This Insane Female Podcast Dating Advice Will DESTROY Your Relationship

Added: 2026-05-05

[00:00:00]My family expects me to marry within our faith. How do I choose between their expectations and my own happiness? I think you have to choose your own happiness because it's very possible your parents will never think anyone is enough.

[00:00:13]>> All of the advice that you get from these shows, these these female ccentric shows, >> it's the exact opposite of what you should do.

[00:00:22]>> And I truly mean that. We've been covering this a little bit. There's the Call Me Daddy podcast. And I have noticed, you know, you'll see people right now really try and uh browbeat what they call the manosphere. And and the problem with that is it includes a lot of different people. They just sort of throw in Andrew Tate or Fit and Fresh with with Andrew Wilson. They just throw them all in together. We have Christian conservatives who believe in traditional gender roles and then you have people who believe that you should be a man horse. It's not all the same thing. But I still would say if you look at the manosphere in general, um it is far more rational and at least they try and reason their arguments in a way that you do not see at all at all in female ccentric content, especially female ccentric content that offers up advice. So here's another one. This podcast, excuse my grandma, they were asked about dating outside of your religion. The general answers, if you're looking for a marriage, don't do it. But this brings us to the latest installment of me versus feminist advice.

[00:01:20]>> Oh, he shoots three on and off the court. I'm a professional.

[00:01:23]>> Don't love your job and our bodies and our looks because of male desire.

[00:01:32]>> Yeah, it's fun. Uh here you go.

[00:01:36]Question. What do you do uh when you're faced with dating outside of your religion? And the answers uh kind of make the case as to why people still uh practice arranged marriages.

[00:01:47]>> I've started seeing someone seriously who's outside my religion and I'm scared to tell my family. He feels like the one, but my family expects me to marry within our faith. How do I choose between their expectations and my own happiness?

[00:01:59]>> This is very, very difficult. M >> I do think that if you've been dating and you are not of the same faith, you have to introduce your partner to your family way before it gets to the point where she wants to get married. Okay?

[00:02:12]>> And they have to know that they're of a different faith and they're willing to compromise on certain things after you.

[00:02:20]>> So the parents who would have your best interest at heart should compromise in you making a decision with someone who may have motives put out and the parents themselves have to be willing to accept it. In many cases, they don't.

[00:02:31]>> I think you have to choose your own happiness because it's very possible your parents will never think anyone is enough and you don't want to, I don't know, have given up on a good person or waste time or whatever it is.

[00:02:44]>> Would you change your kids to something?

[00:02:46]>> Well, I wouldn't. Yeah. I'm a very strong believer that somebody you can have a wonderful man who's Catholic or Protestant or Muslim and marry a Jewish person or whatever if they both respect each other's faith.

[00:02:59]>> I'm culturally Jewish and it's so important to our family and to me. I would not ch change my faith for someone. But let's say I fell in love with someone who was of a different faith. I would try to integrate both things in my life. But if I was someone who didn't have any affiliation, then I would easily take on someone else.

[00:03:17]>> Exactly. We know so many people have and they have wonderful, wonderful marriages with that.

[00:03:21]>> No, you don't. No, you don't. So, let me give you the real advice here. And everything there is about my own personal happiness and what feels good.

[00:03:28]And it's so important to me. It's defining to me that um I won't even use it as a qualifier for the person with whom I'll spend the rest of my life. It means nothing to you. Mixed faith marriages, mixed religion marriages, they have a three times higher divorce rate within the first 5 years than marriages where both partners share the same faith. So, if you want this advice, if you just want the advice, hey, here's the question. What should I do if I want to set myself up for success? And by the way, of course, nothing is a guarantee.

[00:03:55]I get it. You'll point to exceptions.

[00:03:57]It's not lost on me. But if you want to play the odds, >> okay, you should share the same religion. If it means anything to you, you should have the same faith. But this is the problem, right? To feminism is all about the feeling of love. You shouldn't have any qualifiers, just love, which can easily be faked. Here are the other qualifiers that would matter. Uh, for women, you should have fewer sexual partners. Get married in your 20s.

