Why Attractive People Bring Out the Superficial in people

Added: 2026-05-17

[00:00:00]Yo, what is good, NF fam, man? This is a very important topic we're going to touch on a lot of people because, look, I know y'all in the comments be talking, but I'm one of them handsome guys. I'm just playing, but yeah, though. Um I can relate to this topic a lot, man.

[00:00:16]Um And I just feel like I go through this on a day-to-day basis, just in life in general, even just mindset-wise. And I feel like there's a lot of handsome people that look, you know what I'm saying, well put together, you know, woman or man, uh out there that go through this. Sorry, my eyes burning, y'all. I got smoke in my eyes.

[00:00:35]But >> [snorts] >> yeah, man, we're going to go ahead and see what these people got to say and let's see if we can relate.

[00:00:40]>> around people who just have a light or people who are pretty, I would say even semi- conventionally attractive, and your kind, people's behaviors manifest in such weird ways around you.

[00:00:59]And if you have strong discerning, you can always pick up on what somebody is really doing. I'm talking about behaviors like, if you're speaking to someone and then someone else tries to interrupt you multiple times, and it becomes like a repeated behavior over and over and over. If you are having a specific conversation about a specific topic, and then someone else tries to change the topic, people trying to ignore you on purpose. Um it's it's just things that you notice and you pick up on and you're like, "Why are you doing that?" It's behaviors that are so subtle and so small that you can't really call out because it would make you look crazy. You know what your experience is.

[00:01:46]I really feel for people who are super and uber attractive because I'm sure they have to deal with things on an every single day basis that are like that. They become distrustful because of it. People are very, very weird and it makes that person very jaded about everyone else because they don't know what they're what they're on with them.

[00:02:11]They don't know what they're on with them. Like a lot of people project their own insecurities on other people. Or like the worst thing is when people are secretly craving you telling them bad things about things that are going on in your life. The other day I told someone that I needed to drop my car off somewhere and they were like, "What happened?" And I was like, "Oh, nothing.

[00:02:35]I just need to get my two windows in the front re-tinted." And they were like, "Oh."

[00:02:41]And it was just the way they were just I don't know. To me, it felt like they wanted me to say something was going on with my car. It's things that are so subtle, but you know that they're doing that because it's their insecurity manifesting. Not talked about enough is Yeah, man. You would have us See, when you hear multiple people saying the same thing, you would think A lot of people become >> I'm sure my boy.

[00:03:11]>> [snorts] >> attractive guy. I'm not going to lie, I do get girls' attention and I'm not here to try to flex on anybody. I'm not here to make anybody feel better. I'm not here to inflate my ego. [ __ ] that. I'm here to actually help you. And I'm going to tell you this one thing that might just blow your mind because it blew my mind a couple years ago. And like just like you, all I cared about back in the day was getting girls' attention. All I cared about was the validation, the acceptance, people looking up to me. And that's what social media is making you believe. Right. However, once you actually start to do that, you realize how empty it is. You realize how superficial it is. Yes, getting a girl's attention is cool, but you can't even stick with one girl and then you want to say, "Nah, it's cuz I got options. I can be with whoever I want." Well, yeah, but bro, you want to feel fulfilled? Like as I'm I'm asking you, what is actually important to you? Do you think that that's what fulfills you? Do you think that that's what fills the void in your heart? Do you think that's what Purpose, my boy.

[00:04:07]But I feel where he's coming from.

[00:04:10]is a very important sign when you're really attractive that will happen to you and make make you feel a little bit weird.

[00:04:21]And that is that people are going to be intimidated by you.

[00:04:26]Intimidated by your look, your attractiveness, your beauty. And they won't approach you because you intimidate them. Your energy, your attractiveness, so ate and they will not approach or even try to make contact with you because of that.

[00:04:48]And I know This don't even have to be just people that could date you. This could be family, friends.

[00:04:56]This It gets sick, bro. You know what I'm saying? You get to thinking like, damn, like what did I do to these people? Is it me? You get to questioning yourself and reality, bro.

[00:05:05]>> [snorts] >> It don't be you. You don't be the problem, bro.

[00:05:09]You know what I'm saying? Like it be the people around you.

