Pour Minds | Episode 391: Overly Loaded ft. Bellygang Kushington

Added: 2026-05-12

[00:00:00]What was the most expensive gift you ever bought for a woman?

[00:00:02]>> A baby. [laughter] >> What?

[00:00:09]>> You really talk like a Atlanta man. For real. Like goddamn.

[00:00:12]>> Yeah, >> I just said that.

[00:00:15]>> I'm [laughter] trying to be professional. That [ __ ] talking about goddamn. But your name is professional. Victor, >> how you know my real name?

[00:00:20]>> We do our research over here. You like to people friends.

[00:00:24]>> When I said that >> cuz you always talking about a b. I said, "If your friend keep looking at me like that."

[00:00:30]>> Uhhuh.

[00:00:31]>> I wasn't even looking at your friend.

[00:00:32]She looking at me like that.

[00:00:33]>> Then you was looking back though cuz that's how you seen her looking at shoes.

[00:00:36]>> I mean, [laughter] >> I seen a Tik [music] Tok with you and my girl YK N. So you talking about I'm bringing my baby out and she rubbing [music] that belly gang.

[00:00:46]>> Nah, man. I love YKK.

[00:00:48]>> Do you want more kids?

[00:00:49]>> Yeah, for sure. I want a daughter right now.

[00:00:52]>> Baby right now. I don't give a [ __ ] how your ass.

[00:00:54]>> I don't give a [ __ ] how your ass.

[00:00:56]>> I know. That's right.

[00:00:57]>> You like funny girl?

[00:00:58]>> Yo, you know what I'm saying?

[00:01:01]>> First of all, just saying y'all might be a good match. Has this been your favorite interview though?

[00:01:06]>> Mhm.

[00:01:06]>> You lying.

[00:01:07]>> This my favorite interview ever. I love this interview.

[00:01:10]>> Now I believe you. You smelt some twerking before.

[00:01:12]>> I'm going tell y'all [music] for real.

[00:01:14]We was talking and like she had kicked one of these like ONE OF THEM.

[00:01:20]I'M LIKE, HOLD ON. [music] [music] [music] [music] What's up y'all? It's your girl Lex P >> and it's your girl Dre and Nicole >> and you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds >> where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

[00:01:54]>> We got a guest today. We got a guest today.

[00:02:00]>> I don't care what you got going on.

[00:02:02]Whatever club you in, if you bouncing that ass like your friend do, you done heard his verse.

[00:02:06]>> If you be like this, you need to leave.

[00:02:09]You heard his song, too. Y'all favorite rapper. Favorite rapper. We got Belly Gang in our belly. [crying] What's going on?

[00:02:17]>> I have a question. Where the name Belly Gang came from? We getting into it.

[00:02:22]>> Belly Gang. You just call me Belly Gang getting fat is it?

[00:02:26]>> Oh, were you offended?

[00:02:27]>> Gang or nothing like that.

[00:02:28]>> Oh, so you not affiliated?

[00:02:30]>> No. Hell no. No gang, none of that.

[00:02:33]>> Okay. It's cuz you had like a little beer belly.

[00:02:36]>> Yeah.

[00:02:36]>> Or that. But you know what I'm saying?

[00:02:38]>> You know I'm from Houston. In Houston we call it a drink belly.

[00:02:41]>> Oh, okay. Cool. Yeah, >> he be feeling drunk. You feel me?

[00:02:44]>> Don't do no drugs and nothing.

[00:02:45]>> Don't play with him like that.

[00:02:47]>> I just had to ask cuz when we see a belly gang, they them [ __ ] be sleep in the back of the club.

[00:02:52]>> They Yeah, they do. They be knocked out.

[00:02:55]>> Yeah. So, we we just had to make sure.

[00:02:57]So, first of all, I just want to give you your flowers and just say congratulations on all your success.

[00:03:04]>> I feel like every time we in the club, all we hear is you.

[00:03:07]>> Thank you. Thank you.

[00:03:08]>> How does that feel?

[00:03:09]>> Play a lot of you.

[00:03:10]>> Yes.

[00:03:10]>> It feel good. I still feel like I got a lot of work to do. But it feel good though the people going crazy to my music for sure.

[00:03:16]>> Yeah.

[00:03:17]>> How do you feel about like, you know, when people be trying to call people overnight successes? I'm sure a lot of people try to say that to you, but you know that you've been grinding for a long time behind the scenes. So, how does that make you feel if you see people say that online?

[00:03:31]>> I mean, really to be honest, like being serious, it only been like two years like being serious. So, like >> see now you made me mad.

[00:03:39]>> It kind of slick. feels like fast.

[00:03:41]>> So you like I kind of am overnight.

[00:03:43]>> Yeah. But like at the end of the day though, like I'm talking about my life, so like it took me a whole life to live this to put it out there. So like I don't really care what they say to be a >> Yeah. Yeah.

[00:03:54]>> I respect it.

[00:03:55]>> When did you decide to get What made you decide to be like, "Let me take this serious cuz two years I'm not going to lie, I've been singing since I was nine.

[00:04:02]I still ain't made it."

[00:04:03]>> Yeah. You made it for sure.

[00:04:05]>> No, I want a record. You going to put me on a record? I write you a hit.

[00:04:10]>> I'm trying to bounce that ass like she do. That's my friend.

[00:04:13]>> Nah, but um >> I can't even bounce that ass. So [laughter] don't look at me.

[00:04:18]>> So, but when you went to the studio, when was you like, "Okay, let me do this for real. For real." Cuz two years, I'm not going to lie.

[00:04:24]>> You ain't been grinding for real. For real.

[00:04:25]>> I really was just like like not really caring about rap for real. Okay.

[00:04:29]>> Just regular store. Kept getting locked up. Like the last time I got locked, um I was going to accept the 31. What that mean? I >> mean like three years do one in prison.

[00:04:40]Like >> so I was just like man I need to change my life. Like you know what I'm saying?

[00:04:45]I got a little paper like let me try to change my life.

[00:04:48]>> And the rap just work like you know what I'm saying? So >> that's crazy.

[00:04:52]>> And I got a son. He autistic. So like I was just looking at my son every day like man it's no way I'm going be able to be here for him. Like you know sometime you think as a parent like I got to raise my child for a certain amount of time. I might have to raise him his whole life.

[00:05:04]>> I'm like now I got to change my life.

[00:05:06]Like I'm definitely going to prison, definitely getting killed. Like I got to change my life for sure.

[00:05:10]>> So was that like the pivotal point where you was like, "Okay, I'm about to take rap series." Or were you rapping for a long time?

[00:05:16]>> I would like rapping like one song a year.

[00:05:19]>> Okay.

[00:05:19]>> Not really getting no emotion, not really focus or nothing like But that's when it was just like I don't really got I don't chose the wrong path my whole life. I know I'm talented at rap. So >> we just try that the professional way.

[00:05:32]You know what I'm saying? Mhm.

[00:05:34]>> I had started businesses and other stuff and became like quote unquote successful. So like I knew like let me learn the rap business, see how that go, >> you know, being what's for me.

[00:05:43]>> Okay.

[00:05:44]>> So being that you popped off two years ago, because I feel like the music industry changes so much all the time.

[00:05:50]Like it's always been a real grimy business, but now I feel like it's even worse. So how have you protected yourself business-wise?

[00:05:58]I don't really like come in nothing thinking like it's supposed to not be grimy like the business grimy.

[00:06:06]>> I just came from the worst type of business it is. So they really cakewalked to me.

[00:06:10]>> Points were made.

[00:06:11]>> Yeah. Like you know what I'm saying? You you wor about the police and all type of stuff like they really like a cakewalk for real.

[00:06:19]>> Somebody lying like that's nothing like >> Yeah. You used to that.

[00:06:22]>> Yeah. I mean you got to just lawyer up like my pretty straight. You know what I'm saying? lawyer. Lock in with a lawyer you trust. You know what I'm saying? Somebody who got something to lose. And you know what I'm saying? How I did it.

[00:06:34]>> You really talk like a Atlanta man. For real. Like I love how Atlanta men be like, "Goddamn."

[00:06:39]>> Yeah, >> I just said that.

[00:06:41]>> I'm trying [laughter] to be professional. I'm talking about goddamn >> got to be professional. This ain't nothing about this professional.

[00:06:49]>> Ain't nothing about this professional.

[00:06:50]But your name is professional. Your real >> Cushington.

[00:06:53]>> No, his real name.

[00:06:54]>> I don't know my real name. Oh, THAT WAS PROFESSIONAL TO ME RESEARCH over here at the poor man's headquarters.

[00:07:00]>> Okay, cool.

[00:07:01]>> Victor.

[00:07:02]>> Okay, cool.

[00:07:03]>> But y'all can't call him that on the streets. Only we can.

[00:07:07]>> Your no name after my uncle.

[00:07:09]>> So, did you have a nickname growing up?

[00:07:11]>> Yeah. Like Red Cush stuff.

[00:07:14]>> Okay.

[00:07:14]>> I don't really like like when people like make their own name up like so like that why my rap name is that cuz like that what other folk call me.

[00:07:21]>> Yeah.

[00:07:21]>> Okay.

[00:07:22]>> Yeah.

[00:07:23]>> I don't like when people make their names up.

[00:07:25]It's corny.

[00:07:26]>> It is >> like nobody call you big baller.

[00:07:30]>> NOBODY CALL YOU BIG DADDY. Nobody call you that.

[00:07:33]>> I mean some people do be getting called big daddy.

[00:07:37]Like I'mma go by it.

[00:07:38]>> No. Let me ask you this though cuz you be on I said this about Mona Leo the other day. I said you have to be careful when you ask Mona Leo for a feature >> because she going to eat you up and it gets quite embarrassing. Now, you've been featured on numerous of tracks, like a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot. And they be feeling like, damn, I just fast forwarded to Belly Gangver. How do you feel when people do that? Cuz it's like obviously you have a relationship with a person or a friendship with the person cuz I'm going say relationship later.

[00:08:07]You know what I'm talking about. But anyway, okay.

[00:08:10]>> You have uh like, you know, a friendship or a business relationship with the person, whoever song you on. How do you feel when people be like, "Damn, belly gang." I just fast forward to his part.

[00:08:20]Do you lean into that?

[00:08:21]>> I ain't never even seen that.

[00:08:23]>> I know you lying.

[00:08:24]>> I never seen that.

[00:08:25]>> I can tell all the time. I'm >> lying.

[00:08:27]>> Never seen that.

[00:08:28]>> Well, I'mma say what it is.

[00:08:29]>> I will say this like the people that I do songs with like ain't got nothing to do with no business. Like I just some when I'm in that studio, man, when that spirit come down, man, I just do it right. I don't care what's in front of me. It could be a homeless man playing blues on the corner. Like if it time, it time to go. Like you know what I'm saying?

[00:08:50]>> Do you freestyle a lot of your verses?

[00:08:52]>> I write and freestyle. It just depend.

[00:08:55]Like you know what I'm saying? Like the Dior one for instance. Like >> I kind of like freestyle that one based off what she was saying.

[00:09:03]>> You know what I'm saying?

[00:09:03]>> That's that's that spirit. I'm tell you right now, I don't give a [ __ ] how you act.

[00:09:08]>> We in the buy buying flights and buying bags. Sometime I like Sometime I like >> the spirit of a trick.

[00:09:15]>> Yeah. And we like that. We love the spirit of a trick. Right on.

[00:09:19]>> I'm saying I don't really think like at the end of the day. Did you listen to the whole verse?

[00:09:23]>> Did I?

[00:09:24]>> Did you listen to the whole verse?

[00:09:25]>> Yes.

[00:09:25]>> Okay, cool. Did y'all hear the act right part? [snorts] >> So you got to act right to get the thing.

[00:09:30]>> Are you getting You know, >> I'mma act right. You act right. You know what I'm saying?

[00:09:33]>> But it sad because you like to [ __ ] people. Friends >> when I said that >> cuz you always talking about a [ __ ] friends. I said that's just like your friend.

[00:09:42]>> Hold on. When I No, in DR song, he said, "Oh, your friend getting hit."

[00:09:47]>> Tell her.

[00:09:47]>> Yep.

[00:09:48]>> I said, "Okay, he did." Oh, I can't take up for you no more.

[00:09:50]>> No. Listen, listen, listen. I said, "If your friend keep looking at me like that."

[00:09:55]>> Uhhuh.

[00:09:55]>> I wasn't even looking at your friend.

[00:09:56]She looking at me like that.

[00:09:58]>> Then you was looking back though, cuz that's how you seen her looking at you.

[00:10:01]I mean with YOU [laughter] >> do people if somebody's dating you >> but I'm saying if somebody's dating you then we got to watch our friends have you >> you said don't date dating somebody >> but if we if we >> you are though we I seen you pull up to that water burger >> what water I don't even eat water burger >> or y'all pulled up to somewhere >> first of all no water burger slender would I ain't going to lie water burger nasty >> excuse me.

[00:10:31]>> I'm a real fat boy. Waterburg ain't there.

[00:10:33]>> You don't like waterburger?

[00:10:34]>> No.

[00:10:35]>> Okay. Being that being that from your I mean being from the fact that you're from Georgia, is it just Georgia water burger or is it like Texas Waterburg?