[00:04:19]Avoid cohabitating, especially with multiple partners before marriage. Also, here's another one. Being deeply committed to your husband, makes a big difference. Here's a here's a a study for you. Wives who completely agreed that their relationship with their husband was one of the most important things in their lives were 399% more likely to be very happy in their marriage than wives who did not report the same amount of commitment to their relationship. There is an answer. There is an evidence-based answer. There is a databased answer. And then, of course, you would make the case, I would, that that's in line with a worldview prescribed by God. Pretty much every major religion of consequence would advise for that. But they just they just spin around with gobbleygook. And though I would try and integrate it, okay, how do you integrate it? I'm a Christian.

[00:05:06]She's a Muslim. I say Jesus Christ is the Messiah, the way, the truth, and the light. She says no. What do you teach your kids? Is Jesus the Messiah or not?

[00:05:17]>> Well, in that case, >> one has to win. One has to one has to be right.

[00:05:22]>> Well, in that case, uh you know, you're Christian, she's Muslim. Uh >> well, she just listens to whatever you say.

[00:05:30]>> True.

[00:05:31]>> She changes.

[00:05:32]>> Not enough.

[00:05:33]>> That's it. It doesn't work. Like you you can't if that's if that's your view like, well, we have different faith so we can make it work and we can integrate our faith. Well, then you don't have a strong faith, >> right? No, >> it's not it's it's not like a um you know, I'm a Yankees fan and she's a Red Sox fan. Sometimes I wear a Sometimes I wear a Red Sox jersey, you know, for her. No, it doesn't.

[00:05:54]>> How much you want to bet that she's also broken up with guys because we just didn't have anything in common, though.

[00:05:58]Religion is a non-issue. your foundational uh precepts to your worldview. Yeah, those can just be discarded. But we don't like the same movies and like I like Thai food. He's more of a sort of barbecue guy. I just didn't think it was going to work.

[00:06:14]>> This is foundational. And you can see very quickly she doesn't really have a face. She said it not not our words, her words. I'm culturally Jewish.

[00:06:21]>> Right?

[00:06:21]>> That didn't means that she didn't say like I am Jewish and I follow >> the I go to synagogue every week and I follow all the commandments. I read the Torah. I I do all the She didn't say those things. She said, "I'm culturally Jewish." Said, "No, I wouldn't change my faith, but you know, like you could kind of make the No, you can't. I'm sorry. It just doesn't work. It does not work.

[00:06:40]It's >> It should not work.

[00:06:43]A devout Christian should not be able to be in a relationship with a devout Muslim or somebody who's a devout Jewish person or a devout Hindu. It it should not work. It is antithetical to those beliefs >> and and I know people say Vance. Well, look, that's a legitimate criticism that I think people have.

[00:07:04]>> Yes.

[00:07:04]>> Hey, if if you just say, "Yeah, religion, whatever, and you bring children into it means that your faith your faith doesn't mean a whole lot to you."

[00:07:11]>> Yeah. I'm not sure on them. I I don't know. And I'm not saying that as a dig on either one of them. I don't know what their faith means to them.

[00:07:17]>> And contrast that with, you know, what they would perceive as, oh, the the manosphere, the toxic masculinity. You know what the advice would be there?

[00:07:24]Okay, here's what you do is you obviously first establish what your foundational values are. What matters to you, right? Faith, family, freedom, your views on religion, your views on morality, your views on politics, and especially your views on what a relationship between a man and a woman should be, expectations, roles, boundaries, and then pick based on that.

[00:07:46]that is seen as more irrational or in their words controlling or oppressive than yeah you know I wouldn't change my religion but I try and integrate it. You know what that also means? She's going to pick a guy who's a pushover who would adopt who would adapt his religion to her and she won't respect him and she'll eventually leave him.

[00:08:02]>> Yeah.

[00:08:03]>> Because these women who want the nice guys who do whatever they want while they're dating, guess what? Once it comes time to family and leading, statistically women do not like men who simply take a backseat and are incapable of making decisions or leading a household. That's just a reality. All of the advice that you get from these shows, these these female ccentric shows, it's the exact opposite of what you should do. And I truly mean that. If you were a betting man, you could watch any of these shows. Just just listen to the question and hit pause, predict their answer, you'll be right. And if you had to make a binary decision, just do the opposite of whatever their answer is, and you will have a better life.

