OUR 8 YEARS ANNIVERSARY SUPRISE || WE DID NOT SEE THIS COMING 🤯🤯🤯

Added: 2026-05-09

[00:00:00]as babe. Today is April 28th.

[00:00:03]>> Yes. 8 years later.

[00:00:04]>> 2026.

[00:00:06]>> Yes.

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[00:02:03]Yes. 8 years later, >> 2026.

[00:02:06]>> Yes.

[00:02:07]>> And >> April 28th, 2018.

[00:02:10]>> Uh-huh.

[00:02:11]>> Yeah. We we walked down the aisle and he said, "I do."

[00:02:15]>> Oh my goodness.

[00:02:15]>> It was an amazing journey.

[00:02:19]>> What do you remember about our wedding?

[00:02:21]>> What do you remember about our wedding?

[00:02:23]Me, I remember It had really really rained that week had it's announced TV like there is heavy rains you know the ones that come there was flooding and all that and guess what even our very very our very very um what is it called our venue was I was like heavily part of the planning process.

[00:02:54]>> Yeah.

[00:02:59]Yeah, I planned transport.

[00:03:02]>> Oh yes, transport. Transport. You >> do very well with logistics.

[00:03:06]>> The the color what will be worn.

[00:03:08]>> Yeah, >> that's none of my business. So what I remember particular about our wedding >> is h then the day >> before >> Yeah.

[00:03:18]>> the wedding the eve of the wedding on Friday. What happened on the eve of >> Cuz I remember uh we were at your place with uh safe.

[00:03:27]Oh, you removed your things and then I had to leave the house, >> go back to town then you have to go and then I'm I'm there that evening we are we are we are we were having an um all the boys were coming to my house >> then my house before it became our house.

[00:03:59]>> Yes.

[00:03:59]>> So, uh trying to figure out how will breakfast look like. So, there was a lot.

[00:04:06]>> Oh my goodness.

[00:04:07]>> So, that that that was one my my my high highlight for a wedding. Okay. The other things that were very nice that uh I was looking forward to cuz I was looking forward to the day and the place that was supposed to spend the first night at Safari Park.

[00:04:21]>> Oh, yeah. But the Safari Park did not come that time. It came later.

[00:04:27]>> Yeah. No, but we already knew we were looking for a place. We had an option of two.

[00:04:30]>> Okay.

[00:04:31]>> And then the lady who was in charge >> of uh looking for that location.

[00:04:38]>> Yeah.

[00:04:39]>> Found that.

[00:04:43]>> So we knew it now that morning.

[00:04:45]>> Yeah.

[00:04:50]Yeah. So as we went to uh >> but let me tell you there was a lot of grace with our wedding go really first of all >> I started planning the wedding one year curator >> one year before >> one year before so like literally like 6 months to the wedding I had I had met with all my suppliers and I was saying about the weather >> like it was raining and I had to sit down with God and tell God you know what God we have ordered you have to honor us and I remember we fasted I don't know whether I fasted alone or we fasted did we fast both of us >> I can't remember >> yeah I think I really I fasted because it was raining and even on the map on the weather whatever >> um online it was saying that on 28th of April >> 2018 it's going to rain cats and dogs and I remember we didn't have like a tent for for the church >> for the church service >> and I wanted it that way like I wanted it because it was a garden wedding I wanted like an open I wanted it to be open >> like an open whatever uh during the church service and I was like God you really need to help us there is no way there is no way >> during our wedding it's raining and I don't know whether you noticed but I kept looking at the skies like the first It's like gloomy during the whole service.

[00:06:29]I remember we talked about it. We talked, you know, to each other about I was so worried about the weather and do you know >> like you remember it did not rain at all at all >> up until the suppliers picked up like their things even from the location that is when it like poured >> like now on our way out when we were going to >> now Safari Park. Oh my goodness that was an amazing >> Yeah, that was that was that was seven when we went to Safari Park.

[00:06:56]>> Yes.

[00:06:56]>> Yeah. But anyway, those are some of the amazing moments. I remember I remember the planning process. It was quite easy. Um, obviously because we had planned one >> and then there was there was not a lot that that was uh >> then the weddings were not hectic then >> and like nowadays yes there are so many logistics involved in a wedding and like those days >> also we really fed people well. Hey Like even chicken that back then there was quite something. There was chicken, >> there was >> there was wedges, there was mo like there was everything.