[00:10:44]>> I don't ate that why I ate water burger first before we had water burger like it was nasty then. [gasps] >> I just think it overrated. It ain't nasty. It's overrated.

[00:10:52]>> Okay. Well, Shay agree with him. So maybe it's just a Texas thing cuz she from Alabama, our producer. But Shay done took us a few places. We like so it's even.

[00:11:02]>> Okay. But let me ask you this now because I'm I'm messing now.

[00:11:06]>> I seen a Tik Tok with you and my girl YK niece and you I seen you at the concert.

[00:11:11]You talking about I'm bringing my baby out. Is that your baby or y'all together?

[00:11:15]>> I can't be my baby. What you mean >> y'all together?

[00:11:19]>> What you mean about it? We got a song together. It's a lot of stuff we do together.

[00:11:22]>> Do y'all do other things together?

[00:11:24]>> Man, no.

[00:11:25]>> She rubbing that belly gang.

[00:11:26]>> Nah, man. I love YK.

[00:11:28]>> That's all I had I had to know.

[00:11:30]>> No, I love YK. Like she she she a beautiful person for real.

[00:11:33]>> Yes.

[00:11:33]>> You know what I'm saying? So like we going to forever be locked in.

[00:11:36]>> You know, people have But you know what?

[00:11:38]I think people have like work wives and work husbands that make fire music together. Y'all need to always make music together. I don't care what goes on.

[00:11:46]>> We got We got like two uh new song coming out.

[00:11:49]>> Y'all need to do a whole EP.

[00:11:51]>> We got one on her album, one on my album.

[00:11:54]>> I'm ready for it. I am too.

[00:11:56]>> They make good music together.

[00:11:58]>> Yes. And speaking of Atlanta and being from Atlanta, cuz Y is from Atlanta.

[00:12:04]>> Where you from in Atlanta? Cuz we've been doing our research and online could be a lot of I believe that you from Atlanta, but it be a lot of discourse going on online. They be trying to say you ain't from Atlanta for real.

[00:12:14]>> Where they say I'm from?

[00:12:15]>> They be saying that you a industry plant.

[00:12:19]>> They be saying you from Orange, Texas.

[00:12:20]>> Yeah. They be saying you ain't really from Atlanta for real. I was born at Grady.

[00:12:25]>> Okay. He a Grady baby. Okay.

[00:12:27]>> I don't live in Adamville on Cameon, Dougville. I don't live a lot of everywhere.

[00:12:34]>> That is everywhere.

[00:12:35]>> So, you moved around a lot.

[00:12:37]>> Yeah.

[00:12:37]>> Okay. That's why people can't find you.

[00:12:39][laughter] I'mma find you in a >> I'mma find you in a yearbook.

[00:12:44]>> Yep.

[00:12:44]>> But I I believe it.

[00:12:46]>> I do too.

[00:12:46]>> I don't think it's like a a act. I think it just came out of nowhere like our private like I got a son he's seven like I tried the whole family thing and everything >> moved to Rome Georgia and everything like as a grownup like >> where is that >> didn't work out wrong Georgia?

[00:13:02]>> Mhm.

[00:13:02]>> Like two hours away.

[00:13:04]>> Northeast.

[00:13:04]>> Is it northeast?

[00:13:05]>> Yeah. North.

[00:13:06]>> Oh, okay.

[00:13:06]>> Y.

[00:13:07]>> So, how is the relationship with your baby mama now that you've blown up?

[00:13:11]>> Uh, >> you know her?

[00:13:13]>> Yeah. [laughter] >> I'll be lying. I'm sorry.

[00:13:17]The lion is just IN ME. DREA, WHY WOULD YOU ask me that? You know, I'm alive.

[00:13:21]>> Somebody's baby mama like >> is it time to get to the bed?

[00:13:25]>> No, I love I love I love my baby mama.

[00:13:26]>> That's what he said.

[00:13:28]>> Yeah. I mean, you know, it ain't work out as a family obviously. But >> yeah, >> since I blew up like it probably kind of weird for her. Like folk be noticing my little boy out in public. I don't really like that. You know what I'm saying?

[00:13:39]>> But uh >> yeah, it's it's it's what it is. But raising your son, I mean all serious >> seriousness, raising your son, like having a special needs son, how has that been for you? Like the balance of it, learning because special needs, everybody is different.

[00:13:55]>> So what have you done to like make sure you are doing the things that you need to do to show up as a parent and give him what he needs?

[00:14:01]>> Man, to keep it all the way 100, that rap stuff beam me up. Like I can't beat up her like I want to. I'm not a going to get up here and lie.

[00:14:08]>> Yeah.

[00:14:08]>> But obviously now I can flood the money like no other. Um, that helps a lot with everybody, the whole community. But I really can't do what I want to do.

[00:14:19]Like I was a full like hands-on dad.

[00:14:21]Like even when I left the house, like I was still doing two, two, three schedule with her like on and off like half and half, 50/50, like >> you know what I'm saying? So now it just like he just be there.

[00:14:32]>> Yeah.

[00:14:32]>> So it is what it is. I'mma figure it out though.

[00:14:35]>> Yeah. I think >> is your son is your son um verbal? Is he non-verbal?

[00:14:39]>> He just started talking like three weeks ago.

[00:14:42]>> Oh god. Okay. That's exciting.

[00:14:43]>> Yeah. Like he don't he don't talk like he don't know how to like if you be like you want chicken nuggets or a cheeseburger like he don't know like to say what he got to repeat what you saying.

[00:14:53]>> Okay.

[00:14:53]>> Yeah. But now he's starting to get like tired of like people not knowing what he trying to do.

[00:14:58]>> So he'll walk up and say like I want goldfish or like something like that. So he's starting to talk.

[00:15:03]>> Oh that's good. That's good.

[00:15:04]>> But he is considered nonverbal though.

[00:15:06]>> Okay. What's up y'all? It's your girl XP >> and it's your girl Dre and Nicole >> and y'all we are finally here. Y'all been blowing us up every time we post anything. Oh yeah, the tour tickets are live.

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[00:17:09]>> I think that's such a great thing though because so many of the time doctors be telling parents that their kids are going to be nonverbal and then a lot of the time the kids end up surpassing the doctor's expectations and the parents expectations. That's why I think you can't really put that label on them a lot of the time. You never know.

[00:17:25]>> They crushed me when they when they first told me they were like I was crushed like what?

[00:17:30]>> But I thought it was way worse than what it is though. You know what I'm saying?

[00:17:33]Like he he he he way more advanced in certain stuff. So it really like a a win and a loss in certain areas.

[00:17:41]>> Yeah.

[00:17:41]>> Yeah.

[00:17:42]>> Do you want more kids?

[00:17:43]>> Yeah, for sure. I want a daughter right now, [laughter] >> baby. Right now. I don't give a [ __ ] how you >> I don't give a >> I know. That's right. Well, let me ask you. Now that you're becoming famous, how do you feel like it's affecting your dating life? Do you feel like it's affecting it for the better or for the worse?

[00:18:01]>> Worse. Over. Really? Why?

[00:18:05][sighs and gasps] >> Everything on the internet.

[00:18:07]>> You know what I'm saying? Everything on the internet. Like >> it's just worse.

[00:18:13]>> And on top of that, I'm going tell you the truth. Like I'm going be honest with y'all up here.

[00:18:16]>> Mhm.

[00:18:17]>> So like it's one thing when you like a grown man and you go out in public and you be like, "Oh, I like her. I'mma pursue her." Woo. But it's another thing when it like you just wake up like like this everything that coming your way like it's like now I got to pick through like now I got to see like who here for this woo woo like yeah >> what I'm saying >> okay it's kind of hard >> so it's like a genuiness thing like you feel like you don't know when women when you're interested in a woman you trying to pursue her you don't know if she really genuinely interested in you for you or if it's because >> No I don't care about that I don't care about that I ain't one of them type people to be like oh well she might only want to be her cuz I'm belly gang. I'm Billy Gang C. like I I work hard to be this. I don't care if this how she like I'm not going back. So, you know what I'm saying? So, I don't care about that.

[00:19:05]I'm like >> I'm more so talking about like >> I It's so I don't know how to pick through this. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like >> so many options.

[00:19:14]>> That's first world. It's so many bad [ __ ] Which one do I choose? Okay, so I'm not going to lie. Our audience is full of women and they're fa in the DMs.

[00:19:25]And what is your type? Let the let the girls know what's your type. What >> your type, man. You got to be a good person. That's it. I don't got no type.

[00:19:32]>> You got a type.

[00:19:33]>> I don't got no type.

[00:19:35]>> If you look at my like ass.

[00:19:38]>> Not my roster. I don't got no roster.

[00:19:40]>> Yeah, you got little his past history.

[00:19:41][laughter] >> If you if you look at my past like everybody look different. I don't got no type.

[00:19:46]>> Okay. But Okay. But you said personality wise, you just have to be a good person.

[00:19:50]>> Yeah.

[00:19:50]>> You know what's crazy? Funny girls.

[00:19:53]>> Yo, being funny is a plus. You know what I'm saying?

[00:19:56]>> Okay, call up.

[00:19:58]>> You first of all, cuz I said, Drea, did you not I told you this when we was on the phone. I said I don't want to ask him that, but I have to ask cuz I >> Wait, >> you know, we interviewed you at the BET Awards, right? Oh, we did.

[00:20:12]>> You remember that?

[00:20:13]>> And I asked you this then, but I have to ask you again just just for everybody.

[00:20:17]How do you But I'm going to ask a different way. How do you feel when people accuse you of being white?

[00:20:24]>> I don't really feel nothing like I look white. So, you know what I'm saying?

[00:20:29]>> Now that I'm close up, it's a [ __ ] [laughter] >> Yeah, >> it's a [ __ ] >> Nah, I mean like you got >> But you do got blue. Your eyes. Yeah, they are blue.

[00:20:37]>> I mean, I'm mixed black and white. So, like, you know what I'm saying? My skin is white. Like, if I'm running from the police, they going to say white male running down the street.

[00:20:45]>> They not going to say black cuz they going to be >> You going to get away then. [laughter] I need to run with him or be like, "We'll let him go."

[00:20:51]>> Yeah.

[00:20:53]>> Suspect is not armed. Not a danger.

[00:20:57]Okay. But um Okay. We making jokes.

[00:21:00]>> Have you used that to your advantage though being that you was in the streets and stuff like that?

[00:21:04]>> I tried like I don't tried to white right in I don't tried to write that on white in jail. They reverse it back to black.

[00:21:10]>> Oh, >> they got close to see that beard.

[00:21:12]>> Yeah. Yeah.

[00:21:14]>> But it a it ain't saying [laughter] that no way.

[00:21:17]>> I like you. you funny.

[00:21:18]>> And you got to understand like white folk, they not going to accept it cuz they know it ain't.

[00:21:22]>> Oh, they know they kind.

[00:21:24]>> But I don't feel like they be knowing though because if we talking about going back to like civil rights times, it was so many black people that were passing as white.

[00:21:32]>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

[00:21:33]>> But I feel like if he if he honestly if he shaved all this, you could probably be passing.

[00:21:38]>> Yeah.

[00:21:39]>> Maybe.

[00:21:39]>> So >> more so cuz of the eyes.

[00:21:43]>> Babe, real.

[00:21:44]>> Why are you making that contact on?

[00:21:47]I don't know. N you got to understand the industry that we're in nowadays, >> [ __ ] be doing a lot of things to be more marketable.

[00:21:55]>> I ain't know about that. I ain't did nothing but get tattoos. That's the only thing I ever did to myself.

[00:22:00]>> What tattoos you got? What's your latest tattoo?

[00:22:02]>> Uh RP poo poo. My buddy died when I first started rapping.

[00:22:07]>> Oh no.

[00:22:07]>> Sorry about that. We done had [ __ ] died too. Her daddy died. My mama died.

[00:22:12]>> [ __ ] died is crazy.

[00:22:14]>> RIP. RIP, man. WE KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.

[00:22:18]>> I GOT MY DADDY TATTOOED, TOO.

[00:22:19]>> YEAH, SHE GOT THAT'S WHAT I SAID. WE KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. RIP TO THE gang gang.

[00:22:24]>> RP. Rest in peace to our fallen soldiers.

[00:22:27]>> It's Ty with some drink. My bad, y'all.

[00:22:29]>> Speaking of Ty.

[00:22:30]>> All right, >> Ty. What? [laughter] >> What she doing?

[00:22:35]>> Ty, what we drinking [laughter] today, my goodies? Because whatever you done put in these drinks got legs cutting up.

[00:22:43]Okay. Cuz it's meant to bounce that ass just like your friend do. [crying] >> Okay. It's reminiscent of the hoodie. I taste a little Wilsh's grape juice, >> you know. Yeah. So, it is actually. And so, then I'm about to load some more dice in there cuz this is called the overly loaded for our guy, Mr. Belly Gang Cushington today.

[00:23:00]>> Um, this has some tequila. We have some cherry lxardo laor. We have some lime juice. We have some uh Welsh's Concord grape juice in there. And then we topped it off with some ginger beer. And then I froze some grapes and they are frozen with some rosé. So that's still giving us a little bit of that sparkle. And then I added some loaded dice because we overly loaded in here. We too turned up.

