When individuals allow bitterness to take root in their hearts, they often project their own flaws onto others while claiming to expose wrongdoing, creating a cycle of cruelty that consumes both the accuser and the accused. This pattern, exemplified by Candace Owens' obsessive criticism of Erica Kirk, demonstrates how legitimate questioning can transform into personal obsession when driven by envy and jealousy rather than genuine concern for truth. The biblical principle of removing the log from one's own eye before addressing another's speck highlights the hypocrisy of condemning others for behaviors one engages in oneself. Christians are called to flee foolishness and avoid participating in online cruelty that treats others' tragedies as entertainment, recognizing that such behavior stems from a heart consumed by bitterness rather than genuine discernment.
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The Erika Kirk Situation That Has Candace Owens Unraveling Needs to StopAñadido:
You know, I try to work really really hard not to overdo the content on Candace Owens. I I don't think very highly of her. And honestly, her sin of bitter obsession has gotten to the point where it's kind of hard for me to remain silent.
But here's what I would say. All of the I'm just asking questions at this point, y'all. It's become the new ministry of gossip and and and candy candy girl. Um what I will say is at this point she has appointed herself the the baroness of bitterness and her audience is what I would call all of her apostles of accusation.
and together they have amassed and joined forces to be the the overseers of the office of widow surveillance. And it's it's just sad to watch at this point. We've seen over 200 days, well over 200 days at this point of this woman circling Erica Kirk like a greedy, nasty vulture with a podcast mic.
She's been examining every facial expression, every public statement, every leadership decision, every moment of grief or lack thereof. Candace Owens has picked it apart. She has mocked it.
She has questioned it. She has monetized it. Let's not forget that part.
And now Candace has the nerve to want to sit behind a microphone in a studio in her home in the basement with her media team behind her to tell Erica Kirk that she needs to go to the kitchen and go home to her children. And I'm like, "Ma'am, you're saying this from the basement of your home and you're never with your children either. Hear me clearly. This is not a conversation about whether Candace needs to go home or whether Erica needs to go home. I have opinions on all of those things.
I am here to talk about the hypocrisy of it all, the envy, the projection. What happens when someone allows the root of bitterness to take root and they weaponize the language of truth to build a whole narrative to cast dispersions on someone that they simply don't like.
I am so weary and tired of watching what Candace Owens is doing. But there is a lesson for all of us that can be learned from all of this. So, we're going to talk about it today. Let's get into this.
Grace and peace you guys. Welcome back to Unshakable with April Chapman as we discuss all things social, cultural, political, and theological from a biblical perspective. I'm your host, April Chapman, and welcome to today's show. Listen, I want to be clear, okay?
This episode is not really It's not really about politics, okay? I'm just going to let you know it's not really about Republicans or Democrats. This isn't even about TPUSA.
I wanted to do a show today to talk about character.
Character and our speech, talk about the concept of envy and public cruelty.
This show is going to be about what happens when a person becomes so consumed by bitterness that they can't even see how ugly they look while accusing everybody else of being ugly.
So, yes, we're going to talk about Candace Owens today because Candace has been on this campaign against Erica Kirk for months. At first, many of us didn't want to believe it and we didn't see it.
We were like, "No, this is about avenging the death of Charlie Kirk." And some of us who have spiritual eyes saw from the get-go. We were like, "Mm- no, this doesn't have anything to do with Charlie." I mean, it does, but not directly.
I peeped very early on that Candace's animus was really toward Erica. And if you guys would remember very early on, I said that Candace Owens sounded like a jilted lover and here we are. And so I need to say this upfront that I've never had a problem or thought that there was anything wrong with asking legitimate questions or wanting transparency. There is nothing wrong with saying, "Hey, something over here doesn't seem right. I have some questions." That's not my issue. Not even going to spend a whole lot of time on that. We're beyond that now. My issue is when questions become accusations void of proof and what has been labeled as discernment and her spidey sense has now become destruction. Her investigation is not an investigation anymore. This is a personal obsession where a grieving widow has become the daily punching bag for an arachetang project ponytail woman who is mad. I mean, this woman is big mad that she's been and continues to be on the outside looking in and she knows that there's nothing she can do about it, but it still doesn't mean that she is not angry about it. So, I want you guys to look at this clip. I saw this clip and I said, "You know what? I gotta say something." In my opinion, this clip that I'm about to show you is one of the clearest examples of this whole thing that went from this is not commentary anymore. This is just downright cruelty.