[00:07:42]>> Yeah.

[00:07:44]You find those cuts that we people can understand because people they they found us married.

[00:08:03]I gave you all me when I came. I knew that I'd be down for the fall if it happened. M >> doing some makeup on my mommy.

[00:08:17]>> The hs were not happy but we miss even on an island by ourselves. Girl, you make me happy. Can't you tell? If I got to be stranded, then I want to be stranded with you.

[00:08:36]Every morning I'mma be right here.

[00:08:39]Stranded with you. Feeling better since you brought me here.

[00:08:45]Stranded, but you surviving together.

[00:08:49]Said I love you forever.

[00:08:52]I was always meant to be right here.

[00:08:56]Stranded with you.

[00:09:04]nothing people they call me already there guys and I'm so happy >> all I see you barely open sometimes we feel lonely but we never are broken are we even on the night by ourselves girl you make Be happy.

[00:09:34]If I got to be stranded, then I want to be stranded.

[00:09:40]Every morning I'mma be right here.

[00:09:43]Stranded.

[00:09:45]Feeling better since you brought me here.

[00:09:49]Stranded together.

[00:09:56]I was always meant to be right here.

[00:10:03]I take you camera >> to be my lovely weddinged wife and this is my senior and I love you forever.

[00:10:17]I was always meant to be right here with you on an island by ourselves.

[00:10:25]Girl, you make me happy. Can't you tell?

[00:10:28]If I got to be stranded, then then I want to be stranded. Even though we're night by ourselves. Girl, you make me happy. Can't tell if I got to be stranded.

[00:10:41]And I want to be stranded with you.

[00:10:44]Every morning I'mma be right here.

[00:10:47]Stranded. It's true. Feel better since you brought me here.

[00:10:53]Stranded with you. We're surviving together.

[00:10:57]I love you forever.

[00:11:00]I was always meant to be right here.

[00:11:03]I'm always we were not online then when we got married.

[00:11:12]>> So most most of you have never seen maybe our wedding >> or even about it. Yeah. Like we >> but we we officially got married and uh had a white wedding in 2018 28th >> April 28th and today marks 8 years.

[00:11:30]>> So mark that date. So when that date that's the date >> we are just grateful and happy that >> we have seen we and we are seeing 8 years. So today, >> ladies and gentlemen, marks 8 years ever since we got married. And I'm so grateful to God because we've seen the faithfulness of God. Absolutely.

[00:11:58]>> Like just reminiscing um you know how our wedding was. We were the first ones by the way to get married from both our sides like officially >> kind of married from our family setup.

[00:12:11]>> Yes. We were the first ones to officially >> our generation actually because our aunties and other parents had gotten married officially.

[00:12:18]>> Yes. Our generation some cousins and our age millennials millennials >> and and and I thank God also because we really inspired so many people. I remember there's a cousin of mine who actually >> because of that they actually uh desired >> to do a white wedding the proper way to the proper way and walk down the aisle and all that just because they saw it from us. So we inspired people and I hope that you can get inspired also to do things the right way like you don't have to do wedding yeah millions of money just go through the right processes >> involve God make God your foundation like start with God don't want to do those things of reverse shortcut it's usually actually very hard but sweetie No, it is not right and you are going to pay for that. But I also understand there are some people who have already crossed that bridge and maybe realize when it's too late also it is not too late for you. You can actually where you are, >> you know, >> start from where you are.

[00:13:29]>> Start from where you are, start involving God where you are. Repent. And >> so this basically is going to just be us uh recounting our uh good memories and what has shaped us in the last 8 years.

[00:13:43]>> Oh yeah.

[00:13:43]>> Yes. So it begins here. We're going to just say because you can't say everything. If we say everything, we're going to give you a video of the entire day. So it's a lot. It's a lot. We have people who have who have have uh walked with us who have shaped us. We have groups that we have put ourselves to ensure us that we are accountable. And when sometimes you know cuz truth is sometimes you'll have a rocky moments we find they always come and bring able to see oh it's not only me >> these things do happen. And I really thank God that during our anniversary, we found ourselves here with our children >> celebrating 8 years later the pro with our with the products of our love.

[00:14:28]>> Absolutely.

[00:14:29]>> Our two handsome boys as in it's just been amazing. It's been an amazing 8 years.

