This Pick-Me Girl is Anti-Girls 🤡

Added: 2026-05-25

[00:00:00]I'm pretty and I know I'm pretty. Oh, >> people are so jealous of me. Oh, >> I look too good. So, I'm not even going to go outside.

[00:00:07]>> Oh, no.

[00:00:08]>> Sometimes I just wish that everyone was like me.

[00:00:10]>> Okay.

[00:00:11]>> I think I'm the prettiest person alive.

[00:00:13]>> Nobody will ever be as beautiful to me as I am.

[00:00:17]>> I literally my favorite person.

[00:00:19]>> That's great.

[00:00:20]>> Don't act like a [ __ ] >> Don't be a [ __ ] >> It's disgusting.

[00:00:25]>> Whoa.

[00:00:25]>> Like, I can't fix stupid.

[00:00:27]>> Calm down.

[00:00:27]>> Calm down. You calm down. Meet Talia Breer. A pretty girl. Pretty girl.

[00:00:33]That's what it says in her ID. A pretty girl that can't go outside cuz she's so pretty.

[00:00:37]>> I look too good. So, I'm not even going to go outside.

[00:00:41]>> Learn to be grateful. Okay. Some people just have it really rough. Talia, a girl you cannot be.

[00:00:48]>> I'm too pretty to be real.

[00:00:50]>> Sorry. You can't just wake up one day and decide.

[00:00:53]>> Decide you're tyro.

[00:00:54]>> Sorry, but you can't. I know that you want to be pretty, skinny, rich, famous, and a virgin.

[00:00:59]>> And a virgin.

[00:01:00]>> Doesn't everybody like I know I'm the [ __ ] >> She's the [ __ ] >> The [ __ ] as in a stay-at-home nepo daughter to two filthy rich influencer lawyer parents. And suddenly that puts her in a position to preach an ideal lifestyle to >> So if you want to be a high value woman, low value, >> I'll tell you WHAT'S LOW VALUE.

[00:01:20]>> YOUR OPINION.

[00:01:21]>> THAT WAS SO FUNNY.

[00:01:22]>> That was not funny. That was a low-V valueue joke. Another great example for the use of the word low value in a way that does not pertain to a human being.

[00:01:32]>> This is for the girls planning on wearing a [ __ ] >> Listen, I don't want you to walk into this video and catch strays. Bestie, you're showing too much shoulder. And she doesn't think that's ethical.

[00:01:41]>> Don't act like a [ __ ] You can't dress like a [ __ ] Don't be a [ __ ] >> Like a hoe.

[00:01:44]>> Why listen to her?

[00:01:47]>> Because she's up there, obviously. You know, you can't look up hard enough. is up up there. Getting to that point of success in her life as a stay-at-home daughter, as she puts it, was not easy.

[00:01:59]>> You're so lucky to be a stay at home daughter. SHUT THE [ __ ] UP.

[00:02:02]>> WHAT THE [ __ ] is wrong with you? How ignorant of a thing to say when you don't even know what it's like.

[00:02:08]>> You don't understand the struggles of being rich, you maggot.

[00:02:13]>> You don't know my struggles. You don't know all the things that I've been through.

[00:02:17]>> Things that she's been through. things like being so beautiful you can't even go outside.

[00:02:22]>> I look too good so I'm not even going to go outside.

[00:02:24]>> How dare you minimize her pain?

[00:02:27]>> Literally, how dare you? It's pathetic.

[00:02:30]It's loser behavior.

[00:02:34]>> Major loser.

[00:02:36]>> She wasn't just given a privileged life because her parents are rich and famous lawyer influencers.

[00:02:43]>> My parents are multi-millionaires.

[00:02:44]>> Simple and easy. She had to manifest it.

[00:02:47]I don't believe in bad things. I literally like nothing is real to me.

[00:02:51]I'm going to be honest. Like the only things that exist in my mind are happy sunshine positivity.

[00:02:56]>> Okay. She had to sit down and telekinesis it.

[00:03:00]>> I really don't know what the hell you're talking about when you're like complaining or being insecure. I can't relate. Like I just can't relate to the fact that you're not obsessed with being alive because I am.

[00:03:10]>> To use energy.

[00:03:12]>> Getting money is so easy. Money is literally everywhere. You do not have to struggle to be successful.