Let's roll the clip. I actually really disliked him after that. I'm like, he's sitting up here on the stage yelling at us because she doesn't want to go to the event because no one wants to hear her speak. Like that's so backwards and it's so abusive and narcissistic to do that to people. You you want to make commitments. You wanted to be Charlie Kirk so bad that you allegedly made a whole AI video saying your husband wanted you. And we all deep down spiritually know that that is untrue.
Okay. Charlie didn't change his mind 2 weeks before he died. We know what he thought. We have hours and hours and hours and hours of footage of Charlie Kirk saying women should stay home. You wanted to put on your big girl glitter pants and and take his role and be CEO and chairman. Well, guess what? Life's tough. Get a helmet. Okay. No one feels bad for you because you have to deal with criticism that Charlie had to deal with for the last 10 years. And he took it gracefully. He fought. He answered the questions. He allowed people to go through his life. I've had to do the same thing. Nobody's crying uh crying for me when I'm my family's getting attacked. And now all of a sudden you just think that what this was supposed to be uh I dub the Erica Kirk the CEO of of Turning Point USA. Nobody ask any questions. What is that? Wrong country, sweetheart. No. Uh we don't we don't do the king and queen I dub these stuff here. So if you can't take the heat, get the hell out of the kitchen, Erica.
That's just the reality. Just get out of the kitchen, step down, go away, and pretend to be a grieving widow. That works for everybody. Anyway, uh, a little too fired up here. All right, so let's just let's just take a moment to talk about what we just watched cuz I want to be clear that this was not about accountability. This wasn't some righteous correction.
There's no righteousness in this woman, okay? She's not righteous. She's definitely not a Christian and no one takes her as a serious journalist anymore. Th this was not about careful investigation. I hope you guys know that by now. What you're witnessing coming from Candace day in and day out is a tirade.
What you just heard there in that clip was personal. It was nasty.
It was bitter. And frankly, this was embarrassing.
Okay, it just is. It's embarrassing that this woman has succumbed to this foolishness.
Candace out here saying that Erica wanted wants to put her big girl glitter pants on and take Charlie's role. You wanted to be Erica so bad that that's why you can't let her go. You are absolutely obsessed with her.
A sad sad second rate silhouette of what you wished you could be.
You're not even fit to walk in her shadow saying that nobody feels bad for Erica telling her to get a helmet.
I'm like pot calling the kettle black, telling her to get to the kitchen.
Amazing.
Then she says, "Go away and pretend to be a grieving widow." I'm sorry. I I'm just going to pause right there.
That was the line that did it for me.
That That was the line where all of this stopped being criticism and just became something so much darker. If you can't see that Candace Owens is evil, it's because you got the same spirit. You are evil. You are evil. I don't care to, hey, I don't keep up with everything she's doing. You see enough of her clips to know.
You see enough of those clips to know that's a wicked woman. And if you sit and you look in a camera as a podcaster or an influencer and you explain it away saying she's just asking questions is because your heart is darkened and evil.
To imply that a woman is pretending to be a grieving widow after her husband was publicly murdered. That's not snark.
Okay? That's not commentary. That is not Candice just being Candace. It is cruel.
It is reckless. It is wicked. And I don't believe you. If you're claiming to be a Christian and you heard that and your first instinct was to laugh or explain it away, you need to check your heart. Don't call me. Don't text me.
Don't email me. I don't even want to be on your show cuz you're trash. Because there are just some things that should not entertain you. There should be some things that should not be okay. Some things should grieve you when you hear it. And there are some things that should just make you pause and say, "All right, no, wait a day. Go a minute now.