[00:14:34]>> Yeah. So I think that's that's how we begin it here. We shall give you just a few of I think of the >> what we have learned.

[00:14:41]>> What we have learned in the last 8 years.

[00:14:42]>> In the last 8 years. So you stay tuned as we >> stay tuned. There's just but just but a few.

[00:14:47]>> Yes, >> because there's a lot. Welcome >> babe.

[00:15:02]>> Yes.

[00:15:02]>> So what have you learned yourself where personally >> that even you can advise people?

[00:15:08]>> What have you learned personally?

[00:15:09]>> So for the last 8 years >> 8 years.

[00:15:11]>> Yeah.

[00:15:12]my take-home.

[00:15:15]>> Yeah. Uh one of them would be >> I have learned >> to you know to work even in the harshest of uh it's called what harshest of um environments not not harsh in in a bad way like sometimes you have to make decisions and also >> do other things like you have to uh brave every situation and be present >> and now >> I have also learned my other lesson that I will tie with that is to be selfless >> because it's no longer about me >> but about other people who depend on me.

[00:15:54]>> It's about >> because and and and more so because I I carry the mantle of a husband >> Yeah.

[00:16:01]>> and a father >> so I have a wife who really and a leader >> who needs to Yeah. That that that is under the role of being of a husband >> and a priest and everything else. Then you have children who really look up to you and they want to emulate and you know kids they always say my dad you know you cannot beat my dad you cannot do this to my dad like you have a my dad has a big car daddy can we buy a big car >> so I think I would underline those as two of my major lessons >> in marriage there are quite a lot that I have learned but I think those are the two I would uh >> you would advise >> yeah I would say have been I take home.

[00:16:43]>> Wow, it's been amazing.

[00:16:45]>> What has we have so much? Which one is the best?

[00:16:50]>> But one of the things, okay guys, don't mind there's some construction going on.

[00:16:54]So there's a bit of some noise.

[00:16:56]>> Yeah. So for me number one I don't know how people who do marriage without God do it >> because for us because we are born again Christians and also we believe in God >> and God is our foundation and personally even before coming into marriage we have a personal relationship with God. Yes.

[00:17:24]And so when the times are tough whether it is in our marriage or our finances or our children have fallen ill there's one point that we meet at >> at constant >> constant one thing is constant we meet at the foot of the cross and we that's how we start to you know to work on our issues from >> like so I'll give an example that's why the marriage three con it's a triangle.

[00:17:56]>> Yeah.

[00:17:56]>> So the base is due to husband and wife.

[00:17:59]>> And when it's all said and done, we all meet >> at the very which is God because he's he's above everything else.

[00:18:08]>> Yes. And it has helped me so much because um when I am so disappointed about your flaws because guys let me tell you I know you see all these nice videos and love videos it is not the truth. Yes, we have those moments where we don't see.

[00:18:33]But guess what? Having God in this marriage has taught me number one, patience. Cuz my patience, let me tell you, it's something that I struggle with and God is helping me each and every day. I am very impatient person. And so you can imagine having this amazing man who has his flaws. All right? who is not and I I'm not perfect either. So you can imagine having um you know another adult who has grown up with grow up and then we have met >> as adults of course he's going to have flaws of course I'm going to have flaws and coming together and forming this one union is not the easiest but God has taught me work on yourself let me work on the other person and um the flaws or imperfections that your husband or wife has that much I can tell you for a fact.

[00:19:33]>> What you can do is take it to the Lord in prayer. That's why I'm saying God for me is foundation. Work tell him to work on you and as he works on you, tell him to work on your partner because only God can change other people. Only God can change you >> and hence >> be able to uh you know you are able to have a beautiful amazing marriage. and learn forgiveness. I have learned patience. I have learned forgiveness a lot. A lot a lot. Cuz God forgives us every day. So if you're not willing to forget your other half, then I think there's an issue. So one thing marriage has taught me is forgiveness, forgiveness, forgiveness, and patience.

[00:20:16]>> Yeah.

[00:20:16]>> Yes.

[00:20:17]>> So that's that's basically I think it.

[00:20:19]>> Yeah.

[00:20:20]>> And not that's not all. I wanted to also maybe refer back Truth is, >> yeah, >> in our eyes, yes, we are because one thing we have learned to work and I say this because we are 8 years. How we used to fight when we were a year old and we would look at the other person as a bad person, >> you not do that anymore.