[00:03:18]>> Attract the money that her parents already had. And you could too, but you choose to attract problems.

[00:03:24]>> [ __ ] loser, >> she said from up there.

[00:03:27]>> Poor.

[00:03:28]>> But to be fair, she is right. Okay?

[00:03:30]She's not just a stay-at-home daughter.

[00:03:32]She is more than that. She's a stay-at-home daughter that won't stop insulting you through the screen. Okay?

[00:03:39]determining your value, whether you're worthy of respect or not, by the length of your skirt, >> wearing absolutely nothing and trying to look sexy and wear your push-up bra and your tiny little whatever.

[00:03:50]>> She was given a wonderful opportunity to do something great, you know, with the comfort that she was lucky to have in her life. But she thought, "No, let me belittle, judge, and victim blame in the guise of empowerment."

[00:04:04]>> Empowerment. Yes. You can pretend that women empowerment is doing whatever you want, but it's not.

[00:04:11]>> I thought it was rage me, y'all. I legit thought Italia was trolling us.

[00:04:15]>> Being pretty makes going out in public so [ __ ] intimidating. And guys make it so obvious, too. Like, I hear you.

[00:04:22]Like, I literally hear what you're whispering to your friends and I see you all [ __ ] staring at me. Like, this guy literally tried to like walk into me to like get my I'm like, "Oh my."

[00:04:31]>> She's trying to convince herself. Is this radical empowerment, performative confidence, or is this just rage bait?

[00:04:37]>> I'm pretty and I know it. And I love that people think me saying that is rage bait. You don't understand how obsessed with myself I am.

[00:04:43]>> Something something was telling me it was not rage bait.

[00:04:47]>> Like, you might call me a narcissist.

[00:04:49]You might be right. I literally my favorite person. I think I'm funny, kind, funny, smart, unserious, intelligent, pretty, skinny.

[00:04:59]>> Little crazy spark in her eye.

[00:05:01]Literally, how dare you?

[00:05:03]>> It's not It's not rage bait. No, it's not because Talia actually runs a community of like-minded girls. She's not just a stay-at-home daughter. She's a remote working cult leader.

[00:05:15]>> Girls free live confidence master class this Sunday. Link below.

[00:05:20]>> Girls teaching confidence. She doesn't even know what it is. She's got it confused for arrogance. Her confidence is performative. It's compensatory. You know, this is her legitimate career right now. She runs a community that she invites you to join.

[00:05:34]>> You want to join my community of girls?

[00:05:35]Join my community. Join my community.

[00:05:36]Come join my community of girls. Join my community of girls. Join my community.

[00:05:39]Join my community.

[00:05:40]>> Every single join.

[00:05:43]>> Tik Tok and all the best girls who are like-minded and we're all learning and growing together.

[00:05:48]>> Let's go. It's like a really nice, supportive, inclusive um community with a very exclusive application process. It's not free because this is for the girls who are willing to invest in themselves.

[00:06:00]>> Everybody welcome.

[00:06:01]>> Not you though.

[00:06:03]>> You stay back.

[00:06:04]>> Can't choose which motion I feel when I see a hoey girl. Like I'm disgusted and uncomfortable, but more than that, I feel so bad >> with your offshoulder top.

[00:06:16]>> It's disgusting. But that cognitive dissonance is just one example of hundreds that I came across when I decided it would be a wonderful idea to transcribe a chunk of her content into what turned out to be a book. Y'all a 500 pages of everything she said.

[00:06:36]Y'all, I went through 500 pages, 67,926 of her words. I don't know what ma'am was teaching. A lot of those words did not add up. Like that time when she came at woman for wearing tiny tops and posting Tik Toks >> and they're tiny invisible tops just like this. I'm like >> and then posted a Tik Tok and a tiny top.

[00:06:58]>> I'm like, you are so worthy. 70,000 of her words later, patterns emerge and we end up with a deep character study of someone whose entire identity is built around validation while claiming to reject it. Someone who preaches self-worth while assigning value to others. Someone who tells you to >> be yourself, >> but only within the very specific rules that she approves of. Someone who criticizes attention seeking but posts a Tik Tok about how difficult her life is cuz she's so beautiful. Not even going to go outside.

[00:07:32]>> Her whole Tik Tok's about being seen.