What kind of spirit is this? This is not normal for a person to be THIS OBSESSED WITH A PERSON, to make video after video after video about the same person. Erica Kirk may not be Charlie Kirk. You're never going to get an argument from me there. She doesn't have to be. God made her in his image. She is not required to be her husband.
God created Charlie to be Charlie. And he created Erica to be Erica. She's not required to have his skill set or his public speaking ability or his instincts or his political charisma. She's not a carbon copy of him. And neither are you, Candace. Erica is Erica.
And apparently you want to be her so bad that you're mad that she is the woman that Charlie chose. She's the woman he married. She's the woman who captured his heart and bore his children. He chose her to build a family with. And you claim to be honoring the memory of Charlie while publicly tormenting the woman that he chose. You're not honoring Charlie. You're exploiting him. You're using his death as content for your channel and you're using his widow as a punching bag and you suck cuz you're a loser. That's it. You're a frigin loser.
You haven't had an original piece of content since Charlie Kirk died.
All of the evil suspicion.
You're using suspicion as a substitute for evidence.
So, let's just say what it is.
Candace's argument about Charlie saying that women should stay home. We're not going to adjudicate that. That's actually in alignment with what I believe.
But here is where the hypocrisy, you can cut it with a knife because Candice Candace wants to weaponize Charlie Kirk's views about women and and marriage and motherhood and the home.
She wants to weaponize that against Erica by saying, "Well, Charlie believes that women should stay home." Okay, let's talk about it then because there is a biblical conversation to be had about wives and motherhood and the family and the home femininity, the biblical order of a home. I'm not a feminist, okay? And I'm not here to tell women to abandon their homes or to neglect their children and to despise motherhood or to go chase every worldly ambition under the sun. You're not going to get me to do that. The home matters and marriages matter. Speaking of which, I believe a woman's first ministry should not be the applause of strangers while the household is in shambles. But that is not what we're talking about here now, is it Candace?
We're talking about a widow. Now, effectively, I believe Candace is hyperbolically a widow, too, because her marriage has been dead from the beginning. But we're talking about a woman whose husband is physically dead.
Her family has been shattered.
Her children, she is left to raise her children alone. And she is trying to steward the legacy of the man that she loved. So for Candace to take that Charlie's statement about women and to use them like a baseball bat against his widow is manipulative and hypocritical considering she's guilty of the same thing.
She's guilty of the exact same thing.
I'm sorry, Candyo. You're not exactly live streaming from behind a pile of laundry while quietly baking banana bread and minding YOUR OWN HOUSEHOLD.
YOU'RE ALL UP IN Erica's household.
You're behind a microphone, too, just like I am. You're under studio lights.
You have a show. You have a brand. Your whole media empire hinges upon you getting behind that mic and spewing the dril that you spew. Candace, you travel, you speak. I don't know at this point anybody in their right mind who's listening to you, but you do it. You sell subscriptions. You have a book.
You used to, you're not doing it now.
You used to shape political conversations.
You've spent years building a platform in between pregnancies and your children are small. So for you to have the nerve to tell Erica Kurt to get to the kitchen is laughable. Ma'am, it is laughable.
You're broadcasting from your basement in your house in your monetized studio.
Well, the question is, if Erica belongs in the kitchen, because if that's where women are supposed to stay, then what exactly are you doing, ma'am? The the the the the narcissistic hypocrites will create a standard that it doesn't even apply to itself. It will condemn you for doing the very thing that it excuses themselves from. or they'll call you arrogant while they make themselves the center of everything.
While they're abusing you, they'll say what you're doing is abusive.
They'll call you narcissistic while they make themselves the main character in a story that doesn't even involve them.
So, this is where we need to talk about all of the projection that this woman does every single day because narcissistic behavior is notorious for this.
