Adult Haters...Usually Have Unhealed Childhood Trauma

Added: 2026-05-24

[00:00:00]You know, I'm not even going to lie. One thing that I just do not understand as I get older is how you could be a full-grown adult and still be a hater and still be jealous of other people.

[00:00:16]Like jealousy is one thing, but to actually go out of your way and hate on someone because they're doing better is just crazy.

[00:00:26]Um and I think it's a lot of probably childhood trauma or some type of issues that people just don't heal from that they could actually go around.

[00:00:38]Like as adults, I mean, we were all kids before, right?

[00:00:42]Growing up, maybe a kid had better shoes or he had a 64-pack of crayons and you only had the eight-pack or you know, maybe Right, that's all normal. That's part of growing up, but you grow out of that stage of feeling jealousy toward someone else or envy.

[00:01:03]Like people actually live in jealousy and they're jealous about dumb [ __ ] because they [clears throat] never healed from some type of childhood trauma. A lot of people be 30, 40, 50 years old jealous, competing, envious because they refuse to heal.

[00:01:31]I see this [ __ ] every day and it's just hard to believe.

[00:01:37]You know, I I had my stage again where growing up maybe in middle school, high school, feeling some type of jealousy.

[00:01:48]Maybe it was a girl that I liked and some guy got her or maybe um who knows? Just dumb [ __ ] right?

[00:01:56]But once you become an adult and you actually have control over everything, you have control control over the outcome of everything that you do.

[00:02:07]And a lot of people who be jealous don't be putting in any type of work.

[00:02:11]It's one thing to put in work and maybe not get as far as someone else get, but you putting in the same type of work.

[00:02:21]That may cause some type of, you know, comparison. I get that.

[00:02:26]But for people to want something, not put in any type of work. This happens a lot in the families.

[00:02:36]A family member will give up on their dream, on their plan, get comfortable, and then tell other family members how whatever they tried is not worth it and it's a waste of time.

[00:02:51]And then you come along and you go do it.

[00:02:55]And it's like, well, damn.

[00:02:57]Now that you went off and you did it, now that you went off and you did it, now they're jealous, now they're envious of you.

[00:03:07]Without realizing that, yo, you didn't put in the same amount of work.

[00:03:13]You don't have You don't receive the same blessings that I receive. A lot of people end up giving up. A lot of people may have failed. A lot of people, for whatever reason, and then they go around trying to discourage everyone else as to why they shouldn't do something.

[00:03:31]But you kept going, you made it work, you made it happen.

[00:03:37]And it's just wild how people close to you, friends, family, co-workers, whoever, they're jealous. And we're all older.

[00:03:47]Like, why Why can't you be inspired? Why can't you be motivated by someone else?

[00:03:53]I just I seen it at work.

[00:03:55]There's a lady who's been there I think 20 years. She's probably 50 years old.

[00:04:01]And she's been trying to get this position. A young girl come in, she end up getting a position.

[00:04:07]And now she's going around telling everyone how she she you know, she had to go off and do this and do that. Just badmouthing the girl. And it's like, damn.

[00:04:18]Just you a [ __ ] adult. Why are you Like at some point I just thought you grew out of that that stage of not feeling jealousy, that's just a normal thing, but actually going out of your way and trying to cause harm or cause rumors or some type of you know, some type of um bad image on someone. Like I just I just never understood that. But apparently, yeah, you have a lot of adults who who still walk around jealous and envious of other adults. And it's just a bad look.

[00:04:54]Um But yeah, do any of y'all struggle with this? Let me know in the comments what y'all think. I love y'all.