[00:07:34]Someone who claims confidence but performs it at you.

[00:07:39]>> I'm [ __ ] amazing. I know I'm pretty as a girl who attracts the best guys ever. Everyone's staring at me. I'm so respected and people love me.

[00:07:47]>> Talia is confident at you. She's performing confidence and I guess hoping that you would believe her and she can help you get very close with her motivational speeches to her level. Oh my my neck, man.

[00:08:02]>> I can't even see her from down here because she, as per her own words, is better than you.

[00:08:08]>> You're not better than other people because you don't have any bodies.

[00:08:11]Actually, I am.

[00:08:12]>> And there's no better way to better yourself than listening to someone bitter. Better.

[00:08:17]>> All hail Talia Brier, preacher of our generation.

[00:08:21]>> Love yourself enough. Stop treating yourself like [ __ ] You're beautiful.

[00:08:24]Stop measuring your worth and value based on other people's opinions on you.

[00:08:27]You are so worthy. I am literally on your side. I want to change that for you. I will ride for you. I'm here for you.

[00:08:35]>> All those things sound good. Sounds like someone looking out for you. And that's what makes Talia's content very confusing. Also, why it took 500 pages for the patterns to emerge. She's on your side. She cares for you. She wants the best for you. But Talia Brer is not your average preacher.

[00:08:52]>> You're kind of dumb. You are stupid and annoying. It's loser behavior. I'm disgusting. Oh, is that tough love? I think so. But the deeper I dug, the less compassionate and the more judgmental and malicious it sounded. With Talia, you don't get this is what worked for me. You get this is how it works.

[00:09:11]>> I know how it goes.

[00:09:12]>> There's a very important distinction between these two statements. Okay. The first comes off as advice, the second as authority. You're so worthy is conditional on what you do >> in their tiny invisible tops just like this. I'm like, you might have to wear a little more clothing to cover up.

[00:09:31]>> You are worth less if you do ABC and worth more if you do DEF.

[00:09:36]>> You have to look out for yourself, >> but only the things that she thinks are okay for you to do.

[00:09:40]>> Raise your standards.

[00:09:41]>> They have to be her standards, not your own. To be able to preach, she's positioning herself as an authority figure. you know, one that teaches you the ways of becoming a high class, high value woman uh within a set of defined attributes that she happens to fall within. Of course, because she believes she's the ideal that she's preaching.

[00:10:01]>> I am pretty. Don't be a [ __ ] I'm beautiful. It's disgusting. I glow from the inside out. You can't dress like a [ __ ] And I [ __ ] love myself.

[00:10:09]>> And that's her version of empowerment.

[00:10:11]But to her, there's no version of empowerment.

[00:10:14]>> They think women empowerment is using your body however you want. And it hurts me for you. Hurts me to see all these girls being [ __ ] brainwashed into thinking that it's empowering to give your body away.

[00:10:25]>> Nobody's suggesting sleeping with people is empowering. Like that's not girl, you misunderstood. The idea is while refraining from intimacy can be empowering to some. Engaging in it can be empowering to others. Some people feel empowered wearing heels looking good. Empowerment is different for everyone. But that's not how she sees it.

[00:10:44]>> Shut the [ __ ] up.

[00:10:44]>> You've upset her. Rather, she wants to strip you of that empowerment, whichever it may be, by claiming that hers is all that there is. She, ironically, loves to dictate what women ought to wear to deserve respect. Respect, the bare minimum foundation to any human interaction. By the way, everybody's owed respect. No. No. Not according to Talia. The pretty girl that can't go outside cuz she's so pretty. Some things just make you a lesser person. And it's not you being a judgmental, mean or disrespectful person. It's what you do in private and how much skin she can see.

[00:11:24]>> Or in her eyes, that's how the world works.

[00:11:28]She hits you with self-empowering statements like >> you are worth so much more than your body. And you don't understand that.

[00:11:36]>> Which is true. Nobody's worth is defined by their body.

[00:11:40]>> High value men care what you're wearing.

[00:11:44]So now your worth is defined by your body.

[00:11:48]>> Dress like a [ __ ] and have a high body count. Your worth is lower.

[00:11:50]>> It's by the way a man perceives you. And it keeps going.

[00:11:55]>> You're low value. It's a loser behavior.