[00:23:24]>> Let me try one of I got >> You want to try? I got I need that overly loaded. I'm trying to get loaded.

[00:23:29]I like that.

[00:23:30]>> But I know I have a good palette cuz I know grape juice when I taste.

[00:23:34]>> Well, I will say you do have a good palette cuz I feel like food that I even try like everything that I like is stuff that you have put me on.

[00:23:41]>> For real. Yes, >> it's a um I feel like the first time I tried es cargo, I was with you. The first time I tried caviar, I was with you and I like that. You know, I actually hated salmon for a long time till I moved to Atlanta.

[00:23:54]>> Y'all eat es cargo?

[00:23:56]>> We don't eat it.

[00:23:57]>> No, we tried it.

[00:23:59]>> Andrea it up, but she dressed it up.

[00:24:02]>> Like snails.

[00:24:03]>> It is. It snails. It snails. It's a French dish.

[00:24:06]>> I moved out of the house cuz it was too many snails on the porch one time.

[00:24:09]>> Okay. I don't like to see a little fork.

[00:24:10]>> He like I would never cook one.

[00:24:12]>> Yeah. Well, I think that I'm the type of person I'm an adventurous eater.

[00:24:17]>> But I do have a question though. When it comes to esargo, is it like exclusive snails or is it the ones that be on the porridge? Do it matter where you get it from?

[00:24:26]>> That's a good question. I don't know.

[00:24:28]>> I think snails is snails.

[00:24:30]>> But no, that's not the same cuz fish is not fish.

[00:24:34]>> What do you mean? Cuz fish is not fish.

[00:24:36]ho at you got to understand it's a difference between a tilapia and a sea bass >> but tilapia not real fish they said >> okay well it's a difference between a catfish >> Mhm. And the salmon, they taste totally different. And a whiting, you know, they eat swordfish, too.

[00:24:53]>> But you can eat both of them, though.

[00:24:54]>> I'mma eat it all.

[00:24:55]>> Exactly.

[00:24:56]>> I'mma eat eater.

[00:24:58]>> Okay.

[00:24:59]>> You eat up looking for a eater.

[00:25:04][screaming] [laughter] >> Y'all crazy.

[00:25:06]>> This your fault, belly gang. This man, Dre, what's the what we talking about?

[00:25:11]>> So, for the first topic, we're going to be talking about vulnerability in rap.

[00:25:17]Do we do we feel like we are missing vulnerability in rap songs? Like remember when LL Cooj came out with I need love?

[00:25:26]>> The rappers these days do not make ballads no more. Like that was almost like a rap ballad.

[00:25:32]>> You know what? I thought she was about to say the other LL Cooj song.

[00:25:35]>> What?

[00:25:36]>> This is hard to see. I want to make sure I go up. That's a ballad >> that Yeah, but that's also He had a R&B singer on a chorus though, too.

[00:25:45]>> Okay. So you talking about a solo song?

[00:25:47]>> Yeah, a solo song. So I feel like rappers are not coming out with ballads no more. Are we missing a vulnerability in a rap songs? I feel like all the all rappers be talking about these days is how bad the [ __ ] be >> having money.

[00:26:03]>> Y'all listen to my album.

[00:26:06]>> No.

[00:26:07]>> Are you going to be mad?

[00:26:08]>> Not yet.

[00:26:09]>> No. My whole today >> friend do like the only one that's like that. See, now I feel bad.

[00:26:15]>> Me, too. Cuz y'all probably heard it.

[00:26:17]>> They got some ballads on there.

[00:26:19]>> Like love songs.

[00:26:20]>> Love songs.

[00:26:22]>> I got one I got I literally got a song called Heartbreak. Me and YTV Fat. Hold on. What it called night? Break up.

[00:26:28]>> Break up.

[00:26:28]>> Yeah. I'm literally like, damn. We supposed to bought a house on the lake.

[00:26:31]Like, what happened to that? Like, yeah, I'm talking crazy.

[00:26:34]>> Oh yeah. I need to listen to that. You was hurt.

[00:26:37]>> Yeah, I was hurt. You think I ain't never been hurt?

[00:26:39]>> I'm not saying that, but I think that men don't never show that a lot of the time. So us as women, we could be we could be both going through a breakup. I done broke up with you, you done broke up with me, whatever. But I'm over here feeling like I'm really going through it and you over there okay because I think men and women handle breakups differently.

[00:26:57]>> Yeah. I'm probably going to handle it different but I'm going to make music for sure about my real feelings.

[00:27:01]>> Yeah.

[00:27:02]>> Yeah.

[00:27:02]>> And I think see that's what make it different with being a musician cuz you making music about it. But in real life, daytoday, women don't know that men be feeling the way that they be feeling cuz they won't say nothing.

[00:27:13]>> Yeah, I love my baby mama and they ain't got nothing to do with you. They vulnerable.

[00:27:16]>> They got everything to do with me, pick me, choose me, love me. Shout out to Grey's Anatomy. Anyways, I say all that to say, but that's the issue.

[00:27:27]>> The artists aren't the issue. We are.

[00:27:30]Cuz what he just said, >> he got a whole album full of like vulnerability and breakup songs, but we haven't listened to.

[00:27:35]>> Why? cuz we trying to pop that [ __ ] >> No, I do think the rap gang lack that though for real.

[00:27:39]>> Yeah, it does. But it's because the consumers like we aren't listening to that anymore. But I'm going to be honest with my ear. The reason I don't really like check for is because I think y'all are not making like I assumed >> that you weren't making that type of music. And that is I would take accountability for that because I think we don't take time to listen to albums and projects anymore. We just assume.

[00:28:03]>> Yeah.

[00:28:03]>> You know what I'm saying? Because I'm an assumer. Like I will be like, "Oh, this if I hear a single or two, I'll be like, "Oh, this is the type of music they make.

[00:28:11]That's this is all I need. I'm good."

[00:28:13]You know what I'm saying?

[00:28:15]>> Who's your favorite rapper?

[00:28:16]>> I don't got no favorite rapper. I don't have a favorite rapper.

[00:28:20]>> Who do you have a favorite artist?

[00:28:22]>> Yeah. Um, probably like Michael Jackson or Adele, something like that.

[00:28:30]>> You be in the shower. Hello to the other side.

[00:28:34]>> I KNOW. THAT'S RIGHT. I love that. Um >> those are some good peaks though.

[00:28:40]>> Who is um a a woman rapper that you haven't worked with that you would love to work with?

[00:28:47]>> A woman rapper that I haven't worked with that I love to work with.

[00:28:51]>> Yeah.

[00:28:54]>> I don't know, man. All the girls reaching out like so.

[00:28:57]>> I know.

[00:28:58]>> Yeah.

[00:28:59]>> I'm gonna reach out. I need that verse.

[00:29:01]>> Yeah, >> me and Dre doing a song for the tour. We are >> my verse.

[00:29:04]>> I got you.

[00:29:05]>> Let's get in the stove.

[00:29:06]>> I got you.

[00:29:06]>> We got one right over there.

[00:29:07]>> I write y'all a hit right now.

[00:29:09]>> We ready.

[00:29:10]>> Matter of fact, I got hits loaded up in the phone right now.

[00:29:12]>> Let's do I am so serious.

[00:29:14]>> We just need to have a quick little meeting.

[00:29:16]>> That's what I'm saying.

[00:29:17]>> But Lex going to be singing. So, who going to write your verse? Cuz he got mine.

[00:29:20]>> Matter of fact, y'all I'm tripping.

[00:29:22]That's who y'all I would love to do.

[00:29:24]>> Oh my gosh. I feel like we could like, you know, it's going to be like a TLC thing.

[00:29:28]>> Yeah. Except you're not going to be in the video. You got to move to the back.

[00:29:31]>> Okay, cool.

[00:29:32]>> You know what I'm saying?

[00:29:33]>> But we can do this.

[00:29:34]>> So then I would want him in the video.

[00:29:36]>> He not He not going to get a verse cuz he going to eat us up, [ __ ] He is not getting a verse.

[00:29:41]>> That's going to make it go platinum.

[00:29:44]>> He going to get it. [laughter] They going to hear his voice. They going to be like, I'm fast forwarding Dre and Lex verse. Y'all need >> And I'm okay with that long.

[00:29:52]Don't nobody do that. Don't nobody do that.

[00:29:54]>> Okay. Can I be honest and this is no shame because I love Dez Dior and when I play the song Dez ate her verse up.

[00:30:01]What's up y'all? It's your girl Lex P >> and it's your girl Dre Nicole >> and we are so excited and just amazed at how these tour tickets been selling out.

[00:30:11]So, we decided to do something special for y'all.

[00:30:13]>> Yes, y'all. So, if you and your bestie want to come to the Steel Sipping Tour 2026 and you have not got tickets yet, y'all need to make a cute little video and make sure that y'all tag us.

[00:30:25]>> Yes. So, the contest rules are you and your bestie, make a video. Just be creative. Do whatever whatever makes us laugh or we think you deserve to come to a show. It don't matter if the city is sold out, you can come. Make sure you # stills sipping2026 poorminds and make sure you hashtag the city you're in and we going to give away two tickets in each city. So get creative and get funny.

[00:30:49]>> Period. We want to see your funniest [ __ ] Okay. Yes. Cuz we y'all want these tickets tonight.

[00:30:54]>> Uhhuh. We'll see y'all soon.

[00:30:57]>> What's up y'all? It's your girl Lex P >> and it's your girl Dre and Nicole.

[00:31:01]>> And y'all know it's tour time and we still sipping in 2026. Period. And y'all know we got to come show our hometown some love. Harley, but always repping.

[00:31:13]>> And we about to be in the city May 30th.

[00:31:16]Make sure y'all pull up.

[00:31:17]>> Yes, y'all sold it out so quick. We had to add some more tickets on them. So yes, we got more tickets available for Houston. So y'all make sure y'all get them. We ain't adding no shows. We ain't doing nothing else. Y'all go grab your tickets. Poorminds.com.

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[00:31:34]>> Them tickets going to go fast. Mhm.

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[00:32:28]And this is why I get mad because I feel like people don't really listen to music. This is what the younger kids do cuz Dez ate her verse up and she whooping [ __ ] So keep it cute. You seen Dez whooping ass?

[00:32:39]>> I mean she was you [laughter] don't >> I think I think I think Dez >> she was getting busy. I think Dez stand on business in real life and on the track period cuz Dez ate her verse up.

[00:32:51]>> Dez stood on business on the verse and period.

[00:32:54]>> And that's why I was so confused cuz people was like oh I fast forward this verse and I'm like why? Because the song is tell me now. So she asking him like do you got a [ __ ] living in your crib?

[00:33:04]Tell me now, ho ass [ __ ] She said tell me now.

[00:33:07]>> Just let me know so I could decide what I want to do. She was asking the questions that y'all lowkey be wanting to know, but y'all didn't want to listen cuz y'all are haters.

[00:33:17]>> That's why they got in a fight in that club cuz hoes be hating.

[00:33:20]>> No, this going crazy though. Like her whole album really hard for >> It is. It is.

[00:33:25]>> We get We finn to get one. I'mma say Tell me tomorrow.

[00:33:29]>> That's going to be my song.

[00:33:31]>> I don't know. But I feel like you do you got to ask the hard questions. I don't know why women be scared to ask that stuff. I would rather know so that I can know what I'm getting myself into.

[00:33:41]>> Yeah. Like I'mma tell the truth every time about everything.

[00:33:43]>> You be telling the truth. So you ain't going to lie.

[00:33:46]>> Okay. So do you have a girlfriend right now?

[00:33:47]>> No.

[00:33:49]>> Okay.

[00:33:50]>> Belly gang.

[00:33:51]>> What?

[00:33:51]>> I don't know if I believe you behind it.

[00:33:53]>> I'm looking for a girlfriend.

[00:33:54]>> You want a girlfriend?

[00:33:55]>> Yeah. I want a wife, man. Kids and all that, man.

[00:33:58]>> Oh, that's so sweet.

[00:34:01]We going to find you.

[00:34:03]>> He said he ain't found a one.

[00:34:04]>> Okay, let me ask you this. We Okay, we're going on tour and let me tell you cuz you know how it is to sell tickets and do event. So, I'm letting you know like our tour like we sold out Atlanta in a day then we released a second day and it sold out in 15 minutes.

[00:34:17]>> Uhhuh.

[00:34:17]>> Are you going to pull up to the Atlanta show?

[00:34:19]>> For sure.

[00:34:19]>> You have to pull up and we going to find you a boo.

[00:34:22]>> Okay, cool.

[00:34:22]>> How about that?

[00:34:23]>> Say li.

[00:34:24]>> Oh, cuz the baddies listen.

[00:34:25]>> They be outside.

[00:34:26]>> Yes, we going to find you a boo.

[00:34:28]>> Say li.

[00:34:29]>> Cuz it don't matter. They You said it don't matter as long as they have a good heart.

[00:34:34]>> Yeah. As long as you're a good person.

[00:34:35]>> Oh yeah. We f to sell out another show.

[00:34:38]>> No, I keep it all the way real with everybody like who I come in contact with.

[00:34:42]>> Yeah.