[00:20:43]>> So, you learn to >> uh now work as a team.

[00:20:46]>> You know what happens? The devil will attack one person and they lose their weak points. Especially if you don't mali I said uh previously I don't know that whether it's here >> that your spouse is your mirror.

[00:21:00]>> Yeah.

[00:21:01]>> So you're able to see your flaws and able to make corrections >> based on that.

[00:21:06]>> Yes.

[00:21:07]>> And now moving forward you get to understand it is not me against you.

[00:21:12]>> Yes.

[00:21:13]>> We are supposed to be one working against what is not working for us.

[00:21:17]>> Yes.

[00:21:18]>> So that don't get confused. So what we have learned is to work on that over time and that's why maybe you'll realize we don't have conflict we need to take out there and also why do we need to come and solve our conflict >> that's what you guys I don't understand so are we supposed to come and tell you guys when we are not in I don't know miss let us know in the comment down would it be of any benefit to you when we come to you when we are fighting n because I feel like it is enough for has to tell you yes we don't see eye to eye sometimes and we are not perfect but we I for us that straight up even if they say it is of benefit to them we can never do it reason being >> my priority is not to pick a camera and shoot when we are fighting >> my priority is for us to sit down and find out what is aing us so we can solve it so guess what >> you will never see it here >> it's not like now we say guys we're going to Mombasa I'm going just for vlogging. No, no, no. It's a moment of trying to ask yourself what is my >> fix with the shortest time possible cuz that's another thing also we are working on ourselves anyway.

[00:22:34]>> Um for that's why I mean not to mean not to mean that we don't have times where we don't see eye to eye. There are times yes there are times. So to answer your question >> but I don't think the aspoint of seeing eye to eye I don't think we don't we we overcame that of seeing eye to eye we we ensured that now now one of the rules that I think would tell them that we have a we have a motor like we ensure that we cannot we don't have go to bed or have a day go by >> cuz it's some how then things will not work >> that's another thing we've learned we've learned how to solve >> our issues and conflicts within the shortest time possible and with the most respectful >> way and manner possible and to die to self and to die to pride >> everything we have learned now for the last 8 years now we do not do the same things you don't fight the same way you fight in our past year >> because it's not about you.

[00:23:45]Who is this? I got married. Who is this person?

[00:23:48]>> But now it's not the same way. It's very very different >> and really thank God. Anyway, >> we are grateful for 8 years >> for the lessons we have learned >> and there are so many. It's just that we don't want to bore you guys. And >> I think what we'll do, we can have a playlist for this.

[00:24:11]That's the only way we can encourage you guys and give you tips on how do you make your marriage so perfect.

[00:24:25]There are some very serious things that you can't shoot as you're doing what what we have to see and give it to you as serious >> as it is.

[00:24:34]>> Yeah. So anyway, we don't want to bore you guys.

[00:24:37]I am so excited >> about today and about the fact that we have turned eight.

[00:24:43]>> Absolutely. And so guys, they have started planning our 10th >> what we even have started planning part of it. So I'm saying to this end what I will also encourage you is that as we turn eight >> Yeah >> guys also subscribe to our YouTube channel >> subscribe subscribe subscribe >> comment section you say a word of blessing >> to our marriage bless us just a word of encouragement >> I feel also this something very important to mention to people out there >> that do not do marriage alone >> you have a group of people who you have heard us talk Meg. Yes. Keep us accountable. Yes. Together.

[00:25:26]Now we talk about treaty. So you need to say what exactly happened so that you get so that and that's another thing. So a third party.

[00:26:00]So when you involve that party who you share the same values. Okay. So when we say we share the same values is we mean we all born again. We have all done this marriage. We have we know what marriage is supposed to look like. Anyway, wow.

[00:26:14]That was amazing.

[00:26:16]>> I cannot wait to see.

[00:26:16]>> No. The last 8 years have been affinity has for us.

[00:26:19]>> Yeah, last 8 years have been beautiful >> to say the least. We are wait to see what the Lord has in store for us because the Bible says that uh what he us for those and that is what we are believing and trusting God for in the next phase even as we enter eight now.

[00:26:38]>> Ah we thank the Lord. Amen. Amen.

[00:26:41]>> Let us go and have fun babe. Let us go and continue enjoying our holiday.

[00:26:45]>> Yes. as we celebrate uh 80 years how a married couple should celebrate.