[00:11:57]You're ruining your own life.

[00:11:59]>> There's no room for it depends. There's no room for nuance. There's no room for anyone living differently in her world.

[00:12:06]There's a correct way to exist and a single way to feel empowered and everything else just falls below it. As the self-appointed spokesperson for worth and value, Talia especially condemns hookup culture.

[00:12:20]>> Hookup culture is [ __ ] disgusting.

[00:12:22]>> If I could summarize her entire personality, it would be that she would misogynistically call you cheap, gross, and disgusting for dressing the way that you want and engaging in hookup culture.

[00:12:32]A stain on modern society in her eyes.

[00:12:35]And sure, hookup culture is not great.

[00:12:37]Okay, look, we could sit here and deep dive into hookup culture, but that's for another day. Generally speaking, I do believe it hurts people. Natalia doesn't want to hurt people >> like a [ __ ] >> She cares for you.

[00:12:50]>> I want to change that for you.

[00:12:51]>> I don't know if she cares for you. I do know that she is set in her belief that she was sent down to earth on a mission.

[00:12:58]>> I was put on this earth with a mission >> to empower women.

[00:13:02]>> [ __ ] [ __ ] >> by shaming them.

[00:13:05]Yes, I am [ __ ] [ __ ] shaming.

[00:13:08]>> In her desperate campaign against hookup culture, Talia turns to purity culture.

[00:13:13]At the opposite extreme end of the spectrum, she insists that women must know their worth and goes on to say that their worth is conditional on their private lives. That's purity culture for you. Virginity means you're worthy. And it's important to point out that purity culture is the opposite of empowerment.

[00:13:31]If empowerment is the process of gaining freedom, authority, confidence to control your own life, your own decisions, your ability to influence matters that affect you. True empowerment is giving you agency over your own decision if you wish to abstain or not. And no external factors should influence that decision. Okay, that's what empowerment is. It's giving you authority over what you wish to do and insinuating that your worth is affected by those decisions you take curtails that freedom of choice. It is hence it's the opposite of empowerment.

[00:14:08]>> You can pretend that women empowerment is doing whatever you want but it's not.

[00:14:14]>> Culture is a patriarchal premise that in case you don't know Talia has long been used to subordinate women in societies.

[00:14:23]Okay. I don't know if we need to get into that. I feel like it's a bit redundant to state the obvious, but that's it. Nobody's condoning hookup culture either. Okay. True empowerment is having agency over your own decision without those external influences like you in the back yelling >> [ __ ] [ __ ] like a [ __ ] >> To simplify, if you want to empower women, you don't [ __ ] shame them. Okay, maybe that's a good place to start. But this idea of hypocrisy, of cognitive dissonance in her logic, it's a recurring pattern. So, let's break it down.

[00:14:58]One of the main like wait a minutes that I felt listening to her content was the whole idea around validation. She is put off by you doing things for men.

[00:15:08]>> All these other random guys.

[00:15:09]>> Why are you doing these things for men?

[00:15:11]>> Please for yourself.

[00:15:13]>> But as you already saw, right? Remember high value men?

[00:15:17]>> High value men care what you're wearing.

[00:15:19]>> SHE'S SO VIOLENTLY UPSET AT YOU for participating in hookup culture. Stop participating in hookah culture.

[00:15:24]>> It's disgusting.

[00:15:26]>> Ruining your worth with these men. For that other man, not for you, for the other high value, imaginary man that's waiting for you.

[00:15:37]>> Literally, I love myself with my life, but seeing it through the lens of my husband. Oh, and you know the best [ __ ] part? I've been loyal to you, [ __ ] I've been nobody's girlfriend because I know I'm a wife, okay? I know I am someone's wife. funnily enough, she's not abstaining for herself, which would be okay, you know, like who cares?

[00:15:56]Do what you want. But she did say, >> "Please for yourself."

[00:16:00]>> But then she said, >> "I see myself through the eyes of my soulmate."

[00:16:04]>> And >> you're stopping yourself from receiving your dream man and your soulmate >> and >> learn how guys work and know how to play the game.

[00:16:11]>> So wait, are you doing this for you?

[00:16:14]>> Please, for yourself.

[00:16:15]>> Or is this for your imaginary future husband? I think of my husband even though I've never met him.