[00:34:42]>> Yeah. Like we just friends. Like >> that's it. You told on yourself we just friends. They be the girl be in love.

[00:34:50]>> But that's honest though cuz I feel like you're not in a Hey, as a woman, >> you're not in a relationship until a man asks you to be his girlfriend.

[00:34:59]>> Okay, that's I truly feel that.

[00:35:01]>> Or ask you to like do girlfriend stuff.

[00:35:03]Like I'm not even asking for all that. I don't even want all that. Like girl get to talking about >> let me do this. Like let me take care of you while you sick. I don't even want all that, man. Just chill. Just vibe.

[00:35:12]Like we just chilling.

[00:35:13]>> You in coughing, sneezing. I'm good, ho.

[00:35:17]>> Yeah.

[00:35:17]>> Yeah. Know what I mean? Like then [clears throat] >> it get to the point where it's like, okay, like this how I eat every night anyway. So if you just with us, cool.

[00:35:27]But like this what I do every day anyway. This this where I'm going to go.

[00:35:30]This type of stuff I'm doing. girls get confused and get to thinking like, "Oh, >> this new to me, so like this this new to her, so like this what I want. This what I want to do."

[00:35:41]>> You know what I'm saying?

[00:35:42]>> You take her to Nou one night, she like, "Oh, we on a date." You like, "Me and my [ __ ] be here every Tuesday."

[00:35:48]>> I do like to date though. I do like to go on dates. I love to go on dates.

[00:35:51]Actually, I wish I went on rapper so I could like go on dates again regularly.

[00:35:55]>> That's You got to book the back room.

[00:35:57]>> Yeah.

[00:35:57]>> I be I be >> No. over. He said, "Shut up."

[00:35:59]>> He said, "He know you ain't got to."

[00:36:00]>> HE SAID, "SHUT UP, GIRL.

[00:36:02]>> I GOT THIS." BUT NO, I say that because I agree with him though because sometimes a man will just be courting you and treating you accordingly and he's trying to get to know you and maybe he don't like you, but this is his standard of dating, but you look at it like, "Oh, this is my king, my hero."

[00:36:22]>> But this the thing though, like I [clears throat] can like you. What's wrong with light? I be telling folk that like what's wrong with like >> you know what I'm saying? This the perfect level we at right now. Let's just keep it there. Like >> No, I agree. And that's why I was saying like I don't never consider myself in a relationship with somebody until they let it be known that they want to be in a relationship with me. Like if you ask me, you have to ask me formally to be your girlfriend. You need to write the old school letter. Check yes or no.

[00:36:49]>> Okay, >> now I do agree with that.

[00:36:50]>> Or you need to send me some roses. Ask me to be your girl. Like it needs to be a a gesture. Like, I need to know that you trying to be my man. Not that we just been spending a whole bunch of time together. Not that we done been on a few dates. That's not good enough. I need to know that we on the same page. And then I'll start telling people I have a man.

[00:37:08]>> I agree. But most women's minds aren't like that cuz >> But it should be, >> right? But I feel like the situations that like you have been in or like I have been in, it's like we go on a date with a [ __ ] and they be like, "So what we doing? Is you my queen?" But that's a question, [laughter] >> right? You asked me, >> right? But what I'm saying is for his experience, it's not necessarily like that. Like he might be trying to get to know somebody.

[00:37:33]>> I ain't going to lie. Falling in love in 10 minutes. I'm walking right up. I love you, uh, Pisces.

[00:37:39]>> Oh, we love a Pisces, man.

[00:37:42]>> Y'all are so in tune with y'all emotions.

[00:37:44]>> I'm walking right up, man. I'm in love with you. I don't even know you. What's up?

[00:37:47]>> Mhm. But then if she say, "I got a man, belly gang, my man." You going to be like, "Man, we just went to Nou.

[00:37:55]Ruth Crease, I don't even know you like that.

[00:37:58]>> Do [ __ ] still eat at Ruth Crease? I don't. Not for real.

[00:38:00]>> I haven't been to Ruth Crease in Ruth in a minute.

[00:38:03]>> What was the most expensive gift you ever bought for a woman?

[00:38:06]>> A baby.

[00:38:08][laughter] >> What?

[00:38:13][screaming] >> I'm still paying for it to [laughter] >> Okay. Okay. What's the second most expensive gift?

[00:38:19]>> Uh gift? I don't know, man.

[00:38:23]expensive gift.

[00:38:25]>> Something something that you like and buy.

[00:38:28]>> Yeah.

[00:38:29]>> I don't know, man. Probably a bag or something like that.

[00:38:32]>> Okay. We like a little bag. We love a little bag. It's love the bag. I'mma ask him after the camera.

[00:38:38]>> No. No. I take that back. Some ice. Some ice for sure. I'm tripping.

[00:38:43]>> Some ice.

[00:38:44]>> We love a good gift now.

[00:38:46]>> Yeah, for sure.

[00:38:46]>> Love a little ice.

[00:38:47]>> Period.

[00:38:48]So, one thing about [snorts] us, we get off going to get off.

[00:38:54]>> What's the most expensive gift y'all done got >> that I done bought for a man.

[00:38:59]>> I bought a few things.

[00:39:00]>> I was saying that y'all done received.

[00:39:02]>> Oh, received a Range Rover.

[00:39:04]>> Big Range Rover. And I was in this [ __ ] like that by paid off.

[00:39:08]>> She said paid off.

[00:39:09]>> Yeah, cuz I feel like you got to say that part cuz you know people >> Y still together.

[00:39:14]>> We was never together.

[00:39:16]>> Oh, damn. you. Okay, cool.

[00:39:18]>> It was a big movie.

[00:39:19]>> You clear? Y'all ask me like on [laughter] the you >> and it was a grand old time.

[00:39:26]>> Yeah, we was never together. We was never together. But yeah, like I I do feel like you got to say that part though cuz dudes be buying girls gifts and then they be giving them a car with a car note. To me, that's not a gift.

[00:39:36]>> Oh, that's definitely not a gift.

[00:39:37]>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

[00:39:38]>> And you ate that.

[00:39:39]>> Yeah, that's not a gift.

[00:39:42]>> So, yeah. Lex, what's yours? Um, so I wouldn't say it was necessarily a gift, but it did help me with a lot of my debts. Um, a guy I was dating paid my student loans off.

[00:39:51]>> Oh, that's hard.

[00:39:52]>> Yeah. So, it was kind of like a um, you know, a little one, too. And I was happy about that.

[00:39:57]>> Okay, cool.

[00:39:57]>> And at the moment, I was kind of mad because he used to be a lecturer >> and I hated that.

[00:40:03]>> But moving on later on in life when I was trying to get my credit together and things, >> that that [ __ ] slapped. [clears throat] >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, >> you know, it slapped really hard. So, yeah, that was the most like I guess it was a gift cuz I asked for something else, but that's what he gave me. And at the time, I was mad, but in the long run, it worked out in my favor.

[00:40:21]>> How y'all feel about like girls? Bang.

[00:40:26]>> I think you should.

[00:40:27]>> Same.

[00:40:28]>> I think if a man is, if y'all are in that space and this is your man and he's looking out for you, taking care of you, why wouldn't you by himself, why wouldn't you reciprocate it? I don't I don't understand that. I think you should. I say bought Jay-Z a short set.

[00:40:42]She said that in a song.

[00:40:44]>> Bought him a That was so good and made me want to buy him a short set.

[00:40:48]>> Oh, she did say that.

[00:40:50]>> Yeah. I think that that's nice to do. I think men love gifts and they love nice gestures just as much as we do as women.

[00:40:57]>> For sure. For sure.

[00:40:58]>> What's the best gift a woman ever bought you?

[00:41:00]>> Uh, lot of stuff. I just lost some Cardier the other day. The girls just went and bought them. Like >> you lost some what?

[00:41:08]>> Cardier. Oh, Cardier.

[00:41:10]>> I don't even really know her like that.

[00:41:12]But >> no, you know her like that.

[00:41:14]>> I know her. But like that was a good gesture for her, too.

[00:41:18]>> Mhm. She bought some Cardier. She said we be in love.

[00:41:22]>> She love you.

[00:41:24]>> If a woman is buying a man some Cardias, >> I love her too.

[00:41:29]>> I am I am This is Well, he said Pisces, I understood cuz I'm not in the signs, but I dated a Pisces.

[00:41:36]>> You ain't getting past me, belly gang.

[00:41:38]Okay, cool.

[00:41:39]>> I know exactly what's going on. I know what's going on.

[00:41:42]>> Pisces men are really in tune with their emotions and feelings.

[00:41:46]>> Not like in a sensitive way, but just like don't mind expressing themselves type of way.

[00:41:52]>> It's three [ __ ] over there. Y'all got about four, five sisters.

[00:41:56]Talked about your break. Well, you talked about your feelings and like kind of breaking up with somebody. That makes sense.

[00:42:02]>> Mhm.

[00:42:04]>> All right. What's the next topic? Topic two.

[00:42:09]>> What you say about them over there?

[00:42:11]>> I said it's three [ __ ] over there.

[00:42:13]Each of them probably got like five sisses that they call sis that you >> What's up, sis? You know, [ __ ] you know he love you.

[00:42:20]>> Oh, no. No, no.

[00:42:21]>> What's up, sis? You know he love you, girl, man. He sleep, man. He tired after the show.

[00:42:27]>> No, man.

[00:42:32]>> Hey. Hey. None of them said looking his eyes. He was looking down.

[00:42:37]>> Nah, >> I'm watching y'all.

[00:42:40]>> I'm a good guy, man.

[00:42:41]>> You say what?

[00:42:42]>> I'm a great guy.

[00:42:43]>> I You know what? Let me stop doing that cuz you know what it's me doing? I'm letting the past and thing I'm I'm prejudging you.

[00:42:51]>> Okay.

[00:42:51]>> You are a good guy. Cuz you know what? I I've been I've been I've been trying it this whole episode and you ain't slipped up yet.

[00:42:57]>> Give him another shot. Ty, >> you want another one?

[00:42:59]>> Yeah, he need to slip up. It's time to slip up.

[00:43:02]>> Come on. Let's slip up then.

[00:43:03]>> All right. Go ahead, address. Topic two.

[00:43:06]>> Okay, so for topic number two, why do men wait until you're ready to move on to finally get their [ __ ] together? Cuz that's a common thing with men. Like you'll be asking a man the whole time y'all in a relationship, can you do this? This is what I like. You be dropping hints, you be sending text messages, sending reals, all type of stuff. And it is not until you decide that you don't want to be with them no more that they finally be like, "Okay, let me start doing the stuff that she asked me to do." Why is that a common theme with men? Why does it take for you to lose your girl or damn near lose your girl for you to finally want to do the things that she asked you to do or get it right?

[00:43:45]>> You started off with like a rhetorical question aimed at me, but uh >> No, it wasn't aimed at you.

[00:43:50]>> I was aimed at you.

[00:43:52]>> Oh, okay.

[00:43:52]>> It wasn't It wasn't I promise it was a general question. Don't just mess with you. Uh >> I don't know. I think like back when I did >> used to be like that. Like it probably was just like >> I don't know just focused on so much other stuff and then now like oh I'm being woke up like I'm going to lose or let me straighten up like I guess. I don't know.

[00:44:14]>> Now I'm just straight up like everything 100% around the board. So you know what I'm saying?

[00:44:20]Do you do you feel like it's because men don't think they can really lose the girl? Like for example, if you dating a girl and you do some [ __ ] up [ __ ] say you do it a few times and then she keep taking you back and then you like, "Oh, I got her. She ain't going nowhere."

[00:44:36]>> Do you feel like she just never going to leave and that's why y'all be feeling like I could just not change?

[00:44:42]>> I'mma feel like she not going nowhere.

[00:44:45]>> I'm just being honest. Like you know what I'm saying?

[00:44:48]I never really dealt with nobody like genuinely going somewhere though. Now that I think about it for real.

[00:44:54]>> Yeah. They might move on cuz they got to but like or like it just makes sense mature wise. But like >> if I wanted to I can What's up y'all? It's your girl XP >> and it's your girl Dre and Nicole.

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[00:48:49]>> Don't say we never gave y'all. You could. So, you feel like you got >> I would never do that though. Like, >> right. But >> I don't know cuz the way you said >> I would never do that. I don't even like girls that got boyfriends. Like that's a immediate turn off. Like if a girl like just want to [ __ ] with me cuz I'm a rapper but she got a boyfriend. I hate that. Like I'm not going to be that rapper that >> [ __ ] [ __ ] hold. Like I ain't doing that at all. Never. Like you know what I'm saying?

[00:49:12]>> I don't like that.

[00:49:12]>> It's crazy that you say that because I had a conversation with somebody about that and they were like success really successful men who are like securing themselves like they don't get off like that.

[00:49:24]>> No >> at all like dealing with you know it it it really is a difference. So, you don't have anybody from your past where you feel like, damn, that's the one that got away.

[00:49:34]>> Uh, I got one that I feel bad about, but like not really like >> she got away.

[00:49:39]>> Nah, >> you just feel bad how you >> think she got a boyfriend though. I don't know.

[00:49:43]>> But I would never hit her up and be like disrupt that. You know what I'm saying?

[00:49:47]I respect that. Like she probably got a nice guy living a good life.