[00:26:53]>> Y All right. And then now to top it all off, guys, the reason why we are here, we are dressed, well, >> not quite dressed up to dress up maybe to get dressed up to dinner. We were in Nairobi.

[00:27:34]>> But this is Mombasa.

[00:27:35]>> But this is Mombasa. And >> we have gotten an amazing a pleasant surprise of our lives. Honestly, we were just getting ready to like end the day having spent the day with our children, enjoyed uh you know our >> you know the beach and and the games and just enjoying um you know the vacation with our kids and we were getting ready to end the day until we received a ring ring. Guys, get ready from who?

[00:28:04]>> From Bach's Explorers. Oh my goodness.

[00:28:07]Bas Explorers, you guys have been amazing. Oh my goodness. And they told us, "Guys, >> do you think we are going to let your anniversary >> h just end by like that?"

[00:28:19]>> Just pass like that cuz we are just getting ready to end the day. They told us, "Get ready. We are taking you out for an amazing dinner and it is going to be a surprise.

[00:28:31]>> So, you're going to be picked. You're going to be dropped. But they have given us like a few details and that is why we've you know we've come up with two things to scramble for what we had in our we had carried in our bags in our bags.

[00:28:45]>> We've come up with something put a look together because they told us you're going for an amazing dinner at this amazing place here.

[00:28:51]>> Absolutely. Yes. And so to that end, in keeping with the same surprise, you will also be surprised because ladies and gentlemen, we have been brought in because by now >> if you don't know, we are already at Pride in Flamingo.

[00:29:06]>> Oh my god.

[00:29:06]>> And it doesn't end there.

[00:29:08]>> It does not end there.

[00:29:09]>> It does not end there.

[00:29:12]>> Flamingo, which is a beautiful property again because I've learned to call now properties and no longer call them resorts. What?

[00:29:22]Trident Flamingo.

[00:29:23]>> There's also an amazing amazing amazing restaurant. So, if you've been here, you know, and if you don't know, you need to stick around to find out what exactly we are because even us, it's our very first time.

[00:29:36]>> It's our first time.

[00:29:37]>> It's our first time. That's why it's surprised that virtured that we experience and do our 8th year anniversary just different and in style >> and thank God we came with our nanny because that is due to the so we've left the kids you know to to sleep after a very long day of you know activities. So as we stepped out, oh my gosh, thank you so much explorers for this and it is very something very very unique restaurant from what we have seen because we've done a little bit of some research from what we have seen you guys are not ready even we are not ready because it's going to be something so different. Yes, we want to have you just enjoy a bit of pride in flamingo and then from there you will join us the secret restaurant and a surprise for all of you but if you've been here for us you know oh my gosh >> and this place is amazing >> by the way is when now you understand how the property the entrance >> and then the smell we experienced the them at Pride in Azour when I for your station. It's like it's something they have the >> signature. It's a signature.

[00:30:58]>> A signature scent. So anyway guys, we walk in. Oh my gosh. Cuz I'm hungry. We didn't take lunch properly.

[00:31:05]>> Now you know it's dinner. Come guys.

[00:31:07]>> Yeah.

[00:31:39]Heat. Heat.

[00:31:45]Heat. Heat.

[00:32:05]Heat up here.

[00:32:52]Oh my god.

[00:32:54]>> Wow. Hi.

[00:32:56]>> Welcome to Eastand. I'm >> Hi.

[00:33:00]>> Oh, thank you so much. Oh my gosh guys, I told you we are coming to a >> a very unique place >> where >> and it's just within the property of >> Pride Flamingo where we >> the moment you know as we we are staring at that.

[00:33:16]>> Yeah. Cuz even as it's our first time again >> so I I think you're about also to witness and see the artistic nature of where we come and you know not every day you go to just your >> Yes.

[00:33:28]>> modern restaurants.

[00:33:31]Fine dining fine dining so I think we need to tell them that we are going like the how it looks like inside I know maybe they there will be some music >> and music you know we don't do well with music for YouTube because of >> copyright and all those things >> so babe so >> we are going to a cave restaurant >> a cave restaurant and by the way the old nature a cave. It's not just a cave. It's a modern cave.

[00:34:03]>> So, it's a modern beach cave restaurant.

[00:34:08]It is also facing the view. I don't know. Let us think >> this is fine dining at it.