[00:16:21]>> I don't care if she wants to abstain. If she wants to I don't care. I believe in individual liberties. You do whatever the hell you want to do. But there is a hypocrisy here that's irritating. She's criticizing the approach to hookup culture by claiming that it centers you around men. But her own approach is also centered around men. But she presents it as though it is self-improvement, self- betterment. But it's neither of those things. It's you doing the same thing in a different way. You claiming that the rest are lesser and you are better. So it leaves a bad taste in the mouth. She hates your cute outfits. She hates your outfits.

[00:17:01]>> You're seeking love and validation and attention.

[00:17:04]>> Wait, but you literally you come back here.

[00:17:07]>> I love attention.

[00:17:08]>> She literally said she loves attention.

[00:17:10]>> Stop measuring your worth and value based on other people's opinions on you.

[00:17:14]You posted a Tik Tok talking about how beautiful you are. How people staring. I don't think I know many people who would do that if I'm being honest.

[00:17:22]>> Everyone's staring at me.

[00:17:23]>> I see you all [ __ ] staring at me.

[00:17:25]>> I feel like posting an Instagram picture for me would have sufficed, you know, with my need for validation. I'm not saying seeking validation or attention is wrong. We all do it. Now, I'm not saying you shouldn't think about like what your future partner uh should be or what you'd like them, you know, how you'd No. All I'm saying is practice what you preach. Don't pretend to present an alternative to what you criticize. You're not criticizing with the motivation to to self-improve. I feel like I'm just not explaining this right. So internal versus external locus of control. If you're someone with an internal locus sense of control, you derive your self-worth from internal standards, your own accomplishments.

[00:18:05]Your self-worth is self validating. Your worth is based on your own ethics and values. External locus of control is conditional validation. Okay, it's fragile. It rests on external factors like approval, appearance, popularity, success. So, I think she thinks she's helping you restructure your external locus of control into an internal one, telling you to do things for yourself, to know your worth, to stop seeking validation and attention. It's good to have an internal locus of control. So, the core message seems to be goodwilled, but it's not. She's pushing for self-worth that relies on approval as per her criteria. You're only worthy if you're worth less if. So, she claims internal, but she builds external.

[00:19:02]>> Your worth comes from within. But everything she teaches depends on how other people respond to you, how other people perceive you. Not to mention her shaming, her judgment, insecurity, albeit, dare I say, jealousy.

[00:19:15]>> They're so [ __ ] jealous. That's the truth. Like, people are so jealous of me.

[00:19:20]>> Masked by a quote unquote desire to help you. So that validation talk, hypocrisy.

[00:19:30]>> Be careful. And when you dress like that, I'm telling you, it's a recipe for disaster and you need to be safe.

[00:19:35]>> Now, besides the fact that her rhetoric is alarmingly taking us down the slippery slope into victim blaming, >> it's the way you dress that's the issue.

[00:19:45]>> If you dress like that, you are not going to get a guy who respects you and wants to give you the world. It's disgusting. It's gross. You're easy to have. Stop being easy. Stop dressing like that. It just means you have a lack of respect for yourself.

[00:19:58]>> What the [ __ ] Obviously, the way you dress should most certainly not take away from your humanity.

[00:20:06]>> If you dress like that, please be safe.

[00:20:08]>> Which is, hey, bare minimum, respect in any interaction. But to her, respect is not something you naturally have. It's something you qualify for.

[00:20:17]>> High value men care what you're wearing.

[00:20:19]They care about the facts in place showing how much you truly value and respect yourself. You need to protect yourself as a woman. Respectability politics, a term coined by Evelyn Higin Bothotham, she's a professor in Afroamerican studies, suggests that if you behave a certain way, the mainstream behavioral standard, then you neutralize discrimination. WA behaving properly will prevent injustice.

[00:20:46]It's an idea that places the burden of racism on victims. And she hits us with the bean soup theory at one point where she says, >> "No." I love when people in my videos are like, "Well, I agree with this and this, but you did not mention the one circumstance out of 500 million people where this happens." It's like, "Bro, I had 60 [ __ ] seconds. Calm the [ __ ] down." Holy [ __ ] Literally, people like, "Well, what about when blah blah blah blah blah blah blah? You are stupid and annoying.