[00:49:52]>> But if they broke up, >> they broke up. What?

[00:49:55]>> Would you?

[00:49:56]>> I don't know. Like I I I care about people. So like I know the life I'm living like he ain't going to be able to fit in this. So like >> I wouldn't even put nobody through this that ain't ready for this and then >> enter in like this. Like she know me from a whole another life. So like now it just like you couldn't I wouldn't even want nobody to learn this. Like this [ __ ] treacherous. I'm sure y'all know. So >> yeah. I mean, and also too, just because something didn't work out with you and a person and you might feel bad about how it ended, that doesn't mean that you want to rekindle it or that you >> want to get back with them or that y'all would be a good fit. So, you probably just like, damn, I wish it wouldn't have >> ended that way, but she probably better off.

[00:50:36]>> Ain't a really end bad. I just wish like I don't know. I don't know, man.

[00:50:41]Sometime be wish like, damn, should I have became a rapper? Like, >> but like this my passion like this for me. So whatever came with it just come with it. Kind of like my son like >> I wish I could be there every day but I know this more important.

[00:50:54]>> Like he want a roller coaster in the backyard like this what I got to do.

[00:50:57]>> Mhm.

[00:50:57]>> You know what I'm saying?

[00:50:58]>> So what businesses outside of rap do you want to do?

[00:51:01]>> Do I want to do? Probably none.

[00:51:04]>> This is really what I want to do.

[00:51:05]>> Okay.

[00:51:06]>> Like I probably say like after I'm done with rap.

[00:51:08]>> Yeah.

[00:51:08]>> I might want to [ __ ] with tech or something like that. I got ideas and stuff like that.

[00:51:13]>> See you. You know what? We need to link him with Chameleonire.

[00:51:16]Chamila used to rap. Now he good. He We move. Yeah.

[00:51:21]>> But that's like a I don't even want to focus on nothing but this.

[00:51:25]>> Like you know I really do this free for real.

[00:51:28]>> What?

[00:51:28]>> Like I love this rap stuff. Like what I do for real. Like I like this for real.

[00:51:33]I ain't just looking at this like a check.

[00:51:35]>> Yeah.

[00:51:36]>> You know what I'm saying? So >> you do it for the love of the game. But I always say that >> you don't charge for features. Do us one.

[00:51:41]>> I don't charge for features.

[00:51:43]>> You don't? Well, we about to call you tomorrow.

[00:51:45]>> No. We f to do this [ __ ] right now.

[00:51:47]>> We got 500 600,000 in features waiting.

[00:51:50]Like I won't charge for features. Like I got to feel it like feel.

[00:51:53]>> You know what? Sometimes you just, you know, get a little one too. Put it >> n I don't feel.

[00:51:58]>> All right. I tried >> doing that.

[00:52:01]>> Well, okay. So when what what do you charge for then? Like what do you decide that you going to charge for?

[00:52:10]>> Shows, deals, uh >> some people you need to charge. I show everything else features. I feel like that's my art. So like, >> okay.

[00:52:18]>> It don't make sense for us. Like, no.

[00:52:21]>> I'm glad you said that cuz it be a lot of people that should >> Well, you got to understand like I'm talking about charging up front, you know? Like you do the splits and all that. Like we own, you know what I'm saying?

[00:52:29]>> Oh, >> like it basically like I feel like I need to own this much of the song because of this. Like, you know what I'm saying?

[00:52:35]>> Oh, you ain't like I'm just getting it out. Like, nah, cuz we ain't just getting that. What the hell? No, >> we ain't just getting that.

[00:52:41]>> You playing chess.

[00:52:44]Yeah.

[00:52:45]>> Yeah.

[00:52:46]>> That how it go. That that's the industry standard though. Like >> I didn't know that.

[00:52:49]>> Y'all do a song together like y'all split it up half and half.

[00:52:51]>> I thought people was just paying for a feature and you go about your day.

[00:52:55]>> Nah, >> didn't know that. I learned something today. Go ahead.

[00:52:57]>> Some people be like, "I want 100,000 and half the song." Like, >> damn.

[00:53:02]I want zero dollars and you can have whatever you want. I just need a I just need a verse.

[00:53:06]>> Yeah.

[00:53:07]>> But you know what? I feel like I saw that the other day online and I can't remember what artists said this but they was basically like whenever they do features they make it mutually beneficial. Like it's like feature for feature because they don't want the artist to want a portion of the proceeds from the song.

[00:53:24]>> So it's kind of like if I do a verse for you, you do a verse for me >> and we Yeah. Yeah.

[00:53:30]>> My [ __ ] might be harder than yours, >> right? And that's what it is. So that we don't have to split it.

[00:53:34]>> Well, usually that's what the paperwork say. Like it'll say like they that that person want to swap.

[00:53:39]>> Oh, okay.

[00:53:40]>> But like me, like I go in the studio and feel like this what I want to do. Like I'mma hit that artist up and be like, "Hey, you sent me a song. I really like it. What I'm going to do?" Like >> I'm not going to be like, "Hey, you owe me a verse. Send it back. Woo." Like, nah, I'm doing it cuz what I want to do.

[00:53:56]The lawyers can put all that in there, but like I don't even really play paperwork games. Like just give me my half of the song. I'm good. Like >> Yeah.

[00:54:02]>> You know what I'm saying? But like that just like like Montana like me and Montana I I got on his song. I think the paperwork say we all swap. But like I know like me and him probably going to do music in the future anyway.

[00:54:16]>> Yeah.

[00:54:16]>> So it's just like >> And you don't want to force it like I just did this so you have to do this now.

[00:54:20]>> Exactly. Like I don't care about that stuff. Like I just did a song Big Deploy. Like >> I know like his roll out like he going to use the song I did on feature for him >> but like I'm not going to come in the middle of his roll out and be like give me a song that just don't even make sense. You get what I'm saying?

[00:54:37]>> Mhm.

[00:54:38]>> Yeah.

[00:54:38]>> That's smart.

[00:54:40]>> I didn't know like I thought every time I saw somebody on the song they was featured. I thought I was like damn I wonder how much they paid this person or paid this person. But that's very interesting. H Okay. Go ahead. Sorry. Go ahead girl. I'm a little chatty today.

[00:54:54]That's all, babe.

[00:54:55]>> So, to get back to the topic, [laughter] do you ever feel like men know intentionally what they doing wrong in a relationship or they have to wait until it's over to finally recognize like the error of their ways?

[00:55:13]>> Uh, y'all ask me for all the game, ain't it? Uh, [laughter] >> no. Uh I I I think it's like both on like sometime I have felt like damn I know I'm doing it wrong. Like but then sometimes like >> 6 months after the relationship I've been on look back like I ain't even know I was doing that wrong but I see now like I was doing that wrong. I think when you get with your next partner like you learn about the one before.

[00:55:38]>> You know what I'm saying? Cuz you be like she sure do that different than her. Like I do that different than him.

[00:55:43]Like you know what I'm saying? Stuff like that.

[00:55:46]>> That makes sense. But then I also feel like with women, where do you find the disconnect? Because I think if you tell men a lot of the time when you in a relationship, they'll feel like you nagging. And then if you get out the relationship, they'll be like, "Well, damn. I ain't even know I was doing this wrong when you break up with them."

[00:56:03]>> Well, it depend on if you crying wolf.

[00:56:05]Like if you cry, if you just run around here just crying about stuff that don't matter, then when you get to crying about something that do matter, like I ain't even I'm look at that as like you nagging.

[00:56:15]>> Okay. But if you like grown women like, "Hey, look, I'm coming to you about something like need to be emotionally intelligent and understand what I'm saying." Like, you know, you should definitely understand.

[00:56:26]>> Mhm.

[00:56:26]>> Let me ask you how you feel about this.

[00:56:29]There's some men that are watching right now that's going to be mad. I've noticed men will hate on other men when they feel like women date men that have things going on, that have money and things like that. So, how do you deal with men hating on you?

[00:56:43]>> I ain't never in my I thank God today on my son head I can lay down go to sleep every night knowing I never hated on another man like that >> my big brothers and cousins taught me that from day one. So like >> when it come my way I just act like it don't even go on.

[00:57:00]>> You got to think like especially with a girl like that that shows a girl who she need to like.

[00:57:05]>> Mhm. I'm glad a man said it.

[00:57:08]>> Like you get to hang on somebody like a girl going to know like okay cool like that who I need to be looking at then.

[00:57:14]Like, you know what I'm saying? You can't never downplay nobody to up yourself. That would never work. I don't know why people do that. Like, that's crazy.

[00:57:22]>> Okay.

[00:57:22]>> Yeah. I actually hate that for real.

[00:57:24]>> I mean, they do that. I think a lot of men, they be happy like when they see a woman going through something because she chose this man that's successful or anything. So, when something happens between them, they be like, "See, see, you should have gave this type of person a chance." But I feel like that's more so of your character versus your net worth. Like if a person is a bad person, that has nothing to do with the amount of money they make. You know what I'm saying, >> man? Let be real, man. Don't no girl want nobody who ain't got this type of life figured out. Like, >> you know what I'm saying? I ain't talking about this. I'm talking about like in 2026, like you at least want somebody who is living in their purpose.

[00:57:59]I mean, >> whether that's >> TOOK [laughter] T.

[00:58:06][laughter] >> YEAH. Like no matter what you doing, like you could be a locksmith or a plumber or whatever you doing, like leaving it in your purpose, like you know what I mean?

[00:58:16]>> Yes. I'm glad you said that cuz >> I like men that be sure themselves.

[00:58:20]>> Yeah, >> I agree. I'm glad you said that cuz I feel like sometimes when women say it's like it comes off the wrong way, but like I feel like it's a group of people that just be so happy. Like when women get played or a man does something, I'm like you are living vicariously through somebody who doesn't even know you.

[00:58:36]Money that you'll never have. But you have to understand that this has nothing to do with their job but who they are as a person. You know what I'm saying?

[00:58:45]>> So I just had to ask that. Okay. So now it's time to get into >> the >> bow about bow bow bow.

[00:58:58]>> So the bed topic is >> brought to you next topic but >> Oh the bed be e d we saying >> I ain't >> they never know. They never know what we saying.

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[00:59:37]>> Yeah, you do.

[00:59:38]>> Have a girl ever been bouncing like her friend doing that twerk win? Was funky?

[00:59:43]>> You smelt some twerk before?

[00:59:44]>> Cuz she need some.

[00:59:45]>> Let's keep it real.

[00:59:46]>> I'mma tell y'all some real [ __ ] >> We want to hear the real [ __ ] >> We want to hear it.

[00:59:50]>> This the real [ __ ] >> We'll send her care package as well.

[00:59:54]>> Nah, I would never.

[00:59:55]>> No, we I would never even let her know this. But >> how can I say that where she wouldn't know? Okay, I'mma say like >> in the recent past, one of the baddest I ever seen in real life, >> right?

[01:00:12]>> I'm like, no way. And she unknown. Like, no way. Like, something got to be wrong.

[01:00:17]>> It was.

[01:00:18]>> And they got that paper like, and they proving it and boo. Okay, cool. I linked with him.

[01:00:26]I don't know what it was. Like, [ __ ] went right. It went right. You know what I'm saying?

[01:00:33]>> It smelled like three cans of bounce that ass.

[01:00:35]>> And I don't even I ain't even the type of person like this girl will never know who I'm talking about now. Like like >> just went right. So >> that was crazy to me. Like everything else >> everything else was like, you know what I'm saying? So it just like I don't know.

[01:00:51]>> When did you smell it? When she sat down, when she was dancing >> and y'all was in the bed.

[01:00:56]>> When was it? Was it What? What was it?

[01:00:59]Was it musty? Was it >> See, this is why you got to keep >> You have to keep this in your bathroom for the women that come visit you.

[01:01:05]>> Yeah, babe.

[01:01:06]>> I'm serious. I think every >> And a little bit of the oil, too.

[01:01:09]>> If you got women coming through, just keep that salt extra in your bathroom.

[01:01:13]Give them an option.

[01:01:15]>> I'm I I think >> a little smell.

[01:01:17]>> If you have needs to keep that in your bathroom.

[01:01:19]>> Yes. Keep it in your bathroom so she can go >> smell good, right?

[01:01:23]>> She can freshen up a little bit.

[01:01:26]>> Little oil.

[01:01:27]>> Listen, check.

[01:01:27]>> Where was y'all at? Check this out. I'm not f to say that, but check this out.

[01:01:32]>> Check this out. If you got to do that >> on top of that, like, nah. I don't even want that to mask what going on. Like, I'm talking about >> I'm talking about the natural. Like, it just went right. You know what I'm saying? I ain't going to lie. Like, I I am kind of used to water. So, like, you know what I'm saying? Like, it just wasn't right. Like, but it it it surprised me cuz everything else was so like, >> you know what I'm saying? Like >> from the hair to the hygiene to the everything like like >> no one drink.

[01:01:58]>> That [ __ ] just threw me off. Like >> you know what I'm saying?

[01:02:01]>> That was crazy to me though. Like that was crazy.

[01:02:03]>> Well, you know what? I'mma tell you this.

[01:02:06]>> I'mma put just put this in your bag and put it under your sink.

[01:02:09]>> Okay, cool.

