“small” things i would cut a guy off for 🕺🕺✨ CAN WE PLEASE STOP IGNORING THE FIRST RED FLAGS

Added: 2026-05-17

[00:00:00]Small things I would cut a guy off for.

[00:00:02]Small. Starting off strong with one I think is literally such a red flag that people keep dismissing is if they lie about something small. Hear me out before you start yelling at me. If he is capable of lying about something very small, what else could he lie about? Why are you lying about something small that doesn't need to be lied about? Glock.

[00:00:18]Yeah. No, they definitely got a lot of other lies up their sleeve. No, thank you. As a girl that's also grown up with these red flags. Another one that not enough people talk about is like when they're just disrespectful to women or just like talk about a woman that they don't might not see as attractive really horribly or like just talk about a woman's body or like care about women's looks way more than they should. He's doing that to a random woman. He's going to like start implanting it in your head. And also that is a recipe for disaster. He will end up like making you Why would you want your partner to make you feel horrible? Another one is like if they don't like when girls wear too much makeup or they make a comment about it, why do you care? It's not on your face. It's not on your body. Like, why do you think that you have any reign on what I'm doing to my face or someone else is doing to their face? If you don't like it, then good for you. You don't need to comment on it. It's a good thing it's not on your face. That's it.

[00:01:00]Move on. If a man's ever like, "You wear too much makeup." I'm like, "Okay, I'll just wear more just to piss you off cuz who do you think you are?" Another thing that I don't get is when a man comments about like what a girl is wearing and is like, "Oh, like that's too much. Oh, you're really going to wear that?" I've seen this way too early on. Personally, I think it's super weird that you think you can comment on what I'm going to wear and like have a say in what I'm going to wear. I know how to dress myself. I am an adult and trust me, I don't talk about the khaki pants or like some of the things that you wear because you literally don't change your closet.

[00:01:24]Bite me. Another thing also is when they start making fun of things that you like or the things that you want to do to the point where it's like you're embarrassed to do them or talk about them. If he's going to crap on the things that you like, then you really can't be yourself.

[00:01:36]And why would you want to be with someone that you can't be yourself with?

[00:01:39]Buddy, you like playing video games. I don't like playing video games. You don't see me talking about that. We're all our own people. And we're going to have things that you like that I don't like. And I'm going to have things that I like that you don't like. I just Another one is like if their friends are disrespectful, why would you want to be dating someone that is friends with people like that? Because odds are if their friends are like that, they're like that too. If all their friends are douchebags, he is definitely a douchebag, too, because you are who you surround yourself with. Why would you want to be around someone that literally you can't stand their friends either? No thank you. I know this is a crazy take, but odds are if you see small red flags and you keep ignoring them, they're just going to keep getting bigger and bigger and they're going to slap you in the face when you actually realize and you can't deal with it anymore. But you're going to be way further down the line.

[00:02:16]Not that we don't all have our own red flags. However, if you're going to be ignoring certain things that are important to you just because he's a man and you want a relationship, it's not going to work. Don't lower your standard just because you want to be in a relationship. Okay, let's say it together. Yeah, please don't. It's never going to end well. Anyways, I love you so much. Bye.