[00:08:46]That's how bad it is. I think honestly I would like to start picking shows, showing the advice, and then I want them to deal with the critique that we have for them that you have for them. I want them to deal with this.

[00:08:58]>> Toxic men, small pep. You think they're watching it at all?

[00:09:00]>> You're saying you're saying you're saying that my advice is wrong cuz you have a little dack.

[00:09:03]>> That's what they'll say.

[00:09:04]>> No, I know. But I mean, it's so revealing like it's this is not good advice and and all those things that you said like about how picking you mean like what the parents would pick >> for their daughter.

[00:09:13]>> Like I understand the problems with arranged marriages, but I also understand the reason for them.

[00:09:17]>> Yes.

[00:09:18]>> So men, let me put you in this perspective. You are probably it's kind of like a deer in what what is it? Rut season. whatever the hell it is for dear where they're just thinking about women.

[00:09:27]That's guys.

[00:09:28]>> Yeah.

[00:09:28]>> From, I don't know, 15, 14 years old until god knows when, 30, right? You're not always going to make the best decision. You're going to pick a hot chick and you'll be like, "Ah, she's so pretty and wow, sex." And then, woo, you right? Women probably also not going to make a good decision. Probably not in the best frame of mind because you don't typically think of the things, the nonsexy things. He loves everything that I love. He likes going on long walks on the beach. No. You know what he's going to do? He's going to get up every morning. He's going to love you. He's going to love his family. He's going to provide for you. And he's going to protect you. That's what you should be looking for. Women don't tend to look for that.

[00:10:00]>> Well, he's going to be more difficult if your pursuit is just your own personal happiness. That's the issue because there are going to be expectations. And this is the assault on the family. This is why because strong families are much more difficult to govern. Look, assuming that you have a family of reasonable people, as most people do, it's an assault on the Christian traditional family. Why? You watch all the Disney movies. Oh, dad and mom stuck in their old ways. They just don't know. What they try and do is gradually move you away from the people who genuinely would have your best interests at heart. And so, you're left with your own personal happiness. And by the way, that's not the same as fulfillment. That's not the same as purpose. That's not the same as duty.

[00:10:41]>> Your own personal happiness. And who's actually looking out for your best interest? Well, you've discarded the advice of your parents who know you, love you, and want what is good for you.

[00:10:50]you know, those old traditional Christian households. I guess it's these podcasts. I guess it's the NOS's. I guess it's the general UN assembly. I guess it's Call Her Daddy. I guess it's the Feminist Author. It's these professors. It's the crazy cat lady.

[00:11:04]They know better than your parents.

[00:11:06]Don't listen to them. Leave your toxic family behind. And by the way, everything that you don't like is considered toxic. from discipline, spanking or timeouts to expectations of religious compatibility as it relates to marriage. All of that is just bad.

[00:11:23]That's just that's just stuck in the old ways. Just do what you want. Go to college, get the debt, experiment, find yourself. When you're ready, you can settle down with someone and they're gone.

[00:11:37]It's horrible advice. No wonder women >> are more mentally unstable than ever. No one think Think about this for a second.

[00:11:44]These people are people you're listening to. I want you to think, I talked about this with Pierce Morgan. I want you to think of the woman who you would point to as an example who you loved, who respected, who you thought was a great model. I'm willing to bet it's not someone like this. I'm willing to bet it was your grandma.

[00:12:01]I'm willing to bet it was probably someone in your family who fled persecution or the Great Depression.

[00:12:06]Someone who created hearth and homes.

[00:12:08]someone who had family dinner and made everybody feel welcome. You know, we used to call that a matriarch and that was the woman who would teach women how to make better decisions along with the protection of their father. And instead, we've said, "No, no, no. These models of strong women are those out in society who are miserable and will give you advice to be just as miserable as they are." Think of the woman that you respect. Think of the woman who you revered growing up.

[00:12:36]be more like her. That's a starting point. And I know the woman watching won't listen. Why? Because I have a penis. Oh well, it's still right.

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