Now, I'm not sitting here trying to give Candace Owens a clinical diagnosis, of which I believe she probably is some sort of deranged narcissistic uh uh psychopath, but I'm not a therapist or a doctor, and Lord knows she absolutely needs a pastor. But I'm looking at her behavior, and her behavior is screaming. It is yelling really loud right now. Because people with narcissistic patterns, they will often accuse you of being the very thing that they're acting out. They'll call you manipulative while they're manipulating the audience. They will say that you're seeking attention while making your grief the centerpiece for their content, just inserting themselves into your tragedy as if they are relevant because they just can't let you go.
They just can't let you go. And then finally, when someone says, you know, um I think I mean, you may be going a little bit too far. I think this is wrong. All of a sudden, they become the victim.
Suddenly, they're being persecuted and everybody's just out to get me. And you know, I was just asking questions and people are trying to silence my voice.
And you're like, ma'am, you are delusional.
People are not trying to silence you.
Sometimes people are telling you to just stop being a butthole.
There's a difference. Candace has sat and publicly bered a widow for months, mocking her grief, mocking her role, mocking her leadership, telling her to go home, go to the kitchen. at this point to to to imply that she is pretending to mourn.
You're just disgusting.
You're disgusting at this point.
And all of the projection that we're seeing from Candace Owens, it is so obvious at this point.
So obvious.
There is something to be learned from this situation. There is a biblical admonition. The biblical admonition here is is taken directly from Jesus's teachings when he says, you know, he says, "Why do you see the speck in your brother's eye, but you do not notice the log that's in your own eye?" Or how can you say to your brother, you know, let me take the speck out of your eye when there's a whole log in your own eye, you hypocrite?
Scripture says, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye. So, Candace, we would need you to shut your platform down, and you get in your own kitchen and start raising your kids.
Notice Jesus does not say here that there's never a speck in the other person's eye, right? Notice he doesn't say that correction is always wrong. No, he doesn't even say discernment is wrong. He says you cannot see clearly while there is a log in your own eye.
You can't properly correct someone else while you are blinded to your own sin.
But that's what sin does. Sin makes you stupid.
Sin makes you do stupid things. It blinds you and it gives you spiritual cataracts to where the cruelty that you are projecting to others, it feels like you're being brave and courageous.
It makes your bitterness feel like discernment.
And your jealousy makes it feel like you're doing what's just and right.
Yes. Sin will make your obsession feel like an investigation, but before you know it, YOU ARE SITTING BEHIND a microphone, accusing somebody else of being narcissistic while you have made yourself the center of a tragedy that does not belong to you. It just doesn't.
This is the part that gets me. This tragedy doesn't belong to Candace Owens.
Charlie Kirk was not her husband. I know in her delusional mind she thinks he is, but he's not. Those are not her children. This is not her widowhood. It was not her marriage and therefore it is not her grief. Tposa is not her legacy to inherit. Yet somehow she just she just keeps inserting herself into it.
And at some point we have to ask, what is really going on here? What is really going on here? Because this does not look like a woman who is interested in the truth. This is a woman who is consumed. This is personal and this is not political.
This still has more now than it did before the emotional tone of a jilted lover. like someone who just cannot accept that the man that she admired that she worked beside this man she felt entitled to but he didn't choose her. He didn't build his family with her. He did not make her the woman at the center of his legacy. And again, I'm not claiming to know every motive in Candace's heart. I'm looking at the fruit. Jesus told us that we would know them by their fruit. And her fruit is rotten.
It is rotten to the core. It is bitter.
It is jealous. It is contemptuous.
Incredibly obsessive and downright creepy at this point. This is a woman who has spent so much time staring [snorts] at Erica Kirk that she has lost sight of herself. I told y'all, do y'all remember early on when I said the narcissist will destroy themselves in the attempt to tear you down? It never ceases. I'm not wrong about this.
The narcissist will tear themselves down trying to tear you down. They destroy themselves.
Her credibility is shot. No one takes her serious. I would invite politically she cannot be trusted.
So, all of the alleged concern of who killed Charlie, y'all, this ain't interested in who killed Charlie.
