you.

[00:21:19]Shoot, she riding you. She doing cowgirl on you, reverse cowgirl, she doing stuff. All you got to do is just lay there and twiddle your thumb, you don't have to do anything.

[00:21:31]She doing everything cuz she so fired up.

[00:21:36]Yeah, but it is two different stuff.

[00:21:39]And see if you that sexually attractive man, that's when you really a Mr. Goodbar.

[00:21:46]Ain't all this other stuff.

[00:21:48]Cuz some guys be thinking was that money and all of that. No, sex being Mr. Goodbar, being top of the sexual hierarchy just mean you sexually attractive to a woman. It ain't that deep.

[00:22:01]If you got to spend money to get a woman, that's a whole lot of social attraction thing.

[00:22:06]Seriously.

[00:22:07]If you spending money and you got to do all this, you socially attractive.

[00:22:12]Now, there's plenty of guys out there who will say, "Oh, well, you got to spend money at some point." Well, you ain't sexually attractive to a woman.

[00:22:19]Cuz if you sexually attractive to a woman, she'll she'll she'll she'll come up with the money. She'll pay for You don't have to have She she she trying to get with you.

[00:22:31]Wait a minute.

[00:22:34]When did this store close right here?

[00:22:37]There's always some stores closing right here. It's a liquor store.

[00:22:41]I don't I don't be buying all that anymore.

[00:22:44]Used to buy beer when I was younger.

[00:22:46]Yeah, you know, but I don't know, I still when I was younger, I used to drink that Schlitz malt liquor and stuff, Colt 45.

[00:22:58]I used to have a pose with it, had that attitude.

[00:23:01]Pose under a light drinking it.

[00:23:05]But that was when I was young though.

[00:23:07]That that's when I was young.

[00:23:10]And I'mma tell you what with the malt liquor though, just real quick.

[00:23:14]The malt liquor, that that's like courage juice right there.

[00:23:18]Man, if you if you can't talk to a woman after drinking some malt liquor you just pitiful.

[00:23:24]I'm just going to be real with you.

[00:23:27]But I don't mess with that no more. I don't mess with that. I'm old.

[00:23:31]I I'm old. I leave all that alone.

[00:23:34]But yeah women, they they looking at that social thing.

[00:23:40]They looking at that sexual thing. Or in fact, I shouldn't even say they looking at the sexual thing, they feeling the sexual thing.

[00:23:48]And that's the thing with women.

[00:23:52]And they might deal with that social thing, you know, for survival, for whatever whatever social group they in.

[00:24:00]But that's the dude who got to double back home.

[00:24:06]But it is what it is.

[00:24:09]You know, and don't get mad.

[00:24:11]Don't get mad with it.

[00:24:13]Cuz the thing a man has to understand is women they they they want they want that hot beef injection.

[00:24:23]And more and more these women are just going for that, more and more.

[00:24:31]It is what it is. It's like don't get mad.

[00:24:35]Don't don't don't say it and if you ain't turning the women on like that, well that's why I say body game. Body is the main thing that turns on a woman.

[00:24:45]The body is the main thing.

[00:24:48]You want to get these women bodies, they look they look from the neck down.

[00:24:54]Like that like neck up, that's more for social thing.

[00:24:58]It really is.

[00:25:01]Yeah.

[00:25:03]But anyway though I don't got too much.

[00:25:07]Anyway, I'mma tell you what though it's Friday, so you know I ain't going to do a car video or indoor video or anything, but I'mma tell you what check out my uh videos this weekend, my sovereign man videos. You always guys I don't care what it is, I don't care how many women you got, you got to be in control of your life. My inspirational stuff.

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[00:25:40]I don't know when. I'll see. I'll see.

[00:25:43]All right.

[00:25:44]So check out my Patreon.

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[00:26:04]You know, are you socially attractive to these women?

[00:26:08]Or sexually attractive?

[00:26:10]And I ain't even going to get into men who are neither. You know, that that that that's just really pitiful.

[00:26:16]But you want to be you want to be at least sexually attractive no matter what else you got going on.

[00:26:24]Now like I said, if uh if you can be both, that's actually better.

[00:26:32]But most men are one or the other or neither.

[00:26:36]You don't want to be neither. You want at least be one of them.

[00:26:39]One of them.

[00:26:41]And then cuz you know, you you he might he but if you really want to keep that woman sexually attractive. So anyway, that's all I got. Yeah, y'all y'all have a good weekend and you know, my videos on the weekends, you know, I always record them. Like I recorded them last week.

[00:27:02]So I always do that early.

[00:27:04]But I'm going to go ahead and get some videos and all of that. Anyway, I get back with y'all. Peace.