[00:21:14]>> Y'all are just putting words in my mouth. That's not what I said."

[00:21:17]>> We're not saying that's what you said.

[00:21:18]We're saying that's where the points will take us.

[00:21:21]>> Be careful. And when you dress like that, I'm telling you, it's a recipe for disaster and you need to be safe.

[00:21:26]>> We're not jumping to conclusions. We're just connecting the dots that you laid out. So, while you are not actively victim blaming through the sort of channel of respectability politics, you're suggesting placing the burden on the victim.

[00:21:42]>> I know you girls think that dressing like a hooker on Halloween and getting drunk is cute and fun and cool and everyone else is doing it, but it's literally the most dangerous. Okay. Does that make more sense? That's a little messed up. There's something a little more messed up, though.

[00:21:58]It's this shaming rhetoric she's got going. Woman shaming as empowerment. She says, >> "Yes, I am [ __ ] [ __ ] shaming."

[00:22:08]>> She says, "You're brainwashed if you think otherwise other than what she thinks."

[00:22:12]>> You're [ __ ] brainwashed to think and you think it's women empowerment. I see a hoe girl. Like, I'm disgusted and uncomfortable, but you're low value.

[00:22:19]You're ruining your own life.

[00:22:21]>> You're lying to yourself.

[00:22:22]>> You're like having a lack of love and self-respect.

[00:22:25]>> You're going to end up like every other average [ __ ] Okay. You love giving your body away. [ __ ] [ __ ] Hookup culture is [ __ ] disgusting.

[00:22:32]>> It's not just hookup culture she's so worked up about, which is okay. It's >> Don't dress like a [ __ ] on Halloween.

[00:22:38]This is for the girls planning on wearing a [ __ ] ass Halloween costume.

[00:22:42]Listening Halloween. Y'all need to calm down, Hie. THIS GIRL IS PISSED OFF AT you and what you wear in Halloween.

[00:22:50]>> Get plastered and then go to a party.

[00:22:53]That is stupid is what I'm telling you.

[00:22:55]>> Ma'am, those are costumes. People are just dressing up to go and have fun and stupid.

[00:23:00]>> What am I supposed to wear for Halloween, Talia? What am I? She gives you options, y'all. She's a teacher. She got to give you examples. Obviously, >> I put together a bunch of costumes for you guys that are still cute, but don't make you look like a [ __ ] Okay, first this pirate. Okay.

[00:23:16]>> Okay. I feel like this is something I always see girls wear in Halloween. So, what were we criticizing before?

[00:23:26]>> But this is a good alternative.

[00:23:29]>> It's literally just the costume. I don't understand. Like, what? She's seeing a problem where it doesn't exist.

[00:23:35]>> Get like a tank top and a skirt or jeans and a long sleeve and just make it into something that you're covered.

[00:23:40]>> But then she posted this very interesting video.

[00:23:42]>> I was dressed like a [ __ ] here. Okay, that's my 21st birthday outfit in Vegas.

[00:23:46]>> It's just a dress. [ __ ] >> What was I doing?

[00:23:49]>> She came to admit. She stepped forward.

[00:23:52]She was so brave. She came forward and said, "I used to do that."

[00:23:56]>> I was seeking attention >> by wearing a dress. What the?

[00:23:59]>> Yeah, I felt good. I felt hot.

[00:24:00]>> You wore a dress to feel good and look good, right?

[00:24:04]>> Shame, she said to herself. I mean, I go to gym to feel good and look good.

[00:24:10]Shame. I guess I like wearing tank tops cuz they show off a lot of my, you know, my games. Shame. You irrespectable piece of filth.

[00:24:20]>> I wear little cute tank tops and whatnot. But you know the difference.

[00:24:23]>> So she was brave like me right now coming forward to tell you that I wore tank. This is why I'm not wearing a tank top in this video, you guys, cuz I wanted to be brave and come forward and say this used to be me in the tank top.

[00:24:37]I used to do that. I was seeking attention. of course gives herself grace. None for others though. But here's the bit that I find electric.

[00:24:49]The dudes on in the comments of that video.

[00:24:52]>> I was dressed like a [ __ ] here, >> which surprise are a large chunk of her audience.

[00:24:57]>> Rare win for women holding accountability for their actions.

[00:25:05]>> Accountability.

