傷痛不是瑕疵，悲傷是愛的收據

Added: 2026-06-03

[00:00:00]You said you're a middle-aged man that hasn't gotten over >> [music] >> the loss of his mother. Is there a way to?

[00:00:03]>> I don't want to. I I think the receipts for love is grief.

[00:00:08]I hope my boys feel the same way about me. Hasn't gotten in the way of my life.

[00:00:11]Makes me be more bold with my emotions. I used to see it as a problem. I went to grief counseling. Now I see it as not a bug, it's a feature. But what I would tell every young person is I hope they have a lot of joy in their life. I also hope they have a decent amount of grief cuz that [music] means they had people they loved immensely. You can never tell your parents how much you love too much.

[00:00:29]Forgive them.

[00:00:30]And my mom died slowly, which is bad for her, but it was good for me cuz nothing went unsaid. I miss my mom terribly. I'm I'm a middle-aged man who hasn't gotten over the death of his mother. Pride of my life.

[00:00:45]Raised me on her own. Secretary salary.

[00:00:48]Gave me confidence. [music] Everything.

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