[00:34:18]>> Yeah. But we I think with all due respect, ladies and gentlemen, >> let us allow to welcome because she has welcomed us.

[00:34:26]>> Yes. at >> Eastanbul Beach Cave restaurant. Wow.

[00:34:31]Leila, please take us to this cave.

[00:34:34]We've not been here. We've not been here before.

[00:34:47]Oh, so even kids.

[00:34:49]>> Yes.

[00:34:51]>> Oh my god.

[00:34:52]>> Yes. And you know why I know that?

[00:34:55]>> It's because one of the legs the Formula 1 >> Wow. goes >> there. Wow.

[00:35:00]>> Would you look at this? Oh my gosh.

[00:35:05]Oh, okay. This is Oh, this is something.

[00:35:09]This is gorgeous.

[00:35:12]Oh la, my go.

[00:35:16]Oh my goodness.

[00:35:45]Heat.

[00:35:47]Heat.

[00:35:56]Heat up here.

[00:36:21]Heat. Heat.

[00:36:42]Heat up here.

[00:37:22]Heat.

[00:37:25]Heat.

[00:37:57]Wow. You have food in the restaurant and then you have >> and then you enter the mouth.

[00:38:03]>> Then you have then you spit out again.

[00:38:07]>> Hi.

[00:38:08]>> Hi.

[00:38:09]>> Oh, look at this. Oh, >> gorgeous. Gorgeous.

[00:38:16]>> Oh my lord.

[00:38:18]>> Oh, it's >> Hey.

[00:38:23]Oh, >> this was the plan.

[00:38:28]Oh, this is so beautiful.

[00:38:33]>> A happy anniversary.

[00:38:36]Oh, >> wow.

[00:38:38]>> This is so cute.

[00:38:41]>> Yeah.

[00:38:43]>> 8 years of being together.

[00:38:45]>> A >> and many more that await ahead.

[00:38:49]>> A >> and look it has a love heart.

[00:38:52]>> Oh yeah.

[00:38:54]>> So many more years with love.

[00:38:56]>> Oh wow. It's beautiful.

[00:38:57]>> It's amazing.

[00:38:59]>> So, shall we just eat an engagement?

[00:39:01]>> Yes.

[00:39:02]>> All right.

[00:39:05]>> Oh, this is gorgeous.

[00:39:10]>> You know, when you're coming to we are sing for other people.

[00:39:16]>> There was a plan.

[00:39:17]>> I Your shoes here.

[00:39:20]>> Oh, I know.

[00:39:36]Wow.

[00:39:36]>> Oh my goodness.

[00:39:37]>> What a night.

[00:39:38]>> What a night. It just keeps unfolding and unfolding.

[00:39:42]>> What a night.

[00:39:43]>> Not even a night. Like what a day. It just keeps >> Yeah. We began unfolding.

[00:39:47]>> Yeah. It began out uh at the cave having our dinner.

[00:39:52]>> Yes. like you just saw.

[00:39:54]>> Uhhuh.

[00:39:55]>> And now we outside because they told us would love for you guys to have dessert.

[00:40:00]>> A surprise for us in the surprise.

[00:40:02]>> Can you imagine? We would like for you to have the dessert outside. So I'm asking the girl who is serving us some >> like the outside area so we can just you can take more pictures. Then I'm like she's like >> uh maybe maybe >> but anyway, look at this beautiful set.

[00:40:21]Such a beautiful.

[00:40:22]>> We had a beautiful uh time here.

[00:40:25]>> I mean, it's a way by the we never forget how we marked our 8th anniversary.

[00:40:29]>> We will never forget. Thank you so much, >> Pride Flamingo.

[00:40:34]>> Courtesy of Baches Explorers.

[00:40:37]>> Absolutely.

[00:40:38]>> You guys, we had not planned any of this. We just thought that, >> you know, we'll come for a family vacation >> and I mean just spend it with our kids, which we didn't mind. But, I mean, turns out, look at this. Yeah, something special. But anyway, >> yes, >> for the eight years, >> I just want to say >> that I love you so much >> and let's I I feel like we have really really grown.

[00:41:03]>> Mhm.

[00:41:05]>> To me, >> y looking back at those eight years.