[00:05:13]Or it be somebody just trying to like you like she said in last slide, project. People be really like people are being go and try to project how they feeling or what they thinking or, you know what I'm saying, trying to humble somebody, make them feel lesser than who they is, you know what I'm saying, trying to avoid and just It be people just do crazy stuff, man.

[00:05:31]And it's it's like life is too short, man. People like me, I won't be having time to sit around and worry about what the next person or what, you know, anybody else got going on or what they doing to try to make a person feel some type of way. I'll be I'll be in my own world, like honestly, y'all. But, let's finish hearing what she got to say. No, it might feel weird and we do question ourselves, why if I am attractive or good-looking, why don't I get hit on more often or why why don't people approach? It's that they feel you know, people fear rejection. So, instead of you feeling insecure because you you don't get the attention or the I think you should, it's because people are intimidated. They're afraid of rejection. You're so beautiful, good-looking, and attractive that they won't.

[00:06:24]So, it will take a very special, very secure type of person to approach a very attractive person. There's one That's real, man. If somebody got the confidence to approach you, let it be genuine, though.

[00:06:38]Male or female.

[00:06:40]Then, you will know, like I wish I could Like facts. Facts. Facts. Facts. Facts.

[00:06:50]Let's see what she got to say. just walk around with a camera on me so you guys could literally hear the [ __ ] that I go through. Like, someone always has something to say to me every single day.

[00:07:01]Most of the time it's because they're insecure and they're pathetic, but if you are an attractive person, then you already know how it is. It's like, these people always have something to say every single day.

[00:07:14]>> [sighs] >> I have this really pretty dress on today. Mind you, it's about to be 80° in Vegas today. And this woman goes, "I'm dressed for the winter and you have that dress on. Are you not cold?" And I was like, "No. It's going to be 80° today."

[00:07:30]And she's like, "Oh, well, I'll be in my house by then."

[00:07:33]Like, okay. Like, I really wish I could just walk around with a camera so you guys could hear the [ __ ] that these people say to me.

[00:07:40]If it's not someone It's not one, it's another. I just Oh god.

[00:07:46]There's just too many crazy, insecure, pathetic people walking around on this planet. Like if you're an attractive woman, attractive man, you know, you already know how it is.

[00:07:57]Man.

[00:07:59]It's hard out here for a pimp, ain't no when you trying to get it in.

[00:08:04]Ain't no. Pretty girls notice that friendship Ain't no such thing, ain't no.

[00:08:11]Hold on.

[00:08:22]The more attractive you are, the harder the more the more attractive you We going to watch you from the side, ain't no.

[00:08:52]We going to watch you from the side, ain't no, that's cool. one the harder it is for you to find someone that you can date. And I mean seriously date. I'm not talking about DMing, texting, flirting, or linking here and there. We're talking long-term dating.

[00:09:07]Because the reasons that they found you so attractive in the first place are the same reasons that are going to make them jealous, they're insecure, to be able to trust you fully in a relationship. And this goes for men and women. Like they could DM you. And be like, "Oh my gosh, you're so fine, you're so beautiful, you're so sexy." I I I, whatever the case may be.

[00:09:27]Let's say you guys start to get to know one another. Now you start liking each other. Now it's over who's in your DM.

[00:09:33]Or if they comment on something, "Oh, like what what are all those females or what are all those dudes commenting on your page? Oh, where are you going? Why are you always at the gym? Why are you posting thirst traps? Why can't you cover up more? Those same things that they thought were so amazing when they first met you are the same reasons a lot of times that things fall apart.

[00:09:52]People have to be secure and nine times out of 10 really good looking people are great people. Don't get me wrong. There's some ass Facts, man. Facts. Nine times out of 10 holes out there, but everybody can be an [ __ ] from the most beautiful person in the world to the most below average, you know? And it I find it funny because again, the same things that these people thought were so amazing about you will be the same things that they use against you later on. You feel me? That's facts.

[00:10:23]That's why I get confused and then it's like, "Dude, what do I do? Who do I talk to?

[00:10:29]What's what's What's the next step, man? How do I change this narrative this perception, but you can't. Once you know once once you get perceived as that as that like, you know what I'm saying? It's it's it's I ain't saying there's nothing you can do about it, but you got to take that with a grain of salt, man. It is what it is. So, yeah, man. I'm about to go ahead and end this video.

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