[01:02:09]>> So you can have it as an option. Hey, after the club.

[01:02:14]>> Yeah.

[01:02:15]>> Slide it to in the back.

[01:02:17]>> And if I'm being honest, I don't think that Rejuv going to mask that. Yeah, that's not going to mask that phone.

[01:02:22]>> That sound like a That's a doctor problem.

[01:02:26]>> Yeah, that what I'm saying.

[01:02:27]>> Oh yeah, it was something deeper than that. Look, we got Saw XO can do so much, but if you got to go to the doctor, you got to go to that dot.

[01:02:33]>> Yeah, for sure.

[01:02:34]>> I want to know was it was it that twerk win? Was she dancing? Did she sit down?

[01:02:38]>> Was it said it wasn't a twerk win? It was >> the sit down.

[01:02:42]>> They was about to >> Y'all was about to >> I'mma say no. Hell no.

[01:02:46]>> See, he didn't say that.

[01:02:47]>> No, I'm way more >> making up story. It's my >> see see how you do.

[01:02:51]>> How do you even know I do stuff like that?

[01:02:53]>> Sex.

[01:02:54]>> Yeah.

[01:02:54]>> You have I might be celibate.

[01:02:57]>> You have a You have a child.

[01:03:00]>> But that might be said you do that.

[01:03:01]>> I might be celibate.

[01:03:02]>> When last time you had sex?

[01:03:03]>> You be talking about bounce that ass just like your friend.

[01:03:07]Bouncing it good. You think we think you about to go home?

[01:03:09]>> We dancing at the club.

[01:03:11]>> Oh, that twerk was funky.

[01:03:12]>> No, no, no, no. I was telling her like bouncing like your friend do that's at the club. Like >> what was funky? She she I think like we was talking and like she had kicked one of these like one of them.

[01:03:26]>> Yeah. She had she was saying like you did one of them and I was like hold on >> if that thing spraying. So from afar you smell I was like close up. I like close up.

[01:03:36]>> Hey I don't blame you. If that thing spraying you ain't staying. Get the [ __ ] out. Cuz he didn't want it.

[01:03:42]>> Nah. I never do that. Like I ain't just the type to be like, "Hey, you like no, I just like, okay, cool." Like, "I ain't that [ __ ] over with." Like, >> but that's why I'm not being funny.

[01:03:54]That's why like we're sensitive down there. And people need to be careful what they use down there for real. Cuz it could be so many different things. It could have been the soap she was using.

[01:04:05]>> She probably didn't It could have been she didn't bathe for six days.

[01:04:09]>> She probably just maybe [ __ ] that morning. It's the thing like some girls you you you might be like, "Okay, cool.

[01:04:15]I ain't have no business like anyway."

[01:04:17]But like >> her like that's surpris you was you was surprised.

[01:04:20]>> So you didn't give her a second chance to clean that coochie?

[01:04:24]>> What you mean second?

[01:04:25]>> Like did y'all go on a second date?

[01:04:27][clears throat] >> Uh no.

[01:04:30]>> Damn. You strict.

[01:04:32]>> I respect that though cuz we've had men on the show and just people that we've talked to in real life and they be like they smelled it and they still had sex with them. So, I respect the fact that she was like, >> "I do. I do.

[01:04:43]>> I'm good on that."

[01:04:43]>> Scared of that.

[01:04:45]>> You and you should be.

[01:04:46]>> Y I'm scared of that.

[01:04:48]>> Who is that salt exo? So you don't scare Billy Gang off, y'all. Please.

[01:04:52]>> He got it under his sink. He got it under his sink. So, we want to talk about too men that swear women be seducing them with their eyes. And do that work? Like, can you really seduce a man with your eyes? Like when you look at him and you give him the stare, is he supposed to know what it is?

[01:05:11]Do you feel like that work for you legs?

[01:05:12]Have you ever seduced a man with your eyes?

[01:05:15]>> You know, [sighs] I got a lazy eye. It It gets to drifting, [ __ ] So I can only You got three seconds to look at me, ho ass [ __ ] Are you not going to know I want you?

[01:05:25]>> It's not lazy.

[01:05:26]>> No, it's crooked. I'm >> Why do y'all Why do y'all want somebody to just know? Like, >> first of all, I don't even got to know.

[01:05:34]I'm coming anyway. But like I'm just saying like for other folk like >> how do y'all expect for a man to just know cuz everybody ain't like me.

[01:05:42]Everybody ain't f to just be like I just know. But like how do y'all expect that?

[01:05:47]Like you know what I'm saying?

[01:05:48]>> Cuz I'm old school in the sense that I feel like a man is supposed to approach you. He's supposed to holler at you.

[01:05:57]>> I shouldn't even have to give you no look. Like if you interested, if you see me and you interested, you should just walk up. You should try to approach me.

[01:06:04]Send me a drink. Do whatever. [snorts] >> I should not have to give you no signal.

[01:06:08]However, though, if I am giving you a signal, then you should catch that [ __ ] >> What's your signal?

[01:06:14]>> Me?

[01:06:15]>> Yeah. Look at I'm a [ __ ] >> I'm in the club.

[01:06:18]>> I don't feel like I could do >> What you did to Range Rover, man. Make your body. [screaming] >> How you [laughter] to be honest, I didn't really have to do much.

[01:06:30]>> Okay.

[01:06:31]>> But I don't know. Like I just feel like this going to sound cocky a little bit.

[01:06:39]>> Pop it >> probably.

[01:06:40]>> But >> I just feel like I have like a aura and I'm kind of like >> sexy.

[01:06:46]>> Yeah. Seductive, sexual a little bit. So I don't really be having to do much. So I just feel like I just kind of like look.

[01:06:54]>> It worked on me. You want a drink? T Send a woman. [laughter] >> Yeah. I did. I just kind of look.

[01:06:59]>> Look at them like that. like buy me a range. Like [laughter] >> not look like buy me a range, but I'm just saying like I just give a look and then I feel like it's my aura. When a man really get to know me, like when we spend time together, we get to know each other. He be [ __ ] with my personality, my vibe, my intelligence, my like everything. So >> I think that's more so what it be. But I think if a man is interested, he should just try because you never know unless you shoot your shot.

[01:07:25]>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

[01:07:26]>> I agree. But I also think like in conversation like when you're talking to somebody, you're on a date, I think eye contact is so important.

[01:07:34]>> I think it's so weird if I'm talking to somebody like oneonone and they're not looking at me in my eyes. I'm like, >> I'm talking to you. Like people, you never realize how much people hate eye contact. And a lot of times when people don't want to make eye contact, it's be like I think you >> you got something.

[01:07:53]>> Yes. You not being Why can you look at me in my eyes? And I think the the you know the eyes are a window to the soul.

[01:08:00]So it's like if I can't sit up there and talk to you and look at you in your eyes, what's te? But I think giving eye contact is so passionate. Even when I'm having sex, look at me, [ __ ] >> I'm taking it.

[01:08:12]>> I ain't going to lie. So like >> we in love.

[01:08:14]>> People be having ADHD too.

[01:08:16]>> Yeah.

[01:08:16]>> You talking about the eye contact. I think like the older I get like the eye contact and [ __ ] like they just change the game. You know what I'm saying? M and then you got blue eyes.

[01:08:27]>> I ain't talking about me. I'm talking about looking at her.

[01:08:29]>> Oh, but I'm saying she looking at you, >> but she looking at you.

[01:08:33]>> I don't know what she see.

[01:08:34]>> Yeah, she seen them eyes. She like this.

[01:08:36]Look at my babies. My future babies.

[01:08:40]>> Oh, look. He said you funny. I like you. We are having a ball.

[01:08:48]>> We are.

[01:08:48]>> Okay. Okay. Okay. So, now it's time to get into >> the vib.

[01:08:53]>> Hey, >> the vibes. Hey, >> bow bow bow bow bow.

[01:08:58]>> Okay, so for my bop of the week, I have made this um you know the girls, we always have to have a good song on our pictures on Instagram. Right. So, I made this song on my story just because like I'm a Texas girl. Drea is a Texas girl.

[01:09:17]I'm from a a a small town and there's this song um by Ella Langley called Choosing Texas and it's a song and you know one thing I will say I think the best two genres that do this is country music and rap music is tell stories.

[01:09:35]Rap a rap [ __ ] gonna tell a story. I grew up in the hood. My mama beat my ass. I never went to class. They gonna tell you a story about how they came up.

[01:09:44]But you know who else does that? Country singers. Ella Langley has a story called Choosing Texas and it talks about how she was dating this man and she was in love and he played her from a girl from Texas and he was choosing Texas. Tell you something about a Texas girl. It's going to change your life. Tell them Dre. How Texas girl change your life.

[01:10:01]>> I love Texas. They do.

[01:10:03]>> I know you do. You've been cheesing since you sat down on that couch.

[01:10:06]>> I ain't know y'all from Texas.

[01:10:08]>> I know that.

[01:10:08]>> Exactly. She love Billy Gang.

[01:10:12]>> I'm from Houston though. And she from Orange.

[01:10:14]>> I'm from deep. You look like you from Houston.

[01:10:16]>> Do you girls?

[01:10:18]>> I'm from a small town called Orange, Texas.

[01:10:20]>> Yeah.

[01:10:21]>> Yeah. I'm from the >> What is it?

[01:10:23]>> It's like the literally the last town before you hit Louisiana. So like I could literally walk to Louisiana from my house >> on like the 10.

[01:10:31]>> Yes. It's They used to call Orange the last taste of Texas.

[01:10:34]>> Okay. You know what that mean?

[01:10:36]>> Yeah. I like Booan. [snorts] >> What they call it now?

[01:10:39]>> The last taste of Texas. Now I'm the mayor of Orange Texas.

[01:10:43]>> You will for real? I'm the mayor down there, man. I'm that.

[01:10:46]>> No, she the best thing that ever came out of Orange.

[01:10:49]>> Are you the mayor, though?

[01:10:50]>> No, I'm not the mayor. Literally, >> you should run for the mayor. Like, >> when I come out there, I'll be feeling like the man when I walk through.

[01:10:58]>> Okay, >> cool.

[01:10:59]>> Love going home.

[01:11:00]>> I do agree with him though. I think you should run for the mayor at some point.

[01:11:05]>> Maybe at some point when I'm like done working.

[01:11:07]>> Yeah, >> but I have to change things.

[01:11:09]>> Yeah, >> you know. Ver right there. It's time TO CLEAN IT UP. BUT YOU KNOW WHAT? I AM GOING TO DO A um a I'm going to do a turkey drive this year for the first time. I'm going to do a turkey drive this year >> cuz I feel like for Thanksgiving like I don't really ever do anything.

[01:11:24]>> That's your give back.

[01:11:25]>> So I'm going to do it I'm going to do a turkey drive this year in orange.

[01:11:27]>> Fire.

[01:11:28]>> Don't be ding me though.

[01:11:30]>> But yeah. Anyways, choosing Texas Elaine. That's my bop of the week.

[01:11:34]>> What song y'all been listening? Who going? Who going?

[01:11:36]>> Who can go?

[01:11:36]>> What song you been jamming this week?

[01:11:38]Baby, I'mma tell you right now. I don't give a [ __ ] how you ass. I'm mean to buy and buy back.

[01:11:45]>> Exactly.

[01:11:46]>> Why youard what he said?

[01:11:47]>> Tell me now.

[01:11:48]>> Me and Dior tell me no.

[01:11:50]>> Man, that's a bomb.

[01:11:51]>> It is.

[01:11:52]>> Dre, do you remember when it came on at camp Saturday?

[01:11:54]>> We was le, >> bro. It came on.

[01:11:58]I was so mad because they did a video from the whole day and that was the best part cuz me was like >> me cuz that's a mood. Yeah.

[01:12:07]>> You know how people come out with a verse every now and then? You like, "This eats cuz this is real life."

[01:12:12]>> Ask these [ __ ] to tell me now.

[01:12:15]>> I need to know right now. Let's stop beating around the bush.

[01:12:18]>> It crazy cuz like when I went to Texas night with uh they said that was our biggest song in Texas >> for real.

[01:12:25]>> Yeah. Like it usually be like friend do or like bird like Popey. Like we went to Texas. It was like telling that was our biggest song. Like that's crazy. It just came out like >> we we hosted a party in Houston and we was at camp which is one of the most popular clubs in Houston.

[01:12:41]>> When I tell you tell me now dropped everybody stood up.

[01:12:44]>> Yeah.

[01:12:45]>> Everybody stood up and that's what I would say that whole [ __ ] >> Yeah. Can't be le my boy Chris.

[01:12:51]>> Yeah. Shout out to Chris.

[01:12:53]>> Yeah. You need to host a party out there. I'm >> just went out there.

[01:12:57]>> Yeah.

[01:12:58]>> I literally just went and did all that.

[01:13:01]That's when you went that one night.

[01:13:04]That's when he was at Waterburg.

[01:13:05][laughter] >> That was like That was like 3 weeks ago.

[01:13:08]>> Getting that bob. That breakfast on the bun.

[01:13:10]>> That's when he was in >> getting that water burger. I know. You got that water burger.

[01:13:15]>> You crazy.

[01:13:16]>> Little taquito. [screaming] >> Dre. What's your about?