I know people don't like when I say that, but this has nothing to do with Charlie. If you actually think that Candace Owens is primarily interested in who killed Charlie Kirk, I need you to take a breath. Okay, take a breath. Log off. Go and drink some water and ask the Lord for some wisdom because at this point, this does not look like a search for justice. This is a search for content. the desperation to be relevant.
Because my thing is, if you have evidence, bring evidence. If you have facts, bring facts. If there are documents that need to be examined, bring them.
Bring your witnesses. Do all of the things, but do not sit online every day picking apart a widow's clothes, her clothes, her tone, her eyes, her leadership, her facial expressions, her grief, her lack thereof, the public statements that she makes. Don't tell us that this is about justice cuz nobody believes you. That is not justice. And it is far from an investigation. This is not journalism. This is her misery machine. Candace is on a misery machine cuz she's in a ratchet tang. That's why.
And she's built an entire audience around it who equally share in her misery.
That is the part that is more concerning than Candace herself. It's her audience.
Because we can look, we can criticize Candace Owen and we can say yes, her behavior is absolutely reprehensible and evil. Her rhetoric is reckless. She done worked herself into a lawsuit. Now, and I believe that there are more to come.
We can say without a shadow of a doubt, she does sound bitter and jealous, absolutely hypocritical and consumed, but it's the audience. The audience that feeds on this every single day. That is where you need to pay attention. Stay away from those people because Candace is not doing this into the void. She is doing this because there are people that are clapping and and and and waiting and refreshing the feed to see what she's gonna say next. There are people salivating salivating for the next accusation. They don't need receipts. They don't need proof. They are just people there who wake up every single day hoping for another reason to hate Erica Kirk. And that is what is so spiritually dangerous.
And so my message is simple. If your heart enjoys watching a widow be publicly shredded like this, the issue is not Erica Kirk. It is your heart.
Your heart is wicked. If you're finding pleasure in all of this suspicion and entertainment and Candace's cruelty, you just find delight watching another woman be humiliated. You're spending your time picking apart every action of a grieving widow as if this woman is not a human image bearer that feels instead of you building something constructive and actually adding to the political discourse something of value.
You are participating in the decay of this mess.
You're not brave. You're just bitter.
You are a bitter loser that is resentful. And some of you are not holding a weapon in your hand, but you are absolutely carrying murder in your heart. That's where it all begins. It begins in the heart. And I know that it sounds strong, but that is Bible.
Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer. And you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him. So that means yes, hatred. It is not a small thing. I I heard the other day Candace talking about she want to shake Erica.
Malice is not a small thing and neither is envy and slander either. A murderous heart. It don't always show up with blood on his hands. Sometimes it shows up in the comment section or it shows up in in how you retweet the foolishness.
This murderous heart has shown up under the mantra of I'm just asking questions when really they're just hoping that the worst is true.
This is why Christians are admonished to flee this foolishness. The internet has discipled people into cruelty.
It has trained people to confuse all of the suspicion that they claim is wisdom.
No, you're just gossips. That's what you are. Evil, malicious malc contents and gossips.
You've you've confused your obsession with with loyalty to Charlie Kirk while destroying the thing that Charlie Kirk loved. And the fact that you people get entertained by somebody else's suffering is I don't even have words for it. You're not watching content. You're taking in spiritual poison and you need to flee from it. You should be unfollowing and then repent. Go repent because you enjoyed it. This is not healthy. It is not normal to be this obsessed with another woman. It's it's just not it is not normal to spend month after month after month picking apart a widow or anybody for that matter. It is not normal to build an entire narrative around one woman's every move and then to mock her grief and then to treat another person's tragedy like it's your personal Netflix series. This is low value behavior. This this is what the loser class does. This is what people do when they have no purpose. They're ungrateful. They don't have any personal discipline of their own. No meaningful work, no meaningful work in front of them. So they do this cuz productive people, they don't have time to sit online all day obsessing over a widow.
People are out here building their own families and businesses and serving in their local churches and raising their children. We're spending time creating something meaningful and growing in godliness. We don't have time to sit around acting like digital hyenas and arachitanges over somebody else's pain.
Let me just read to you what James 3 14- 16 says. It says, "But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth.