[00:41:11]>> Yes. and comparing maybe with year 2 or year 3 or year five we have really really grown >> and that is something that I'm so proud proud of us of you >> the part you have done to grow and of me the part I have done to grow because it's um >> it's a combined effort >> yes >> like if if I was to grow alone and you you remain the same place where I found you at year one >> we definitely would not be here and vice versa so >> I appreciate us >> yes >> for the growth.

[00:41:42]>> Yes.

[00:41:42]>> And this is just the beginning. Like I have really really enjoyed >> especially this year. Is it this year or the past like two years? But this one especially >> and the season where we are in >> uh I have really enjoyed. Yi >> thank you so much for being an amazing man for being an amazing father >> a present one as well and a present husband and an amazing husband. Like I would not trade you for anything.

[00:42:11]>> I'd still choose you.

[00:42:13]>> 8 years still I'd choose you.

[00:42:17]>> Wow.

[00:42:17]>> Again and again and again.

[00:42:19]>> Wow.

[00:42:20]>> You are becoming better and better and better into the purpose that God called you as my husband.

[00:42:26]>> I love that.

[00:42:27]>> And the father of our kids. Yes.

[00:42:29]>> What I love and what I I would say also to you is that what you sgested is because of our team effort. is because of what we both input to ensure that we become >> and uh you know cuz we we we help each other grow. You know in a relationship your spouse or your partner is your mirror.

[00:42:51]>> They help you see your flaws and help you do better or make correction make amends to become a better person. cuz some things I used to I used to do when I was um in year 1 of our marriage, >> I don't think I would still be doing them at year 8. And if I would be doing them, then I would have completely refused >> to move from where where we were then >> and not be where we are now. M >> so we appreciate you for also being um an amazing uh wife for being the wonderful uh woman that not me >> but the the woman that God chose you to be >> and I'm lucky that uh I get to be the one to enjoy that Proverbs 31 woman. Oh, >> and also being an amazing mom to uh two handsome boys and I love that and I tell you that a lot even even most of the time I tell you you know I sometimes I look at them and I look at you >> and I look at some of our dreams and I tell you I don't think >> uh would have traded them for anything and the Bible is very clear sometimes our desires >> um not what we always get >> uh granted >> because the Lord has a better and a bigger plan >> of our life than would us imagine cuz I look at those boys >> and I've you know I I I just put them side by side you and them and I can see just God at work >> vis sometimes I have had you a couple of times make this and ask this question >> I don't know whether I am ready for >> so I'm not saying it's bad but I'm just saying maybe God knew that what you're about what you able to handle right now >> is this.

[00:44:43]>> Yes.

[00:44:44]>> So I for that I think I would not trade you for anything else. Being the mother of our kids >> being a wonderful woman 31 woman >> and having shared your life with me for the last >> 8 years that God has kept us together in our marriage. And the promise that I give to you is that we will work on ourselves >> now until the end of time >> because like we took vows 8 years ago on a day like today >> that until death do us part.

[00:45:15]>> Yeah.

[00:45:15]>> Is there not any anybody not any friend not any family not anything going to separate us.

[00:45:23]>> Yeah.

[00:45:24]>> The only person who can separate us is God.

[00:45:27]>> Amen. So let's continue life together and I love you so much >> and happy anniversary my love.

[00:45:32]>> Happy anniversary >> to many more and to the third one. Is this where we launch the third?

[00:45:40]>> You never know. Stay tuned.

[00:45:51]>> Continue praying for us.

[00:45:54]>> Anyway, >> I love it so much here. Yeah. So guys, um that has been how we have celebrated our 8 years of nothing but love.

[00:46:05]>> And so when if you're out there, sometimes I get DMs and comments people asking and he advised me how you've been together this long or how you your marriage.

[00:46:15]>> The secret is one prayer >> and God keeping God as the center.

[00:46:19]>> And keeping God as the foundation and two >> is you putting an effort >> Yes. to work on yourself. Not work on the other person. Work on yourself.

[00:46:30]>> Yes, >> that's just it.

[00:46:33]>> Straight.

[00:46:35]>> Amazing.

[00:46:36]>> It works. But it is work. Put in the work. Anyway, >> let us enjoy the rest of our evening.

[00:46:43]>> Yeah.

[00:46:44]>> The rest now >> to enjoy. We reminisce and talk about our eight years, how it has been and what we need to do better forward. We're going to see you in the next episode of Give, Love, and Learn.

[00:47:00]>> Bye, guys.

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