[01:13:20]>> Oh, so T got another song.

[01:13:23]>> Another one.

[01:13:24]>> Yeah. It's called Trauma Bun. Shout out to Totten >> cuz Tia really been making a comeback.

[01:13:30]Not that he ever live.

[01:13:32]>> Oh, he know he did leave.

[01:13:34]>> I don't think so though because I feel like he never You know how you have people who have had their moment and then they wasn't relevant no more.

[01:13:43]>> Oh, I never >> and then they came back.

[01:13:45]>> Yeah.

[01:13:45]>> Ti never stopped being relevant. Like he's always been relevant like from music to movies to whatever. But >> yeah, his last two singles have been really really good. The old especially the old [ __ ] [laughter] been really left.

[01:14:02]>> Huh?

[01:14:02]>> How you know the old [ __ ] >> Because I follow a bunch of old [ __ ] My uncles and [ __ ] They love that [ __ ] >> Especially when they be in the gym >> and they be having that hat tilted to the side.

[01:14:11]>> Don't let THEM GET IN THAT [ __ ] slingshot. [clears throat] >> What?

[01:14:14]>> Let them know. Let them know.

[01:14:17]>> Yeah.

[01:14:17]>> Let them know. LET THEM KNOW >> CUZ THEY BE IN THE GYM.

[01:14:22]>> YEAH. [screaming] BOOMERANGING.

[01:14:26]for that $50 hood. That's a step. Yeah, they love it.

[01:14:30]>> Them old [ __ ] love that song, but I do too. Trauma bond.

[01:14:34]>> Trauma bond. But the reason I say I'm not going to lie to you. I feel like the old rap heads and maybe you can chime in on this.

[01:14:42]>> I think they see what's going on. They like it's time for us to come back and we got to let y'all know juvenile >> uh TI two chains. They coming back. They are with a bean jeans on specific ones going crazy. Tip definitely going crazy.

[01:14:58]Like >> it feel good to see like somebody from the city that like >> know way more than us. New new people like >> standing up for it. Not everybody doing the right thing though.

[01:15:09]>> Not not all the >> old doing the right thing, but someone be >> But what you mean they not doing the right thing? You don't have to get specific, but >> they ain't doing the right thing.

[01:15:18]>> Like you feel like they trying to keep up with the sound now?

[01:15:22]No, not all the old Atlanta artists are doing the right thing right now. Oh, >> what I'm saying?

[01:15:30]>> But >> you have people like TI 2 Chain like >> they they doing the right thing. You know what I'm saying?

[01:15:37]>> They embracing the youth, not like doing nothing wrong to the youth.

[01:15:42]>> I agree. T been coming out with them bobs. I be listening to it in my car.

[01:15:47]>> Why you looking over there?

[01:15:49]Y'all might not know what I'm talking about, but >> we don't. That's why she kept asking cuz we >> Well, I think I think but I don't want to say it because I just feel like a >> to say like just leave it alone.

[01:15:59]>> That's what I said. I'mma leave it alone >> cuz it's not that type of porn going crazy.

[01:16:04]>> Y going shout out. I think y'all should do a song together.

[01:16:07]>> Me and Tip got like two, three song together.

[01:16:08]>> See, I didn't listen to it. See, that's how I But >> no, I ain't out yet. I ain't out yet.

[01:16:12]>> Why you trick me like that?

[01:16:14]>> Tip really got some hard [ __ ] Like if you do >> like I he let me hear like a lot of songs and the ones I got on go crazy like so >> damn belly gang. I was going to say we should take our shot. You already took yours.

[01:16:29]>> I didn't want to drink >> with me every day. That's not a special occasion.

[01:16:34]>> Y'all just talking crazy. [laughter] >> But has this been your favorite interview though?

[01:16:41]>> Mhm.

[01:16:42]>> He lying. [laughter] I he don't look at me with that interview. You >> ain't usually People say it with more glee.

[01:16:51]>> This is my favorite interview. It's my favorite interview ever. I love this interview.

[01:16:54]>> Now I believe you.

[01:16:56]>> Oh my god. I can't I can't live without this.

[01:16:58]>> Start calling us sis. [laughter] I see it in his eyes.

[01:17:02]>> Time more of another shot.

[01:17:04]>> Oh yeah. We need one last one cuz we we f to close it out. What we got next, Drea? It's the >> So now it's time to get into our favorite segment of the show. Yes.

[01:17:11]>> Which is pour your heart out. You know, if you have any questions, send them to [email protected].

[01:17:17]That's as k pur r i n dsgmail.com.

[01:17:22]Send us your questions. Send us your testimonials.

[01:17:25][sighs and gasps] We ain't got a testimonial in a minute, though.

[01:17:28]>> I think because >> I think we've been doing good.

[01:17:30]>> I think they're dead.

[01:17:31]>> Okay. [laughter] Well, that's a different perspective.

[01:17:35]Um, so let's get into it. [laughter] Belly Gang, do you think you give good advice?

[01:17:40]>> Yeah, for sure. Okay, >> [ __ ] >> So, we going to see cuz they be writing us some wild stuff sometimes.

[01:17:45]>> They do.

[01:17:46]>> Hey, Queens. I've been listening to you guys for almost a year now, and I just want to say I love y'all now. Okay, so I've been talking to this guy for a few months. We started off as friends, but he's slowly started to become more. I'm kind of starting to like him, and I could feel that he likes me a lot, too.

[01:18:02]We haven't had sex yet, but so far, he gives the last B in the BDB.

[01:18:08]>> Damn, she a >> Hold on. Back up. I don't got lost. What you said now?

[01:18:14]>> She said, "I'm kind of starting to like him." So, basically, she said, "We started off as friends, but it started to become something more. I'm starting to like him, and I could feel that he likes me a lot, too. We have not had sex yet, but so far, he gives the last B in BDB.

[01:18:29]>> I'm lost on that."

[01:18:30]>> BDB is a big baller.

[01:18:32]>> Okay.

[01:18:33]>> So, he's the baller, >> but he don't got a He don't know if he got the big D. Exactly.

[01:18:38]>> Okay.

[01:18:39]So, the thing is, he used to talk to my best friend's cousin, who is also somewhat my friend, for two to three months, but I didn't find that out until after we had already been talking for a couple months. Do you guys think that I should give this a chance to turn into an actual relationship, or should I end it before it gets too deep because of what he had going on with my friend?

[01:18:59]>> That's that's that's some mess [ __ ] right there. Uh, >> see the confetti. They in the [laughter] >> They in the DM with that.

[01:19:09]They sending y'all DMs like that.

[01:19:10]>> They be sending us messages. [laughter] >> Why would you?

[01:19:15]>> So So okay. Like you met somebody they you feel like they a baller but she used to mess with your best friend cousin.

[01:19:25]>> Yes. Yes.

[01:19:27]>> Should you [ __ ] with >> also kind of her friend too.

[01:19:32]I mean, I don't know. Like, me personally, like I'mma give a man point of view. Like, I don't mess with nobody who I know. Like, don't mess with somebody else. But like for a girl that different cuz like girls be, "Oh, I used to talk to him whole time, man. You ain't used to talk to that man." Like, >> so he just I probably like ask the cousin like, "What you think?" Woo woo.

[01:19:59]You know what I'm saying? M >> Yeah, for sure.

[01:20:02]>> So, you would ask?

[01:20:03]>> Yeah, I would like ask her like what you think.

[01:20:06]>> Mhm.

[01:20:07]>> I guess >> I just feel like the only reason she's considering it is because he's a baller.

[01:20:13]>> Matter of fact, man, if you feel like he a baller, man, baby, shoot your shot, man. Get your money, man. [ __ ] that. You never know. It might be your ticket.

[01:20:21]>> I mean, but I do think if it's that serious, maybe have a conversation. But I feel like there's so many men out here who are successful that are doing things for themselves. So, I feel like if you have to write in and ask should you do it, you shouldn't do it.

[01:20:34]>> I feel like it's just too many men out here to be trying to talk to somebody that's in close proximity.

[01:20:40]>> Yeah.

[01:20:40]>> Like it it's it's never that deep. So, >> but some people only meet like that.

[01:20:45]>> That's why I saying there a skill issue.

[01:20:48]>> Yeah. Facts.

[01:20:51]>> Skill issues be real. But I don't know.

[01:20:53]I feel like girls be still doing it though. Girls don't even Girls be liking who the folk like.

[01:21:01]>> Exactly. They be wanting to [ __ ] with somebody cuz they seen you [ __ ] with them >> and they seen what he did for you. So then they be like, "Oh, well, he'll probably do it for me, too, so let me [ __ ] with him anyways."

[01:21:12]>> And it never works out like that.

[01:21:13]>> They don't be giving a damn whether it's somebody friend that they know.

[01:21:17]>> They trying to bounce that ass like they friend do. You did this.

[01:21:21]>> Take accountability.

[01:21:22]>> They were doing this before him. What's wrong with two girl teaching each other how to twerk? Like your friend twerking like >> cuz it gives you not shaking that ass good enough. Bounce [snorts] it like she's bouncing it. That's how it came off.

[01:21:37]>> But sometimes she do or she needs to not bounce it at all.

[01:21:42]>> People can't twerk.

[01:21:43]>> I mean it's like >> we the girl. We the birthday.

[01:21:48]>> We can't bounce that ass like a friend cuz neither one >> who twerk the best out of y'all two.

[01:21:53]No lick.

[01:21:54]>> No, it's both pretty bad.

[01:21:57]>> Nah, she's twerking better.

[01:21:59]>> It's both pretty bad. When we be making videos cuz we got to keep up with the Tik Tok kids and [ __ ] they be like, "Oh, wow.

[01:22:08]>> Dance." They be like, "Dre."

[01:22:09]>> No, I can do a boom cat.

[01:22:12]>> Five, six, seven, eight. [laughter] >> I can do that, but twerking.

[01:22:19]I can't twerk. Now I can do a eight count. You know when they I can do that. You know the Tik Tok >> swimming. Oh >> yeah, I can do that.

[01:22:27]>> Is that what that is?

[01:22:28]>> Yeah.

[01:22:30]>> I never knew that was a swimming. Okay.

[01:22:31]>> Okay. We got one more question.

[01:22:34]>> Never knew that.

[01:22:34]>> And we going to wrap it up. Hello ladies. I need advice on my love life. I finalized my divorce in July of last year and have recently started dating again. After being with my exartner for 14 years, I was excited to get back out there. However, I am new to online dating and I genuinely think that the dating pool is a bit murky. I recently met someone and while we've gone on a few dates, the experience has been lacking compared to what I believe I deserve. When we are together in person, he is all about me, which I love.

[01:23:08]Unfortunately, when we are apart, his communication is lackluster. He responds hours or even days later. Though he is charming, I don't want to feel like I'm wasting my time. What advice would you give a woman trying to date again?

[01:23:25]>> Let me see that. [snorts] >> He said, "I need to read this myself."

[01:23:30]>> Oh, okay.

[01:23:31]>> He wanted to see if it was a name on there. What you was looking for?

[01:23:34]>> She was He was trying to make sure she wasn't talking about him.

[01:23:36]>> He was talking about me.

[01:23:38]>> That's what you be doing?

[01:23:40]>> I I don't really respond. Nah, I be busy. I don't like using the phone to like >> You thought this letter was about you?

[01:23:48]>> I I just want to see the name on it >> cuz he was laughing like he was laughing like he gave y'all that or something.

[01:23:54]That why that why I said let me see that.

[01:23:57]>> I knew you wasn't [ __ ] >> No, I am [ __ ] I just don't like using a phone to like show my love.

[01:24:03]>> That's me too. We twins.

[01:24:05]>> Yeah.

[01:24:06]>> I'm a terrible responder.

[01:24:07]>> I don't like using >> y'all. You know what I would actually be?

[01:24:11]>> People do understand this a device, right? Like these are apps on a phone.

[01:24:15]Like how can I show my love like this?

[01:24:17]Like >> cuz all it takes is just like, "Hey, good morning. I hope you have a great day."

[01:24:21]>> No, I'm talking to a piece of plastic.

[01:24:24]This a this a piece of glass. Like >> So send a voice note. Hey girl, you said I'm talking to a piece of plastic.

[01:24:30]>> No, you said bib you right in there. And then just give a little verse before you go to work. It takes two seconds.

[01:24:37]>> Women really appreciate being thoughtful. So for you >> for this woman in this situation, >> it's too early. If you are dating somebody early on, >> this is when they supposed to show out.

[01:24:51]>> So if he's already showing you that things that you don't like, it's time to move on. I don't care. Honeymoon stage needs to feel like a honeymoon.

[01:24:59]>> Nah, that's that toxy [ __ ] >> No, honeymoon should feel like, oh my god, he's so happy to talk to me. He's so happy. Honeymoon should feel like a honeymoon. We're getting to know each What about when the honeymoon stage is over with?

[01:25:11]>> I mean, I feel like Yeah, honeymoon stage ends. Now, that's when it's like when things go wrong, more conversations need to happen. But she said this is early. They're online dating and he's already showing you he's not good at communication.

[01:25:26]If he's not good at communication early on, do you think he's going to be better later on? [ __ ] get worse. Y'all get worse.