This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but it is earthly, unspiritual, demonic.
For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.
You need to let that sink in. bitter jealousy, selfish ambition, earthly, unspiritual, and it's the scriptures that call it demonic. So, you don't have to like that we call it demonic. It is what the scriptures say.
And where that is, you'll find disorder in every vow practice. This is not April's opinion. That is the word of God. And that passage explains exactly why bitter people always create chaos everywhere they go. Everywhere they go, it's just chaos.
Bitter jealousy doesn't produce truth.
It produces disorder.
You get suspicion and cruelty and accusations and it produces mobs. Candace Owens's audience is a mob.
vile practices it produces.
These people are digging into Erica's life, digging into other people's life.
These people are sick and if you're not careful, like these people think that what they're doing is discernment.
That's not discernment. There is a way to examine facts without becoming the accuser of the brethren. And this is where Candace has failed. She has failed miserably because what we've been seeing and what we saw from that clip is not a woman pursuing truth with sobermindedness.
We saw a woman sneering, angrily mocking, belittling, accusing, and performing contempt cuz she hates Erica. Cuz she wishes she could be Erica and she's not. It'll never happen.
I need women to hear me. This kind of mean girl behavior, it does not stop being mean girl behavior just because the woman doing it is wearing conservative clothing and quoting traditional values loosely.
Mean girl behavior is still mean girl behavior and Candace has never changed.
She is a jealous, envious and bitter woman and she needs Christ desperately.
So, I'm curious to know what did you guys think of that clip. I I've been trying to temper my coverage on Candace Owens because it is a spiritual sore spot for me. Some women cannot stand to see another woman chosen. And the bitterness and the jealousy that is in that woman's heart, it can't be ailarated. She won't be consoled. She just can't see. She can't stand to see another woman honored. And so she's picking and picking and picking. I'm talking about picking apart her clothes, her voice, her face, her emotions.
Just picking apart everything she does, her marriage, the way she parents, her family.
It's jealousy, y'all. It's jealousy. If you can't see that something's wrong with you, Candace is not just telling the truth. No, she's telling on herself.
She's telling on herself.
This level of obsession does not scream confidence. It is screaming insecurity.
It is sus it is screaming that I no longer have purpose and I'm empty and I'm miserable. I'm a female imbecile who can't manage her misery. A ratchet tang.
It's giving a ratchet tang vibes.
This woman is empty.
A woman who has achieved what Candace has achieved with all of her money and her platform and her region influence is still empty.
She should have something better to do than to spend month after month publicly tormenting Erica Kirk.
But that is what makes this so pitiful now, doesn't it?
Candace has built a massive platform.
She could be educating and producing serious work, creating something meaningful, but instead she chooses to engage in this. She's not strengthening families by doing this. She's not offering any sort of cultural analysis that actually serves the public.
Instead, here we are talking about Erica's grief.
Erica's role. Everything. All things Erica. Cuz she wants to be Erica.
Girl, enough. Go build something.
Go heal. Do whatever it is that you have to do, but leave Erica Kirk alone. Repent. How about that? Just repent.
This is not healthy.
This is definitely not holy. And if you've been part of the audience that's been feeding this, you need to examine yourself and repent, too. So, I'm curious to know what do you guys think?
Is my assessment of her behavior accurate?
I don't know what you what you think you were just watching. If you've been participating in that and and you're rewarding bad behavior, but I am curious to know what do you guys think at this point. It is not asking questions. She is obsessed. And the level of jealousy, I've never seen anything like this in the public sphere. Actually, that's not true. I won't get into it. But look, I have somebody obsessed with me like this. They they they can't let it go. Um it it says more about them.
The person that's obsessed with you like this, it says more about them than it ever does about you where they just can't let it go. Like you're not talking about them at all and they're just so obsessed. It has more to do with them than it does you. But I'm curious to know what it is that you guys think.
Leave me your comments down in the box below. And until next time, you guys, stand firm, stay bold, and above all else, stay unshakable. [music] Grace and peace.
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