Why Asking for Help Threatens Your Identity

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[00:00:00]Now, let me talk about identity. Because for many people who struggle to ask for help, the barrier is not primarily about the fear of rejection. It is about who they believe they are. The research on self-concept and help-seeking behavior finds that the person who has organized their identity around self-sufficiency, whose sense of who they are is built significantly around the capacity to manage independently, to not need, to be the person who helps rather than the person who requires it, experiences help-seeking as an identity threat rather than simply as a social risk.