[00:25:07]That's crazy, bro. I applaud you for acknowledging this. The accountability is VERY RARE.

[00:25:13]>> ACCOUNTABILITY.

[00:25:14]>> THIS IS NEW. ACCOUNTABILITY.

[00:25:18]>> ACCOUNTABILITY. Accountability again.

[00:25:20]What do you mean accountability? Did she wrong you?

[00:25:25]Sorry. Did somebody wrong you for you to come up here and say accountability?

[00:25:30]Did she run somebody over on her way to Vegas?

[00:25:35]She wore a dress. OH MY GOD.

[00:25:37]ACCOUNTABILITY. These the bullies came up and said, >> "Finally, a woman taking accountability for her actions."

[00:25:44]>> Action being wearing a dress.

[00:25:46]>> Whoa.

[00:25:46]>> And there's a reason that all the guys agree with me on this, and some of the smart girls do, but some of the women feminists don't because they're delusional as [ __ ] Okay.

[00:25:55]>> She posts this picture of herself where she's supposedly alarmed. You know, I can't believe this was me trying to look good and seek attention wearing a dress on my birthday. And the guys are like, accountability.

[00:26:08]>> That's Wow.

[00:26:12]>> It's so much better for a woman to own it and see her behavior than to live in denial and dodge accountability. I respect you for being honest. And as a man, I can admit I work out from female attention as well. It's a super small part, but the need for attention lives in all of us. So, why not be truthful and own it?

[00:26:32]>> Yeah, true. You know, let's just own it. But there's no need to shame yourself for it. Are you ashamed that you go to the gym? No. Okay. So, why should she be ashamed that she wore a dress for validation?

[00:26:52]You know, if she wore the dress for validation, we're suggesting that she didn't wear the dress for her to feel good in her dress for her birthday. Do you know what I'm saying?

[00:27:04]Ladies and gents, Talia makes it seem as though you must behave in a certain way to be deserving of a certain kind of partner, which is okay. But it doesn't end there. You must behave a certain way, her way, to be considered of higher social standing. Otherwise, >> your low count as a woman lowers your worth.

[00:27:25]>> At the top, >> you're going to end up like every other average [ __ ] >> Here's the best part. She does not believe that everybody has the potential to be high value. No, in her eyes, >> other people have to hold less value for the world to spin around. Damn.

[00:27:41]>> Oh, well, damn.

[00:27:43]>> Wow. She talks about God a lot. Like how she's blessed to be her, to live this life.

[00:27:50]>> We are so blessed.

[00:27:51]>> And for somebody that talks about God a lot, >> thank God that I [ __ ] love myself.

[00:27:56]You have no relationship with God. Life is so much better when you believe you are God's chosen special angel walking the earth. God sees me like and I know he thinks I'm also like perfect and everything I do and like gives me grace and all this and you clearly have no relationship with God. For somebody who thanks God for her blessings, who uh mentions God quite often, saying other people must hold less value for the world to spin around >> and other people have to hold less value for the world to spin around >> is a pretty insane take. Also, a major contradiction I feel is the idea of confidence that she portrays that just feels compensating for something, you know? You know, confidence isn't loud.

[00:28:40]People think confidence is loud.

[00:28:42]>> It isn't.

[00:28:43]>> Remember the quote from Aif Girls? It's actually not loud. Nobody needs to tell you that they're confident. It's something that's felt, right? If somebody thinks they're beautiful, they sure as hell don't need to tell you. And if they do tell you, and they make it such an active effort to point it out all the time.

[00:29:00]>> I'm pretty and I know I'm pretty. I'm too pretty to be real. Yes, I have really pretty eyes because I'm pretty and skinny. I'm pretty and I know I'm pretty. I'm literally so pretty. I know I'm [ __ ] pretty. I get that me saying I'm pretty and everyone's staring at me because I'm so pretty. Think I'm pretty.

[00:29:16]I'm not objectively pretty. I fit the beauty standard. I know I'm pretty. It's pretty obvious. Not only am I pretty, but I glow from the inside out. You think I'm pretty? Being a pretty girl.

[00:29:25]I'm pretty. I'm beautiful. I glow. I'm beautiful.

[00:29:31]>> You good? What is your struggle?

[00:29:33]>> Nobody talks about how hard it is to be skinny, pretty, famous, rich, a virgin.