[01:25:32]>> If she move with him, she ain't got to worry about that, >> man. Go on.

[01:25:35]>> Yes, she do.

[01:25:36]>> Look.

[01:25:37]>> What? You >> Pisces told you I'm right here. We was on the phone.

[01:25:42]>> Right here in the other room.

[01:25:43]>> No, we not.

[01:25:44]>> See, see, I told you >> you want to talk to me, just come in the other room. We live together.

[01:25:50]>> What about the times you not there and then you not responding too?

[01:25:54]>> You know what he doing? And she going to be like, "Tell me now." And he ain't going to tell her that.

[01:25:58]>> Why y'all think folk be doing wrong if it's like that? Like, >> no, I don't think that. I really to be honest with you, this going to sound so bad. What's cheating?

[01:26:06]>> But I don't even be thinking about a [ __ ] when he not around me.

[01:26:09]>> Exactly. That's >> I really do not be thinking about what he doing.

[01:26:12]>> That's how it be. I don't even care what a girl doing.

[01:26:14]>> Yeah.

[01:26:14]>> What do you mean what's cheating?

[01:26:16]>> What's cheating? For real.

[01:26:17]>> If there's anything >> in 2026, what's cheating?

[01:26:20]>> If there's anything that you did something with another woman that you can't tell your partner that's cheating, >> I'm saying what if you tell her?

[01:26:28]>> Is she okay with it? If she's okay with it, then technically it's not cheating.

[01:26:32]>> What I did like, what's up? I don't care about that, though. I'm rocking with >> you. [laughter] >> Well, that's considered a open Well, I would assume she's okay with open relationship.

[01:26:41]>> Oh, okay.

[01:26:41]>> Cuz if my man told me he cheated and I'm not okay with that [ __ ] he's about to be single the same day.

[01:26:48]>> At least she ain't like beating him up and doing all that.

[01:26:51]>> Oh, no. No.

[01:26:53]>> No. I don't put my hands on You got beat up before. I don't want them to put my they hands on me.

[01:26:57]>> You got beat up before I won. I don't got stabbed shot at.

[01:27:00]>> You got stabbed by >> I got stabbed twice right here. Um I don't got shot at and all type of stuff.

[01:27:08]>> Yeah, you ain't [ __ ] I knew it was your fault.

[01:27:11]>> Even other stuff like all type of stuff.

[01:27:16]Women are crazy.

[01:27:17]>> What did you do?

[01:27:17]>> So are men though. Y'all be doing things and wonder why women snap.

[01:27:22]>> It is. It's a I feel like >> uh well this is where I kind of feel like pause.

[01:27:29]>> Yeah. Everybody be doing [ __ ] >> Men be doing [ __ ] >> Women be doing [ __ ] >> As an adult, you should know how to keep your hands to yourself. And you shouldn't do nothing to somebody that you wouldn't want them to do to you. I'm not about to stab no [ __ ] I agree.

[01:27:45]>> Or swing on no [ __ ] cuz I don't want him to do that [ __ ] to me.

[01:27:49]>> But that's just me personally. But I understand that a lot of the time people don't have that much control over their emotions, but they need to find the control >> because it gets serious. You know how many, you know, I love true I love true crime by the way.

[01:28:02]>> Crimes a passion.

[01:28:04]>> Yes, that's serious. A man think he just doing a little one two girl end up coming and kill him or she'll come kill the side [ __ ] Side [ __ ] didn't even know you existed. It's a lot deeper than just oh I'm talking to lies will literally end up real real deadly.

[01:28:19]>> Yeah. And you lucky >> who own lot though. See that's the thing like I ain't telling no lie but I ain't going to lie though. You know it's crazy that you say that. Like I'm learning like >> like in the recent past like that >> everybody just ain't funny. Like >> Yes.

[01:28:36]>> People are crazy.

[01:28:38]>> People are [ __ ] crazy. Like >> people be crazy.

[01:28:40]>> Have y'all ever heard of the Betty Brick story?

[01:28:42]>> No.

[01:28:43]>> Okay. Y'all go look it up and y'all going to see.

[01:28:46]>> I'm telling you it's a it's a crime of passion. She's still in jail. She shot her husband and his new wife in the bed cuz she felt played. Sometimes >> I feel like >> play by their feelings.

[01:28:56]>> Sometimes when people get played like we've all been played, right? We've all been played. Some women just be like, "I don't give a [ __ ] Move on." Some women they not going to let some men they not going to let that go.

[01:29:07]>> They didn't let that go. I know you got some battle scars. You got some battle wounds.

[01:29:11]>> Oh yeah, for sure. Yeah.

[01:29:12]>> Cuz they didn't let that [ __ ] go. So the best thing to do is just I'm glad you said it. You keep it real. Nah, keeping it real make them folk more matter.

[01:29:22]>> Might as well just lie.

[01:29:25]>> You toxic, man.

[01:29:27]>> Me?

[01:29:28]>> Yeah, you toxic.

[01:29:29]>> The funny thing about me, I swear to God, I'm really not cuz I don't lie.

[01:29:33]>> I just don't say nothing.

[01:29:35]>> Queen, >> that's even more toxic. Nothing. Not saying nothing.

[01:29:40]>> Okay, let me let's backtrack.

[01:29:43]>> Okay, >> I don't be doing [ __ ] I really don't like I be so good in relationships. Such a kind >> own cheat.

[01:29:51]>> She's an angel. She really is loyalty.

[01:29:55]>> Yeah, I'm really great until it get to that point. Like if you do something, I'm not even a tip for tat person. I'm going just cut you off. But if you want to come back, I will sleep with one eye open.

[01:30:07]>> But you'll let them back though.

[01:30:09]>> Possibly.

[01:30:10]>> Okay, cool.

[01:30:12]>> That's right, though.

[01:30:13]>> I wouldn't trust it though. So, you going to be with somebody you don't trust, >> huh?

[01:30:17]>> You going to be with somebody you don't trust?

[01:30:23]>> You know, I think trust is one of those things where do we ever really trust anybody?

[01:30:30]Cuz I don't >> I'mma put my full trust in you.

[01:30:33]>> That's that and that's real deep. I think that's great. I don't be trusting people for real.

[01:30:40]>> Why? M cuz I feel like most people not trustworthy and then most people always end up showing you why you can't trust them.

[01:30:49]>> Yeah. Every human got flaws though.

[01:30:51]>> Yeah.

[01:30:52]>> I agree.

[01:30:53]>> Mhm.

[01:30:54]>> That was a moment.

[01:30:55]>> What you think >> now? How y'all I feel like the counselor >> now? [snorts] How we going?

[01:30:59]>> Cuz her ass don't be trusting people either.

[01:31:02]>> We going to minute.

[01:31:03]>> You don't be trust.

[01:31:05]>> Um no because I know how I get down.

[01:31:09][laughter] Oh, you get down like that.

[01:31:11]>> You know what? I do what I do and I does what I does. When I'm loyal, I'm loyal.

[01:31:16]But once that Yeah.

[01:31:18]>> You want to play, we can play her.

[01:31:21]>> Why you don't just leave them though?

[01:31:22]>> Cuz sometimes I still love you.

[01:31:25]>> So you want to have that and >> no get back too.

[01:31:28]>> No, it's not about to get back. But I don't know. I You know what? I'mma tell you. I don't know. I don't think anybody has love life. We don't Nobody has anything figured out. Mhm.

[01:31:39]>> And I I'm going to be honest, I'm still trying to figure out life.

[01:31:42]>> You know what I think for real though? I think like >> if you put yourself first and care about yourself and like you know what's a good person like >> if you be a good person every day to yourself, the other person going to feel that and y'all got to come together.

[01:31:56]Like you being a good person for yourself, I'm being a good person for myself. I got boundaries. You got boundaries.

[01:32:02]>> If the [ __ ] get to crossing up, we ain't for each other. When I meet somebody, when they cross up together, >> you're right.

[01:32:07]>> You know what I'm saying? It's perfect.

[01:32:09]Like, >> and honestly, I just feel like I'm a type of person like I love my friends so much. And I have so much fulfillness in my like friendships and things like that. So, I feel like I be happy. I be cool. Like, if I have a relationship, it works out, cool. If it don't, cool.

[01:32:24]>> But I'm I'm happy in life. Like, I'm content. My job, I have an amazing job.

[01:32:28]My family's straight. My friends are good. So, it's like to be in my life and to be my man, like you have to be really, really peaceful and really cool.

[01:32:37]So, >> you got kids?

[01:32:38]>> Hell no.

[01:32:39]>> You got kids?

[01:32:40]>> No.

[01:32:40]>> Oh my god. How old you are?

[01:32:42]>> I'm 34.

[01:32:43]>> How old you?

[01:32:44]>> I'm going to be 37 in August.

[01:32:46]>> I ain't got no kid. Okay, cool. So, we two different. You know what I'm saying?

[01:32:51]>> We on different but I mean I think it also goes into what's more important to you. Is trust more important to you or love or do you think they both go hand in hand?

[01:32:59]>> They going hand in hand.

[01:33:01]>> What? Have a child >> in general for like a relationship? I think love, like trust, like I'm going to keep it all way. Like we humans, like a girl going to see somebody else she like, period. Like it's nothing I can do about that. Like I'm going see somebody else I like, but like love going to make me be like I ain't going to do her like that. Like you know what I'm saying?

[01:33:20]Especially if we could be real with each other. Like I cannot trust you but expect you to be real with me though.

[01:33:27]You see what I'm saying? Like I cannot trust you. Like, okay, let let's say I be like, I don't trust her when it come to like or you could be like, I don't trust him when it come to gambling. You know what I'm saying? So, I know if he go to a casino, like he's going to gamble, right?

[01:33:43]>> But like I can I still know that he going to come tell me though.

[01:33:47]>> See what I'm saying?

[01:33:48]>> So, like he being honest, but I just can't trust him around gambling. Like, you know what I mean?

[01:33:54]>> Uh, okay.

[01:33:56]Belly Gang, let us know what you got coming up, where they can find you, all that good stuff.

[01:34:02]>> You could just Google my name, >> Belly Gang Cush. Everything going to come up. I got a new single on the way.

[01:34:09]I know what it is and all that, but it just going to come out of nowhere.

[01:34:13]>> Can you put us in the video?

[01:34:15]>> Yeah, for sure.

[01:34:16]>> What we going to do in the video?

[01:34:18]>> Okay. Well, I'm not >> that like your friend.

[01:34:21]>> Yeah, I can. I'm I'm a >> I got a a count.

[01:34:27]doing that alone.

[01:34:28]>> I got single on the way, album on the way, second album on the way. I only got one album out, period.

[01:34:32]>> But that's amazing.

[01:34:34]>> Yeah, for sure.

[01:34:34]>> Cuz you said two years. That's crazy.

[01:34:37]>> Only got one album out of my whole life.

[01:34:40]>> But that's crazy. You said you been doing it for two years. I think the only artist that we've had on this show where he was like, I just started doing it and it shocked me how quickly he made it was Rob 49. But I think his was a little I think he said like three or four years.

[01:34:54]>> Yeah. But two years is crazy.

[01:34:56]>> Seriously, like two years.

[01:34:57]>> That's insane.

[01:34:58]>> Yeah, for sure.

[01:34:59]>> Did you have fun today, >> man? I had overly fun.

[01:35:02]>> Overly know that.

[01:35:04]>> Drinking overly loaded.

[01:35:06]>> We going We You know, we got to take our shot.

[01:35:08]>> Oh, we got to take our You know, we got to do karaoke.

[01:35:10]>> We got to smell good to pour.

[01:35:11]>> I tried to save it for y'all.

[01:35:13]>> Yeah. Oh, yeah. Friend, one of y'all put this in the bag for y'all sisters.

[01:35:18]>> What? [laughter] >> He They know what I'm talking about.

[01:35:21]They know. They know.

[01:35:22]>> Cheers.

[01:35:23]>> Cheers. [screaming] Thank you, belly gang. Y'all make sure y'all go and uh subscribe. Love Lex P. every Monday 10:00 a.m. Still tipping. We on tour right now. poorminds.com.

[01:35:33]>> Musebeautycolction.com.

[01:35:35]>> And we'll see y'all next week.

[01:35:37]>> Bye y'all.

[01:35:38]>> We didn't take out.

[01:35:40]>> I to my shirt.

[01:35:42]>> It's belly gang and the cushion.

[01:35:46]>> She knew. Go ahead, Lil Yagi.

[01:35:50]All we need you to do if you sitting at home, wave your hands from side to side.

[01:35:56]Hey.

[01:35:57]>> Yeah.

[01:35:58]>> Hey, we like to sing to them hoes. Give it to them.

[01:36:01]>> Trying to figure out why you playing games. What's this? all about >> and I can't believe you're hurting me. I met your girl that sh >> done these words. Go ahead.

[01:36:38]>> Okay. But I knew we start.

[01:36:46]Here we go.

[01:36:48]>> Now you're gone. What am I going to do?

[01:36:54]My heart go [singing] fade away.

[01:37:07]>> Yeah. Wait. Why you go so far away?

[01:37:24]Never knew.

[01:37:28]Hey, [screaming] why you studio? We got See, I was AN AUDITION THAT ASS LIKE YOUR FRIEND DID.

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