[00:29:38]Okay. Do you know that everywhere I go, I get stopped because everyone either wants to date me, they're like, "My son wants you." Or they just like take pictures of me because I'm so pretty.

[00:29:50]And like, don't get me wrong, I agree.

[00:29:52]>> Are you struggling with some kind of insecurity? You know what's interesting and what I feel really made Talia stand out a lot more for me was while I was preparing for this video, I came across two ladies on TikTok. this lady who was so wholesome, so cute. Okay. How she talks about herself, how she feels pretty.

[00:30:12]>> I really love the days I feel good about myself.

[00:30:16]Yeah. It makes me very happy and I I want it to be this way cuz right now I I feel so good about myself >> and I can genuinely believe her. It just makes me feel like she's beautiful too, you know? or this lady who also like Talia by the way repeats affirmations to herself.

[00:30:38]>> I can see future me and my future life so clearly and I can say so confidently that I know I'm going to get there.

[00:30:46]>> But there's such a different energy to the video. You know, I'm listening to her and I'm like, "Yeah, you can do it.

[00:30:54]I believe in you." You know, that's how I feel looking at these two ladies. And then I, you know, go back to listening to Talia and it's like, >> you literally cannot tell me that I'm not objectively pretty. I fit the beauty standard. That is just a [ __ ] fact.

[00:31:08]>> Wow.

[00:31:11]That's what being confident at you means. That's what confidence as compensation looks like.

[00:31:20]This lady with her affirmations, with her believing in herself, made me believe in her, too. But Talia, I don't know. You You got a whole different vibe to you.

[00:31:32]>> That is just a [ __ ] fact.

[00:31:33]>> What >> is it? Perhaps all the shaming that you've done that put a bad taste in my mouth. If I watched this individually, would I have the same reaction? I think I would, y'all. It's just something about the vibe that just it's not the same.

[00:31:49]>> The illusion is literally the biggest life hack ever. You should believe you're amazing. You are God's chosen special angel. You can have anything you want.

[00:31:57]>> But you don't believe that, do you?

[00:31:59]Because it doesn't seem that way.

[00:32:01]>> Delusion.

[00:32:01]>> It feels like there is something hidden behind all this that we're not seeing on the surface that she's I guess I don't know struggling with. I don't know.

[00:32:11]Could it be? I don't know. What are your theories? What are your thoughts? Do you even care? Probably not because you wouldn't care about somebody who's just actively shaming. But generally speaking, you know, after watching a whole lot of Talia, this is me trying to think about what the hell she preaches.

[00:32:28]But after all this, nothing holds together. Okay, so what exactly are you preaching, Talia? You shouldn't sleep around because that affects your self-worth.

[00:32:36]>> You're easy to have.

[00:32:38]>> Why are you centering your life around men? Centered around men.

[00:32:42]>> Seeking external validation from literal stranger men. No thank you. I see myself through the eyes of my soulmate who I've literally never met. Be yourself >> by not being yourself. Being exactly what I'm telling you to be.

[00:32:54]>> You're seeking love and validation and attention.

[00:32:57]>> You're taking it from me when I seek it.

[00:32:59]>> I look too good. So, I'm not even going to go outside.

[00:33:02]>> So, what exactly are we preaching? It's not just what you're saying. You know, we have to understand what you're saying. It's not just you saying >> be yourself. Because if you take what she's saying at face value, you're going to shrug it off and be like, "Okay, cool." If you come across one of her Tik Toks, you might be like, "Okay, okay."

[00:33:20]Maybe not the extreme ones where she's shaming people, but when you listen to what she's saying and take a look at all the things she's saying, just what are you saying? Ma'am, you got to practice what you preach. Okay? That's all I'm saying. Like, there's so many holes. So many holes in your whole ethos.

[00:33:40]You know, how does your brain not short circuit when you're filming your speeches and your But all right, that was pretty much it, guys. Share your thoughts down in the comments below. I'm sure you have a lot.

[00:33:53]I'm sure there's a lot of thoughts in that head.

[00:33:57]Share them down in the comments below.

[00:33:59]Let me know if you like my PJs or is that That's so low value, bro. That's so low value.

[00:34:06]So low value. Can't believe it. Listen up.

[00:34:09]>> Bye.